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Not of the World, But One in Christ (John 17:20–26)

True unity with God and with fellow believers is found in relationship with Yeshua, not in conformity to the world.

Key Verse:
“I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.” —John 17:20–21 NASB

Background Context:
John 17 records the High Priestly Prayer of Yeshua before His arrest. Having prayed for His disciples, He now turns to all future believers. His request is not for ease or acceptance by the world, but for deep spiritual unity—unity with Him and with the Father. This spiritual oneness would also bind His people together, making them distinct from the world that rejects Him.

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John 17:20-26

    20“I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; 21that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.

Their Future Glory

      22“The glory which You have given Me I have given to them, that they may be one, just as We are one; 23I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity, so that the world may know that You sent Me, and loved them, even as You have loved Me. 24“Father, I desire that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I am, so that they may see My glory which You have given Me, for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.

      25“O righteous Father, although the world has not known You, yet I have known You; and these have known that You sent Me; 26and I have made Your name known to them, and will make it known, so that the love with which You loved Me may be in them, and I in them.”

Reflection on John 17:20–26:
Yeshua’s prayer highlights the kind of unity that matters: believers joined to Him as branches to the vine (John 15), and thus joined to the Father as well. This is not unity at any cost, nor a call to blend with the world. In fact, throughout John’s Gospel, Yeshua makes clear that His people are not of the world (John 17:14–16). The unity He prays for is supernatural—believers abiding in Him, sharing in His glory, and being filled with the love the Father has for the Son.

Notice the pattern:

  • The Father is in the Son.

  • The Son is in the Father.

  • Believers are drawn into this oneness through the Son.

It is this unity—God’s own life shared with His people—that causes the world to recognize something different. Not because we look like the world, but because we are set apart in Him. The church’s credibility, then, is not in chasing worldly approval but in visibly living out this oneness with Christ.

Application:
Ask yourself: Am I abiding in Christ daily, seeking oneness with Him above all else? Unity with other believers flows from first being united with the Son and the Father. We are not called to be “in step” with the world, but to walk in the love and truth of God. If you want to show your love for God, obey His Word, remain in His Son, and reflect His glory. That kind of unity will speak louder than any worldly compromise.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for drawing me into the oneness You share with Your Son. Keep me abiding in Christ, rooted in Your truth and Your love. Help me to live in such close unity with You that it overflows into unity with my brothers and sisters, set apart from the world yet shining as a testimony of Your glory. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Holy / Set Apart, Interceding for Others, Learning To Pray Effectively, Purposeful / Intentional

In the World, but Not of It (John 17:6-19)

Yeshua prays not that we escape the world, but that we be kept faithful in it.

Key Verse:
“Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth.” —John 17:17 NASB

Background Context:
After praying for Himself, Yeshua turns to His disciples. He affirms that they belong to the Father, who gave them to the Son, and that they have received and believed His word. Yeshua prays for their protection, unity, and joy—not for the world, but specifically for those who follow Him. Knowing He is leaving, He asks the Father to keep them in His name, guard them from the evil one, and sanctify them by the truth of God’s Word. This prayer sets apart the disciples for their mission in the world, just as Yeshua was sent into the world.

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John 17:6-19

  6“I have manifested Your name to the men whom You gave Me out of the world; they were Yours and You gave them to Me, and they have kept Your word. 7“Now they have come to know that everything You have given Me is from You; 8for the words which You gave Me I have given to them; and they received them and truly understood that I came forth from You, and they believed that You sent Me. 9“I ask on their behalf; I do not ask on behalf of the world, but of those whom You have given Me; for they are Yours; 10and all things that are Mine are Yours, and Yours are Mine; and I have been glorified in them. 11“I am no longer in the world; and yet they themselves are in the world, and I come to You. Holy Father, keep them in Your name, the name which You have given Me, that they may be one even as We are. 12“While I was with them, I was keeping them in Your name which You have given Me; and I guarded them and not one of them perished but the son of perdition, so that the Scripture would be fulfilled.

The Disciples in the World

      13“But now I come to You; and these things I speak in the world so that they may have My joy made full in themselves. 14“I have given them Your word; and the world has hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 15“I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one. 16“They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 17“Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth. 18“As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world. 19“For their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they themselves also may be sanctified in truth.

Reflection on John 17:6–19:
This prayer reveals the depth of Yeshua’s care for His disciples. He does not ask the Father to take them out of the world but to keep them safe in the world. Their calling, like His, is to live set apart in truth while still among people who reject God.

The emphasis on unity (“that they may be one as We are one”) shows that the strength of God’s people comes not from numbers or worldly power but from being united in Him. Division weakens witness, but unity magnifies the truth of who God is.

The heart of the prayer is sanctification. To be sanctified is to be set apart for God’s purposes, cleansed and shaped by His truth. Yeshua makes it clear: truth is not found in shifting opinions or traditions of men—it is found in God’s Word. As He was sent into the world, so His disciples are sent, equipped by the truth and guarded by the Father.

Application:
As followers of Yeshua, we are called to live in the world but not be of it. Let His Word sanctify you—shape your thoughts, decisions, and character. Pray for unity with other believers, recognizing that it reflects the very unity of the Father and Son. And remember that Yeshua Himself prayed for your protection and joy, so that you could fulfill the mission He has given.

Closing Prayer:
Lord Yeshua, thank You for praying for Your disciples—and for me, as I follow in their steps. Keep me in Your name and protect me from the evil one. Sanctify me through Your truth, and let Your Word shape every part of my life. Help me to live faithfully in this world while reflecting the unity and love of the Father and Son. In Your name I pray, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Father / Yahweh, Jesus Christ / Yeshua, Learning To Pray Effectively, Purposeful / Intentional

Glorify the Father (John 17:1-5)

Yeshua prays not that we escape the world, but that we be kept faithful in it.

True glory is found in fulfilling the Father’s will.

Key Verse:
“This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” —John 17:3 NASB

Background Context:
John 17 records Yeshua’s prayer to the Father just before His arrest and crucifixion. These are intimate, final words spoken aloud for His disciples to hear. In verses 1–5, Yeshua begins by asking the Father to glorify Him so that He may glorify the Father. His mission is clear: to grant eternal life to those given to Him by the Father. Eternal life is not merely about living forever—it is about knowing the Father and the Son. Yeshua closes this section by pointing to His obedience, having finished the work He was sent to do, and by asking to return to the glory He shared with the Father before the world began.

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John 17:1-5

The High Priestly Prayer

      1Jesus spoke these things; and lifting up His eyes to heaven, He said, “Father, the hour has come; glorify Your Son, that the Son may glorify You, 2even as You gave Him authority over all flesh, that to all whom You have given Him, He may give eternal life. 3“This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. 4“I glorified You on the earth, having accomplished the work which You have given Me to do. 5“Now, Father, glorify Me together with Yourself, with the glory which I had with You before the world was.

Reflection on John 17:1–5:
Here we glimpse the heart of Yeshua’s mission. Glory, for Him, was not about earthly recognition but about fulfilling the Father’s plan—even through the cross. His request for glorification points directly to the suffering He would endure, through which the Father’s love and salvation would be revealed.

Eternal life is redefined here as relationship: knowing the Father and the Son. This knowledge is not intellectual alone—it is intimate, personal, and transforming. Yeshua makes it clear that the purpose of His mission is not only to rescue but to reconcile people into fellowship with God.

We also see Yeshua’s divine nature affirmed. He speaks of the glory He had with the Father before creation, showing that He is eternal and one with God. His prayer points us to the reality that salvation is anchored in the eternal purposes of God, not in temporary human effort.

Application:
Eternal life begins now—not just in the future—through knowing God and His Son. Make your relationship with Him the center of your life. Like Yeshua, seek to glorify the Father not in empty words but in completing the work He gives you. And let your hope rest in the eternal glory of Christ, who was with the Father before the world began and who will bring His people into that glory.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for sending Yeshua to give eternal life. Help me to live in a way that glorifies You, just as He did. Teach me to treasure eternal life as knowing You and walking closely with Your Son. Keep me faithful in the work You have given me, and remind me that my true hope is in the eternal glory of Christ. In His name I pray, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Guide, Learning To Pray Effectively, Seeking God, Thankfulness

Providence at the Well (Genesis 24:1-27)

When you ask God for guidance, do you expect Him to answer?

Key Verse:
“And he said, ‘Blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken His lovingkindness and His truth toward my master; as for me, the Lord has guided me in the way to the house of my master’s brothers.’” —Genesis 24:27 NASB

Background Context:
As Abraham grew old, he sent his chief servant on a sacred mission: to find a wife for Isaac from among his relatives, not from the Canaanites. The servant set out in faith, praying that God would give him a clear sign at the well. Before he finished praying, Rebekah appeared, fulfilling his exact request by offering water for him and his camels. Immediately, the servant praised God for His faithfulness and guidance.

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Genesis 24 (1-27)

A Bride for Isaac

      1Now Abraham was old, advanced in age; and the LORD had blessed Abraham in every way. 2Abraham said to his servant, the oldest of his household, who had charge of all that he owned, “Please place your hand under my thigh, 3and I will make you swear by the LORD, the God of heaven and the God of earth, that you shall not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I live, 4but you will go to my country and to my relatives, and take a wife for my son Isaac.” 5The servant said to him, “Suppose the woman is not willing to follow me to this land; should I take your son back to the land from where you came?” 6Then Abraham said to him, “Beware that you do not take my son back there! 7“The LORD, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and from the land of my birth, and who spoke to me and who swore to me, saying, ‘To your descendants I will give this land,’ He will send His angel before you, and you will take a wife for my son from there. 8“But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this my oath; only do not take my son back there.” 9So the servant placed his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master, and swore to him concerning this matter.

      10Then the servant took ten camels from the camels of his master, and set out with a variety of good things of his master’s in his hand; and he arose and went to Mesopotamia, to the city of Nahor. 11He made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at evening time, the time when women go out to draw water. 12He said, “O LORD, the God of my master Abraham, please grant me success today, and show lovingkindness to my master Abraham. 13“Behold, I am standing by the spring, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water; 14now may it be that the girl to whom I say, ‘Please let down your jar so that I may drink,’ and who answers, ‘Drink, and I will water your camels also’—may she be the one whom You have appointed for Your servant Isaac; and by this I will know that You have shown lovingkindness to my master.”

Rebekah Is Chosen

      15Before he had finished speaking, behold, Rebekah who was born to Bethuel the son of Milcah, the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor, came out with her jar on her shoulder. 16The girl was very beautiful, a virgin, and no man had had relations with her; and she went down to the spring and filled her jar and came up. 17Then the servant ran to meet her, and said, “Please let me drink a little water from your jar.” 18She said, “Drink, my lord”; and she quickly lowered her jar to her hand, and gave him a drink. 19Now when she had finished giving him a drink, she said, “I will draw also for your camels until they have finished drinking.” 20So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, and ran back to the well to draw, and she drew for all his camels. 21Meanwhile, the man was gazing at her in silence, to know whether the LORD had made his journey successful or not.

      22When the camels had finished drinking, the man took a gold ring weighing a half-shekel and two bracelets for her wrists weighing ten shekels in gold, 23and said, “Whose daughter are you? Please tell me, is there room for us to lodge in your father’s house?” 24She said to him, “I am the daughter of Bethuel, the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor.” 25Again she said to him, “We have plenty of both straw and feed, and room to lodge in.” 26Then the man bowed low and worshiped the LORD. 27He said, “Blessed be the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken His lovingkindness and His truth toward my master; as for me, the LORD has guided me in the way to the house of my master’s brothers.”

Reflection on Genesis 24:1–27:
This passage shines a spotlight on God’s providence and the power of prayer. Abraham trusted God to provide a wife for Isaac, and his servant demonstrated the same trust by praying for specific guidance. Notice how detailed his request was—he asked not only for water but also for the woman to offer water to his camels, a sign of kindness and generosity. And God answered immediately, before he had even finished speaking.

The servant’s response is just as important: he stopped to worship and thank God on the spot. He didn’t chalk it up to coincidence or his own cleverness—he recognized the Lord’s hand at work and gave Him glory.

Application:
Like Abraham’s servant, we can bring our needs and decisions to God in prayer, asking for His guidance. But we should also pray with expectation, believing that God will answer in His time and way. When He does, let’s be quick to give Him thanks and praise. Guidance in life is not about luck or chance—it is about walking with the God who faithfully leads His people.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for being a God who guides and answers prayer. Help me to trust You with my decisions and to pray with faith, believing that You hear me. Teach me to recognize Your hand at work and to give You praise for Your faithfulness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Creative, Guide, Hebrew Roots / Commands / Law, Learning To Pray Effectively, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Psalms

The Heavens Declare, the Law Restores (Psalm 19)

Key Verse:
“Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.” —Psalm 19:14 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 19 is a psalm of David, overflowing with praise for God’s revelation. The first half (vv.1–6) celebrates God’s glory revealed in creation—day and night proclaim His handiwork. The second half (vv.7–11) turns to God’s law, declaring it perfect, trustworthy, and life-giving. The psalm closes (vv.12–14) with a prayer of humility, asking God to forgive hidden faults and keep His servant from sin, ending with praise to God as both Rock and Redeemer.

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Psalm 19

1The heavens are telling of the glory of God;
            And their expanse is declaring the work of His hands.

      2Day to day pours forth speech,
And night to night reveals knowledge.

      3There is no speech, nor are there words;
Their voice is not heard.

      4Their line has gone out through all the earth,
And their utterances to the end of the world.
In them He has placed a tent for the sun,

      5Which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber;
It rejoices as a strong man to run his course.

      6Its rising is from one end of the heavens,
And its circuit to the other end of them;
And there is nothing hidden from its heat.

      7The law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul;
The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.

      8The precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart;            The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the   eyes.

      9The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever;
The judgments of the LORD are true; they are righteous altogether.

      10They are more desirable than gold, yes, than much fine gold;
Sweeter also than honey and the drippings of the honeycomb.

      11Moreover, by them Your servant is warned;
In keeping them there is great reward.

      12Who can discern his errors? Acquit me of hidden faults.

      13Also keep back Your servant from presumptuous sins;
Let them not rule over me;
Then I will be blameless,
And I shall be acquitted of great transgression.

      14Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart
Be acceptable in Your sight,
O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.

Reflection on Psalm 19:
David begins by pointing to creation as an unceasing witness of God’s glory. The sun, moon, and stars silently testify to His power and majesty—so much so that rejecting their message leaves humanity without excuse (Romans 1:20). How tragic that many are blinded into believing creation is random chance, when it so clearly proclaims a Creator!

Then David shifts to God’s law. Far from being harsh or meaningless, he calls it perfect, restoring, sure, right, pure, clean, true, and righteous. The law is more precious than gold and sweeter than honey. It brings wisdom, joy, and warning, leading to great reward for those who obey. This stands in sharp contrast to the way many view the law today—as a burden or bondage. But Jesus did not abolish the law; He fulfilled it (Matthew 5:17). He bore the penalty for our failure to keep it perfectly, redeeming us from sin’s judgment, not from the law’s goodness.

Finally, David acknowledges his need for God’s mercy. The law helps reveal hidden faults, but only God can acquit him. He praises the Lord as his Rock—unchanging, steadfast—and his Redeemer, pointing us ultimately to Christ, who fulfilled the law and offers forgiveness through His sacrifice.

Application:
Take time to marvel at creation, letting it stir awe for its Creator. Then go deeper—delight in God’s Word, trusting His commandments as life-giving, not burdensome. Finally, imitate David’s humility: confess hidden sins, ask God for help in overcoming temptation, and rejoice that in Christ you have a Redeemer. His Word and His world both point you to His glory.

Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You that the heavens declare Your glory and Your Word reveals Your truth. Help me to see Your law as perfect, life-giving, and sweet. Forgive me for hidden faults, and keep me from sin that would rule over me. Thank You for being my Rock who never changes, and my Redeemer who saves me through Jesus Christ. Amen.

For more about what the law means today, refer to our teaching Understanding The Law – What Does It Mean For Us Today?

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Bitterness / Resentment, Envy / Jealousy / Coveting, Hope, Learning To Pray Effectively, Loving / Kind, Seeking God

God Hears the Cry of the Outcast (Genesis 21:8-21)

Have you ever felt pushed aside, forgotten, or left without hope?

Key Verse:
“God heard the voice of the boy, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, ‘What troubles you, Hagar? Fear not, for God has heard the voice of the boy where he is.’” —Genesis 21:17 ESV

Background Context:
In Genesis 21:8–21, the tension in Abraham’s family comes to a head. After Isaac is weaned, Sarah sees Ishmael mocking and demands that Hagar and her son be sent away. Though Abraham is distressed, God tells him to listen to Sarah, affirming that Isaac is the promised heir. Hagar and Ishmael are sent into the wilderness, and when their water runs out, Hagar despairs. Yet God hears Ishmael’s cry, provides water, and renews His promise to make him a great nation.

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Genesis 21:8-21

     8The child grew and was weaned, and Abraham made a great feast on the day that Isaac was weaned.


Sarah Turns against Hagar

      9Now Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, mocking. 10Therefore she said to Abraham, “Drive out this maid and her son, for the son of this maid shall not be an heir with my son Isaac.” 11The matter distressed Abraham greatly because of his son. 12But God said to Abraham, “Do not be distressed because of the lad and your maid; whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her, for through Isaac your descendants shall be named. 13“And of the son of the maid I will make a nation also, because he is your descendant.” 14So Abraham rose early in the morning and took bread and a skin of water and gave them to Hagar, putting them on her shoulder, and gave her the boy, and sent her away. And she departed and wandered about in the wilderness of Beersheba.

      15When the water in the skin was used up, she left the boy under one of the bushes. 16Then she went and sat down opposite him, about a bowshot away, for she said, “Do not let me see the boy die.” And she sat opposite him, and lifted up her voice and wept. 17God heard the lad crying; and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, “What is the matter with you, Hagar? Do not fear, for God has heard the voice of the lad where he is. 18“Arise, lift up the lad, and hold him by the hand, for I will make a great nation of him.” 19Then God opened her eyes and she saw a well of water; and she went and filled the skin with water and gave the lad a drink.

      20God was with the lad, and he grew; and he lived in the wilderness and became an archer. 21He lived in the wilderness of Paran, and his mother took a wife for him from the land of Egypt.

Reflection on Genesis 21:8–21:
This passage is a powerful reminder that God sees and hears the outcast. Though Ishmael was not the child of the covenant, he was not forgotten. God met him and his mother in their deepest moment of despair. The wilderness that looked like the end became the place where God revealed His compassion and provision.

For us, it is a comfort to know that God does not ignore the brokenhearted. Even when we feel abandoned, overlooked, or cast aside, He hears our cries and meets us where we are. His provision may not come as we expect, but it will always come right on time.

Application:
If you are walking through a season of loneliness, rejection, or hardship, remember that God hears your cry. No one is invisible to Him. Just as He opened Hagar’s eyes to see the well, He can open your eyes to His provision and care. Trust that even in the wilderness, God is near and faithful.

Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You that You see me even when I feel unseen. Help me to trust Your compassion and provision in the wilderness seasons of life. Open my eyes to the wells of Your grace that sustain me day by day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Learning To Pray Effectively, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Psalms, Thankfulness

Every Good Thing Comes from You (Psalm 16)

True security and lasting joy are found only in God’s presence.

Key Verse:
“You will make known to me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy; in Your right hand there are pleasures forever.” —Psalm 16:11 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 16, written by David, is a psalm of trust and confidence in God. David expresses complete dependence on the Lord as his refuge, provider, and portion. He contrasts the emptiness of idolatry with the fulfillment of knowing God. This psalm also carries prophetic weight: Peter and Paul later quote it in Acts (2:25–28; 13:35), applying it to Yeshua’s resurrection—pointing to the One who would not see decay and who offers eternal life.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 16

1 Keep me safe, O God,
    for I have come to you for refuge.

2 I said to the Lord, “You are my Master!
    Every good thing I have comes from you.”
3 The godly people in the land
    are my true heroes!
    I take pleasure in them!
4 Troubles multiply for those who chase after other gods.
    I will not take part in their sacrifices of blood
    or even speak the names of their gods.

5 Lord, you alone are my inheritance, my cup of blessing.
    You guard all that is mine.
6 The land you have given me is a pleasant land.
    What a wonderful inheritance!

7 I will bless the Lord who guides me;
    even at night my heart instructs me.
8 I know the Lord is always with me.
    I will not be shaken, for he is right beside me.

9 No wonder my heart is glad, and I rejoice.
    My body rests in safety.
10 For you will not leave my soul among the dead
    or allow your holy one to rot in the grave.
11 You will show me the way of life,
    granting me the joy of your presence
    and the pleasures of living with you forever.

Reflection on Psalm 16:
David begins with a simple yet profound request: “Preserve me, O God, for I take refuge in You.” His security isn’t in his position or strength but in God alone. He declares: “I have no good besides You.” That’s a bold statement—reminding us that everything truly good in our lives flows from Him.

David celebrates God as his portion and inheritance. While others chase after idols that only bring sorrow, David rests in the joy and security of God’s presence. This confidence carries into eternity: David foresees that God will not abandon him to death. Ultimately, this points to Yeshua, whose resurrection secured the promise of eternal life for all who believe.

The psalm closes with one of the most beautiful verses in Scripture: “In Your presence is fullness of joy.” It’s a reminder that real joy isn’t found in circumstances, but in nearness to the living God—both now and forever.

Application:
Where do you look for security, joy, or fulfillment? Is it in achievements, possessions, or relationships—or in God Himself? Psalm 16 invites you to rest in the One who is your true portion.

If you’ve been chasing after lesser things, return to the Lord as your refuge. In His presence is fullness of joy—joy that no situation can take away.

Closing Prayer:
Lord, thank You for being my refuge, my portion, and my joy. Teach me to rest in You alone for my security and fulfillment. Help me to turn away from the empty pursuits of this world and find lasting joy in Your presence. In Yeshua’s name, amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Learning To Pray Effectively, Seeking God, Submitted / Servant

Is God Ignoring My Prayers?

Sometimes Yahweh may be answering our prayers and we don’t even know it. Perhaps His answer is “no” or “not right now”. However, if we feel like He is not answering us, we should also prayerfully reflect on whether or not we are in right relationship with Him. The problem, if there is one, is with us…not with Him. It is important that we turn the lordship of our lives over the Yahweh. We need to die to self and increase in Him.

John 3:30

30“He must increase, but I must decrease.

What are some situations in which the LORD will not hear our prayers? Keep in mind, this is not simply speaking about those who outright rebel against Him, but rather to those who claim to follow Him. Also note, this is not comprehensive, not even close. I encourage you to study more on your own to learn more about what may stand between you and the LORD.

The LORD hears the prayers of the righteous, but is far from the wicked, or sinners.

 31“We know that God does not hear sinners; but if anyone is God-fearing and does His will, He hears him. (John 9:31)

29The LORD is far from the wicked, but He hears the prayer of the righteous. (Proverbs 15:29)

   2But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden His face from you so that He does not hear. (Isaiah 59:2)

12“FOR THE EYES OF THE LORD ARE TOWARD THE RIGHTEOUS, aND HIS EARS ATTEND TO THEIR PRAYER, bUT THE FACE OF THE LORD IS AGAINST THOSE WHO DO EVIL.”(1 Peter 3:12).

Related to the one above, the LORD does not hear the prayers of one who turns away from the law, the teachings of God. This is actually the standard by which we can judge what is sin and what is not.

9He who turns away his ear from listening to the law, even his prayer is an abomination. (Proverbs 28:9)

Again the next one is related to the ones above, but a different emphasis that helps to drive additional clarity. We must choose to fear, or in this context, respect, the LORD as we would a father who has authority over us. When we reject the LORD and choose to go our own way, He will let us and we will face the consequences. However, do not assume that if we choose to go our own way, that He will then “bail us out” by answering our prayers when things go wrong.

24 “Because I called and you refused,  I stretched out my hand and no one paid attention;  25and you neglected all my counsel and did not want my reproof; 26I will also laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your dread comes, 27When your dread comes like a storm and your calamity comes like a whirlwind, when distress and anguish come upon you. 28“Then they will call on me, but I will not answer; they will seek me diligently but they will not find me, 29Because they hated knowledge and did not choose the fear of the LORD. 30“They would not accept my counsel, they spurned all my reproof. 31“So they shall eat of the fruit of their own way and be satiated with their own devices. (Prov 1:24-31)

Specific sins are called out for emphasis at times also:

7You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. (1 Peter 3:7)

Sometimes people make empty prayers, for show before man more than based in humility and reverence before our Father.

 46“Beware of the scribes, who like to walk around in long robes, and love respectful greetings in the market places, and chief seats in the synagogues and places of honor at banquets, 47who devour widows’ houses, and for appearance’s sake offer long prayers. These will receive greater condemnation.” (Luke 20:46-47).

  5“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. 6“But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you. 7“And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. 8“So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.  (Matthew 6:5-8)

Sometimes people may pray with words, but their heart is far from submitted to the lordship of the Father.

  13Then the Lord said, “Because this people draw near with their words and honor Me with their lip service, but they remove their hearts far from Me, and their reverence for Me consists of tradition learned by rote, (Isaiah 29:13).

9And He also told this parable to some people who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and viewed others with contempt: 10“Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11“The Pharisee stood and was praying this to himself: ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12‘I fast twice a week; I pay tithes of all that I get.’ 13“But the tax collector, standing some distance away, was even unwilling to lift up his eyes to heaven, but was beating his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, the sinner!’ 14“I tell you, this man went to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.” (Luke 18:9-14 )    

Do not ask, not believing that He can answer.

 6But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. 7For that man ought not to expect that he will receive anything from the Lord, 8being a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways. (James 1:6-8)

Reconcile with your brother (in Christ) before coming before the LORD. Seeking forgiveness from others is important when we have done them wrong.

23“Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering. (Matthew 5:23)

These are just a few examples. I encourage you to seek out more and perhaps even add them to the comment trail on this article. When there is a problem in our prayer life with the Father, it is important to remember that the problem lies with us, not with Him. The first and best approach is to fully embrace and submit to Him, asking forgiveness and guidance.

For more, read Learning to Pray Effectively.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, please forgive me for my sins. Help me to repent and turn to Your ways. Please draw me near to You and help me to be in right relationship with You so that You would hear my prayers and answer. When You answer “no” or “not now”, please help me to understand and stand strong in my faith and relationship with You. Amen. 

Devotion by John in service to Christ

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Learning To Pray Effectively

The Heart of Effective Prayer

God has a lot to say about prayer in the Bible. It is a very important two-way communication between God and His people. He wants to hear from us and wants us to hear from Him. God also wants us to selflessly pray for others, not just for ourselves.

Prayer is a topic that can and should be studied at great length by every believer. This teaching is longer than most that we provide. As such you may expect to go through it thoughtfully will take more than just a few minutes. Take it in pieces and come back to it if that helps but get started even if you can’t finish it all at once.

For the purposes of this teaching as a starting point to lead you toward righteous prayer we highlight several scriptures regarding prayer but will only break down into greater detail the teaching of Jesus, Himself, regarding prayer in Matthew 6:5-14. It was in this way that Jesus began teaching His disciples how to pray.

To learn more about prayer, you can review our devotions on prayer by selecting the Category “Prayer” or consider other resources such as those recommended on our site at “Study the Word: Books and Other Study Tools“.

1 Timothy 2:1-8

1First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, 2for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. 3This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, 4who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6who gave Himself as a ransom for all, the testimony given at the proper time. 7For this I was appointed a preacher and an apostle (I am telling the truth, I am not lying) as a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth.

8Therefore I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and dissension.

Ephesians 6:18-20

18With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints, 19and pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, 20for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.

Philippians 4:4-7

4Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! 5Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. 6Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Matthew 5:23

23“Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.

Matthew 26:36-46

36Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to His disciples, “Sit here while I go over there and pray.” 37And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be grieved and distressed. 38Then He said to them, “My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and keep watch with Me.”

39And He went a little beyond them, and fell on His face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will.” 40And He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “So, you men could not keep watch with Me for one hour? 41“Keep watching and praying that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

42He went away again a second time and prayed, saying, “My Father, if this cannot pass away unless I drink it, Your will be done.” 43Again He came and found them sleeping, for their eyes were heavy. 44And He left them again, and went away and prayed a third time, saying the same thing once more. 45Then He came to the disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Behold, the hour is at hand and the Son of Man is being betrayed into the hands of sinners. 46“Get up, let us be going; behold, the one who betrays Me is at hand!”

Matthew 6:5-14

5“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. 6“But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.

7“And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. 8“So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

9“Pray, then, in this way:
‘Our Father who is in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.

10‘Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.

11‘Give us this day our daily bread.

12‘And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.

13‘And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil. [For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’]

14“For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15“But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.

Please do not skip over verses 5-8. While these are not included in what we commonly refer to as “The Lord’s Prayer” or “The Our Father”, they are critical points in teaching common mistakes that what we should not be doing. Do not pray for attention before men, but rather pray in secret for relationship with God. Do not use meaningless repetition… including just empty recitation of the prayer that Jesus shares in verses 9-13! This prayer is not a formula of specific words that must be recited, but rather an outline to help you focus your prayer in relating to God. It is meaningless to just memorize and repeat the words without truly dwelling on what they mean and how to relate to our God!

To explore this further, we will explore how to apply this outline for prayer with greater depth, so we draw near to God rather than repeat memorized words. (I am grateful to those who shared with me what I now share with you as I find it a very good application of the Lord’s Prayer.)

“Our Father who is in heaven,”

Respect and honor who God is. Take a few moments and be still before God. Contemplate the character of God:

  • The Great I Am
  • Creator of All
  • All Knowing (omniscient)
  • All Powerful (omnipotent)
  • Present In All Places At All Times (omnipresent)
  • Unchanging (immutable)
  • Eternal (without beginning or end)
  • Incapable of Making a Mistake (flawless)
  • Without limit or boundaries (infinite)
  • Holy (worthy of devotion as one perfect in goodness)
  • Just (behaving according to what is morally right and fair)
  • The Beginning and the End (Alpha and Omega)

In Ephesians 1:18-19 Paul prays “…that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe.”

Reflect on the greatness of God’s power toward you as:

  • God the Father: Father, Provider, Shelter, Protector
  • God the Son: Righteousness, Holiness, Peace, Truth
  • God the Holy Spirit: Comforter, Counselor, Teacher, Guide

“Hallowed be Your name.”

God’s name is to be separated from the world. To do this, we must separate from the world and focus on God. Focus on the Old Testament names for God.

Consider, also, focusing on God through a worship song.

“Your kingdom come.”

God’s kingdom is where He has total rule and authority. It is a kingdom of righteousness based in free will. His servants choose willingly or even enthusiastically to obey Him.

This scripture represents submission to God to rule and control your life. You are asking God to make your character to transform to be more like His character to make the fruit you bear more like the fruit of Jesus’ life and ministry.

We must first pray “my kingdom go” before we can truly pray for God’s kingdom to come. Pray for God to take control of these areas of your life; release them into His hands.

  • My family
  • My future
  • My job
  • My finances
  • My ministry
  • My thought life

Write in your prayer journal any areas you feel like God is directing you to pray for specifically.

God’s character should be reflected in our character.

  • Compassionate
  • Gracious
  • Humble
  • Pure (in body and mind)
  • Merciful
  • Giving (in time and resources)
  • Slow to anger / Patient
  • Filled with love
  • Truthful
  • Forgiving
  • Kind
  • Faithful (to God)
  • Wise
  • Servant’s heart
  • Disciplined (self control)
  • Joyful
  • Holy (set apart from sin; set apart for God’s purpose)
  • Just (e.g. justice)

Periodically (e.g. once a week) pick one of God’s characteristics, starting with your weakest, and study its meaning completely including study of application in scriptures. This activity will renew your mind in that area and, in turn, transform your character to be more like God and our Lord Jesus Christ. After completing the list, start over again.

“Your will be done, On earth as it is in heaven.”

This should be our personal acknowledgment of God’s will to be done in our lives in His timing and His way. Ask God what His will is for decisions that you need to make this week or later this year and then listen and wait for His answer.

Proverbs 3:5-7 guides us to”Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and turn away from evil.”

Write in your journal decisions you have to make and answers from God. Expect Him to answer, and then test the answer you hear against the scripture to ensure you are hearing from God and not from your own sin nature or from Satan.

God’s answer may not come during prayer time. It may come later that day or even the next couple days. Often His answer is not what we expect.

Pray for upcoming events as you write them in your journal. They may include things such as government (federal, state, local), schools, Christian leaders or ministry / church staff, missionaries, pastors, and of course events personal to your own life or that of your family and friends.

Pray for God’s will to be done for any individuals or groups for whom you are responsible or for individual people for whom God puts on your heart a desire to pray.

Consider writing down a prayer strategy in your journal and refer back to it periodically.

“Give us this day our daily bread.”

At this point, ask God to provide for your needs (e.g. home, family, finances, church, ministry, friends, etc.)

The body needs food to live, but the spirit also needs food to live. Jesus is our food because He is the Word. Ask Him to speak a word to your spirit. Consider reading a devotional from a book and/or a few verses from the Bible. Write down what stands out to you. Meditate on it and write in your journal an action plan for applying it to your life as you feel led by the spirit. (Meditation in the Christian walk is not emptying the mind and seeking nothingness as in some other faiths, but rather actively using our God-given minds to think about and apply the written word of God in our lives.)

“And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”

This was so important to Jesus, that He came back to it in verses Matthew 6:14-15.

14“For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15“But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.

Examine your heart and be completely honest with what you find because your Father knows anyway. Confess these things to God and ask forgiveness. Then turn from them and sin no more. Ask the Holy Spirit to convict you and reveal any sins you are unaware of at this time. Confess these sins to God and again ask forgiveness, turn from them and sin no more.

If there is a particular sin that keeps recurring, create an action plan to address it. The plan should include prayer, focused Bible study, and possibly additional resources or partnering with an accountability partner with whom you can share your struggle honestly.

Pray that God would forgive, bless and be good to the people who you believe have mistreated you. The only way God will continue to forgive us is if we continue to forgive others. Hold no bitterness or resentment in your heart. Purge from your heart any desire for revenge.

“And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil.”

Ask God for protection. Ask Him to show you any snares of the enemy so that you might not be caught in them. This is where you must ponder your footsteps and consider where you are going or by whom something is coming. Write in your journal anything new that is coming into your life or anything that is already in your life that you do not have a peace about. Now, ask God if this is from Him or from the enemy or from our own internal sin nature. Test each situation against the word of God revealed in scripture. If something does not line up with the word, do not do it. If it lines up with the word, but you still can not get peace about it, seek advice from a mentor. Godly counsel can be very helpful.

“[For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’]”

Acknowledge God and all of His attributes. Realize that God is on the throne and He is in charge. Everything is under His control. Let this truth comfort you.

Thank God for being with you during your prayer time and thank Him that He will be with you all day, because He will… our Father loves us!

Praying meaningfully through the Lord’s prayer can easily grow to take thirty minutes or more. Do not try to rush it! If you do not have as much time, pick some of the areas to focus on in each part of the prayer and then rotate which areas you focus on from day to day. Whatever you do, please heed Jesus’ advice:

5“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. 6“But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.

7“And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. 8“So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

To study more teachings about effective prayer, review our category of teachings about Learning to Pray Effectively.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Jesus Christ, be with you.

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Crying Out to the Lord (Psalm 142)

Where do you turn when you feel completely alone?

Psalm 142 is a raw and honest prayer of desperation. David, hiding in a cave, cries out to God, acknowledging his distress and isolation. Yet, even in the darkest moments, he places his trust in the Lord. This psalm reminds us that no matter how abandoned or overwhelmed we feel, God hears and rescues those who call on Him.

Key Verse:
“I cried out to You, Lord; I said, ‘You are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living.’” – Psalm 142:5 (NASB)

Background Context:
David wrote this psalm while hiding in a cave, likely during the time King Saul was pursuing him. He was physically alone, hunted, and uncertain of his future. Yet, rather than relying on his own strength, he poured out his heart to God. This psalm teaches us that in times of distress, our greatest refuge is found in the Lord.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 142

Prayer for Help in Trouble.

Maskil of David, when he was in the cave. A Prayer.

     1I cry aloud with my voice to the LORD;
I make supplication with my voice to the LORD.

      2I pour out my complaint before Him;
I declare my trouble before Him.

      3When my spirit was overwhelmed within me,
You knew my path.
In the way where I walk
They have hidden a trap for me.

      4Look to the right and see;
For there is no one who regards me;
There is no escape for me;
No one cares for my soul.

      5I cried out to You, O LORD;
I said, “You are my refuge,
My portion in the land of the living.

      6“Give heed to my cry,
For I am brought very low;
Deliver me from my persecutors,
For they are too strong for me.

      7“Bring my soul out of prison,
So that I may give thanks to Your name;
The righteous will surround me,
For You will deal bountifully with me.”

Reflection on Psalm 142:

  • Honest Prayer in Desperation:
    David does not hide his emotions—he cries out, pours out his complaint, and declares his trouble before the Lord (Psalm 142:1-2). God invites us to be honest with Him, bringing our burdens before Him. Do you take your troubles to God first, or do you try to carry them alone?

  • Feeling Alone and Overwhelmed:
    David laments that no one cares for him, that he has no refuge (Psalm 142:4). Sometimes, we may feel forgotten or abandoned by others, but God never leaves us. Have you ever felt alone, yet found comfort in God’s presence?

  • God Is Our Refuge:
    Despite his despair, David proclaims that God is his portion and refuge (Psalm 142:5). When all else fails, God remains constant. Are you relying on Him as your ultimate source of strength?

  • A Plea for Deliverance:
    David asks God to rescue him from his enemies and bring him out of his prison (Psalm 142:6-7). He trusts that one day he will praise God with the righteous. Even when we don’t see immediate answers, God is working on our behalf. Are you trusting in His deliverance?

Summary Key Points:

  • Bring your struggles to God: He listens to your cries and welcomes your honesty.
  • Even when you feel alone, God is with you: Others may fail you, but God never will.
  • God is our true refuge: He is our security and hope in times of trouble.
  • Trust in His deliverance: No matter how dark it seems, God will bring you through.

Application:
Take time today to pour out your heart before God. Whether you feel overwhelmed, alone, or burdened, trust that He hears you. Let Him be your refuge and your strength, and wait in faith for His deliverance.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I come to You with my burdens, knowing that You are my refuge and my portion. In moments of loneliness and despair, remind me that You are always near. Help me trust in Your deliverance, and let my life be a testimony of Your faithfulness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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