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In the Beginning: A Foundation for Faith (Genesis 1)

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God’s design is not random or accidental—it is intentional, purposeful, and deeply good.

Key Verse:
“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” —Genesis 1:1 (NASB)

Background Context:
Genesis 1 opens the Bible with a grand declaration of truth: God is Creator. He speaks and it is so—light, sky, land, seas, stars, creatures, and humankind. In six days, whether literal or literary, God reveals His nature through His creation: powerful, orderly, wise, and good. These opening verses are not only foundational to our understanding of the world but also to our identity as those made in His image.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 1

The Creation

      1In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2The earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was moving over the surface of the waters. 3Then God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. 4God saw that the light was good; and God separated the light from the darkness. 5God called the light day, and the darkness He called night. And there was evening and there was morning, one day.

      6Then God said, “Let there be an expanse in the midst of the waters, and let it separate the waters from the waters.” 7God made the expanse, and separated the waters which were below the expanse from the waters which were above the expanse; and it was so. 8God called the expanse heaven. And there was evening and there was morning, a second day.

      9Then God said, “Let the waters below the heavens be gathered into one place, and let the dry land appear”; and it was so. 10God called the dry land earth, and the gathering of the waters He called seas; and God saw that it was good. 11Then God said, “Let the earth sprout vegetation, plants yielding seed, and fruit trees on the earth bearing fruit after their kind with seed in them”; and it was so. 12The earth brought forth vegetation, plants yielding seed after their kind, and trees bearing fruit with seed in them, after their kind; and God saw that it was good. 13There was evening and there was morning, a third day.

      14Then God said, “Let there be lights in the expanse of the heavens to separate the day from the night, and let them be for signs and for seasons and for days and years; 15and let them be for lights in the expanse of the heavens to give light on the earth”; and it was so. 16God made the two great lights, the greater light to govern the day, and the lesser light to govern the night; He made the stars also. 17God placed them in the expanse of the heavens to give light on the earth, 18and to govern the day and the night, and to separate the light from the darkness; and God saw that it was good. 19There was evening and there was morning, a fourth day.

      20Then God said, “Let the waters teem with swarms of living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth in the open expanse of the heavens.” 21God created the great sea monsters and every living creature that moves, with which the waters swarmed after their kind, and every winged bird after its kind; and God saw that it was good. 22God blessed them, saying, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the waters in the seas, and let birds multiply on the earth.” 23There was evening and there was morning, a fifth day.

      24Then God said, “Let the earth bring forth living creatures after their kind: cattle and creeping things and beasts of the earth after their kind”; and it was so. 25God made the beasts of the earth after their kind, and the cattle after their kind, and everything that creeps on the ground after its kind; and God saw that it was good.

      26Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28God blessed them; and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” 29Then God said, “Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the surface of all the earth, and every tree which has fruit yielding seed; it shall be food for you; 30and to every beast of the earth and to every bird of the sky and to every thing that moves on the earth which has life, I have given every green plant for food”; and it was so. 31God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.

Reflection on Genesis 1:
Genesis 1 is written with such simplicity that a child can grasp it, and yet with such depth that scholars have wrestled with its richness for centuries. Whether you believe this is a poetic framework or a literal historical account, the truths it declares remain constant:

  • God created everything.

  • He did it with purpose and intention.

  • He made humanity in His image—male and female, to work together, not in rivalry but in unity.

  • He called His creation “good,” and only after mankind was made did He call it “very good.”

  • He gave mankind a divine assignment: to fill the earth, subdue it, and rule over the other living things.

We do not serve a God of confusion or randomness. Creation was not the result of chaos or cosmic accident. It was a masterpiece, painted stroke by stroke by the hand of God.

In a world that often devalues God’s design—denying creation, rejecting gender distinctions, or elevating nature above humanity—we are called back to this foundational truth: we are image-bearers of the Creator, designed with identity and purpose.

Application:
How you view Genesis 1 shapes how you live. If God created everything with purpose, then your life is not meaningless. You are not an accident. Your body, your identity, your relationships—all have been designed with intention. Let that truth humble you before your Creator and embolden you to live out your calling.

Take time to reflect on what it means to be made in His image. Honor God’s design—in yourself, in others, in creation, and in the gift of male and female partnership. Live with gratitude and reverence, knowing your life is part of His intentional plan.

Closing Prayer:
Creator God, thank You for the beauty and purpose of Your creation. Help me to embrace the truth that I am made in Your image and called to reflect Your glory in how I live. Teach me to honor the design You declared good—from the rhythms of creation to the roles You’ve established. May I walk humbly in Your wisdom, confident in Your purpose, and in awe of who You are. In Jesus’ name, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Father / Yahweh, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

Yahweh Is A Good Father: Let Us Honor Him

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As we celebrate Father’s Day, it is good to also focus on our Creator and Father in addition to celebrating good earthy fathers. Take time to prayerfully and thoughtfully reflect on who He is and what He has already done for You.

Respect and honor who God is. Take a few moments and be still before God. Contemplate the character of God:

  • The Great I Am
  • Creator of All
  • All Knowing (omniscient)
  • All Powerful (omnipotent)
  • Present In All Places at All Times (omnipresent)
  • Unchanging (immutable)
  • Eternal (without beginning or end)
  • Incapable of Making a Mistake (flawless)
  • Infinite (without limit or boundaries)
  • Holy (worthy of devotion as one perfect in goodness)
  • Just (behaving according to what is morally right and fair)
  • The Beginning and the End (Alpha and Omega)

In Ephesians  1:18-19 Paul prays “…that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, 19and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe.”

Reflect on the greatness of God’s power toward you as God the Father. He is Father, Provider, Shelter, and Protector.

Honor and glorify His name. God’s name is to be separated from the world. To do this, we must separate from the world and focus on God. Focus on the Biblical names for God.

Focus on God’s character, praise Him and be thankful. His character should be reflected in our character.

  • Compassionate
  • Gracious
  • Humble
  • Pure (in body and mind)
  • Merciful
  • Giving (in time and resources)
  • Slow to anger / Patient
  • Filled with love
  • Truthful
  • Forgiving
  • Kind
  • Faithful
  • Wise
  • Servant’s heart
  • Disciplined (self-control)
  • Joyful
  • Holy (set apart from sin; set apart for God’s purpose)
  • Just (e.g. justice)

Consider picking one or more of God’s characteristics, starting with the one you understand the least, and study its meaning including study of application in scriptures. This activity will renew your mind in that area and, in turn, transform your character to be more like God and our Lord Jesus Christ. After completing this, consider doing for the other character traits over time, perhaps one a week.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, thank You for being such a wonderful Father. Thank You for caring for me even when I may not understand why I experience certain things that may be difficult. You are worthy of praise. You are the model for the father I should strive to be. Please help me (and/or pray for fathers in your life here) to become more like You. Amen. 

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Father / Yahweh, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

Guided by YHWH: Embodying the Qualities of a Good Father

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Good fathers should pursue after Christ and be spiritual leaders in their family. They should put YHWH first, their wife next and then the children in their priority list and then actually live their lives according to that standard. YHWH has said much about what it means to be a good father. It need not be a mystery.

Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.

Psalm 103:13 Just as a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.

Colossians 3:21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

Psalm 127:3-5 Behold, children are a gift of the LORD, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth. How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them; they will not be ashamed when they speak with their enemies in the gate.

Luke 11:11-12 “Now suppose one of you fathers is asked by his son for a fish; he will not give him a snake instead of a fish, will he? “Or if he is asked for an egg, he will not give him a scorpion, will he?

Joshua 24:14-15 “Now, therefore, fear the LORD and serve Him in sincerity and truth; and put away the gods which your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the LORD. 15“If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”

Perhaps some scripture does not explicitly call out “fathers”, but as in Joshua 24:14-15… he demonstrates the role of a good father as a strong leader for his family committed to serving YHWH even if others refuse to do so. Psalm 127:3-5 shows a good father feels blessed to have received the gift of children.

There are many more such scriptures. I encourage you to do an internet search for “Bible scriptures about good fathers” and invest time to dive deeper. In fact, YHWH gives us the metaphor to think of Him like a Father and He is perfect. Thus we can learn a lot about being a good father from studying how He relates to His people.

Good fathers are not perfect… there is only one perfect Father. On behalf of all those fathers out there who are trying to lead, protect and provide for their families, we appreciate your grace and forgiveness when we get it wrong, and we welcome your prayers and encouragement on our behalf so we may become better and better at what YHWH has called us to be… fathers.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, thank You for the righteous fathers that are trying to lead their families in Your ways. Please help and encourage fathers to lead and love their families actively. Help fathers reflect Your character traits and be a light to others that do not know You and  godly example to their children. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Marriage, Repenting from Sin

Faithfulness Matters to God (Malachi 2)

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How we treat others—especially our spouses and spiritual family—reflects how seriously we take our covenant with God.

Key Verse:
“For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” —Malachi 2:16 (NASB)

Background Context:
Malachi 2 continues God’s rebuke toward the priests and the people of Israel for corrupting their relationship with Him through dishonor, disobedience, and broken covenants. The priests were leading the people astray, and the people were treating marriage lightly, divorcing the wives of their youth and turning to foreign women who served other gods. God calls out this betrayal and makes it clear: covenant faithfulness matters deeply to Him.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Malachi 2

Priests to Be Disciplined

      1“And now this commandment is for you, O priests. 2“If you do not listen, and if you do not take it to heart to give honor to My name,” says the LORD of hosts, “then I will send the curse upon you and I will curse your blessings; and indeed, I have cursed them already, because you are not taking it to heart. 3“Behold, I am going to rebuke your offspring, and I will spread refuse on your faces, the refuse of your feasts; and you will be taken away with it. 4“Then you will know that I have sent this commandment to you, that My covenant may continue with Levi,” says the LORD of hosts. 5“My covenant with him was one of life and peace, and I gave them to him as an object of reverence; so he revered Me and stood in awe of My name. 6“True instruction was in his mouth and unrighteousness was not found on his lips; he walked with Me in peace and uprightness, and he turned many back from iniquity. 7“For the lips of a priest should preserve knowledge, and men should seek instruction from his mouth; for he is the messenger of the LORD of hosts. 8“But as for you, you have turned aside from the way; you have caused many to stumble by the instruction; you have corrupted the covenant of Levi,” says the LORD of hosts. 9“So I also have made you despised and abased before all the people, just as you are not keeping My ways but are showing partiality in the instruction.

Sin in the Family

      10“Do we not all have one father? Has not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously each against his brother so as to profane the covenant of our fathers? 11“Judah has dealt treacherously, and an abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem; for Judah has profaned the sanctuary of the LORD which He loves and has married the daughter of a foreign god. 12“As for the man who does this, may the LORD cut off from the tents of Jacob everyone who awakes and answers, or who presents an offering to the LORD of hosts.

      13“This is another thing you do: you cover the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping and with groaning, because He no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. 14“Yet you say, ‘For what reason?’ Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. 15“But not one has done so who has a remnant of the Spirit. And what did that one do while he was seeking a godly offspring? Take heed then to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of your youth. 16“For I hate divorce,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with wrong,” says the LORD of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”

      17You have wearied the LORD with your words. Yet you say, “How have we wearied Him?” In that you say, “Everyone who does evil is good in the sight of the LORD, and He delights in them,” or, “Where is the God of justice?”

Reflection on Malachi 2:
God doesn’t just care about what happens in the temple—He cares about what happens in the home. In this chapter, we see how spiritual compromise starts when leaders become careless, and how that compromise spreads to families and marriages. The people of Israel were breaking their marriage vows, betraying trust, and ignoring the sanctity of their covenants. And God noticed.

He reminds them that He was witness to their marriages, that He created marriage not just for companionship but for raising godly offspring. The pain and damage caused by unfaithfulness grieve the heart of God, because they misrepresent His own steadfast love and faithfulness to us.

When we are careless with our promises to others, we are ultimately dishonoring the One who never breaks His promises to us. God desires that His people be known for their loyalty, truth, and integrity—especially in relationships.

Application:
Are there areas in your life where you’ve become casual about commitments—especially in marriage or within your spiritual responsibilities? Ask God to help you realign your heart with His values. If there are broken relationships, take a step toward reconciliation or repentance.

Let your word be trustworthy. Let your love be faithful. Let your life reflect the covenant-keeping nature of the God you serve.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for being faithful even when we are not. Teach me to take my commitments seriously—especially in my marriage, my family, and my walk with You. Help me honor You by living with integrity, loyalty, and love. May I never treat lightly what You hold sacred. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Wisdom for a Life of Integrity (Proverbs 6)

Every action has consequences, and the path of wisdom teaches us to take responsibility, work diligently, speak truthfully, and live with purity.

Key Verse:
“For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light; and reproofs for discipline are the way of life.” —Proverbs 6:23 (NASB)

Background Context:
Proverbs 6 is a rich chapter filled with practical counsel from a father to his son. It covers a variety of topics: avoiding foolish financial entanglements, embracing hard work, guarding against wickedness and deceit, honoring parental instruction, and fleeing sexual immorality. These lessons are not random; they flow from a desire to help the reader live wisely and avoid the destruction that comes from foolish choices. This chapter reminds us that God’s instructions aren’t burdens—they’re safeguards, designed to preserve life and character.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 6

     Parental Counsel

     1My son, if you have become surety for your neighbor,
Have given a pledge for a stranger,

2If you have been snared with the words of your mouth,
Have been caught with the words of your mouth,

3Do this then, my son, and deliver yourself;
Since you have come into the hand of your neighbor,
Go, humble yourself, and importune your neighbor.

4Give no sleep to your eyes,
Nor slumber to your eyelids;

5Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hunter’s hand
And like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

6Go to the ant, O sluggard,
Observe her ways and be wise,

7Which, having no chief,
Officer or ruler,

8Prepares her food in the summer
And gathers her provision in the harvest.

9How long will you lie down, O sluggard?
When will you arise from your sleep?

10“A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to rest”—

11Your poverty will come in like a vagabond
And your need like an armed man.

12A worthless person, a wicked man,
Is the one who walks with a perverse mouth,

13Who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet,
Who points with his fingers;

14Who with perversity in his heart continually devises evil,
Who spreads strife.

15Therefore his calamity will come suddenly;
Instantly he will be broken and there will be no healing.

16There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:

17Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,

18A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,

19A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.

20My son, observe the commandment of your father
And do not forsake the teaching of your mother;

21Bind them continually on your heart;
Tie them around your neck.

22When you walk about, they will guide you;
When you sleep, they will watch over you;
And when you awake, they will talk to you.

23For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;
And reproofs for discipline are the way of life

24To keep you from the evil woman,
From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.

25Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.

26For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread,
And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.

27Can a man take fire in his bosom
And his clothes not be burned?

28Or can a man walk on hot coals
And his feet not be scorched?

29So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.

30Men do not despise a thief if he steals
To satisfy himself when he is hungry;

31But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;
He must give all the substance of his house.

32The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.

33Wounds and disgrace he will find,
And his reproach will not be blotted out.

34For jealousy enrages a man,
And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

35He will not accept any ransom,
Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.

 

Family, Traditions / Holidays

Celebrating Mothers: Beyond Just One Day a Year

Once a year, the world pauses to say “Thank you, Mom,” often accompanied by gifts and flowers. This is good, but what if we chose to live every day with that same spirit of gratitude and respect for mothers? Let’s explore what the Bible teaches us about the enduring role of mothers and how we can honor them not just annually, but every day.

Mother’s Day is a special occasion indeed, and worthy to be celebrated as a special day. However, the Bible suggests that honoring our mothers is an ongoing commitment, deeply rooted in love and respect. The scriptures provide us with profound insights into the significance of mothers in our lives, guiding us to appreciate and support them in ways that go far beyond conventional celebrations.

Biblical Guidance on Honoring Mothers: Deuteronomy 5:16 reminds us of the command to honor our parents so that we may prosper and live long in the land given by the Lord. This isn’t just about obedience; it’s about recognizing the foundational role mothers play in our lives.

The Proverbs 31 Woman – A Model of Strength and Devotion: Proverbs 31:13-31 paints a picture of an ideal mother—a hardworking, compassionate, and wise woman who cares deeply for her family and community. From managing a household to extending a hand to the needy, her life is a testament to the power of a godly woman.

Teaching and Guidance: Mothers also play a crucial role in imparting wisdom and moral guidance as seen in Proverbs 6:20-22. They lay down the foundational values that guide their children throughout life.

Joy and Rejoicing: Children are called to live righteously, bringing joy to their mothers, as highlighted in Proverbs 23:22-25. True joy for a mother comes not from material gifts but from seeing her children lead lives of integrity and kindness.

A Mother’s Love: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 isn’t just about romantic love; it’s a blueprint for the kind of love that should flow in families, especially from and towards mothers. Patience, kindness, and perseverance in love are marks of true affection and respect.

Summary: Mother’s Day should be more than a once-a-year occasion; it should be a daily celebration of gratitude and biblical love. Good mothers exemplify virtues that deserve to be recognized and reciprocated every day.

Call to Action:

  1. Reflect Daily: Each day, take a moment to appreciate the sacrifices and love your mother has shown you. Consider writing her a note or simply telling her what she means to you.
  2. Learn and Share: Dive deeper into the scriptures mentioned above and share your insights with your family or during a Mother’s Day gathering.
  3. Act Continuously: Show love and respect through consistent actions. Help around the house, spend quality time together, and be present—it’s these everyday acts that truly honor and uplift mothers.
  4. Celebrate Community: Encourage those in your community to honor their mothers by setting an example and organizing community activities that recognize and support mothers of all ages.

Closing Prayer: Lord, we thank You for the blessing of mothers who nurture, teach, and guide us. We pray for strength for every mother who tirelessly gives of herself in love and service. Help us to appreciate, respect, and honor them not just today but every day of our lives. Inspire us to support and uplift the mothers in our community, showing them the love and respect they so richly deserve. In Your holy name, Amen.

Family, Traditions / Holidays

Embracing Our Spiritual Family This Mother’s Day

Not all family is bound by blood—some of the strongest bonds are formed through obedience to the Word.

Key Verse:
“But He answered and said to them, ‘My mother and My brothers are these who hear the word of God and do it.’” —Luke 8:21 (NASB)

Background Context:
In the midst of His ministry, Yeshua (Jesus) was told that His mother and brothers were waiting to see Him. His response may seem surprising at first. Rather than stepping away to greet His biological family, He used this moment to emphasize a greater spiritual truth. His family, He said, includes all who hear God’s Word and obey it. This does not negate the value of earthly family—after all, honoring our parents is a biblical command—but it expands our understanding of who we are called to love and care for as family in the body of Christ.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Luke 8: 19-21

  19And His mother and brothers came to Him, and they were unable to get to Him because of the crowd. 20And it was reported to Him, “Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, wishing to see You.” 21But He answered and said to them, “My mother and My brothers are these who hear the word of God and do it.”

Reflection on Luke 8:19–21:
In our rush to study scripture or prepare for holidays like Mother’s Day, we can sometimes miss the deeper spiritual treasures waiting just beneath the surface. Yeshua’s words here are a powerful reminder that the family of God is not defined by genetics but by shared obedience and devotion to the Father.

This passage invites us to view those in our faith community through a new lens. It challenges us to see fellow believers as mothers, brothers, sisters—as true family. And just like with our earthly families, we are called to extend grace, love, forgiveness, and practical support. In doing so, we reflect the heart of Yeshua, who showed that true kinship lies in shared submission to the will of God.

Application:
This Mother’s Day, honor the mothers in your life—both physical and spiritual. Reach out to those in your church or community who may need extra support or encouragement. Be intentional: make a call, send a note, or simply ask how you can help. If possible, organize opportunities for fellowship and refreshment, such as a meal or small gathering, and commit to ongoing support throughout the year. Let your actions reflect the truth Yeshua taught: that the body of Christ is a true and lasting family.

Closing Prayer:
Father, we thank You for the gift of earthly mothers and for the greater spiritual family You have given us in Christ. Help us to honor both, and to love our brothers and sisters in the faith with compassion and purpose. Teach us to obey Your Word and to walk together in unity and support. May we see each believer through Your eyes—as precious family. In Yeshua’s name we pray, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Godly Living in an Ungodly World (1 Peter 3)

How does your life reflect Christ in your relationships and daily interactions?

1 Peter 3 provides deep and practical guidelines for living in a godly way, especially within marriage and in our interactions with others. Peter continues the theme from chapter 2, where he encouraged believers—including servants—to submit even to unjust authorities. Here, he teaches how husbands, wives, and all believers are to live in a way that honors God, influences others for Christ, and brings blessing even in the face of suffering.

Key Verse:
“But sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.” – 1 Peter 3:15 (NASB)

Background Context:
Peter was writing to believers scattered throughout a pagan world, encouraging them to live differently—to reflect Christ in a culture that rejected Him. The instructions given here were countercultural then, just as they are today. Submission in marriage, returning good for evil, and suffering righteously are not natural human responses. Yet, these behaviors reflect Christ’s humility, love, and purpose. The ultimate goal is not personal comfort or power, but to glorify God and lead others to Him.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 Peter 3

Godly Living

      1In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, 2as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. 3Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; 4but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. 5For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; 6just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.

      7You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

      8To sum up, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit; 9not returning evil for evil or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.

10For,
“THE ONE WHO DESIRES LIFE, TO LOVE AND SEE GOOD DAYS,
MUST KEEP HIS TONGUE FROM EVIL AND HIS LIPS FROM SPEAKING DECEIT.

      11“HE MUST TURN AWAY FROM EVIL AND DO GOOD;
HE MUST SEEK PEACE AND PURSUE IT.

      12“FOR THE EYES OF THE LORD ARE TOWARD THE RIGHTEOUS,
AND HIS EARS ATTEND TO THEIR PRAYER,
BUT THE FACE OF THE LORD IS AGAINST THOSE WHO DO EVIL.”

      13Who is there to harm you if you prove zealous for what is good? 14But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, you are blessed. AND DO NOT FEAR THEIR INTIMIDATION, AND DO NOT BE TROUBLED, 15but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence; 16and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame. 17For it is better, if God should will it so, that you suffer for doing what is right rather than for doing what is wrong. 18For Christ also died for sins once for all, the just for the unjust, so that He might bring us to God, having been put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit; 19in which also He went and made proclamation to the spirits now in prison, 20who once were disobedient, when the patience of God kept waiting in the days of Noah, during the construction of the ark, in which a few, that is, eight persons, were brought safely through the water. 21Corresponding to that, baptism now saves you—not the removal of dirt from the flesh, but an appeal to God for a good conscience—through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22who is at the right hand of God, having gone into heaven, after angels and authorities and powers had been subjected to Him.

Reflection on 1 Peter 3:

Godly Submission and Honor in Marriage (1 Peter 3:1-7)

  • Wives: A Witness Through Submission
    Peter calls wives to submit to their husbands, even if they are unbelievers, so that their respectful and pure behavior may lead them to Christ (1 Peter 3:1-2). This is not about inferiority but about trusting God’s design for marriage and allowing godly conduct to be a testimony. Are you honoring God in the way you respond to your spouse?

  • True Beauty Comes from the Heart
    Rather than focusing on outward appearance, Peter urges women to cultivate “the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit” (1 Peter 3:4). This does not mean women should be silent, but that their strength should be rooted in faith, trust, and godly character. Is your focus more on outward beauty or inner holiness?

  • Husbands: Live With Understanding and Honor
    Peter commands husbands to dwell with their wives “in an understanding way” and to honor them as “fellow heirs of the grace of life” (1 Peter 3:7). This means listening, valuing, and loving their wives as Christ loves the Church. Failure to do so can hinder their prayers. Are you treating your spouse with honor and understanding?

Living as a Reflection of Christ (1 Peter 3:8-17)

  • Bless, Even When You Are Insulted
    Peter calls all believers to be “harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble” (1 Peter 3:8) and to “not return evil for evil” but instead offer blessings (1 Peter 3:9). This is how we demonstrate Christ’s love and righteousness in a world that often opposes us. How do you respond when treated unfairly?

  • Seek Peace and Pursue It
    “The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous, and His ears attend to their prayer” (1 Peter 3:12). God’s favor is upon those who pursue peace and righteousness. Do your words and actions reflect God’s peace in your daily life?

  • Be Ready to Give an Answer for Your Faith
    When suffering for righteousness, Peter encourages believers to be “ready to make a defense” for the hope within them, but “with gentleness and reverence” (1 Peter 3:15). This means being prepared to share our faith in a way that reflects Christ’s love, not arrogance or argumentativeness. Can you explain your faith in a way that draws others to Christ?

Christ, Our Ultimate Example (1 Peter 3:18-22)

  • Suffering with Purpose
    Christ suffered unjustly to bring us to God (1 Peter 3:18). When we endure hardship for righteousness, we follow His example. Do you trust God’s plan, even when you suffer unfairly?

  • Baptism: A Symbol of Our Salvation
    Peter compares baptism to Noah’s salvation through the flood—symbolizing that believers have been saved through Christ’s resurrection (1 Peter 3:21). Baptism does not remove sin, but it is an outward declaration of our inward faith. Have you fully embraced your new identity in Christ?

Summary Key Points:

  • Wives’ submission is a testimony of faith, not inferiority.
  • Husbands are to honor their wives as co-heirs of God’s grace.
  • All believers are called to respond to evil with kindness and blessing.
  • We must be ready to defend our faith with gentleness and respect.
  • Christ’s suffering is our example—righteous suffering has a purpose.

Application:

  • If you are married, reflect on how you are honoring your spouse. Are you living in a way that glorifies God and reflects Christ’s love?
  • Examine how you respond to mistreatment—are you returning evil with kindness and entrusting justice to God?
  • Are you prepared to share your faith with others? Pray for opportunities to explain the hope you have in Christ.
  • When facing suffering, remind yourself that Christ endured unjust suffering for your sake. Stand firm in faith, knowing that God sees and honors righteousness.

Closing Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for calling me to live in a way that honors You. Help me to be faithful in my relationships, responding to others with grace and humility. Give me the strength to endure trials with patience and to reflect Christ’s love in all I do. May my life be a testimony of Your goodness, and may I always be ready to share the hope that is in me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Blessed by Walking in God’s Ways (Psalm 128)

What does it mean to live a truly blessed life?

Psalm 128 paints a beautiful picture of the blessings that flow from walking in the fear of the Lord. It highlights how obedience to God brings joy, prosperity, and peace, not only to individuals but also to their families and communities.

Key Verse:
“Blessed is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in His ways!” – Psalm 128:1 (ESV)

Background Context:
Psalm 128, one of the Songs of Ascents, offers encouragement to those who revere God and strive to live according to His commands. The Hebrew root word for “fear” in Psalm 128:1 is ירא (yirah), which can be translated as fear, but also as reverence, to hold in honor, or to be in awe. This understanding adds depth to the psalm, showing that the “fear of the Lord” is not about terror but about honoring Him with reverence and awe. The blessings described in this psalm emphasize that living a life centered on God leads to flourishing for individuals, families, and communities.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 128

Blessedness of the Fear of the LORD.

A Song of Ascents.

1How blessed is everyone who fears the LORD,
Who walks in His ways.

      2When you shall eat of the fruit of your hands,
You will be happy and it will be well with you.

      3Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine
Within your house,
Your children like olive plants
Around your table.

      4Behold, for thus shall the man be blessed
Who fears the LORD.

      5The LORD bless you from Zion,
And may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life.

      6Indeed, may you see your children’s children.
Peace be upon Israel!

Reflection on Psalm 128:

  • The Blessing of Obedience:
    The psalm opens with a promise of blessing for those who fear the Lord and walk in His ways (Psalm 128:1-2). This blessing includes joy and satisfaction in daily work, grounded in God’s provision. Are you seeking to align your life with God’s Word, trusting Him to bless your efforts?
  • The Gift of Family:
    The psalm describes the flourishing of a family rooted in the fear of the Lord, likening a wife to a fruitful vine and children to olive shoots (Psalm 128:3). This imagery reflects growth, vitality, and abundance. Are you nurturing your relationships and building a home centered on God’s principles?
  • Blessing Extends to the Community:
    The blessings of those who walk in God’s ways extend beyond the individual to the nation, bringing peace and prosperity (Psalm 128:5-6). This reminds us that our faithfulness impacts others. Are you praying for and contributing to the well-being of your community?
  • The Fear of the Lord:
    The “fear of the Lord,” rooted in reverence and awe, is the foundation of blessing. It is about holding God in honor and aligning our lives with His commands. Are you cultivating a life of reverence for God in your daily choices?

Summary Key Points:

  • Obedience Brings Blessing: Walking in God’s ways leads to joy and satisfaction.
  • Families Flourish in God’s Ways: A God-centered home thrives in love and abundance.
  • Faithfulness Impacts Community: Personal faithfulness contributes to communal peace and prosperity.
  • The Fear of the Lord Is Reverence: Honor and awe of God are foundational to living a blessed life.
  • Blessing Is Holistic: God’s blessings touch all aspects of life—work, family, and community.

Application:
Reflect on the concept of “fearing” the Lord as reverence and honor, and consider how it shapes your relationship with Him. Surrender areas of your life where you may be relying on your own wisdom instead of His guidance. Commit to cultivating a God-centered home, nurturing your relationships, and praying for your community. Trust in God’s promises and seek His blessings for every area of your life.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the blessings that come from walking in Your ways. Help us to live in reverence and awe of You, honoring Your wisdom and provision. Teach us to build homes centered on Your love and to be a blessing to our communities. May our lives reflect Your goodness and bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Building a Life with God (Psalm 127)

What happens when we try to build our lives without God?

Psalm 127 reminds us of the futility of human effort apart from God’s guidance and blessing. It encourages us to depend on Him as the foundation of our work, our families, and our security.

Key Verse:
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” – Psalm 127:1 (ESV)

Background Context:
Psalm 127 is one of the Songs of Ascents and is attributed to Solomon. It reflects on the importance of trusting in God’s provision and sovereignty rather than relying on human effort alone. The psalm emphasizes that every aspect of our lives—our work, our families, and our well-being—depends on God’s blessing and involvement.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 127

A Song of Ascents, of Solomon.

    1Unless the LORD builds the house,
They labor in vain who build it;
Unless the LORD guards the city,
The watchman keeps awake in vain.

      2It is vain for you to rise up early,
To retire late,
To eat the bread of painful labors;
For He gives to His beloved even in his sleep.

      3Behold, children are a gift of the LORD,
The fruit of the womb is a reward.

      4Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
So are the children of one’s youth.

      5How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them;
They will not be ashamed
When they speak with their enemies in the gate.

Reflection on Psalm 127:

  • God as the Builder:
    The psalm begins by declaring that all efforts are in vain unless the Lord is involved (Psalm 127:1). Whether building a house, a career, or a family, success comes only through God’s blessing. Are you inviting God to be the builder and foundation of your life?
  • Security in God’s Care:
    The psalm highlights the futility of watchmen guarding a city if God’s protection is absent (Psalm 127:1-2). True security and peace come from trusting in God, not in human strength or resources. Are you trusting in God for your safety and well-being, or are you relying on your own efforts?
  • Children as a Blessing:
    The latter part of the psalm celebrates children as a heritage and reward from the Lord (Psalm 127:3-5). They are described as arrows in the hands of a warrior, emphasizing their value and potential. Are you recognizing the blessings in your life as gifts from God and stewarding them for His glory?
  • Rest in God’s Provision:
    The psalm contrasts anxious toil with the peace of trusting in God’s provision (Psalm 127:2). God gives rest to those who depend on Him. Are you striving in your own strength, or are you resting in God’s care and provision?

Summary Key Points:

  • God Is the True Builder: All efforts are in vain without His blessing and guidance.
  • True Security Comes from God: Trust in His protection, not your own resources.
  • Children Are a Gift: Recognize and value the blessings God has entrusted to you.
  • Rest in God’s Care: Avoid anxious toil and trust in His provision.
  • Dependence Brings Peace: Surrendering to God’s sovereignty brings lasting fulfillment.

Application:
Reflect on areas of your life where you may be striving without seeking God’s guidance. Surrender your plans to Him and ask Him to be the foundation of all you do. Trust in His protection and provision, and take time to rest in His care. Celebrate the blessings He has given you and commit to stewarding them for His purposes.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for being the true builder and protector of our lives. Help us to surrender our plans to You and depend on Your guidance and provision. Teach us to value the blessings You have given us and to trust in Your care. May we rest in Your peace and live lives that bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.