Romans 12:14-21 provides guidance that is clearly contrary to worldly teaching and thought, but it is common for the ways of the righteous to be very different from those of the worldly.
14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!
17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. 18 Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.
19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,
“I will take revenge;
I will pay them back,”[g]
says the Lord.
20 Instead,
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them.
If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap
burning coals of shame on their heads.”[h]
21 Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.
The opening verse is perhaps the most challenging. To pray that God would bless your enemies is difficult to grasp. This does not mean that you pray for God to help you destroy you or for God to help them with their ungodly plans. Rather, pray that God would bless them by revealing Himself to them and showing them the path of righteousness and salvation. I have found it helpful in my life to consciously choose to respond this way in situations where my sin nature would rather curse someone and ask God to defeat them outright. Praying for them actually helps me get my mind and spirit right with God.
This scripture also calls for humility in understanding we do not have all the answers. We should not think more highly of ourselves than others. Seek to live in peace and harmony with others. Enjoy the company of “ordinary people”.
There is a strong directive to avoid seeking revenge. Revenge is not just an act, but a mind set in committing an act. It is not seeking true justice or to simply stop evil or to protect others but rather, filled with bitterness, revenge seeks to harm others rather than forgive.
We are then actually called to give food and water to our enemies in need. This shows God’s love for them, through us, and also has a side effect to “heap burning coals of shame on their head”. When the situation allows us to be gracious and show love for our enemies it can be powerful testimony for God.
It is worth noting, however, nowhere in this scripture does it say “let your enemies defeat you”. At times we do need to defend ourselves depending on the nature of the enemy and the urgency of the threat. We should, however, seek to maintain an attitude of love for our enemies and pray for them.
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