Abram (later Abraham) is appropriately held in high regard as a man of great faith. He obeyed and trusted God throughout his life, growing closer and more faithful to God the longer he knew Him.  However, he also had times along the journey where he failed to rely on God and made significant mistakes, as in Genesis 12:10-20.

¹⁰ At that time a severe famine struck the land of Canaan, forcing Abram to go down to Egypt, where he lived as a foreigner. ¹¹ As he was approaching the border of Egypt, Abram said to his wife, Sarai, “Look, you are a very beautiful woman. ¹² When the Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife. Let’s kill him; then we can have her!’ ¹³ So please tell them you are my sister. Then they will spare my life and treat me well because of their interest in you.”

¹⁴ And sure enough, when Abram arrived in Egypt, everyone noticed Sarai’s beauty. ¹⁵ When the palace officials saw her, they sang her praises to Pharaoh, their king, and Sarai was taken into his palace. ¹⁶ Then Pharaoh gave Abram many gifts because of her—sheep, goats, cattle, male and female donkeys, male and female servants, and camels.

¹⁷ But the Lord sent terrible plagues upon Pharaoh and his household because of Sarai, Abram’s wife. ¹⁸ So Pharaoh summoned Abram and accused him sharply. “What have you done to me?” he demanded. “Why didn’t you tell me she was your wife? ¹⁹ Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ and allow me to take her as my wife? Now then, here is your wife. Take her and get out of here!” ²⁰ Pharaoh ordered some of his men to escort them, and he sent Abram out of the country, along with his wife and all his possessions.

How wonderful that God protected Abram and Sarai and their marriage even when Abram failed to do so because of his fear. Instead of trusting God or asking God for help, Abram came up with a scheme based on lies to try to protect himself. When it was obviously falling apart, he stayed with the lies. He took payment to give his wife to Pharaoh without declaring her as his wife. Thankfully God intervened to help Abram and Sarai.

Even for those who faithfully serve God, it can be difficult at times to avoid creating messes for ourselves as Abram did in this scripture. We try to solve problems our way instead of God’s way. If we look closer we see Abram’s plan was based on lies instead of truth and he ultimately was willing to sacrifice the holy bond of marriage instead of asking God for help. Both the lies and the willingness to sacrifice his marriage to protect himself are inconsistent with God’s instruction and character.

We can learn both from Abram’s (later Abraham) failures and his successes in his walk of faith with God. We have the benefit of having this scripture and many more available to show us the way God wants us to live. Still it can be difficult to apply consistently in our own real life situations. We must decide ahead of time, before the conflict arises that we will serve God even at risk of our own lives.

I urge each of you to pray with me that God would strengthen our faith and trust in Him and give us wisdom in applying it to specific situations in our lives.  And for those of you who, like me, have failed in this area in your life… be encouraged how Abram was able to continue his walk with God and be used mightily by God despite his shortcomings. God will be with us also if we seek Him wholeheartedly.

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