Elihu’s Silent Wisdom: Patiently Awaiting His Turn (Job 32)

Ever been in a conversation where tensions rise, opinions clash, and voices grow louder… and you feel unable to withhold your thoughts and truly listen to others?

In Job 32, Elihu stands as a model of patience, silently observing the discourse between Job and his friends. His restraint speaks volumes, reminding us of the wisdom found in measured words and attentive listening.

Reconnect: In the unfolding saga of Job’s suffering and the ensuing debate with his friends, Elihu emerges as a new voice, adding depth and dimension to the conversation. His introduction comes at a critical juncture, offering insight and wisdom that challenges the prevailing discourse while emphasizing the significance of speaking up in the face of uncertainty.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Job 32

Elihu in Anger Rebukes Job

      1Then these three men ceased answering Job, because he was righteous in his own eyes. 2But the anger of Elihu the son of Barachel the Buzite, of the family of Ram burned; against Job his anger burned because he justified himself before God. 3And his anger burned against his three friends because they had found no answer, and yet had condemned Job. 4Now Elihu had waited to speak to Job because they were years older than he. 5And when Elihu saw that there was no answer in the mouth of the three men his anger burned.

      6So Elihu the son of Barachel the Buzite spoke out and said,
“I am young in years and you are old;
Therefore I was shy and afraid to tell you what I think.

      7“I thought age should speak,
And increased years should teach wisdom.

      8“But it is a spirit in man,
And the breath of the Almighty gives them understanding.

      9“The abundant in years may not be wise,
Nor may elders understand justice.

      10“So I say, ‘Listen to me,
I too will tell what I think.’

      11“Behold, I waited for your words,
I listened to your reasonings,
While you pondered what to say.

      12“I even paid close attention to you;
Indeed, there was no one who refuted Job,
Not one of you who answered his words.

      13“Do not say,
‘We have found wisdom;
God will rout him, not man.’

      14“For he has not arranged his words against me,
Nor will I reply to him with your arguments.

      15“They are dismayed, they no longer answer;
Words have failed them.

      16“Shall I wait, because they do not speak,
Because they stop and no longer answer?

      17“I too will answer my share,
I also will tell my opinion.

      18“For I am full of words;
The spirit within me constrains me.

      19“Behold, my belly is like unvented wine,
Like new wineskins it is about to burst.

      20“Let me speak that I may get relief;
Let me open my lips and answer.

      21“Let me now be partial to no one,
Nor flatter any man.

      22“For I do not know how to flatter,
Else my Maker would soon take me away.

Summary Key Points:

  1. Elihu’s Patient Restraint (Job 32:1-5): Elihu, a younger observer in the debate, has remained silent as Job and his friends exchange arguments. Despite his youth, he has listened attentively, showing restraint and humility in refraining from speaking prematurely.
  2. Elihu’s Compelled Response (Job 32:6-10): Feeling a growing urgency and a sense of conviction, Elihu breaks his silence, explaining that age alone does not guarantee wisdom. Instead, true wisdom comes from a spirit attuned to God’s guidance, a truth Elihu emphasizes as he prepares to share his insights.
  3. Elihu’s Honest Appraisal (Job 32:11-22): Elihu candidly acknowledges his inner turmoil and the pressure he feels to speak out. He explains that he cannot remain silent any longer, compelled by a sense of duty to address the issues at hand. His words are driven by a desire for truth and a commitment to honoring God above all else.

Call to Action:

As we reflect on the introduction of Elihu in Job 32, let us consider the following:

  1. Practice Patient Listening: Like Elihu, let us cultivate the discipline of patient listening, recognizing the value of restraint in conversations where emotions run high. By listening attentively, we create space for understanding and empathy to flourish.
  2. Speak with Conviction: When compelled by truth and guided by wisdom, let us not hesitate to speak out with courage and conviction. Like Elihu, may we recognize the importance of sharing our insights respectfully and honestly, even when it challenges prevailing perspectives.
  3. Seek Divine Guidance: In moments of uncertainty and doubt, let us turn to God for guidance and clarity. Through prayer and reflection, may we discern His voice amidst the noise of conflicting opinions, trusting in His wisdom to illuminate our path forward.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, grant us the wisdom to discern truth, the patience to listen attentively, and the courage to speak with conviction when compelled by Your Spirit. Guide our words and actions, that we may honor You in all we do. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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