When we trust God with our future, we don’t have to grasp for what looks best now.
Key Verse:
“The Lord said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him, ‘Now lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are… for all the land which you see, I will give it to you and to your descendants forever.’” —Genesis 13:14–15 NASB
Background Context:
After leaving Egypt, Abram and Lot return to the land between Bethel and Ai, where Abram first built an altar. Their herds and possessions have grown so large that the land can no longer support them both. Strife breaks out between their herdsmen, prompting Abram to propose a peaceful solution: they will separate. Abram graciously allows Lot to choose first. Lot, seeing the well-watered Jordan Valley, chooses what looks best for himself—settling near Sodom. After Lot departs, God reaffirms His promises to Abram, expanding on His covenant and assuring Abram of the land’s inheritance.
(Continued and expanded after scripture.)
Abram and Lot
1So Abram went up from Egypt to the Negev, he and his wife and all that belonged to him, and Lot with him.
2Now Abram was very rich in livestock, in silver and in gold. 3He went on his journeys from the Negev as far as Bethel, to the place where his tent had been at the beginning, between Bethel and Ai, 4to the place of the altar which he had made there formerly; and there Abram called on the name of the LORD. 5Now Lot, who went with Abram, also had flocks and herds and tents. 6And the land could not sustain them while dwelling together, for their possessions were so great that they were not able to remain together. 7And there was strife between the herdsmen of Abram’s livestock and the herdsmen of Lot’s livestock. Now the Canaanite and the Perizzite were dwelling then in the land.
8So Abram said to Lot, “Please let there be no strife between you and me, nor between my herdsmen and your herdsmen, for we are brothers. 9“Is not the whole land before you? Please separate from me; if to the left, then I will go to the right; or if to the right, then I will go to the left.” 10Lot lifted up his eyes and saw all the valley of the Jordan, that it was well watered everywhere—this was before the LORD destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah—like the garden of the LORD, like the land of Egypt as you go to Zoar. 11So Lot chose for himself all the valley of the Jordan, and Lot journeyed eastward. Thus they separated from each other. 12Abram settled in the land of Canaan, while Lot settled in the cities of the valley, and moved his tents as far as Sodom. 13Now the men of Sodom were wicked exceedingly and sinners against the LORD.
14The LORD said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him, “Now lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are, northward and southward and eastward and westward; 15for all the land which you see, I will give it to you and to your descendants forever. 16“I will make your descendants as the dust of the earth, so that if anyone can number the dust of the earth, then your descendants can also be numbered. 17“Arise, walk about the land through its length and breadth; for I will give it to you.” 18Then Abram moved his tent and came and dwelt by the oaks of Mamre, which are in Hebron, and there he built an altar to the LORD.
Reflection on Genesis 13:
Abram’s response to conflict is remarkable. Instead of grasping for the best land or demanding his rights, he seeks peace and lets Lot choose first. This wasn’t weakness—it was faith. Abram knew that his blessing didn’t depend on the land he chose, but on the God who had called him.
Lot, by contrast, chose based on appearances. He saw that the Jordan Valley was “like the garden of the Lord” and moved toward it. But the beauty masked danger—it brought him near the wickedness of Sodom. This is a picture of what happens when we choose by sight alone, without seeking God’s direction.
After Lot leaves, God tells Abram to “lift up your eyes”—a powerful contrast to Lot lifting his own. God invites Abram to see not with grasping eyes, but with trusting ones, reminding him that all the land would be his. Abram responds again by building an altar, anchoring his faith in worship.
Application:
When you face choices—especially ones involving conflict or tension—do you lift your own eyes, grasping for what looks best? Or do you trust God to provide? Like Abram, we are called to seek peace, walk in humility, and trust that God’s promises are bigger than what we can secure on our own.
If you’ve been tempted to choose like Lot—based on appearance alone—pause and ask God for His perspective. The safest place is always within His will, even if it doesn’t look like the “best land.”
Closing Prayer:
Lord, teach me to lift my eyes to You instead of relying on what I see. Help me to choose faith over fear, humility over self-interest, and Your will over my own desires. Thank You for being my Provider and my inheritance. In Yeshua’s name, amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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