For all of us there is “a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance. [Ecclesiastes 3:4]

Joseph and his family experienced much hardship due to their own mistakes and failures. It could easily have been enough to permanently tear apart their family. Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, who lied to their father that he was dead… all because they were jealous that their father showed obvious (and very unhelpful) favoritism to Joseph because he loved Joseph more than the others. It took strong faith in walking with God by Joseph to avoid bitterness and be open to forgiveness and reconciliation with his family. It took true repentance from his brothers to change their ways, which they demonstrated in defending Benjamin at the risk of their own peril.

Now, in Genesis 45, we see God’s plan come to fruition and the family reunited in a time for rejoicing and dancing.

Joseph Deals Kindly with His Brothers

      1Then Joseph could not control himself before all those who stood by him, and he cried, “Have everyone go out from me.” So there was no man with him when Joseph made himself known to his brothers. 2He wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard it, and the household of Pharaoh heard of it. 3Then Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?” But his brothers could not answer him, for they were dismayed at his presence.

      4Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Please come closer to me.” And they came closer. And he said, “I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. 5“Now do not be grieved or angry with yourselves, because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life. 6“For the famine has been in the land these two years, and there are still five years in which there will be neither plowing nor harvesting. 7“God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant in the earth, and to keep you alive by a great deliverance. 8“Now, therefore, it was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh and lord of all his household and ruler over all the land of Egypt. 9“Hurry and go up to my father, and say to him, ‘Thus says your son Joseph, “God has made me lord of all Egypt; come down to me, do not delay. 10“You shall live in the land of Goshen, and you shall be near me, you and your children and your children’s children and your flocks and your herds and all that you have. 11“There I will also provide for you, for there are still five years of famine to come, and you and your household and all that you have would be impoverished.”’ 12“Behold, your eyes see, and the eyes of my brother Benjamin see, that it is my mouth which is speaking to you. 13“Now you must tell my father of all my splendor in Egypt, and all that you have seen; and you must hurry and bring my father down here.” 14Then he fell on his brother Benjamin’s neck and wept, and Benjamin wept on his neck. 15He kissed all his brothers and wept on them, and afterward his brothers talked with him.

      16Now when the news was heard in Pharaoh’s house that Joseph’s brothers had come, it pleased Pharaoh and his servants. 17Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, “Say to your brothers, ‘Do this: load your beasts and go to the land of Canaan, 18and take your father and your households and come to me, and I will give you the best of the land of Egypt and you will eat the fat of the land.’ 19“Now you are ordered, ‘Do this: take wagons from the land of Egypt for your little ones and for your wives, and bring your father and come. 20‘Do not concern yourselves with your goods, for the best of all the land of Egypt is yours.’”

      21Then the sons of Israel did so; and Joseph gave them wagons according to the command of Pharaoh, and gave them provisions for the journey. 22To each of them he gave changes of garments, but to Benjamin he gave three hundred pieces of silver and five changes of garments. 23To his father he sent as follows: ten donkeys loaded with the best things of Egypt, and ten female donkeys loaded with grain and bread and sustenance for his father on the journey.

      24So he sent his brothers away, and as they departed, he said to them, “Do not quarrel on the journey.” 25Then they went up from Egypt, and came to the land of Canaan to their father Jacob. 26They told him, saying, “Joseph is still alive, and indeed he is ruler over all the land of Egypt.” But he was stunned, for he did not believe them. 27When they told him all the words of Joseph that he had spoken to them, and when he saw the wagons that Joseph had sent to carry him, the spirit of their father Jacob revived. 28Then Israel said, “It is enough; my son Joseph is still alive. I will go and see him before I die.”

All of us either have gone through, are going through, or will go through very difficult times and likely very difficult times within our family relationships. We can learn great lessons from Joseph and his family. Trust in God through difficult times, even when we do not see where the path leads or when the difficulties will go away. Avoid bitterness at all costs, no matter how big or small the real or perceived wrong that was done to you.  Do your best in every situation as if you are working for the Lord, because you represent Him to others whether you are “governor of Egypt” or “in an Egyptian jail”… in good times and in bad. Seek to be forgiven and to forgive. When you do wrong, no matter how great or small, admit it to yourself, to God, and to the one you wronged. Repent, genuinely change your behavior and attitude, and don’t repeat the same mistakes over and over again… making excuses for why it is acceptable.

Then rejoice and praise God in thanksgiving when you get to experience the time to dance and celebrate!

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