What does it mean to live a life of noble character?
Proverbs 31 gives us a portrait of a person who embodies wisdom, strength, and service—a model for all of us as we seek to honor God in our daily lives.
Key Verse: “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)
Background Context: Proverbs 31 is well-known for its description of the “virtuous woman” or “woman of noble character,” but its wisdom applies to both men and women who seek to live lives that reflect God’s wisdom and character. This final chapter of Proverbs serves as a culmination of the themes throughout the book—calling us to embrace wisdom, live with integrity, and seek God in all that we do. It begins with advice from King Lemuel’s mother about the qualities of a righteous leader and then shifts to the portrayal of the woman of noble character, who is industrious, wise, compassionate, and deeply rooted in the fear of the Lord.
(Summarized and continued after scripture)
The Words of Lemuel
1The words of King Lemuel, the oracle which his mother taught him:
2What, O my son?
And what, O son of my womb?
And what, O son of my vows?
3Do not give your strength to women,
Or your ways to that which destroys kings.
4It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
It is not for kings to drink wine,
Or for rulers to desire strong drink,
5For they will drink and forget what is decreed,
And pervert the rights of all the afflicted.
6Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to him whose life is bitter.
7Let him drink and forget his poverty
And remember his trouble no more.
8Open your mouth for the mute,
For the rights of all the unfortunate.
9Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.
Description of a Worthy Woman
10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.
11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.
12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.
14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.
15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.
16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.
18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.
19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.
20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.
25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.
26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:
29“Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all.”
30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.
Reflection on Proverbs 31:
- A Life of Noble Character: The woman described in Proverbs 31 is praised for her noble character, which is demonstrated through her actions, integrity, and wisdom (Proverbs 31:10). The idea of “noble character” encompasses not just moral uprightness but also diligence, kindness, and strength. It reminds us that true worth is not found in external achievements or appearances but in living a life that reflects God’s values. For men and women alike, noble character means embodying the qualities of wisdom, integrity, and service to others.
- Diligence and Hard Work: The woman in Proverbs 31 is described as diligent in all she does, whether managing her household, providing for her family, or engaging in business (Proverbs 31:13-19). She rises early, works with her hands, and ensures that her family and household are well cared for. This teaches us the value of hard work and dedication in our everyday tasks. Whether in our homes, workplaces, or communities, we are called to work faithfully and responsibly, knowing that our efforts honor God.
- Compassion and Generosity: In addition to her industriousness, the woman of noble character is also compassionate and generous. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy (Proverbs 31:20). This reflects the heart of God, who cares for the vulnerable and calls us to do the same. True wisdom is not just about personal success; it’s about using what we have to bless others and meet the needs of those around us.
- Strength and Dignity: Proverbs 31:25 says, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” This strength is not just physical but spiritual and emotional. It comes from trusting in God and knowing that He is in control. The ability to “laugh at the days to come” shows a confidence in God’s provision and protection. For us, this means cultivating an inner strength that comes from faith, allowing us to face the future without fear or anxiety.
- Wisdom and Kindness: The woman in Proverbs 31 speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue (Proverbs 31:26). Her words are marked by kindness, showing that true wisdom is not harsh or judgmental but compassionate and thoughtful. This challenges us to consider how we speak and interact with others. Are our words filled with wisdom and kindness, or do they tear others down?
- The Fear of the Lord: The most important quality of the woman described in Proverbs 31 is her fear of the Lord (Proverbs 31:30). This reverence for God is the foundation of her character and the source of her wisdom. Charm and beauty may fade, but a life rooted in the fear of the Lord endures. For all of us, the fear of the Lord—respect, awe, and obedience to God—is the key to living a life that honors Him and blesses others.
Summary Key Points:
- Noble Character: True worth and beauty come from living a life of integrity, wisdom, and service to others. Noble character reflects God’s heart and values.
- Diligence and Hard Work: Like the woman in Proverbs 31, we are called to work diligently in whatever tasks God has placed before us, doing everything for His glory.
- Compassion and Generosity: True wisdom is not selfish but extends compassion and generosity to those in need. We honor God by caring for the vulnerable.
- Strength and Confidence in God: We can face the future with strength and dignity, trusting in God’s provision and protection, allowing us to live without fear.
- Wisdom and Kindness in Speech: Our words should reflect the wisdom and kindness of God, building others up and offering faithful instruction.
- The Fear of the Lord: A life that honors God is rooted in the fear of the Lord. This reverence for God is the foundation of true wisdom and noble character.
Application: Consider how you can cultivate noble character in your own life. Are you approaching your work, your relationships, and your daily responsibilities with diligence and integrity? Reflect on how you can show compassion and generosity to those in need around you. Think about the words you speak—are they filled with wisdom and kindness? Finally, ask yourself if your life is rooted in the fear of the Lord. Are you living with a reverence for God that shapes your actions, decisions, and relationships? Take time to pray and ask God to strengthen your character so that it reflects His heart.
Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the example of noble character in Proverbs 31. Help us to live with integrity, wisdom, and compassion, serving others faithfully and trusting in Your provision. Teach us to work diligently in all we do and to extend generosity to those in need. Fill our hearts with reverence for You, and may our words be marked by wisdom and kindness. We seek to honor You in every area of our lives, knowing that true beauty and worth come from living in obedience to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.
John Golda
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