Some time ago, there was quite a craze about “The Prayer of Jabez”. People wrote books and spent a lot of time and energy presenting the case in such a way as to imply that repeating the special words would lead to prosperity. The claim seemed to be that “all you have to do is repeat the words over and over long enough and God will bless you”. This is quite simply false. Let us take a look at Jabez in terms of what the Bible actually tells us.
6Naarah bore him Ahuzzam, Hepher, Temeni and Haahashtari. These were the sons of Naarah. 7The sons of Helah were Zereth, Izhar and Ethnan. 8Koz became the father of Anub and Zobebah, and the families of Aharhel the son of Harum. 9Jabez was more honorable than his brothers, and his mother named him Jabez saying, “Because I bore him with pain.” 10Now Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my border, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from harm that it may not pain me!” And God granted him what he requested.
Jabez is mentioned in the middle of a long narrative on family lineage. We are provided with precious few details.
- Jabez was more honorable than his brothers.
- Jabez asked for God to bless Him and protect Him.
- God granted Jabez’s request.
As I mentioned, some concluded that the words Jabez prayed unlocked God’s power. If we repeat them somehow we will have God’s blessing like Jabez. This is a false teaching. We must be careful to interpret scripture in a way that is consistent with what the rest of the Bible teaches. Let’s take a look at what Jesus taught about praying a specific set of words over and over again in an effort to be heard by God.
7“And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. 8“So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.
Jesus teaches directly against an empty repetition of words. Thus we immediately know that the power of Jabez’s prayer is not from the words themselves or from repeating them. Just to emphasize this point, explore the broader context by reading more of Matthew 6. Jesus was teaching His disciples to pray and even as He laid out an approach to prayer He insisted that they should be careful to avoid just repeating even His words over and over. The power is not in the specific words. The power comes from God and is directed at His discretion based on our relationship with Him.
We know that God answered Jabez’s prayer, so I would conclude that his request for blessing and protection was deemed reasonable by God. This is also consistent with other examples of righteous prayer throughout the Bible. Psalms is a great example. For now we can even compare it again to how Jesus taught His disciples to pray.
11‘Give us this day our daily bread.
12‘And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13‘And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Jesus tells us to daily ask God for the provisions we need, our “daily bread”, and also tells us to ask God to “deliver us from evil”. This is incredibly consistent with Jabez’s request, though not an exact match in words.
So why did God answer Jabez’s prayer? Of course it is always at God’s discretion based on His plans and His wisdom. However, we do know that God hears the prayer of the righteous and in fact that is another detail we are provided about Jabez… he was at least “more honorable than his brothers”.
15The eyes of the LORD are toward the righteous
And His ears are open to their cry.
16The face of the LORD is against evildoers,
To cut off the memory of them from the earth.
17The righteous cry, and the LORD hears
And delivers them out of all their troubles.
18The LORD is near to the brokenhearted
And saves those who are crushed in spirit.
19Many are the afflictions of the righteous,
But the LORD delivers him out of them all.
It really is that simple. Effective prayer is not about repeating special words, but rather it is about a heart that is submitted to God. God hears the cry of the righteous and delivers them from afflictions. That does not mean we will not experience difficult times, but that God will be with us and help us get through them with joy. For effective prayer, focus on improving your relationship with God through study and application of God’s word in the Bible rather than looking for the perfect words to repeat.
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