At times, we may separate from someone who sins, consistent with guidance in scripture. There are supposed to be consequences for sin, and we should not tolerate sin and rebellion in our fellowship. However, once a person is truly sorrowful and repentant, we do well to reaffirm our love for them and welcome them back. This mirrors how God relates to us as well.
There are several other elements in 2 Corinthians chapter 2 worthy of consideration as well. Paul wrote the Corinthians letting them know he would not be visiting as originally planned. He gave them the letter as a rebuke out of love to help them get back on track before his next visit. He was in effect walking out with that church the very guidance I mentioned above that he gave them to deal with sinners there.
- Indeed Paul’s rebuke through the letter is evidence of his love for these people. We correct and guide the ones we love (e.g. as we do with our children, and God with us) rather than let them stumble in darkness and sin.
- Paul did not want his visit to be characterized by rebuke and correction. He wanted to give them a chance to correct their course with input from his letters before he would visit next. That way they could celebrate and encourage one another when he was to visit them.
- Paul highlights the opportunity for forgiveness and comfort so that one is not overwhelmed with sorrow. Notice, that forgiveness is associated with genuine regret or sorrow of the sinner. They made a mistake and are sorrowful about it. We may infer it is likely then that they have a repentant heart.
- Paul highlights that Satan may look to take advantage of one who repents and is sorrowful, if the body of Christ does not demonstrate forgiveness and welcome them back.
- Paul changed his plans based on the prompting of the Holy Spirit. Too often today we dismiss such guidance from the Spirit and stick with our own plans.
- Paul gives honor and thanks to the Lord for His guidance.
Reaffirm Your Love
1But I determined this for my own sake, that I would not come to you in sorrow again. 2For if I cause you sorrow, who then makes me glad but the one whom I made sorrowful? 3This is the very thing I wrote you, so that when I came, I would not have sorrow from those who ought to make me rejoice; having confidence in you all that my joy would be the joy of you all. 4For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote to you with many tears; not so that you would be made sorrowful, but that you might know the love which I have especially for you.
5But if any has caused sorrow, he has caused sorrow not to me, but in some degree—in order not to say too much—to all of you. 6Sufficient for such a one is this punishment which was inflicted by the majority, 7so that on the contrary you should rather forgive and comfort him, otherwise such a one might be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. 8Wherefore I urge you to reaffirm your love for him. 9For to this end also I wrote, so that I might put you to the test, whether you are obedient in all things. 10But one whom you forgive anything, I forgive also; for indeed what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, I did it for your sakes in the presence of Christ, 11so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.
12Now when I came to Troas for the gospel of Christ and when a door was opened for me in the Lord, 13I had no rest for my spirit, not finding Titus my brother; but taking my leave of them, I went on to Macedonia.
14But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place. 15For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing; 16to the one an aroma from death to death, to the other an aroma from life to life. And who is adequate for these things? 17For we are not like many, peddling the word of God, but as from sincerity, but as from God, we speak in Christ in the sight of God.
Let our lives be directed by the Holy Spirit. Let our hearts be open and obedient to His guidance. Let us remember that an appropriate rebuke or correction is demonstrating love to others to help them out of their sin. Sin is like a disease which results separation from God in this world and eternity. Only through genuinely and wholeheartedly admitting our sins, asking forgiveness, and submitting to Jesus Christ will we be saved. If we submit to Him, we will seek forgiveness and repent, turning from our sinful behavior. As a body of Christ, let us comfort and forgive those who repent and seek reconciliation with the Lord and His people. Let not the devil take advantage of one sorrow in repentance and lure them away from Christ. Share the good news of Christ in all sincerity and with joy!
Praise our Father in heaven who is great above all creation!
Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ
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