Discerning / Judging, Submitted / Servant, Teachable, Traditions / Holidays

Unwrapping the truth: Does Celebrating Christmas Please God?

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Ever wondered about the true history and implications of Christmas in the eyes of Yahweh?

It’s time to explore. Join us in unraveling the Christmas Question—a thought-provoking documentary by 119 Ministries.

Most spend at least a month focused on Christmas every year… invest 1-1/2 hours in this documentary and gain insights that might reshape your perspective on the holiday that is cherished so widely. The real gift lies in understanding, and this documentary is your key.

Don’t just celebrate Christmas because you always have; understand if it’s truly pleasing to God.

The Christmas Question | 119 Ministries (link)

The Christmas Question documentary unravels the history of the Christmas holiday and explores the implications for believers today.  Our desire is to present historical information about the Christmas holiday and its traditions through interviewing a collection of historians, scholars, academics and theologians. The purpose behind this documentary is not intended to be something that causes division nor condemnation.

Instead, we seek to help believers determine if celebrating Christmas is a sin and how Scripture indicates the Father feels about the various Christmas rites and origins. We ask an important question. If there is a chance that any part of Christmas would offend the Father, then should we still do it?

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Guide, Holy Spirit / Ruach HaKodesh, Seeking God, Study the Word, Traditions / Holidays

Test Everything Faithfully: A Call to Discernment

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Ever caught in the flow of fervent teachings or ingrained traditions, but not sure whether or not they are truly based on God’s word? Maybe you even feel spirit led… but is it truly the Spirit or something else?

Dive into Apostle Paul’s timeless guidance on embracing the Spirit while critically evaluating every teaching against Scripture’s unchanging standards.

Let’s explore these insights more deeply:

  • Embrace and Evaluate: In 1 Thessalonians 5:19-22, Paul warns us not to stifle the Spirit or scorn prophecies but to test everything and cling to what is good. This balance is essential for maintaining the integrity of our faith journey.
  • The Power of Discernment: The challenge of discerning truth from deception is both a gift and a critical responsibility. Discernment ensures that our beliefs are rooted in truth rather than tradition.
  • Tradition vs. Truth: Paul’s exhortation to test everything shines a light on the necessity of scrutinizing widely accepted norms, such as the observance of Sabbath on Sunday. The cultural shift towards Sunday Sabbath lacks a clear biblical foundation. A careful examination of the disciples’ practices, pre and post Yeshua’s resurrection, reveals their adherence to the seventh-day Sabbath.
  • Unmasking Cultural Holidays: Explore the pagan roots intertwined with “Christian holidays” like Christmas and Easter. The historical roots often intertwine with pagan practices, challenging believers to scrutinize traditions inherited from generations past. The absence of biblical endorsement for these celebrations invites us to reevaluate their place in our faith.
  • Testing Cultural Assumptions: Investigate common yet inaccurate cultural representations of biblical events, such as the number of wise men visiting Jesus or the nativity scene’s setting. These explorations reveal how deeply cultural assumptions can distort biblical truths.

If I were to ask most people “How many wise men visited Jesus?”, most would say “three”. Fact is that we don’t know. The Bible does not say. It only says they brought gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh and we assume and teach three. It could be two or it could be five. One person can bring a gift of two items or two people can both bring the same item.

Similarly, nativity scenes almost always show the wise men at the stable where Yeshua was born. If you read the text, you will see this is not at all accurate. The star appeared when Yeshua was born. That is what triggered the wise men to plan and begin their journey. By the time they arrived, Yeshua was in a house, not a stable. We will also read later that Herod, understanding that Yeshua was born well ahead of the arrival of the Magi, ordered children up to two years old to be killed, not only newborns. (Matthew 2:1-12)

Conclusion: As we navigate the complex tapestry of faith and tradition, let Paul’s wisdom guide us. Embrace discernment to anchor our beliefs in the unchanging Word of God.

Call to Action: Commit to studying Scripture independently, challenging commonly accepted practices by comparing them with biblical teachings. Encourage others to embark on this journey of discernment and truth.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, grant us discerning hearts and minds. Guide us to hold fast to what is good and abstain from every form of evil. Illuminate the path of truth amid the complexities of cultural assumptions. May we, as Your children, stand firm on the foundation of Your Word. In Yeshua’s name, we pray, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Forgive Others / Seek Forgiveness, Guide, Jesus Christ / Yeshua, Love, Obeying God, Repenting from Sin

Love Is Proven in Our Walk (1 John 2:1–14)

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When you think about your relationship with God, do you ever wonder, “How can I be sure I truly know Him?”

Key Verse:
“The one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.” —1 John 2:6 NASB

Background Context:
John continues his message of assurance, clarity, and spiritual discernment to believers. In 1 John 2:1–14, he comforts the church by reminding them that Jesus Himself is our Advocate before the Father and the atoning sacrifice for our sins. But John also emphasizes that genuine relationship with God produces obedience and love.

He explains that the old commandment — to love — is new in Christ because it is now perfectly revealed in His life, death, and resurrection. John then speaks warmly to different groups within the church (“little children,” “fathers,” and “young men”), reassuring them of their forgiveness, strength, and spiritual triumph through God’s Word.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 2:1–14

Christ Is Our Advocate

      1My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; 2and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world.

      3By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments. 4The one who says, “I have come to know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him; 5but whoever keeps His word, in him the love of God has truly been perfected. By this we know that we are in Him: 6the one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.

      7Beloved, I am not writing a new commandment to you, but an old commandment which you have had from the beginning; the old commandment is the word which you have heard. 8On the other hand, I am writing a new commandment to you, which is true in Him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true Light is already shining. 9The one who says he is in the Light and yet hates his brother is in the darkness until now. 10The one who loves his brother abides in the Light and there is no cause for stumbling in him. 11But the one who hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

      12I am writing to you, little children, because your sins have been forgiven you for His name’s sake. 13I am writing to you, fathers, because you know Him who has been from the beginning. I am writing to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one. I have written to you, children, because you know the Father. 14I have written to you, fathers, because you know Him who has been from the beginning. I have written to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.

Reflection on 1 John 2:1–14:
John begins with tenderness: “My little children, I am writing these things so that you may not sin.” He does not excuse sin — but neither does he leave the believer without hope. When we fall, “we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”

This is not a sentimental comfort; it is a profound theological truth. Jesus Himself intercedes for us. He stands in our defense on the basis of His righteousness, not ours. His sacrifice is the propitiation — the complete, wrath-satisfying atonement — not only for our sins but for the whole world.

But John does not stop at comfort. He moves to examination. How do we know we truly know God? John gives a simple, searching answer: “By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments.”

Obedience is not the means of salvation but the evidence of genuine relationship. The one who claims to know God while ignoring His commands “is a liar.” The one who walks as Jesus walked shows that God’s love is being perfected in him.

Then John turns to love — the commandment that is both old and new. It is old because it has been God’s will from the beginning; new because Christ displayed it perfectly and empowers us to live it through His Spirit. Love is the distinguishing mark of those who walk in the light. Hatred or contempt toward others reveals darkness, no matter what a person professes.

Finally, John speaks encouragement to all believers. Children are forgiven. Fathers know the Eternal One. Young men have overcome the evil one and are strong because the Word of God abides in them. John’s words remind us that every stage of spiritual growth carries blessing, responsibility, and purpose.

Application:

  • Look to Christ when you sin. He is your Advocate — righteous, faithful, and always interceding for you.

  • Measure your walk honestly. True relationship with God produces obedience to His Word.

  • Walk as Jesus walked. Let His example shape your responses, priorities, and relationships.

  • Love with sincerity. Love is the visible evidence of walking in the light.

  • Let God’s Word abide in you. Strength against temptation flows from Scripture dwelling deeply in your heart.

  • Embrace your stage of spiritual growth. Whether young in faith or seasoned, God has purpose and encouragement for you.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for giving us an Advocate in Yeshua, who intercedes for us with perfect righteousness. Help me to walk in obedience, not as a burden but as evidence of knowing You. Fill my heart with genuine love for others, and let Your Word abide in me with strength and clarity. Teach me to walk as Yeshua walked, relying on Your Spirit every day. In His holy name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Anger (unrighteous anger), Justice / Judgment, Revenge

When Anger Leads Us Beyond God’s Justice (Genesis 34:18–31)

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How do you respond when someone deeply harms you or your family—do you seek God’s justice, or do you let anger take you where He never intended you to go?

Key Verse:
“Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi, ‘You have brought trouble on me by making me odious among the inhabitants of the land.’” —Genesis 34:30 NASB

Background Context:
The first half of Genesis 34 confronted us with the horrific violation of Dinah. Her brothers responded first with grief and anger—appropriate emotions in the face of evil. But now their anger takes a darker turn.

Shechem and his father Hamor negotiate with Jacob’s family and willingly agree to circumcision, hoping to intermarry with Israel. But Simeon and Levi use that covenant sign as a weapon of deceit. On the third day, when the men of the city are recovering, they slaughter every male, plunder the city, and take women and children captive.

Jacob rebukes his sons—not because he undervalues Dinah’s suffering, but because their vengeance has gone far beyond justice, placing the entire covenant family in danger and staining their testimony among the nations.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 34:18–31

   18Now their words seemed reasonable to Hamor and Shechem, Hamor’s son. 19The young man did not delay to do the thing, because he was delighted with Jacob’s daughter. Now he was more respected than all the household of his father. 20So Hamor and his son Shechem came to the gate of their city and spoke to the men of their city, saying, 21“These men are friendly with us; therefore let them live in the land and trade in it, for behold, the land is large enough for them. Let us take their daughters in marriage, and give our daughters to them. 22“Only on this condition will the men consent to us to live with us, to become one people: that every male among us be circumcised as they are circumcised. 23“Will not their livestock and their property and all their animals be ours? Only let us consent to them, and they will live with us.” 24All who went out of the gate of his city listened to Hamor and to his son Shechem, and every male was circumcised, all who went out of the gate of his city.

      25Now it came about on the third day, when they were in pain, that two of Jacob’s sons, Simeon and Levi, Dinah’s brothers, each took his sword and came upon the city unawares, and killed every male. 26They killed Hamor and his son Shechem with the edge of the sword, and took Dinah from Shechem’s house, and went forth. 27Jacob’s sons came upon the slain and looted the city, because they had defiled their sister. 28They took their flocks and their herds and their donkeys, and that which was in the city and that which was in the field; 29and they captured and looted all their wealth and all their little ones and their wives, even all that was in the houses. 30Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi, “You have brought trouble on me by making me odious among the inhabitants of the land, among the Canaanites and the Perizzites; and my men being few in number, they will gather together against me and attack me and I will be destroyed, I and my household.” 31But they said, “Should he treat our sister as a harlot?”

Reflection on Genesis 34:18–31:
Righteous anger at evil is appropriate. But this passage shows what happens when anger rules the heart instead of God’s wisdom. Simeon and Levi rightly perceived that giving Dinah to an unrepentant, ungodly man would be wrong. They were correct that blending their family with pagan culture would have disastrous results. But they allowed their emotions—grief, fury, outrage—to become their guide.

Instead of seeking God, they chose deceit. Instead of pursuing justice, they pursued destruction. Instead of protecting their sister, they wiped out an entire city.

Genesis does not present them as heroes. Later, in Genesis 49, Jacob condemns their violence and denies them a blessing: “Cursed be their anger, for it is fierce; and their wrath, for it is cruel.”

This is a sobering reminder that even when our cause is righteous, our actions can become unrighteous if we abandon God’s ways.

Yet this chapter is not only about Simeon and Levi. It is also about Jacob. His decision to settle near an ungodly people contributed to the entire ordeal. His passivity in responding to Dinah’s violation left a void his sons filled recklessly. Now he sees the consequences—not only morally, but practically. Their vengeance may spark retaliation, endanger the family, and derail God’s purposes.

The tragedy of Genesis 34 shows the destructive chain reaction that unfolds when sin is met with sin—when grief is met with violence, when anger is met with revenge, when fear is met with deception.

The chapter ends in tension, without resolution, reminding us that humans pursuing justice apart from God will always fall short. Only the Lord can judge rightly. Only the Lord can bring healing. Only the Lord can protect His people and guide them forward.

Application:

  • Acknowledge your anger, but do not let it rule you. Righteous anger can easily become unrighteous revenge.

  • Seek God’s wisdom before taking action. Passion without prayer leads to destruction.

  • Avoid fighting sin with sin. Revenge never brings healing—it multiplies pain.

  • Recognize the long-term consequences of decisions. Like Jacob, where we settle and how we lead our families matters.

  • Trust God with justice. He alone sees perfectly and judges righteously.

  • Model restraint and integrity. Choose to honor God even when you are wronged deeply.

Closing Prayer:
Father, when I face injustice, teach me to bring my emotions to You rather than acting out of anger. Give me wisdom to respond in ways that honor Your righteousness, not my impulses. Protect me from the temptation to fight sin with sin. Help me trust Your justice, Your timing, and Your wisdom. Strengthen me to lead my family in holiness and discernment, and guide us away from paths that place us near danger. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Love, Marriage, Song of Solomon

Delighting in Love and Character (Song of Solomon 1:1-4)

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Have you ever longed deeply for someone—not just for their presence, but for the goodness of their character?

Key Verse:
“Your name is like purified oil; therefore the maidens love you.” —Song of Solomon 1:3 NASB

Background Context:
Song of Solomon (or Song of Songs) is a poetic dialogue celebrating love between a bride and her beloved. While the book rejoices in the beauty of marital affection, it also reflects a deeper spiritual truth—God’s covenant love for His people and the longing His people have for Him.

In 1:1–4, the bride expresses a deep desire for her beloved. Her longing is not shallow or purely physical—she delights in his character. His “name,” which represents his reputation, is compared to “purified oil,” a fragrance that is refined, precious, and pleasing. She admires who he is, not merely how he looks. This sets the tone for the entire book: true love overflows from character, faithfulness, and purity.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 1:1-4

The Young Shulammite Bride and Jerusalem’s Daughters

      1The Song of Songs, which is Solomon’s.

      2“May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine.

      3“Your oils have a pleasing fragrance,
Your name is like purified oil;
Therefore the maidens love you.

      4“Draw me after you and let us run together!
The king has brought me into his chambers.”

“We will rejoice in you and be glad;
We will extol your love more than wine.
Rightly do they love you.”

Reflection on Song of Solomon 1:1–4:
These opening verses invite us to pause and appreciate the beauty of longing when it is rooted in righteousness. The bride longs for the beloved because his character is pure. His “name”—his integrity, reputation, and inner life—is like refined oil, a fragrance that draws others with its goodness.

This reminds us that love founded on character is secure. True affection grows from trustworthiness, faithfulness, and inner virtue.

Spiritually, these verses echo the believer’s longing for the Lord. God’s name—His character—is beautiful, pure, steadfast, and worthy of our desire. When we come to know Him, we begin to long for His nearness, His goodness, and His presence with the same earnest cry: “Draw me after You.”

Just as the bride delights not only in the beloved’s embrace but in his reputation, so we delight not only in God’s blessings but in who He is.

The joy described in these verses is not immature infatuation but a deep recognition of goodness. Love grounded in character brings confidence, peace, and joy.

Application:

  • Value character above outward qualities. Whether in marriage or friendship, admire what reflects the heart of God.

  • Delight in God’s name. Study His character in Scripture—His purity, justice, compassion, mercy—and let His goodness draw your heart closer.

  • Cultivate a godly reputation. Like purified oil, your character should bless and encourage those around you.

  • Let longing lead you toward God. The desire for closeness reflected in these verses mirrors the believer’s call to seek the Lord with joy.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the beauty of love rooted in character and purity. Teach me to value what is good, righteous, and honorable in others. Draw my heart closer to You so that I may delight in Your name and find joy in Your presence. Help me cultivate a life that reflects Your goodness to those around me. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Faith / Trusting God, Grace / Forgiveness, Joy / Happiness / Rejoicing, Love, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Psalms

The Joy of Being Forgiven (Psalms 32)

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Have you ever carried guilt so deeply that it weighed on your body, your mind, and your spirit — and then felt the relief that comes when you finally confess it to God?

Key Verse:
“How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered!” —Psalm 32:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 32 is one of David’s “maschil” psalms — a term indicating instruction or wisdom. Written after a season of personal sin and deep repentance, David reflects on the heavy burden that unconfessed sin brings and the incredible joy and relief that come when God forgives. This psalm pairs beautifully with the themes found in Psalm 51 but focuses more on the results of repentance — freedom, restoration, and renewed guidance. David not only celebrates forgiveness, he teaches others how to live in transparency before God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 32

Blessedness of Forgiveness and of Trust in God.

     1How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered!

      2How blessed is the man to whom the LORD does not impute iniquity,
And in whose spirit there is no deceit!

      3When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away
Through my groaning all day long.

      4For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me;
My vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of summer.

Selah.

      5I acknowledged my sin to You,
And my iniquity I did not hide;
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the LORD”;
And You forgave the guilt of my sin.

Selah.

      6Therefore, let everyone who is godly pray to You in a time when You may be found;
Surely in a flood of great waters they will not reach him.

      7You are my hiding place; You preserve me from trouble;
You surround me with songs of deliverance.

Selah.

      8I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go;
I will counsel you with My eye upon you.

      9Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding,
Whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check,
Otherwise they will not come near to you.

      10Many are the sorrows of the wicked,
But he who trusts in the LORD, lovingkindness shall surround him.

      11Be glad in the LORD and rejoice, you righteous ones;
And shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart.

Reflection on Psalm 32:
Psalm 32 opens with a burst of joy — not because life is perfect, but because God forgives. David knows firsthand the crushing weight of hidden sin. He speaks honestly: when he kept silent, his bones wasted away, his strength was drained, and God’s hand felt heavy on him. Sin always affects more than just our mind — it burdens our emotions, our bodies, and our relationships.

But everything changes with one simple, humble action: confession. “I acknowledged my sin to You… and You forgave the guilt of my sin.” David doesn’t describe God delaying, negotiating, or scolding. God forgives. Fully. Immediately. Deeply.

This psalm also teaches us that confession leads not only to forgiveness but to protection and instruction. David describes God as his hiding place, his protector who surrounds him with songs of deliverance. God then speaks: “I will instruct you and teach you… I will counsel you with My eye upon you.” Forgiveness isn’t merely the removal of guilt — it is the reopening of relationship, the restoration of guidance, and the renewal of intimacy with God.

David warns against being stubborn like a mule, resisting God’s leading. Instead, the forgiven believer is invited to live with a tender, responsive heart. The psalm concludes with a beautiful contrast: “Many are the sorrows of the wicked, but he who trusts in the LORD, lovingkindness shall surround him.”

Forgiveness is freedom. Confession is not humiliation — it is liberation. And joy fills the heart of the one who walks in transparency with God.

Application:

  • Bring your sin into the light. God already knows — confession lifts the weight from your soul.

  • Trust God’s forgiveness. Do not cling to guilt He has already removed.

  • Stay teachable. Respond quickly when God convicts or redirects.

  • Live transparently before Him. Freedom grows when we walk honestly, not hiding or pretending.

  • Rejoice in God’s mercy. Let gratitude overflow as you reflect on the blessing of forgiveness.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the blessing of forgiveness. Thank You that You never turn away a repentant heart, but quickly restore and embrace those who confess their sin. Teach me to live with transparency before You — not stubborn or resistant, but responsive, humble, and willing to be guided. Surround me with Your lovingkindness and help me walk daily in the freedom You provide. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Holy / Set Apart, Tribulation, Wickedness / Evil, Wise, Worldliness

Living Wisely Among the Ungodly (Genesis 34:1–17)

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Have you ever found yourself—or your family—in a situation where you realized too late that being too close to ungodliness brought danger you never expected?

Key Verse:
“But they were deeply grieved, and they were very angry because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, for such a thing ought not to be done.” —Genesis 34:7 NASB

Background Context:
Jacob has settled his family in Shechem after returning to the land of Canaan. Though Jacob has grown spiritually over many years, the people living around him do not fear God. Living among those who reject God’s ways always carries danger—especially when families are not trained carefully about how to interact with ungodly culture.

In this context, Dinah goes out to “visit the daughters of the land.” Many commentaries suggest she was likely a young teenager. It appears she did not ask permission or take proper protection with her. Among a pagan people with no moral restraint, she becomes vulnerable and is violated by Shechem.

When Jacob hears, he remains silent, unsure how to respond. But her brothers are devastated—filled with grief and righteous anger because “such a thing ought not to be done.”

Genesis 34 is a sobering reminder that settling too close to ungodly influences can place our families in danger—not only physically, but morally and spiritually.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 34:1–17

      1Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to visit the daughters of the land. 2When Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, the prince of the land, saw her, he took her and lay with her by force. 3He was deeply attracted to Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke tenderly to her. 4So Shechem spoke to his father Hamor, saying, “Get me this young girl for a wife.” 5Now Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter; but his sons were with his livestock in the field, so Jacob kept silent until they came in. 6Then Hamor the father of Shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him. 7Now the sons of Jacob came in from the field when they heard it; and the men were grieved, and they were very angry because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, for such a thing ought not to be done.

      8But Hamor spoke with them, saying, “The soul of my son Shechem longs for your daughter; please give her to him in marriage. 9“Intermarry with us; give your daughters to us and take our daughters for yourselves. 10“Thus you shall live with us, and the land shall be open before you; live and trade in it and acquire property in it.” 11Shechem also said to her father and to her brothers, “If I find favor in your sight, then I will give whatever you say to me. 12“Ask me ever so much bridal payment and gift, and I will give according as you say to me; but give me the girl in marriage.”

      13But Jacob’s sons answered Shechem and his father Hamor with deceit, because he had defiled Dinah their sister. 14They said to them, “We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one who is uncircumcised, for that would be a disgrace to us. 15“Only on this condition will we consent to you: if you will become like us, in that every male of you be circumcised, 16then we will give our daughters to you, and we will take your daughters for ourselves, and we will live with you and become one people. 17“But if you will not listen to us to be circumcised, then we will take our daughter and go.”

Reflection on Genesis 34:1–17:
This passage confronts us with the tragic consequences of living close to those who reject God’s ways. Dinah’s violation is described plainly and without excuse. Scripture does not soften the evil, nor pretend it is small. God sees the wound. God hears the cries of the oppressed. God condemns the sin.

But we also see that Jacob’s choice of where to settle may have contributed to the danger. Shechem was a place with no fear of the Lord, and the people practiced immorality as a normal part of life. Yet Jacob appears to have stayed there without caution, without preparing his children to discern the risks, and without keeping proper boundaries around his family.

Dinah, curious about the women of the land, goes out alone—perhaps naively, perhaps secretly. Her desire to explore pagan culture takes her outside the safety of a God-fearing home and places her into the arms of someone with no moral restraint. The world often celebrates “exploration,” “blending,” and “multicultural curiosity,” but Scripture warns repeatedly that blending with ungodly ways leads to sorrow, compromise, or destruction.

Jacob’s sons understand at least one thing clearly: it would be dangerous and wrong to intermarry with a man—and a people—who do not fear God. They wrongly allow their anger to grow into deception and later into violent vengeance, which we will address in the next devotional. But their instinct that Dinah should not be handed over to an unrepentant man is morally sound.

There is a timeless principle here: living near ungodliness requires intentional safeguards. Raising children among a culture that rejects God demands vigilance, instruction, and active protection. The world will gladly pull our children into its values if we are not intentional. Parents must guide, teach, warn, and create healthy boundaries—not shelter in fantasy, but equip with truth. Had Dinah understood the dangers more clearly, she might never have wandered into harm.

This passage reminds us that evil exists, that ungodly culture is not harmless, and that families must be wise—living in the world, but not becoming entangled with it.

Application:

  • Be intentional about where and how you plant your family. Jacob’s choice to settle in Shechem carried spiritual and moral risks. Consider carefully the influences around your home.
  • Teach children the “why,” not only the “what.” Explain dangers clearly. Do not pretend the world is harmless—prepare them with truth.
  • Grieve injustice deeply. God does. Anger at sin is appropriate when it aligns with God’s righteousness.
  • Do not minimize sin. Shechem’s act was evil, and no cultural blending or marriage proposal could make it acceptable.
  • Beware of casual blending with ungodly culture. Scripture calls God’s people to be holy, set apart, and discerning in their relationships and influences.
  • Seek God’s wisdom in place of passivity. Jacob’s silence did not help Dinah. When trouble comes, seek God and act with integrity and courage.

Closing Prayer:
Father, we come before You with heavy hearts as we read this painful passage. Thank You that You see every wound and every injustice. Help me to be wise in where I settle my family, in what influences I allow, and in how I train my children. Give me courage to stand for what is holy and discernment to avoid blending with ways that oppose You. When evil occurs, teach me to respond with truth, compassion, and wisdom—always seeking Your justice and Your heart. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Provider, Thankfulness, Traditions / Holidays

Give Thanks to the LORD for He Is Good – Table devotional (Thanksgiving)

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We should always seek to be thankful to the Lord for all He provides, but Thanksgiving is a great time to remind ourselves to come together as a family and as a community, and as a nation to give thanks together to our Lord,  YHWH. For those who follow Yeshua (Hebrew for Jesus), we always have that most important gift of salvation through grace by faith for which to be thankful… no matter what else may be going on in our lives.

I have found it is very easy to lose focus on the Lord as we get busy with our holiday traditions and celebrations… even Thanksgiving. It seems the Lord dropped a surprise in my shopping bag on trip to the store several years ago.  I want to share it with you. Lifeway Christian store put together a small booklet of scriptures into a “Thanksgiving Table Devotional”. We have it at our table and we read and share as we come together to eat our meals.

Psalm 106:1

1Praise the LORD!
Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good;
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.

1 Thessalonians 5:18

18in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Colossians 3:17

17Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father.

Philippians 4:6

6Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Psalm 9:1-2

1I will give thanks to the LORD with all my heart;
I will tell of all Your wonders.

      2I will be glad and exult in You;
I will sing praise to Your name, O Most High.

As we read these scriptures together we take time to go around the table and ask about examples of things that are specific to us for which we are grateful to our Father who provides. This is not particularly unique, but it sure is easy to overlook. I appreciate the Lord putting these scriptures where I would find them as I was looking for ways to make Thanksgiving more meaningful and focused on Him for my family. Praise the Lord He cares for each of us as His children!

What will you make the focus of this Thanksgiving season? Football, shopping, food, fellowship… or our Creator and Father and the right attitude towards Him? My suggestion is to focus on our Father with a healthy side of family fellowship.

Take some time to pray right now and give Him thanks in your own words. Ask Him to help you have wisdom on how to approach your family traditions such as those around Thanksgiving.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Learning To Pray Effectively, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Thankfulness, Traditions / Holidays

A Heart Full of Thanks and Trust (Psalm 138)

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Are you preparing your heart for Thanksgiving — not just the holiday, but the posture of gratitude that draws you nearer to God?

Key Verse:
“I will give You thanks with all my heart; I will sing praises to You before the gods.” —Psalm 138:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 138 is a psalm of David, written as a declaration of wholehearted thanksgiving to the Lord. David reflects on God’s faithfulness in times of trouble, His unfailing love, and His fulfilling of promises made. Even when surrounded by enemies or uncertainty, David chooses to give thanks — not because circumstances are perfect, but because God is faithful.

In the days leading to our modern celebration of Thanksgiving, Psalm 138 invites us to remember that gratitude is not merely an emotion but an act of worship. It is a confession of trust in the God who hears, answers, strengthens, and sustains His people.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 138

Thanksgiving for the LORD’S Favor.

A Psalm of David.

     1I will give You thanks with all my heart;
I will sing praises to You before the gods.

      2I will bow down toward Your holy temple
And give thanks to Your name for Your lovingkindness and Your truth;
For You have magnified Your word according to all Your name.

      3On the day I called, You answered me;
You made me bold with strength in my soul.

      4All the kings of the earth will give thanks to You, O LORD,
When they have heard the words of Your mouth.

      5And they will sing of the ways of the LORD,
For great is the glory of the LORD.

      6For though the LORD is exalted,
Yet He regards the lowly,
But the haughty He knows from afar.

      7Though I walk in the midst of trouble, You will revive me;
You will stretch forth Your hand against the wrath of my enemies,
And Your right hand will save me.

      8The LORD will accomplish what concerns me;
Your lovingkindness, O LORD, is everlasting;
Do not forsake the works of Your hands.

Reflection on Psalm 138:
Psalm 138 beautifully captures the heart of biblical thanksgiving. David gives thanks “with all his heart” because he has experienced the character of God — His lovingkindness, His truth, His presence in hardship, and His faithfulness to complete what He begins.

As we approach Thanksgiving, this psalm reminds us of several truths:

  • Thanksgiving begins with remembering — remembering what God has done, how He has answered prayers, and how He has strengthened us when we were weak.

  • Thanksgiving is rooted in God’s character — not in circumstances, but in His faithful love and unchanging truth.

  • Thanksgiving grows in the valleys — David gives thanks even though he walks “in the midst of trouble,” because he knows the Lord is with him.

  • Thanksgiving looks forward with hope — David declares, “The Lord will accomplish what concerns me.” Gratitude strengthens our trust that God will continue His work in us.

This season often reminds us to count our blessings. But Scripture teaches something deeper: thanksgiving is not only gratitude for what God has given — it is confidence in who God is. And that confidence lifts our hearts, deepens our worship, and renews our faith.

Application:

  • Make time to reflect intentionally. Don’t rush into Thanksgiving distracted — pause and remember the specific ways God has been faithful to you this year.

  • Give thanks for God’s character, not just His gifts. His steadfast love and truth remain even when circumstances shift.

  • Let gratitude strengthen your faith. Thankfulness turns your eyes from what is uncertain to the God who never changes.

  • Thank God in your trials. Like David, trust that God is at work even in difficult seasons — and give thanks for His presence and purpose.

This Thanksgiving, let your gratitude anchor you in God’s faithfulness — not just for what He has done, but for who He is and how He continues to sustain you.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your steadfast love, Your truth, and Your unfailing faithfulness. As Thanksgiving approaches, prepare my heart to remember Your goodness with sincerity and joy. Help me to give You thanks with all my heart — in blessing and in hardship — trusting that You will accomplish what concerns me. Fill my spirit with gratitude that strengthens my faith and draws me closer to You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Fellowship, Teachable, Truth

Walking in the Light (1 John 1:1–10)

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Do you ever feel tempted to hide parts of your life from God — as if the shadows are safer than the light?

Key Verse:
“If we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.” —1 John 1:7 NASB

Background Context:
John opens his letter by grounding everything he teaches in firsthand experience. He and the other apostles had seen, heard, and touched Jesus — the “Word of Life.” This makes their message not theory, but testimony. The eternal Son of God came in the flesh, revealed the Father’s love, and brought life to all who believe.

John’s purpose is to invite believers into genuine fellowship — both with God and with one another. But true fellowship cannot exist in darkness. To walk with God means to walk in light — in honesty, purity, and truth. Sin must be confessed, not concealed. God’s light exposes what is hidden, not to condemn us, but to cleanse and restore.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 1:1–10

Introduction, The Incarnate Word

      1What was from the beginning, what we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we have looked at and touched with our hands, concerning the Word of Life— 2and the life was manifested, and we have seen and testify and proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and was manifested to us— 3what we have seen and heard we proclaim to you also, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father, and with His Son Jesus Christ. 4These things we write, so that our joy may be made complete.

God Is Light

      5This is the message we have heard from Him and announce to you, that God is Light, and in Him there is no darkness at all. 6If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth; 7but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. 8If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us.

Reflection on 1 John 1:1–10:
This passage reminds us that Christianity is not about a set of ideas, but about a real relationship. John begins by saying, “What we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we have looked at and touched with our hands…” (v. 1). Faith in Yeshua is built on facts, not feelings — on the reality of the living Christ.

From that foundation, John moves to the heart of his message: God is light, and there is no darkness in Him at all. Light represents truth, purity, and holiness. Darkness represents sin, deception, and denial. We cannot walk in both at once.

To “walk in the light” doesn’t mean being perfect — it means being honest before God. It means living transparently, bringing sin into the open through confession. Verse 9 offers one of the most freeing promises in all of Scripture: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Confession isn’t about informing God of what He already knows — it’s about agreeing with Him about our sin and inviting His light to purify our hearts. Those who claim to have no sin deceive themselves, but those who walk in truth experience forgiveness and fellowship that cannot be found anywhere else.

Walking in the light transforms how we relate to others, too. Fellowship with God naturally leads to fellowship with His people. Just as light connects everything it touches, God’s light unites His children through shared truth and grace.

Application:

  • Be honest with God. Don’t hide sin or pretend to be better than you are. He already knows — and still loves you.

  • Confess regularly. Confession restores intimacy with God and keeps your heart tender to His voice.

  • Walk in truth. Let God’s Word expose and correct anything in your life that doesn’t align with His character.

  • Value fellowship. Walking in the light connects us to others who are also seeking truth and grace.

The more you walk in God’s light, the less fear you’ll have of being exposed — because His light doesn’t just reveal; it redeems.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that You are light and that in You there is no darkness at all. Help me to walk honestly before You, confessing my sins and trusting in the cleansing power of Yeshua’s blood. Teach me to live in truth and to love others in that same light. May Your light shine through me, drawing others into fellowship with You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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