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Formed with Purpose, Made for Relationship (2:4-25)

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Before sin entered the world, there was beauty, order, and intentionality. God’s creation of man and woman reveals His heart for relationship—with Himself and with one another.

Key Verse:
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.’” —Genesis 2:18 NASB

Background Context:
Genesis 2 revisits the creation account with greater detail, emphasizing humanity’s unique place in God’s design. Unlike the rest of creation, man was formed by God’s hands and filled with His breath (v. 7). God placed Adam in a well-watered garden, a place of provision and beauty. Here, Adam received purpose (to work and keep the garden), free will, and moral guidance. But something remained incomplete—until God created woman, a perfect companion, equal in value and unique in design.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 2:4-25

 4This is the account of the heavens and the earth when they were created, in the day that the LORD God made earth and heaven. 5Now no shrub of the field was yet in the earth, and no plant of the field had yet sprouted, for the LORD God had not sent rain upon the earth, and there was no man to cultivate the ground. 6But a mist used to rise from the earth and water the whole surface of the ground. 7Then the LORD God formed man of dust from the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being. 8The LORD God planted a garden toward the east, in Eden; and there He placed the man whom He had formed. 9Out of the ground the LORD God caused to grow every tree that is pleasing to the sight and good for food; the tree of life also in the midst of the garden, and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

      10Now a river flowed out of Eden to water the garden; and from there it divided and became four rivers. 11The name of the first is Pishon; it flows around the whole land of Havilah, where there is gold. 12The gold of that land is good; the bdellium and the onyx stone are there. 13The name of the second river is Gihon; it flows around the whole land of Cush. 14The name of the third river is Tigris; it flows east of Assyria. And the fourth river is the Euphrates.

      15Then the LORD God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to cultivate it and keep it. 16The LORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; 17but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.”

      18Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.” 19Out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the sky, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. 20The man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. 21So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. 22The LORD God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man.

23The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones,
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.”

24For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. 25And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.

Reflection on Genesis 2:4–25:
This passage shows that man is set apart in his relationship with God—formed personally, instructed directly, and given a distinct role. God didn’t just give Adam existence; He gave him responsibility, freedom, and direction. Adam was called to care for the garden and was clearly instructed not to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, with consequences plainly stated (v. 17). This reveals God’s desire for obedience rooted in love and free will—not robotic compliance.

God also met Adam’s emotional and relational needs. Though Adam had the companionship of animals, God declared, “It is not good for the man to be alone.” He made woman from Adam’s side, not as a lesser being, but as a perfectly suited partner. Their union was the first marriage—one man and one woman, joined together in covenant. This was not a cultural invention but a divine institution, foundational to society and ordained by God Himself (v. 24).

This marriage was to be held in the highest regard—second only to our relationship with God. It was not to be distorted by promiscuity, adultery, same-sex unions, or divorce. At this point in creation, there was no sin, no shame—only purity, purpose, and peace. God did not create sin; He gave man the gift of free will. Without choice, there can be no love. And without love, there can be no true relationship.

Application:

  • Consider how you view your identity: Do you see yourself as handcrafted by God with purpose?

  • If you are married, honor your spouse as God intended—your most intimate human relationship, second only to your relationship with God.

  • Reflect on God’s design for marriage and relationships. Are there any cultural distortions you’ve accepted that need to be surrendered to God’s truth?

Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You for creating me with intention and purpose. Help me honor the relationships You have placed in my life—especially in marriage. Teach me to value the gift of free will and to use it to choose You daily. May my life reflect Your design, and may I walk in obedience, trusting that You are good in all Your ways. In Jesus’ name, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Grace / Forgiveness, Merciful, Repenting from Sin

Neither Do I Condemn You—Go and Sin No More (John 8:1-11)

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Mercy without repentance is not the message of Christ; He calls us to both grace and change.

Key Verse:
“Jesus said, ‘I do not condemn you, either. Go. From now on sin no more.’” —John 8:11 (NASB)

Background Context:
In John 8:1–11, Yeshua (Jesus) is teaching in the temple when the scribes and Pharisees bring before Him a woman caught in adultery. Their motive is not justice but entrapment. They seek to put Jesus in a position where He will either deny the Law of Moses or contradict His reputation for mercy. What unfolds instead is a masterful, righteous display of both truth and grace.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

John 8:1-11

The Adulterous Woman

      1But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2Early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people were coming to Him; and He sat down and began to teach them. 3The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman caught in adultery, and having set her in the center of the court,4they said to Him, “Teacher, this woman has been caught in adultery, in the very act. 5“Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women; what then do You say?” 6They were saying this, testing Him, so that they might have grounds for accusing Him. But Jesus stooped down and with His finger wrote on the ground. 7But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8Again He stooped down and wrote on the ground. 9When they heard it, they began to go out one by one, beginning with the older ones, and He was left alone, and the woman, where she was, in the center of the court. 10Straightening up, Jesus said to her, “Woman, where are they? Did no one condemn you?” 11She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “I do not condemn you, either. Go. From now on sin no more.”]

Reflection on John 8:1–11:
This account is not about excusing sin, nor is it about ignoring the Law. Yeshua did not deny the woman’s guilt, nor did He rebuke the accusers for identifying her sin. What He did confront was their hypocrisy and hardness of heart. They had no concern for justice or repentance—only for using this woman’s shame as bait in their trap.

What did Yeshua write in the dirt? We are not told. But His words rang louder than any writing: “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone.” One by one, the accusers left, convicted of their own guilt.

Then, in a powerful moment of compassion and clarity, Yeshua turns to the woman and says, “I do not condemn you, either.” But He does not stop there. He adds the command: “Go. From now on sin no more.”

Yeshua extended mercy, but He also called her to repentance. That’s the full picture of grace—not permission to stay in sin, but the loving offer of forgiveness that invites transformation.

Application:
Are you clinging to God’s grace while excusing ongoing sin in your life? Yeshua offers forgiveness, but He also commands us to change.
Take time today to reflect on areas of your life where repentance is needed. Confess your sins before Him. Receive His mercy. And go—live differently, by His power and for His glory.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the mercy You show me daily. Help me not to take that grace for granted but to respond with sincere repentance. Search my heart and reveal where I need to turn from sin. Teach me to walk in obedience and reflect Your holiness. May my life bear witness to the truth that Your forgiveness is not permission to continue in sin but an invitation to be made new. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Pride, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Temptation/Tempting, Unteachable / Foolish, Wise

Guard Your Heart Before Temptation Knocks (Proverbs 7)

Temptation doesn’t barge in unannounced—it whispers, flatters, and waits for an open door.

Key Verse:
“Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister,’ and call understanding your intimate friend; that they may keep you from an adulteress, from the foreigner who flatters with her words.” —Proverbs 7:4–5 (NASB)

Background Context:
Proverbs 7 is a father’s passionate plea to his son to pursue wisdom and guard against the seductive pull of sin. Using the vivid story of a young man lured by an adulterous woman, the passage illustrates the deceptive and destructive nature of temptation. It’s not merely about sexual immorality—it’s a warning about all enticements that lead our hearts away from obedience to God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 7

The Wiles of the Harlot

1My son, keep my words
And treasure my commandments within you.

      2Keep my commandments and live,
And my teaching as the apple of your eye.

      3Bind them on your fingers;
Write them on the tablet of your heart.

      4Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
And call understanding your intimate friend;

      5That they may keep you from an adulteress,
From the foreigner who flatters with her words.

      6For at the window of my house
I looked out through my lattice,

      7And I saw among the naive,
And discerned among the youths
A young man lacking sense,

      8Passing through the street near her corner;
And he takes the way to her house,

      9In the twilight, in the evening,
In the middle of the night and in the darkness.

      10And behold, a woman comes to meet him,
Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart.

      11She is boisterous and rebellious,
Her feet do not remain at home;

      12She is now in the streets, now in the squares,
And lurks by every corner.

      13So she seizes him and kisses him
And with a brazen face she says to him:

      14“I was due to offer peace offerings;
Today I have paid my vows.

      15“Therefore I have come out to meet you,
To seek your presence earnestly, and I have found you.

      16“I have spread my couch with coverings,
With colored linens of Egypt.

      17“I have sprinkled my bed
With myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.

      18“Come, let us drink our fill of love until morning;
Let us delight ourselves with caresses.

      19“For my husband is not at home,
He has gone on a long journey;

      20He has taken a bag of money with him,
At the full moon he will come home.”

      21With her many persuasions she entices him;
With her flattering lips she seduces him.

      22Suddenly he follows her
As an ox goes to the slaughter,
Or as one in fetters to the discipline of a fool,

      23Until an arrow pierces through his liver;
As a bird hastens to the snare,
So he does not know that it will cost him his life.

      24Now therefore, my sons, listen to me,
And pay attention to the words of my mouth.

      25Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways,
Do not stray into her paths.

      26For many are the victims she has cast down,
And numerous are all her slain.

      27Her house is the way to Sheol,
Descending to the chambers of death.

Reflection on Proverbs 7:
The proverb opens with urgency: “Keep my words… treasure my commandments… bind them on your fingers… write them on the tablet of your heart.” Why such intensity? Because wisdom isn’t something we stumble into—it must be actively sought and cherished before we find ourselves in moments of testing.

The story that follows shows a young man lacking discernment, wandering near danger, at the wrong place and the wrong time. He doesn’t know he’s being watched—targeted by a woman with crafty intent. Her words are smooth, her promises bold, and her flattery relentless. She speaks of love but leads him to death.

This is how temptation often works. It flatters your ego, appeals to your desires, and disguises consequences behind pleasure. Whether it’s lust, greed, pride, or any sin, the enemy rarely shows up looking dangerous. That’s why Proverbs calls us to bind wisdom to our hearts—because the moment to prepare for temptation is before it appears.

The final verses are sobering: “Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways… her house is the way to Sheol.” This is not just a call to avoid temptation—it’s a call to value God’s wisdom so highly that our hearts are already guarded when sin comes calling.

Application:
Examine the areas in your life where you may be drifting too close to temptation. Are there boundaries you’ve let blur? Begin today by treasuring God’s Word and praying for discernment. Fill your heart with wisdom now, so that when the flatterer comes, your heart won’t be swayed.

Closing Prayer:
Father, help me treasure Your wisdom and write Your commands on the tablet of my heart. Teach me to recognize temptation in all its disguises and give me the strength to flee from it. Guard my heart, guide my steps, and let me walk in purity and truth. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Diligent / Hard Worker, Family, Intgegrity / Honesty, Marriage, Parenting, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Sloth / Laziness, Unteachable / Foolish, Wickedness / Evil, Wise

Wisdom for a Life of Integrity (Proverbs 6)

Every action has consequences, and the path of wisdom teaches us to take responsibility, work diligently, speak truthfully, and live with purity.

Key Verse:
“For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light; and reproofs for discipline are the way of life.” —Proverbs 6:23 (NASB)

Background Context:
Proverbs 6 is a rich chapter filled with practical counsel from a father to his son. It covers a variety of topics: avoiding foolish financial entanglements, embracing hard work, guarding against wickedness and deceit, honoring parental instruction, and fleeing sexual immorality. These lessons are not random; they flow from a desire to help the reader live wisely and avoid the destruction that comes from foolish choices. This chapter reminds us that God’s instructions aren’t burdens—they’re safeguards, designed to preserve life and character.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 6

     Parental Counsel

     1My son, if you have become surety for your neighbor,
Have given a pledge for a stranger,

2If you have been snared with the words of your mouth,
Have been caught with the words of your mouth,

3Do this then, my son, and deliver yourself;
Since you have come into the hand of your neighbor,
Go, humble yourself, and importune your neighbor.

4Give no sleep to your eyes,
Nor slumber to your eyelids;

5Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hunter’s hand
And like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

6Go to the ant, O sluggard,
Observe her ways and be wise,

7Which, having no chief,
Officer or ruler,

8Prepares her food in the summer
And gathers her provision in the harvest.

9How long will you lie down, O sluggard?
When will you arise from your sleep?

10“A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to rest”—

11Your poverty will come in like a vagabond
And your need like an armed man.

12A worthless person, a wicked man,
Is the one who walks with a perverse mouth,

13Who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet,
Who points with his fingers;

14Who with perversity in his heart continually devises evil,
Who spreads strife.

15Therefore his calamity will come suddenly;
Instantly he will be broken and there will be no healing.

16There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:

17Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,

18A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,

19A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.

20My son, observe the commandment of your father
And do not forsake the teaching of your mother;

21Bind them continually on your heart;
Tie them around your neck.

22When you walk about, they will guide you;
When you sleep, they will watch over you;
And when you awake, they will talk to you.

23For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;
And reproofs for discipline are the way of life

24To keep you from the evil woman,
From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.

25Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.

26For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread,
And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.

27Can a man take fire in his bosom
And his clothes not be burned?

28Or can a man walk on hot coals
And his feet not be scorched?

29So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.

30Men do not despise a thief if he steals
To satisfy himself when he is hungry;

31But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;
He must give all the substance of his house.

32The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.

33Wounds and disgrace he will find,
And his reproach will not be blotted out.

34For jealousy enrages a man,
And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

35He will not accept any ransom,
Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.

 

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Temptation/Tempting, Unteachable / Foolish, Wise

Guard Your Heart, Guard Your Steps (Proverbs 5)

Temptation never presents itself as dangerous—it disguises itself as desirable.

Key Verse:
“For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.” —Proverbs 5:3–4 (NASB)

Background Context:
Proverbs 5 is a father’s urgent warning to his son against the seduction of adultery and unfaithfulness. It is not just about avoiding sexual sin, but about guarding one’s whole life from the devastating consequences of stepping outside God’s design. The writer exposes how alluring sin can be at first, but then contrasts it with the bitterness, shame, and destruction that follow. This chapter encourages not only abstaining from sin but intentionally choosing to rejoice in God’s provision and design for marriage and purity.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 5

Pitfalls of Immorality

1My son, give attention to my wisdom,
Incline your ear to my understanding;

      2That you may observe discretion
And your lips may reserve knowledge.

      3For the lips of an adulteress drip honey
And smoother than oil is her speech;

      4But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.

      5Her feet go down to death,
Her steps take hold of Sheol.

      6She does not ponder the path of life;
Her ways are unstable, she does not know it.

      7Now then, my sons, listen to me
And do not depart from the words of my mouth.

      8Keep your way far from her
And do not go near the door of her house,

      9Or you will give your vigor to others
And your years to the cruel one;

      10And strangers will be filled with your strength
And your hard-earned goods will go to the house of an alien;

      11And you groan at your final end,
When your flesh and your body are consumed;

      12And you say, “How I have hated instruction!
And my heart spurned reproof!

      13“I have not listened to the voice of my teachers,
Nor inclined my ear to my instructors!

      14“I was almost in utter ruin
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”

      15Drink water from your own cistern
And fresh water from your own well.

      16Should your springs be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?

      17Let them be yours alone
And not for strangers with you.

      18Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice in the wife of your youth.

      19As a loving hind and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
Be exhilarated always with her love.

      20For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress
And embrace the bosom of a foreigner?

      21For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the LORD,
And He watches all his paths.

      22His own iniquities will capture the wicked,
And he will be held with the cords of his sin.

      23He will die for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he will go astray.

Reflection on Proverbs 5:
Solomon opens with a plea: “Give attention to my wisdom… that you may maintain discretion.” The chapter wastes no time showing how sin—specifically adultery—tempts through flattering words and false promises. At first, it seems sweet and smooth, like honey and oil. But sin’s end is bitter, cutting, and deadly.

There’s a clear call to stay far away from temptation. Don’t linger near it. Don’t entertain it. Solomon says, “Do not go near the door of her house.” Why? Because once you entertain sin, it starts costing you—your honor, your years, your peace, even your health.

This isn’t just for married people. The principle applies broadly: stay far from whatever draws your heart away from God’s design for holiness. In contrast to the adulteress, Solomon encourages joy in God’s provision—symbolized here by the blessings of a faithful marriage. He ends with a powerful truth: “The ways of everyone are before the Lord, and He watches all his paths.” Nothing is hidden from Him.

Application:
Sin is most dangerous when it looks harmless or even appealing. Whether it’s lust, greed, bitterness, or pride—don’t flirt with temptation. Don’t “go near the door.” Instead, draw near to God. Guard your heart and be satisfied with what He provides. If you are married, cherish your spouse. If you are single, honor God with purity and prepare your heart for faithfulness. God sees the paths we walk—may we walk in a way that honors Him.

Closing Prayer:
Father, help me recognize temptation for what it really is—deceptive and destructive. Give me wisdom and strength to walk in purity and faithfulness. Let me be satisfied with what You have given and not look to sin for what only You can provide. Thank You for watching over my steps. Guide me in the way everlasting. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Discipline / Guidance From God, Grace / Forgiveness, Hope, Hypocrisy, Idols / False Gods, Justice / Judgment

The Call to Repentance: Facing the Reality of Our Sin (Hosea 5)

Have you ever felt like God is distant or that His blessings are out of reach? Hosea 5 gives us a sobering reminder that when we persist in sin without repentance, we experience a spiritual separation from God. But it also points us to the need for genuine repentance and a return to Him.

Key Verse: “When they go with their flocks and herds to seek the LORD, they will not find Him; He has withdrawn Himself from them.” – Hosea 5:6 (NASB)

Background Context: Hosea was a prophet to the northern kingdom of Israel, also known as Ephraim. In Hosea 5, God delivers a message of judgment against Israel and Judah, warning them about the consequences of their persistent sin and unfaithfulness. Despite God’s repeated calls to repentance, the people continued in idolatry, pride, and rebellion. Hosea’s message in this chapter is both a warning and a call to recognize their need for God and turn back to Him.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Hosea 5

The People’s Apostasy Rebuked

1Hear this, O priests!
Give heed, O house of Israel!
Listen, O house of the king!
For the judgment applies to you,
For you have been a snare at Mizpah
And a net spread out on Tabor.

      2The revolters have gone deep in depravity,
But I will chastise all of them.

3I know Ephraim, and Israel is not hidden from Me;
For now, O Ephraim, you have played the harlot,
Israel has defiled itself.

4Their deeds will not allow them
To return to their God.
For a spirit of harlotry is within them,
And they do not know the LORD.

5Moreover, the pride of Israel testifies against him,
And Israel and Ephraim stumble in their iniquity;
Judah also has stumbled with them.

6They will go with their flocks and herds
To seek the LORD, but they will not find Him;
He has withdrawn from them.

7They have dealt treacherously against the LORD,
For they have borne illegitimate children.
Now the new moon will devour them with their land.

8Blow the horn in Gibeah,
The trumpet in Ramah.
Sound an alarm at Beth-aven:
“Behind you, Benjamin!”

9Ephraim will become a desolation in the day of rebuke;
Among the tribes of Israel I declare what is sure.

10The princes of Judah have become like those who move a boundary;
On them I will pour out My wrath like water.

11Ephraim is oppressed, crushed in judgment,
Because he was determined to follow man’s command.

12Therefore I am like a moth to Ephraim
And like rottenness to the house of Judah.

13When Ephraim saw his sickness,
And Judah his wound,
Then Ephraim went to Assyria
And sent to King Jareb.
But he is unable to heal you,
Or to cure you of your wound.

14For I will be like a lion to Ephraim
And like a young lion to the house of Judah.
I, even I, will tear to pieces and go away,
I will carry away, and there will be none to deliver.

15I will go away and return to My place
Until they acknowledge their guilt and seek My face;
In their affliction they will earnestly seek Me.

Reflection on Hosea 5:

  • Spiritual Adultery and Its Consequences: God charges Israel with “spiritual adultery” because they had turned to idols instead of remaining faithful to Him. The people of Israel had allowed idolatry to infiltrate their lives, affecting both their worship and their actions. In verse 3, God declares, “I know Ephraim, and Israel is not hidden from Me.” This means that God sees everything. He is fully aware of their actions and the state of their hearts. Just as He knew Israel’s sins, He knows ours as well. Nothing is hidden from God. We may try to cover up or ignore our sin, but God sees and calls us to repentance. Are there areas in your life where you are compromising your devotion to God? Now is the time to bring them before Him and seek His forgiveness.
  • The Illusion of Seeking God Without True Repentance: In verse 6, God says, “When they go with their flocks and herds to seek the LORD, they will not find Him; He has withdrawn Himself from them.” The people of Israel were still going through the motions of religious rituals, but their hearts were far from God. They thought they could appease God with sacrifices while continuing in their sin. God desires a sincere relationship with His people, not empty rituals. This passage warns us that religious activity without genuine repentance and obedience is meaningless. We cannot expect God’s favor if we are unwilling to turn away from sin and walk in His ways. Are you going through the motions of faith without a real heart for God? He is calling you to true repentance, which leads to transformation and a restored relationship with Him.
  • The Reality of God’s Judgment: Hosea 5 speaks plainly about the consequences of Israel’s sin. God’s judgment is depicted as a lion, tearing away and then withdrawing, leaving Israel to face the consequences of their actions (Hosea 5:14). God’s discipline is not intended to destroy but to wake His people up to the seriousness of their sin. Sometimes, God allows us to experience the painful consequences of our choices so that we can see our need for Him. It is a call to self-examination and humility. Have you been experiencing consequences that might be God’s way of drawing you back to Him? Instead of resisting, allow those moments to bring you to repentance and a deeper reliance on God’s grace.
  • The Hope of Repentance and Restoration: Despite the heavy message of judgment, Hosea’s prophecy holds hope. In the last verse of the chapter, God speaks about withdrawing “until they acknowledge their guilt and seek My face; in their distress they will earnestly seek Me” (Hosea 5:15). God’s goal is not to abandon His people but to bring them to a place where they recognize their need for Him and seek Him with a genuine heart. This is a message of hope for all of us: no matter how far we have strayed, God is waiting for us to turn back to Him. True repentance opens the door to forgiveness, healing, and restoration. Are you ready to turn back to God with a sincere heart? He is ready to receive you, no matter where you’ve been.

Summary Key Points:

  • Spiritual Adultery Separates Us from God: Just as Israel’s unfaithfulness led to a separation from God, sin in our lives disrupts our relationship with Him. We must be willing to confront and repent of our sin.
  • Religious Rituals Without True Repentance Are Empty: God is not impressed by religious activity if our hearts are not truly seeking Him. He desires sincere worship that is rooted in repentance and obedience.
  • God’s Discipline Is Meant to Lead Us Back to Him: Sometimes, God allows us to face the consequences of our actions as a way to draw us back to Him. His discipline is a call to wake up and return to His loving embrace.
  • There Is Hope in Repentance: No matter how far we’ve strayed, God is waiting for us to turn back to Him. True repentance leads to restoration and a renewed relationship with our Heavenly Father.

Application: Take a moment to reflect on your life and ask God to reveal any areas where you have been unfaithful to Him. Are there habits, thoughts, or actions that have led you away from His will? Confess them to God and ask for His forgiveness. Commit to genuine repentance, which involves turning away from sin and walking in obedience to Him. If you have been going through the motions of religious activity without a sincere heart for God, ask Him to renew your passion for Him and to help you worship Him in spirit and truth. Remember that God’s desire is to restore and heal, not to condemn. He is ready to welcome you back with open arms.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before You acknowledging our need for Your mercy and grace. We confess that we have not always been faithful to You, and we ask for Your forgiveness. Help us to turn away from our sins and to seek You with sincere hearts. Thank You for Your patience and for the hope of restoration that You offer to those who repent. Renew our passion for You, and let our lives be a reflection of Your love and truth. Draw us closer to You, Lord, and help us to walk in obedience to Your Word. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Guide, Holy / Set Apart, Homosexual Behavior

Embracing Holiness in a World Filled with Impurity (1 Thessalonians 4:1-8)

Step into the illuminating words of 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8, where Paul beckons believers to embrace holiness in a world filled with impurity.

Join us on a transformative journey through these verses as we explore the timeless call to live a life pleasing to God, navigating the challenges of a world often at odds with the pursuit of spiritual purity.

1 Thessalonians 4:1-8

Sanctification

      1Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you excel still more. 2For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. 3For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; 4that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 5not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; 6and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. 7For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. 8So, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. The Call to Live Pleasing Lives: In these verses, Paul passionately urges the Thessalonian believers to continue living lives that are pleasing to God. He emphasizes the importance of following the instructions they received, establishing a foundation for holy living.
  2. The Pursuit of Holiness: Paul underscores the significance of holiness in the life of a believer. The call is not merely to avoid impurity but to actively pursue holiness, setting themselves apart in a manner that reflects their commitment to God’s standards.
  3. Respecting Boundaries in Relationships: A key theme in these verses is the need for believers to exercise self-control and honor the sanctity of relationships. Paul encourages them to avoid sexual immorality and to conduct themselves with integrity, respecting the boundaries set by God.
  4. The Rejection of Impurity: These verses highlight the contrast between the purity God desires and the impurity that characterizes the behavior of those who do not know God. Paul urges believers to reject impurity and embrace the holiness that aligns with God’s will.

As we dive into the profound counsel of 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8, let’s reflect on the call to embrace holiness in a world yearning for purity.

How do we navigate the challenges of living pleasing lives in a society often at odds with spiritual values?

Take a moment for self-reflection and prayer, considering how these verses resonate with your own journey toward holiness.

Additionally, share your insights on the pursuit of holiness and the importance of respecting boundaries in our relationships with a friend or family member.

These verses invite us not only to reject impurity but also to actively seek the path of holiness, aligning our lives with God’s standards.

Join the conversation, and let’s explore together the transformative power embedded in this timeless call to holiness.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. John

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Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Complaining, Homosexual Behavior, Idols / False Gods, Thankfulness

Avoid These Common Mistakes that Displease God

Just because we claim the name of Jesus as Lord or we are baptized does not mean that we are living our lives in a way that is fully pleasing to our Creator and Father. Often, even after we genuinely start pursuing Christ and submitting to Him, we still have areas of sin in our lives that need to be dealt with. Sometimes we have blind spots where we listen to the culture around us instead of God’s word about what is right and wrong.

1 Corinthians 10:1-14

Avoid Israel’s Mistakes

     1For I do not want you to be unaware, brethren, that our fathers were all under the cloud and all passed through the sea; 2and all were baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea; 3and all ate the same spiritual food; 4and all drank the same spiritual drink, for they were drinking from a spiritual rock which followed them; and the rock was Christ. 5Nevertheless, with most of them God was not well-pleased; for they were laid low in the wilderness.

      6Now these things happened as examples for us, so that we would not crave evil things as they also craved. 7Do not be idolaters, as some of them were; as it is written, “THE PEOPLE SAT DOWN TO EAT AND DRINK, AND STOOD UP TO PLAY.” 8Nor let us act immorally, as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in one day. 9Nor let us try the Lord, as some of them did, and were destroyed by the serpents. 10Nor grumble, as some of them did, and were destroyed by the destroyer. 11Now these things happened to them as an example, and they were written for our instruction, upon whom the ends of the ages have come. 12Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed that he does not fall. 13No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.

Take care not to consider idolatry to narrowly. People make idols out of many things… false gods to be sure, but also the environment, other created things such as money, sports, self, another person… it is placing something in our heart where we are focused on it instead of the right focus of God.

Consider immorality by God’s definition, not by the definition of our culture. Man today continues to redefine what is immorality through courts and television and other means but God’s position on what is moral or immoral has not and will not change.  Sex outside of marriage is wrong. Marriage is designed for and constrained to a man and a woman. It is not complicated until man tries to change it to avoid confronting his sin.

Do not overlook grumbling. Yes, even grumbling is a sign of lacking faith and trust in our Father. It is a sign of an ungrateful heart that takes for granted what blessings the Father has already poured out on us. Praise Him more and stop grumbling, even when things are tough.

Let us each take on the challenge to honestly confront our attitudes and actions and compare them to Paul’s warnings from 1 Corinthians. Do not be complacent because of a one-time decision to follow Christ. Instead, seek Him daily and seek to keep changing yourself to be more in His image. Let us keep a thankful heart and praise Him for who He is and what He has already done for us, regardless of our situation!

Take a few minutes with God in prayer. Ask Him to show you any areas in your life in which you need to change. Then, take action to change!

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ

 

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Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Marriage, Self Control

Sex Is a Gift in the Context of Marriage

The sexual drive in men and women is given by God as part of who we are. Paul commented specifically in this regard in 1 Corinthians 7. It is good for a man or woman to be single and focused on God rather than married if that is their personal gifting from God. It will allow them to serve Him in a more focused way. However, God makes each of us different. For many, the drive for sex is wonderful inside the gift of marriage, but if they try to remain single, that same gift will instead lead to great temptation and potentially to immoral behavior.

Inside marriage, we must use this gift well as a way of bonding with our spouse. Sex or withholding of sex is not to be used as a “weapon” to get one’s own way or win an argument. This is plainly wrong. Marriages are strongest when sex is used to serve and bond with one another.  Truly this helps two become one as God intends.

Once married, we should not divorce. It has always been God’s plan to have one man and one woman together in marriage. We are to choose carefully and prayerfully and then focus all our effort on serving each other and building / maintaining a strong marriage.

1 Corinthians 7:1-11

Teaching on Marriage

      1Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6But this I say by way of concession, not of command. 7Yet I wish that all men were even as I myself am. However, each man has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.

      8But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is good for them if they remain even as I. 9But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

      10But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband 11(but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife.

Take care not to overlook the Biblical view on sex drive. It can be a powerful bonding in strengthening a marriage. It is a gift from God and not something to be scorned or mocked. But it is also not something to be abused by using it outside of marriage.

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Flee Sexual Immorality; Our Body Is for the LORD

Today we reflect on a simple, but profound principle in God’s word. Do not read this quickly. Dwell on it. It is more than just taking good care of our body physically. Our bodies belong to the Lord. They are not made for immorality. The body is for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. Let us not abuse what God has given us with immorality and sin.

1 Corinthians 6:9-20

9Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor those habitually drunk, nor verbal abusers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 11Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.

The Body Is the Lord’s

      12All things are lawful for me, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything. 13Food is for the stomach and the stomach is for food, but God will do away with both of them. Yet the body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body. 14Now God has not only raised the Lord, but will also raise us up through His power. 15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! 16Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH.” 17But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.

Do not think immorality is constrained to prostitutes as highlighted in the passage above. Immorality involves sexual activity other than between two people who are married in accordance with God’s word. This can take place between two who are not married (fornication), between one who is married with someone other than their spouse (adultery), between two people of the same gender (homosexuality), between close family members (incest), or involving animals (bestiality).  There are scriptures throughout the Bible to back up each of these as immoral and against God’s word.

Our bodies serve as temples for the Holy Spirit who is in us. We are not our own but have been bought with a price. Flee sin and glorify God in your body. Do not give up the kingdom of God for such sin.

9Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God?

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