How we treat others—especially our spouses and spiritual family—reflects how seriously we take our covenant with God.
Key Verse:
“For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” —Malachi 2:16 (NASB)
Background Context:
Malachi 2 continues God’s rebuke toward the priests and the people of Israel for corrupting their relationship with Him through dishonor, disobedience, and broken covenants. The priests were leading the people astray, and the people were treating marriage lightly, divorcing the wives of their youth and turning to foreign women who served other gods. God calls out this betrayal and makes it clear: covenant faithfulness matters deeply to Him.
(Continued and expanded after scripture.)
Priests to Be Disciplined
1“And now this commandment is for you, O priests. 2“If you do not listen, and if you do not take it to heart to give honor to My name,” says the LORD of hosts, “then I will send the curse upon you and I will curse your blessings; and indeed, I have cursed them already, because you are not taking it to heart. 3“Behold, I am going to rebuke your offspring, and I will spread refuse on your faces, the refuse of your feasts; and you will be taken away with it. 4“Then you will know that I have sent this commandment to you, that My covenant may continue with Levi,” says the LORD of hosts. 5“My covenant with him was one of life and peace, and I gave them to him as an object of reverence; so he revered Me and stood in awe of My name. 6“True instruction was in his mouth and unrighteousness was not found on his lips; he walked with Me in peace and uprightness, and he turned many back from iniquity. 7“For the lips of a priest should preserve knowledge, and men should seek instruction from his mouth; for he is the messenger of the LORD of hosts. 8“But as for you, you have turned aside from the way; you have caused many to stumble by the instruction; you have corrupted the covenant of Levi,” says the LORD of hosts. 9“So I also have made you despised and abased before all the people, just as you are not keeping My ways but are showing partiality in the instruction.
Sin in the Family
10“Do we not all have one father? Has not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously each against his brother so as to profane the covenant of our fathers? 11“Judah has dealt treacherously, and an abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem; for Judah has profaned the sanctuary of the LORD which He loves and has married the daughter of a foreign god. 12“As for the man who does this, may the LORD cut off from the tents of Jacob everyone who awakes and answers, or who presents an offering to the LORD of hosts.
13“This is another thing you do: you cover the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping and with groaning, because He no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. 14“Yet you say, ‘For what reason?’ Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. 15“But not one has done so who has a remnant of the Spirit. And what did that one do while he was seeking a godly offspring? Take heed then to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of your youth. 16“For I hate divorce,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with wrong,” says the LORD of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”
17You have wearied the LORD with your words. Yet you say, “How have we wearied Him?” In that you say, “Everyone who does evil is good in the sight of the LORD, and He delights in them,” or, “Where is the God of justice?”
Reflection on Malachi 2:
God doesn’t just care about what happens in the temple—He cares about what happens in the home. In this chapter, we see how spiritual compromise starts when leaders become careless, and how that compromise spreads to families and marriages. The people of Israel were breaking their marriage vows, betraying trust, and ignoring the sanctity of their covenants. And God noticed.
He reminds them that He was witness to their marriages, that He created marriage not just for companionship but for raising godly offspring. The pain and damage caused by unfaithfulness grieve the heart of God, because they misrepresent His own steadfast love and faithfulness to us.
When we are careless with our promises to others, we are ultimately dishonoring the One who never breaks His promises to us. God desires that His people be known for their loyalty, truth, and integrity—especially in relationships.
Application:
Are there areas in your life where you’ve become casual about commitments—especially in marriage or within your spiritual responsibilities? Ask God to help you realign your heart with His values. If there are broken relationships, take a step toward reconciliation or repentance.
Let your word be trustworthy. Let your love be faithful. Let your life reflect the covenant-keeping nature of the God you serve.
Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for being faithful even when we are not. Teach me to take my commitments seriously—especially in my marriage, my family, and my walk with You. Help me honor You by living with integrity, loyalty, and love. May I never treat lightly what You hold sacred. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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