I remember back when I thought I was a Christian, but was really only a churchgoer. I did not know Christ personally, but only knew of Him. (Even Satan knows Christ.) I recall vividly when a person whom I did not know well decided to engage me with the words “I have the words to save you.” This was entirely ineffective and, in fact, ended any chance of my listening to what he had to say. It was not helpful.
I pray for YHWH to help me conduct myself with wisdom toward non believers (and believers). I pray He would help direct my speech to be productive and impactful… engaging effectively while still staying true to YHWH’s word. Let us not miss also that Paul highlights the fact that each person may respond better to a different approach. It is not “one size fits” all.
5Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. 6Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.
Paul was very good at engaging people effectively. He could address Jews or Gentiles. When he went to Greece, he did not start by calling them all pagans who are going to hell, but rather started by calling them “very religious”. He looked for a connection to meet them where they were without compromising the message of the gospel. His sermon on Mars Hill was a great example of successful engagement with those who do not know Christ.
Sermon on Mars Hill
22So Paul stood in the midst of the Areopagus and said, “Men of Athens, I observe that you are very religious in all respects. 23“For while I was passing through and examining the objects of your worship, I also found an altar with this inscription, ‘TO AN UNKNOWN GOD.’ Therefore what you worship in ignorance, this I proclaim to you. 24“The God who made the world and all things in it, since He is Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in temples made with hands; 25nor is He served by human hands, as though He needed anything, since He Himself gives to all people life and breath and all things; 26and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation, 27that they would seek God, if perhaps they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us;28for in Him we live and move and exist, as even some of your own poets have said, ‘For we also are His children.’ 29“Being then the children of God, we ought not to think that the Divine Nature is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and thought of man. 30“Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that all people everywhere should repent, 31because He has fixed a day in which He will judge the world in righteousness through a Man whom He has appointed, having furnished proof to all men by raising Him from the dead.”
32Now when they heard of the resurrection of the dead, some began to sneer, but others said, “We shall hear you again concerning this.” 33So Paul went out of their midst. 34But some men joined him and believed, among whom also were Dionysius the Areopagite and a woman named Damaris and others with them.
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Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.