All of us either have experienced the loss of a loved one or will experience one. Death comes to all of us. Not to make to light of it, but the thing about life is that no one gets out of it alive. My point is simply that death is inevitable for all of us. We should thus prepare ourselves and our families. As we face death, we lean heavily on God to help us face our own or that of someone we love.
Joseph was clearly a man who had a strong relationship and faith in God as demonstrated by how he faced and overcame much suffering and difficulty in his life. Israel, too, had a strong relationship with God. Israel recognized and prepared for his death and to help those who survived him prepare in the chapters preceding Genesis 50. We see in Genesis 50, that Joseph allowed himself quite a bit of time to grieve for the loss of his father. This is not a sign of weakness or lack of faith necessarily, but perhaps of love for the one we have lost. Naturally it is also important to get closure on the grieving process and move on with our lives after a time of mourning.
The Death of Israel
1Then Joseph fell on his father’s face, and wept over him and kissed him. 2Joseph commanded his servants the physicians to embalm his father. So the physicians embalmed Israel. 3Now forty days were required for it, for such is the period required for embalming. And the Egyptians wept for him seventy days.
4When the days of mourning for him were past, Joseph spoke to the household of Pharaoh, saying, “If now I have found favor in your sight, please speak to Pharaoh, saying, 5‘My father made me swear, saying, “Behold, I am about to die; in my grave which I dug for myself in the land of Canaan, there you shall bury me.” Now therefore, please let me go up and bury my father; then I will return.’” 6Pharaoh said, “Go up and bury your father, as he made you swear.”
7So Joseph went up to bury his father, and with him went up all the servants of Pharaoh, the elders of his household and all the elders of the land of Egypt, 8and all the household of Joseph and his brothers and his father’s household; they left only their little ones and their flocks and their herds in the land of Goshen. 9There also went up with him both chariots and horsemen; and it was a very great company. 10When they came to the threshing floor of Atad, which is beyond the Jordan, they lamented there with a very great and sorrowful lamentation; and he observed seven days mourning for his father. 11Now when the inhabitants of the land, the Canaanites, saw the mourning at the threshing floor of Atad, they said, “This is a grievous mourning for the Egyptians.” Therefore it was named Abel-mizraim, which is beyond the Jordan.
We should give ourselves and others much latitude on how they grieve for those they love. Some, strong in faith, will confidently move forward with their lives, relying on God for guidance and support. They may appear not to be grieving or at least not the way many expect. Others may seek a longer time of mourning for their loss as Joseph did. To some it may seem they lack faith in God to spend so much time mourning. Let us mourn with them and support them however they deal with their loss. Let us not try to evaluate how they mourn but rather just mourn with them. Then look for opportunity to help them gain closure and continue with their lives in a positive direction and remain focused on the Lord.
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