What is Love? How Do We Love God?

Yeshua (Hebrew name for Jesus) told us that the two most important commandments are to love God and love one another.

Mark 12: 28-31

 28One of the scribes came and heard them arguing, and recognizing that He had answered them well, asked Him, “What commandment is the foremost of all?” 29Jesus answered, “The foremost is, ‘HEAR, O ISRAEL! THE LORD OUR GOD IS ONE LORD; 30AND YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH.’ 31“The second is this, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”

What is love? How do we demonstrate love to God? This is an important question. All too often, people try to define “loving God” and they do so very differently than what He said. They acknowledge Him in name only or go to church or say His name often along with words like “bless you”. Some people say they show love to God by accepting everyone as they are, which may sound good to some, but it is still false. We do not love God or people by accepting their sin and giving them a hug to feel better about it. We love God and people both by sharing the truth of the gospel and the need to repent and change to turn to God.

To put this in a different perspective, I think about myself as a Father, which is a metaphor the Lord gives us to help us understand our relationship with Him. I have several children. I do not feel loved or respected when they disobey my rules and instructions, even if they are being “nice” to each other or their friends while they disobey. Why do some expect God to feel differently, to be pleased and feel loved when we ignore those things He tells us to do and not to do?

To love God is to obey His commandments… to live for Him instead of the world. His commandments contain a lot of detailed instructions for what to do and not do in order to love God and love one another.  He provided the high level summary but also the detailed instructions on “how to”. We must pay attention to both.

2 John 1:6

6And this is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, just as you have heard from the beginning, that you should walk in it.

1 John 5:2-3

2By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and observe His commandments. 3For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome.

1 Samuel 15:22

22Samuel said,
“Has the LORD as much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices
As in obeying the voice of the LORD?
Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice,
And to heed than the fat of rams.

John 15:14 [Jesus speaking]

14“You are My friends if you do what I command you.

Avoid the trap of just remembering the high level summary, “love God and love one another”. It is a great framework, but we must understand how to love God and how to love one another…. God’s way rather than man’s way. Seek Him, study the scriptures, pray for His help to fill you with the Spirit and guide you… and obey His commands as a way to show love to Him.  Don’t pick and choose which you will obey because some you find uncomfortable or will be mocked by the world. Obey all and do so joyfully.

One last consideration I bring today, is that loving God the way He calls us to can and will bring you internal peace and joy, but it also brings conflict and strife if you split your loyalty between God and man.

Matthew 10:32-39

     32“Therefore everyone who confesses Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is in heaven. 33“But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father who is in heaven.

      34“Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35“For I came to SET A MAN AGAINST HIS FATHER, AND A DAUGHTER AGAINST HER MOTHER, AND A DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AGAINST HER MOTHER-IN-LAW; 36and A MANS ENEMIES WILL BE THE MEMBERS OF HIS HOUSEHOLD.

37“He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38“And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39“He who has found his life will lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake will find it.

We must serve Him and Him alone. We can not divide our loyalties between Jehovah and our family members who may yet reject Him. Just as we can not serve God and wealth, we can not serve both God and man, even the people related to us by “blood”.

Matthew 6:24

    24“No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.

Click the following link to read the second article in this series, What Is Love? How Do We Love Our Neighbor As Ourselves?

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