Temptation doesn’t barge in unannounced—it whispers, flatters, and waits for an open door.
Key Verse:
“Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister,’ and call understanding your intimate friend; that they may keep you from an adulteress, from the foreigner who flatters with her words.” —Proverbs 7:4–5 (NASB)
Background Context:
Proverbs 7 is a father’s passionate plea to his son to pursue wisdom and guard against the seductive pull of sin. Using the vivid story of a young man lured by an adulterous woman, the passage illustrates the deceptive and destructive nature of temptation. It’s not merely about sexual immorality—it’s a warning about all enticements that lead our hearts away from obedience to God.
(Continued and expanded after scripture.)
The Wiles of the Harlot
1My son, keep my words
And treasure my commandments within you.
2Keep my commandments and live,
And my teaching as the apple of your eye.
3Bind them on your fingers;
Write them on the tablet of your heart.
4Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
And call understanding your intimate friend;
5That they may keep you from an adulteress,
From the foreigner who flatters with her words.
6For at the window of my house
I looked out through my lattice,
7And I saw among the naive,
And discerned among the youths
A young man lacking sense,
8Passing through the street near her corner;
And he takes the way to her house,
9In the twilight, in the evening,
In the middle of the night and in the darkness.
10And behold, a woman comes to meet him,
Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart.
11She is boisterous and rebellious,
Her feet do not remain at home;
12She is now in the streets, now in the squares,
And lurks by every corner.
13So she seizes him and kisses him
And with a brazen face she says to him:
14“I was due to offer peace offerings;
Today I have paid my vows.
15“Therefore I have come out to meet you,
To seek your presence earnestly, and I have found you.
16“I have spread my couch with coverings,
With colored linens of Egypt.
17“I have sprinkled my bed
With myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
18“Come, let us drink our fill of love until morning;
Let us delight ourselves with caresses.
19“For my husband is not at home,
He has gone on a long journey;
20He has taken a bag of money with him,
At the full moon he will come home.”
21With her many persuasions she entices him;
With her flattering lips she seduces him.
22Suddenly he follows her
As an ox goes to the slaughter,
Or as one in fetters to the discipline of a fool,
23Until an arrow pierces through his liver;
As a bird hastens to the snare,
So he does not know that it will cost him his life.
24Now therefore, my sons, listen to me,
And pay attention to the words of my mouth.
25Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways,
Do not stray into her paths.
26For many are the victims she has cast down,
And numerous are all her slain.
27Her house is the way to Sheol,
Descending to the chambers of death.
Reflection on Proverbs 7:
The proverb opens with urgency: “Keep my words… treasure my commandments… bind them on your fingers… write them on the tablet of your heart.” Why such intensity? Because wisdom isn’t something we stumble into—it must be actively sought and cherished before we find ourselves in moments of testing.
The story that follows shows a young man lacking discernment, wandering near danger, at the wrong place and the wrong time. He doesn’t know he’s being watched—targeted by a woman with crafty intent. Her words are smooth, her promises bold, and her flattery relentless. She speaks of love but leads him to death.
This is how temptation often works. It flatters your ego, appeals to your desires, and disguises consequences behind pleasure. Whether it’s lust, greed, pride, or any sin, the enemy rarely shows up looking dangerous. That’s why Proverbs calls us to bind wisdom to our hearts—because the moment to prepare for temptation is before it appears.
The final verses are sobering: “Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways… her house is the way to Sheol.” This is not just a call to avoid temptation—it’s a call to value God’s wisdom so highly that our hearts are already guarded when sin comes calling.
Application:
Examine the areas in your life where you may be drifting too close to temptation. Are there boundaries you’ve let blur? Begin today by treasuring God’s Word and praying for discernment. Fill your heart with wisdom now, so that when the flatterer comes, your heart won’t be swayed.
Closing Prayer:
Father, help me treasure Your wisdom and write Your commands on the tablet of my heart. Teach me to recognize temptation in all its disguises and give me the strength to flee from it. Guard my heart, guide my steps, and let me walk in purity and truth. In Yeshua’s name, amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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