Choose Your Friends Carefully but Choose to Develop Friendships

Even those who are very close to the Father in their personal walk in life, benefit richly from having a few close, trusted companions sharing in the work of Christ together. Paul found joy and encouragement in fellow servants of Christ such as Timothy and Epaphroditus.

Philippians 2:19-30

Timothy and Epaphroditus

     19But I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you shortly, so that I also may be encouraged when I learn of your condition. 20For I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for your welfare. 21For they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus. 22But you know of his proven worth, that he served with me in the furtherance of the gospel like a child serving his father. 23Therefore I hope to send him immediately, as soon as I see how things go with me; 24and I trust in the Lord that I myself also will be coming shortly. 25But I thought it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother and fellow worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger and minister to my need; 26because he was longing for you all and was distressed because you had heard that he was sick. 27For indeed he was sick to the point of death, but God had mercy on him, and not on him only but also on me, so that I would not have sorrow upon sorrow. 28Therefore I have sent him all the more eagerly so that when you see him again you may rejoice and I may be less concerned about you. 29Receive him then in the Lord with all joy, and hold men like him in high regard; 30because he came close to death for the work of Christ, risking his life to complete what was deficient in your service to me.

Let us work together as a body of Christ, not as separate individuals. That said, also note that Paul was very discriminating. He did not simply partner with anyone verbalizing support for Christ.

21For they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus.

Paul was discerning in whom He chose and we should be also. Who we associate with will influence our walk with the Father… either to strengthen it or to weaken it. Choose your friends wisely. Let their faith and obedience to Christ be foremost in that decision.

It is also a good reminder to choose to be a good friend, as Timothy and Epaphroditus were for Paul… especially when Paul was experiencing difficulty.

Spend time praying and reflecting on the friends in your life. Do you have close Christian friends to help you and encourage you? Are you living out life as a good friend to others? Ask God to lead you in what changes you should make.

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