In a world that increasingly normalizes behaviors contrary to God’s Word, how are we as believers to respond?
Luke 16:18 provides a direct and challenging teaching on marriage and divorce, reminding us of the seriousness with which God views these sacred bonds, and calling us to uphold His standards in our lives.
Key Verse: “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.” – Luke 16:18 (ESV)
Background Context: In Luke 16, Jesus teaches about stewardship, righteousness, and faithfulness to God’s commandments. Tucked within these teachings is a seemingly unrelated verse on divorce and remarriage (Luke 16:18). At first glance, it may appear out of place, but it carries a powerful message that connects with the broader theme of faithfulness and the importance of upholding God’s standards in all areas of life, particularly in marriage.
18“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery.
Reflection on Luke 16:18:
- The Sanctity of Marriage: Jesus’ statement in Luke 16:18 is clear and direct: divorce and remarriage, outside of God’s intended design, is equated with adultery. This echoes Jesus’ teachings elsewhere in the Gospels, where He affirms that God’s intention for marriage is “until death do us part” (Matthew 19:3-9). Divorce was permitted by the law because of the hardness of human hearts, but it was never God’s ideal. His design for marriage is a lifelong covenant of faithfulness between one man and one woman.
- Cultural and Moral Decay: In the context of Luke 16, this verse serves as a critique of the Pharisees, who often lowered God’s standards to accommodate cultural norms and human weaknesses. Ellicott’s Commentary points out that the Pharisees’ lax attitude toward divorce was akin to the unjust steward’s act of reducing debts. It reflects a pattern of lowering the standards of God’s commandments to suit personal or societal preferences. Unfortunately, this same trend persists in our modern culture, where behaviors like divorce, abortion, homosexuality, adultery, and fornication are often normalized or excused—even among those who claim to follow Christ.
- The Call to Uphold God’s Standards: As believers, we are called to uphold God’s standards in a culture that increasingly seeks to lower them. Marriage is just one example where God’s command is clear, yet the world pushes back with its own ideas of convenience, self-gratification, and autonomy. We are reminded that God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and we must stand firm in living according to His truth, even when it’s countercultural.
- Repentance and Restoration: For those who have gone through divorce, this teaching may be difficult to hear. It’s important to remember that God is a God of grace, mercy, and forgiveness. If you have divorced or remarried outside of God’s design, seek His forgiveness with a repentant heart, knowing that He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). But let us not make light of divorce or sin in general. Divorce is a painful and destructive act that often leaves lasting scars on families and individuals. We are called to take marriage seriously, to honor the covenant we make, and to seek God’s guidance in every step of our relationships.
- Engaging in the Cultural Battle: Beyond our personal lives, we are called to engage in the cultural battle against the normalization of sin. This means speaking out against the lowering of God’s standards in our communities, churches, and governments. It is not enough to say, “It’s not right for me, but let others live how they choose.” We must lovingly yet boldly uphold the truth of God’s Word and seek to bring His light into the darkness. As followers of Christ, we must actively work to promote His values, both in prayer and in action.
Summary Key Points:
- God’s Design for Marriage: Marriage is a lifelong covenant, and divorce is not part of God’s plan for His people. We are called to uphold the sanctity of marriage and take it seriously.
- Cultural Pressure to Lower Standards: Just as the Pharisees lowered God’s standards for marriage, our culture often normalizes behaviors that go against God’s Word. We are called to stand firm in the truth.
- Repentance and Grace: For those who have experienced divorce, there is forgiveness and grace. Seek God’s restoration, but also recognize the gravity of sin and the importance of honoring God’s standards moving forward.
- Active Engagement in the Battle for Righteousness: As believers, we are called not to be passive but to actively engage in promoting God’s values in our communities and the world, starting with prayer and continuing with action.
Application: Take time today to reflect on your view of marriage, relationships, and God’s standards in your life. Are there areas where you have allowed cultural norms to influence your thinking more than God’s Word? If you have experienced divorce, seek God’s forgiveness and healing, and commit to honoring Him in your current relationships. Pray for strength to stand firm in the truth, even when it’s difficult, and ask God to guide you in how you can actively engage in upholding His standards in your community and beyond.
Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before You recognizing the sacredness of marriage and the importance of upholding Your standards in a world that seeks to lower them. Help us to honor You in our relationships, standing firm in the truth of Your Word. We ask for Your forgiveness where we have fallen short and for Your strength to live faithfully according to Your commands. Guide us as we engage in the battle for righteousness, and may we be lights in a dark world, bringing Your truth to those around us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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