We have all experienced loneliness at different times in our lives and in different magnitudes. Loneliness affects people of all ages and all nationalities and all cultures around the world. People seek to solve their loneliness through many desperate pursuits and bad relationships, but there is only one cure for loneliness… and that is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ with the help of the Holy Spirit living in you. God is the only one who will never let you down, never abandon you, never leave you. Even in your darkest hour you can count on Jesus Christ.
Deuteronomy 31:6 6“Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you.”
Hebrews 13:5 5Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He Himself has said, “I WILL NEVER DESERT YOU, NOR WILL I EVER FORSAKE YOU,” 6so that we confidently say, “THE LORD IS MY HELPER, I WILL NOT BE AFRAID. WHAT WILL MAN DO TO ME?”
John 14:16-17 16“I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may be with you forever; 17that is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He abides with you and will be in you.
Matthew 28:19-20 19“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”
Not only does God give us His assurance that He will not abandon us, but we can be assured that Jesus understands loneliness. God humbled Himself and became man in the person of Jesus Christ for our sake. He experienced temptation but did not sin. He experienced loneliness, but found strength in a strong relationship with God. In fact, Jesus experienced two very dramatic examples of loneliness that serve as bookends to His earthly ministry.
Jesus faced temptation from Satan when He was weak and alone. Jesus found strength in none but the word of God to defeat Satan and overcome temptation.
1Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2And after He had fasted forty days and forty nights, He then became hungry. 3And the tempter came and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.” 4But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘MAN SHALL NOT LIVE ON BREAD ALONE, BUT ON EVERY WORD THAT PROCEEDS OUT OF THE MOUTH OF GOD.’”
5Then the devil took Him into the holy city and had Him stand on the pinnacle of the temple,
6and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down; for it is written,
‘HE WILL COMMAND HIS ANGELS CONCERNING YOU’;
and
‘ON their HANDS THEY WILL BEAR YOU UP,
SO THAT YOU WILL NOT STRIKE YOUR FOOT AGAINST A STONE.’”
7Jesus said to him, “On the other hand, it is written, ‘YOU SHALL NOT PUT THE LORD YOUR GOD TO THE TEST.’”
8Again, the devil took Him to a very high mountain and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory; 9and he said to Him, “All these things I will give You, if You fall down and worship me.” 10Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’” 11Then the devil left Him; and behold, angels came and began to minister to Him.
Of course, the other dramatic example that Jesus experienced was during the final days leading up to the cross, where He died as punishment for our sins. It started in Gethsemane, when He brought His closest disciples to pray with Him at His most difficult moment, but they could not even stay awake.
36Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to His disciples, “Sit here while I go over there and pray.” 37And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be grieved and distressed. 38Then He said to them, “My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and keep watch with Me.”
39And He went a little beyond them, and fell on His face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will.” 40And He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “So, you men could not keep watch with Me for one hour? 41“Keep watching and praying that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
42He went away again a second time and prayed, saying, “My Father, if this cannot pass away unless I drink it, Your will be done.” 43Again He came and found them sleeping, for their eyes were heavy. 44And He left them again, and went away and prayed a third time, saying the same thing once more. 45Then He came to the disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Behold, the hour is at hand and the Son of Man is being betrayed into the hands of sinners. 46“Get up, let us be going; behold, the one who betrays Me is at hand!”
From this point on, Jesus was abandoned by his disciples who fled, including Peter’s denying Jesus three times. Jesus experienced the torture and abuse leading up to and including death on the cross alone. It was His relationship with God, strong prayer life, and devotion to do the will of God that carried Jesus through that time. (You can read more in the gospels. In Matthew, read chapter 26-27)
We can know that Jesus understands loneliness. He experienced as much as any of us. He loves us and promises to be with us to the end of the age. He even prayed that God would send a helper in the Holy Spirit to dwell inside of us who accept Jesus Christ as Lord!
Truly we have a dear friend and savior in Jesus Christ. When we submit our lives to Him and seek Him daily in the Biblical text and in prayer we will never be alone.
Joshua 1:9 9“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”
Romans 8:38-39 38For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, 39nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
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