What Does It Look Like to Really Love One Another?

Love is very important, but it is also often misunderstood. People have many definitions and tests that they place on others in regard to “loving” or “being loved”. People talk about falling in love as if love is not a choice, but rather something that happens to you outside your control. Beware of and reject the world’s definitions of love. Seek to understand God’s definition instead.

1 Corinthians 13

The Excellence of Love

     1If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.

      4Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

      8Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part; 10but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. 11When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. 12For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. 13But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.

There are many good scriptures to memorize, and this is definitely one to consider. Understanding love as God defines it is incredibly important. It has significant impact in our relationship with God and with others. This scripture should not only guide how we act to show love to others, but also help us truly recognize who truly loves us.

Take a few minutes in prayer before God. Thank Him for loving us and helping us to understand how to love others. Thank Him that He also helps us love others when perhaps we would not choose to love those individuals on our own. Think about each of these descriptions of love in the verse today. Are you applying them to your spouse? children? parents? co-workers? friends? and even people you don’t really know? That is what God is calling us to do! What do you need to change? Ask God for help!

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ


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