Temptation never presents itself as dangerous—it disguises itself as desirable.
Key Verse:
“For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.” —Proverbs 5:3–4 (NASB)
Background Context:
Proverbs 5 is a father’s urgent warning to his son against the seduction of adultery and unfaithfulness. It is not just about avoiding sexual sin, but about guarding one’s whole life from the devastating consequences of stepping outside God’s design. The writer exposes how alluring sin can be at first, but then contrasts it with the bitterness, shame, and destruction that follow. This chapter encourages not only abstaining from sin but intentionally choosing to rejoice in God’s provision and design for marriage and purity.
(Continued and expanded after scripture.)
Pitfalls of Immorality
1My son, give attention to my wisdom,
Incline your ear to my understanding;
2That you may observe discretion
And your lips may reserve knowledge.
3For the lips of an adulteress drip honey
And smoother than oil is her speech;
4But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5Her feet go down to death,
Her steps take hold of Sheol.
6She does not ponder the path of life;
Her ways are unstable, she does not know it.
7Now then, my sons, listen to me
And do not depart from the words of my mouth.
8Keep your way far from her
And do not go near the door of her house,
9Or you will give your vigor to others
And your years to the cruel one;
10And strangers will be filled with your strength
And your hard-earned goods will go to the house of an alien;
11And you groan at your final end,
When your flesh and your body are consumed;
12And you say, “How I have hated instruction!
And my heart spurned reproof!
13“I have not listened to the voice of my teachers,
Nor inclined my ear to my instructors!
14“I was almost in utter ruin
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”
15Drink water from your own cistern
And fresh water from your own well.
16Should your springs be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?
17Let them be yours alone
And not for strangers with you.
18Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19As a loving hind and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
Be exhilarated always with her love.
20For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress
And embrace the bosom of a foreigner?
21For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the LORD,
And He watches all his paths.
22His own iniquities will capture the wicked,
And he will be held with the cords of his sin.
23He will die for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he will go astray.
Reflection on Proverbs 5:
Solomon opens with a plea: “Give attention to my wisdom… that you may maintain discretion.” The chapter wastes no time showing how sin—specifically adultery—tempts through flattering words and false promises. At first, it seems sweet and smooth, like honey and oil. But sin’s end is bitter, cutting, and deadly.
There’s a clear call to stay far away from temptation. Don’t linger near it. Don’t entertain it. Solomon says, “Do not go near the door of her house.” Why? Because once you entertain sin, it starts costing you—your honor, your years, your peace, even your health.
This isn’t just for married people. The principle applies broadly: stay far from whatever draws your heart away from God’s design for holiness. In contrast to the adulteress, Solomon encourages joy in God’s provision—symbolized here by the blessings of a faithful marriage. He ends with a powerful truth: “The ways of everyone are before the Lord, and He watches all his paths.” Nothing is hidden from Him.
Application:
Sin is most dangerous when it looks harmless or even appealing. Whether it’s lust, greed, bitterness, or pride—don’t flirt with temptation. Don’t “go near the door.” Instead, draw near to God. Guard your heart and be satisfied with what He provides. If you are married, cherish your spouse. If you are single, honor God with purity and prepare your heart for faithfulness. God sees the paths we walk—may we walk in a way that honors Him.
Closing Prayer:
Father, help me recognize temptation for what it really is—deceptive and destructive. Give me wisdom and strength to walk in purity and faithfulness. Let me be satisfied with what You have given and not look to sin for what only You can provide. Thank You for watching over my steps. Guide me in the way everlasting. In Yeshua’s name, amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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