To repent is to turn away from wrong behavior, ask forgiveness, and change and begin pursuing right behavior. Typically it involves turning away from selfish motivations and sinful behavior and turning our lives toward doing things God’s way.
What does genuine repentance look like? Many stop at just saying they are sorry and then they continue repeating the same sinful behavior. This is not repentance at all! Genuine repentance means changing ourselves to be more like Jesus and less like our sinful nature. We see genuine repentance when someone is in a difficult situation where they have failed in the past and they act differently this time… this time they do things God’s way.
Genesis 44 shows us the culmination of Joseph’s testing of his brothers to see if they have changed. Many years earlier they sold him into slavery and lied to their father that he had died simply out of jealousy that Israel loved Joseph more than he loved them.
Now Joseph uses Benjamin as a test of a very similar situation. Will they abandon Benjamin or will they demonstrate repentance for their past wrongs and handle the situation differently this time?
The Brothers Are Brought Back
1Then he commanded his house steward, saying, “Fill the men’s sacks with food, as much as they can carry, and put each man’s money in the mouth of his sack. 2“Put my cup, the silver cup, in the mouth of the sack of the youngest, and his money for the grain.” And he did as Joseph had told him. 3As soon as it was light, the men were sent away, they with their donkeys. 4They had just gone out of the city, and were not far off, when Joseph said to his house steward, “Up, follow the men; and when you overtake them, say to them, ‘Why have you repaid evil for good? 5‘Is not this the one from which my lord drinks and which he indeed uses for divination? You have done wrong in doing this.’”
6So he overtook them and spoke these words to them. 7They said to him, “Why does my lord speak such words as these? Far be it from your servants to do such a thing. 8“Behold, the money which we found in the mouth of our sacks we have brought back to you from the land of Canaan. How then could we steal silver or gold from your lord’s house? 9“With whomever of your servants it is found, let him die, and we also will be my lord’s slaves.” 10So he said, “Now let it also be according to your words; he with whom it is found shall be my slave, and the rest of you shall be innocent.” 11Then they hurried, each man lowered his sack to the ground, and each man opened his sack. 12He searched, beginning with the oldest and ending with the youngest, and the cup was found in Benjamin’s sack. 13Then they tore their clothes, and when each man loaded his donkey, they returned to the city.
14When Judah and his brothers came to Joseph’s house, he was still there, and they fell to the ground before him. 15Joseph said to them, “What is this deed that you have done? Do you not know that such a man as I can indeed practice divination?” 16So Judah said, “What can we say to my lord? What can we speak? And how can we justify ourselves? God has found out the iniquity of your servants; behold, we are my lord’s slaves, both we and the one in whose possession the cup has been found.” 17But he said, “Far be it from me to do this. The man in whose possession the cup has been found, he shall be my slave; but as for you, go up in peace to your father.”
18Then Judah approached him, and said, “Oh my lord, may your servant please speak a word in my lord’s ears, and do not be angry with your servant; for you are equal to Pharaoh. 19“My lord asked his servants, saying, ‘Have you a father or a brother?’ 20“We said to my lord, ‘We have an old father and a little child of his old age. Now his brother is dead, so he alone is left of his mother, and his father loves him.’ 21“Then you said to your servants, ‘Bring him down to me that I may set my eyes on him.’ 22“But we said to my lord, ‘The lad cannot leave his father, for if he should leave his father, his father would die.’ 23“You said to your servants, however, ‘Unless your youngest brother comes down with you, you will not see my face again.’ 24“Thus it came about when we went up to your servant my father, we told him the words of my lord. 25“Our father said, ‘Go back, buy us a little food.’ 26“But we said, ‘We cannot go down. If our youngest brother is with us, then we will go down; for we cannot see the man’s face unless our youngest brother is with us.’ 27“Your servant my father said to us, ‘You know that my wife bore me two sons; 28and the one went out from me, and I said, “Surely he is torn in pieces,” and I have not seen him since. 29‘If you take this one also from me, and harm befalls him, you will bring my gray hair down to Sheol in sorrow.’ 30“Now, therefore, when I come to your servant my father, and the lad is not with us, since his life is bound up in the lad’s life, 31when he sees that the lad is not with us, he will die. Thus your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow. 32“For your servant became surety for the lad to my father, saying, ‘If I do not bring him back to you, then let me bear the blame before my father forever.’ 33“Now, therefore, please let your servant remain instead of the lad a slave to my lord, and let the lad go up with his brothers. 34“For how shall I go up to my father if the lad is not with me—for fear that I see the evil that would overtake my father?”
Judah in particular, demonstrates genuine repentance on behalf of the brothers. He asks to substitute his own life for that of Benjamin out of love for his father, Israel. Judah was genuine in his repentance… he did now know that he was talking to Joseph or that this was a test. He believed this was genuinely substituting his own life for that of Benjamin.
We should each of us pray that the Holy Spirit would help us identify our own wrong behavior and help give us the courage and determination to change our behavior and attitudes toward those that God teaches us in the Bible and in the earthly ministry of Jesus Christ. Let us not just say we are sorry and repeat our wrong behaviors, or worse… rationalize and accept our wrong behaviors when they are clearly wrong according to God’s word in the Bible. Instead, let us change to better follow God’s commands in our lives in genuine repentance and experience the transformation that will occur in our lives.
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