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Job’s Cry for Empathy and Comfort (Job 16)

Have you ever faced overwhelming suffering and longed for empathy, comfort, and compassion from your friends?

In Job 16, we join Job in his deep distress, seeking understanding and solace in the midst of his trials.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters (Job 14-15), Job and his friends engage in a series of dialogues. Job passionately expresses his longing for empathy, comfort, and compassion, while his friends continue to offer explanations for his suffering based on their limited understanding.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Job 16

Job Says Friends Are Sorry Comforters

      1Then Job answered,

      2“I have heard many such things;
Sorry comforters are you all.

      3“Is there no limit to windy words?
Or what plagues you that you answer?

      4“I too could speak like you,
If I were in your place.
I could compose words against you
And shake my head at you.

      5“I could strengthen you with my mouth,
And the solace of my lips could lessen your pain.

Job Says God Shattered Him

6“If I speak, my pain is not lessened,
And if I hold back, what has left me?

      7“But now He has exhausted me;
You have laid waste all my company.

      8“You have shriveled me up,
It has become a witness;
And my leanness rises up against me,
It testifies to my face.

      9“His anger has torn me and hunted me down,
He has gnashed at me with His teeth;
My adversary glares at me.

      10“They have gaped at me with their mouth,
They have slapped me on the cheek with contempt;
They have massed themselves against me.

      11“God hands me over to ruffians
And tosses me into the hands of the wicked.

      12“I was at ease, but He shattered me,
And He has grasped me by the neck and shaken me to pieces;
He has also set me up as His target.

      13“His arrows surround me.
Without mercy He splits my kidneys open;
He pours out my gall on the ground.

      14“He breaks through me with breach after breach;
He runs at me like a warrior.

      15“I have sewed sackcloth over my skin
And thrust my horn in the dust.

      16“My face is flushed from weeping,
And deep darkness is on my eyelids,

      17Although there is no violence in my hands,
And my prayer is pure.

      18“O earth, do not cover my blood,
And let there be no resting place for my cry.

      19“Even now, behold, my witness is in heaven,
And my advocate is on high.

      20“My friends are my scoffers;
My eye weeps to God.

      21“O that a man might plead with God
As a man with his neighbor!

      22“For when a few years are past,
I shall go the way of no return.

Summary Key Points:

  1. Job’s Suffering Intensifies: By the time we reach Job 16, we find Job’s suffering has intensified. He’s been grappling with the loss of his wealth, health, and family, and he longs for relief. Job’s friends, rather than offering comfort, have added to his pain by assuming he’s suffering because of hidden sins.
  2. Job’s Frustration with His Friends: Job becomes increasingly frustrated with his friends’ accusations and lack of empathy. He feels their words are like empty proverbs and unhelpful comfort, adding to his misery.
  3. Job’s Reliance on God: Despite his suffering and frustration, Job does not give up on God. He continues to look to the Almighty as his witness and advocate, believing that even in his suffering, there is a deeper purpose.

As we reflect on Job’s desperate cry for empathy and comfort from his friends, may we recognize the importance of being compassionate when comforting those who suffer.

Let us seek to be understanding and solace-givers at times rather than just problem-solvers.

In our discussions and reflections, consider how you can provide comfort and compassion to those facing trials.

Engage in conversations with friends or family members, sharing your thoughts on the significance of empathy in times of suffering.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Navigating Judgments and Assumptions in Times of Need (Job 15)

Have you ever found yourself grappling with judgments and assumptions while seeking comfort in difficult times? Perhaps you have found yourself making judgments and assumptions while seeking to comfort others?

Delve into Job 15 with me as we navigate through the complexities of offering solace and the unintended impact of misguided words during trials.

Enter into this journey from both the perspective of the one seeking comfort and the friend trying to help.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture.)

Job 15

Eliphaz Says Job Presumes Much

      1Then Eliphaz the Temanite responded,

      2“Should a wise man answer with windy knowledge
And fill himself with the east wind?

      3“Should he argue with useless talk,
Or with words which are not profitable?

      4“Indeed, you do away with reverence
And hinder meditation before God.

      5“For your guilt teaches your mouth,
And you choose the language of the crafty.

      6“Your own mouth condemns you, and not I;
And your own lips testify against you.

      7“Were you the first man to be born,
Or were you brought forth before the hills?

      8“Do you hear the secret counsel of God,
And limit wisdom to yourself?

      9“What do you know that we do not know?
What do you understand that we do not?

      10“Both the gray-haired and the aged are among us,
Older than your father.

      11“Are the consolations of God too small for you,
Even the word spoken gently with you?

      12“Why does your heart carry you away?
And why do your eyes flash,

      13That you should turn your spirit against God
And allow such words to go out of your mouth?

      14“What is man, that he should be pure,
Or he who is born of a woman, that he should be righteous?

      15“Behold, He puts no trust in His holy ones,
And the heavens are not pure in His sight;

      16How much less one who is detestable and corrupt,
Man, who drinks iniquity like water!

What Eliphaz Has Seen of Life

17“I will tell you, listen to me;
And what I have seen I will also declare;

      18What wise men have told,
And have not concealed from their fathers,

      19To whom alone the land was given,
And no alien passed among them.

      20“The wicked man writhes in pain all his days,
And numbered are the years stored up for the ruthless.

      21“Sounds of terror are in his ears;
While at peace the destroyer comes upon him.

      22“He does not believe that he will return from darkness,
And he is destined for the sword.

      23“He wanders about for food, saying, ‘Where is it?’
He knows that a day of darkness is at hand.

      24“Distress and anguish terrify him,
They overpower him like a king ready for the attack,

      25Because he has stretched out his hand against God
And conducts himself arrogantly against the Almighty.

      26“He rushes headlong at Him
With his massive shield.

      27“For he has covered his face with his fat
And made his thighs heavy with flesh.

      28“He has lived in desolate cities,
In houses no one would inhabit,
Which are destined to become ruins.

      29“He will not become rich, nor will his wealth endure;
And his grain will not bend down to the ground.

      30“He will not escape from darkness;
The flame will wither his shoots,
And by the breath of His mouth he will go away.

      31“Let him not trust in emptiness, deceiving himself;
For emptiness will be his reward.

      32“It will be accomplished before his time,
And his palm branch will not be green.

      33“He will drop off his unripe grape like the vine,
And will cast off his flower like the olive tree.

      34“For the company of the godless is barren,
And fire consumes the tents of the corrupt.

      35“They conceive mischief and bring forth iniquity,
And their mind prepares deception.”

Summary of Key Points (including some context from other related chapters):

  1. Eliphaz’s Intensifying Judgments: In Job 15, Eliphaz amplifies his judgments, convinced that Job’s suffering must be a consequence of hidden sin. Explore the escalating tension as Job contends with these assumptions, shedding light on the challenges of offering support.
  2. The Struggle of Defending Righteousness: Job passionately defends his righteousness, exposing the internal turmoil faced by those unjustly accused. Uncover the poignant struggle of maintaining integrity in the face of unwarranted judgments.
  3. The Impactful Nature of Words: Despite Eliphaz’s good intentions, his words fail to provide the solace Job seeks. Witness the profound impact that well-intentioned yet misguided judgments can have, emphasizing the need for empathetic communication.
  4. Job’s Desperation and Unyielding Resolve: Job, burdened by relentless accusations, expresses both desperation and unwavering resolve. Journey with him as he clings to his innocence and seeks a fair hearing before God in the midst of overwhelming judgments.

Reflect on moments when you’ve felt judged or misunderstood during challenging times.

Engage in meaningful conversations with friends or family, fostering an atmosphere of empathy and understanding.

Share your experiences and encourage others to offer support without making assumptions.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Work Ethic, Community, and Discernment (2 Thessalonians 3:6-18)

Embark on a journey through 2 Thessalonians 3:6-18, where the apostle Paul delves into the realms of work ethic, community dynamics, and the importance of discernment.

Join us as we explore the timeless wisdom encapsulated in these verses, offering insights into maintaining a diligent work ethic, fostering a harmonious Christian community, and discerning the spirit behind every action.

(Continued and summarized after scripture.)

2 Thessalonians 3:6-18

6Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you keep away from every brother who leads an unruly life and not according to the tradition which you received from us. 7For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example, because we did not act in an undisciplined manner among you, 8nor did we eat anyone’s bread without paying for it, but with labor and hardship we kept working night and day so that we would not be a burden to any of you; 9not because we do not have the right to this, but in order to offer ourselves as a model for you, so that you would follow our example. 10For even when we were with you, we used to give you this order: if anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either. 11For we hear that some among you are leading an undisciplined life, doing no work at all, but acting like busybodies. 12Now such persons we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ to work in quiet fashion and eat their own bread. 13But as for you, brethren, do not grow weary of doing good.

14If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of that person and do not associate with him, so that he will be put to shame. 15Yet do not regard him as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.

16Now may the Lord of peace Himself continually grant you peace in every circumstance. The Lord be with you all!

17I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand, and this is a distinguishing mark in every letter; this is the way I write. 18The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. Maintaining a Diligent Work Ethic: 2 Thessalonians 3:6-18 begins with Paul’s exhortation for believers to maintain a diligent work ethic. Reflect on the significance of contributing to your own support through hard work and the transformative impact it has on personal character and the community. Consider the powerful instruction in verse 10, “if anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either.”
  2. Fostering a Harmonious Christian Community: Delve into Paul’s teachings on community dynamics, emphasizing the importance of living in harmony with fellow believers. Reflect on the transformative power of mutual support, shared responsibilities, and the collective effort to maintain a peaceful and flourishing Christian community. This works when truly fueled by Christian believers who are minding the work ethic mentioned above. It fails when people refuse to work but still take support from others.
  3. Discerning the Spirit Behind Actions: Paul addresses the need for discernment in evaluating the actions of individuals within the community. Uncover the wisdom behind discerning the spirit behind every action, fostering a community environment where genuine faith and dedication thrive. Why we do something is important… not just what we do.

Let’s reflect on the lessons about work ethic, community dynamics, and discernment.

How do these principles resonate with your own journey of faith and community life?

Share your insights in the comments and initiate conversations with friends or family, fostering a collective exploration of the wisdom woven into these verses.

Join us, and let’s together uncover the enduring truths that guide us in our Christian walk.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Strengthening Bonds of Faith Amidst Trials (1 Thessalonians 3)

Join us in the heartening journey through 1 Thessalonians 3, where the apostle Paul shares profound insights on fortifying the bonds of faith during times of trial. As we explore this chapter, discover the enduring themes of encouragement, steadfastness, and the transformative power of mutual support in the face of life’s challenges.

In 1 Thessalonians 2, Paul expressed deep love for the Thessalonian believers. He had a strong desire to revisit them but shares that Satan hindered his plans.

However, in Chapter 3, we witness Paul’s unwavering commitment as he sends Timothy in his place. This selfless act showcases Paul’s dedication to staying connected with those he shared the gospel with. Instead of keeping Timothy by his side, Paul prioritizes the well-being of others over his own, setting a powerful example of putting the needs of fellow believers first. It’s a beautiful illustration of believers collaborating to achieve what one, even someone as influential as Paul, cannot achieve alone.

(Continued and summarized after the scripture.)

1 Thessalonians 3

Encouragement of Timothy’s Visit

      1Therefore when we could endure it no longer, we thought it best to be left behind at Athens alone, 2and we sent Timothy, our brother and God’s fellow worker in the gospel of Christ, to strengthen and encourage you as to your faith, 3so that no one would be disturbed by these afflictions; for you yourselves know that we have been destined for this. 4For indeed when we were with you, we kept telling you in advance that we were going to suffer affliction; and so it came to pass, as you know. 5For this reason, when I could endure it no longer, I also sent to find out about your faith, for fear that the tempter might have tempted you, and our labor would be in vain.

      6But now that Timothy has come to us from you, and has brought us good news of your faith and love, and that you always think kindly of us, longing to see us just as we also long to see you, 7for this reason, brethren, in all our distress and affliction we were comforted about you through your faith; 8for now we really live, if you stand firm in the Lord. 9For what thanks can we render to God for you in return for all the joy with which we rejoice before our God on your account, 10as we night and day keep praying most earnestly that we may see your face, and may complete what is lacking in your faith?

      11Now may our God and Father Himself and Jesus our Lord direct our way to you; 12and may the Lord cause you to increase and abound in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you; 13so that He may establish your hearts without blame in holiness before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all His saints.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. Paul’s Concern for the Thessalonians: In 1 Thessalonians 3, Paul expresses deep concern for the faith of the Thessalonian believers amidst the trials they are facing. His desire to strengthen and encourage them becomes a central theme of this chapter.
  2. Sending Timothy as a Source of Encouragement: To provide support and strengthen the Thessalonians’ faith, Paul sends Timothy to them. The chapter unfolds as a testament to the significance of sending encouraging figures during challenging seasons, highlighting the impact of such gestures on the body of believers.
  3. Enduring Trials with Steadfastness: Paul acknowledges the reality of trials and afflictions but emphasizes the importance of enduring them with steadfastness and faith. The chapter inspires reflection on the transformative power of resilience and trust in God during difficult times.
  4. The Joy of Mutual Encouragement: Both Paul and the Thessalonians find joy in the mutual encouragement they receive. This reciprocal relationship underscores the communal nature of faith and the strength that emerges when believers support each other through trials.
  5. Fervent Prayers for Spiritual Growth: Verses 11-13 highlight Paul’s fervent prayers for the Thessalonians, expressing his earnest desire to see them again and to contribute to their spiritual growth. This underscores the importance of intercessory prayer within the faith community, recognizing the role it plays in sustaining and nurturing believers through various seasons of life.

As we immerse ourselves in the timeless wisdom of 1 Thessalonians 3, let’s reflect on the role of encouragement, steadfastness, mutual support, and fervent prayers in our own faith journeys.

How can we strengthen the bonds of faith within our communities during times of trial?

Share your thoughts on the transformative power of mutual support and the joy found in encouraging one another.

1 Thessalonians 3 calls us to be sources of strength and encouragement, fostering a community where faith thrives even amidst life’s challenges.

Join the conversation, and let’s explore together the enduring lessons woven into this chapter.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John


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To Live Is Christ And To Die Is Gain

Paul set an incredible example for us to consider and follow. His faith was such that even facing death, he was not afraid. He was absolutely confident in life after death with and through Yeshua. He knew that when he would die, he would be with his Lord and Savior and this is good. He also knew that to live still allowed him to help others to know and follow Yeshua.

Philippians 1:21-30

To Live Is Christ

     21For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 22But if I am to live on in the flesh, this will mean fruitful labor for me; and I do not know which to choose. 23But I am hard-pressed from both directions, having the desire to depart and be with Christ, for that is very much better; 24yet to remain on in the flesh is more necessary for your sake. 25Convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you all for your progress and joy in the faith, 26so that your proud confidence in me may abound in Christ Jesus through my coming to you again.

      27Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I will hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel; 28in no way alarmed by your opponents—which is a sign of destruction for them, but of salvation for you, and that too, from God. 29For to you it has been granted for Christ’s sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, 30experiencing the same conflict which you saw in me, and now hear to be in me.

Paul was facing execution and suffering. He was not contemplating suicide. That is important to note for some who may take this message out of context. Murder, even of one’s self is wrong.

Join me in praying for the body of Christ, believers everywhere, that they would truly be strong in faith and know that they will go to the Lord after they die. Pray also for others who do not know Yeshua but think they do… that they would not fool themselves and grow complacent simply because they use His name and go to church. Pray that they would truly come to know Yeshua in a genuine relationship based on repentance and forgiveness and love.

Pray for the body of Christ also that they would conduct themselves worthy of the gospel of Christ as Paul encouraged the church at Philippi… standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel, not alarmed by those who oppose Yeshua. Pray that the Spirit would help believers in suffering to stand firm, as Christ did.

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Jesus’ Righteous Indignation: Lessons from His Anger

Scripture identifies a few examples where Jesus actually gets angry. I think it is good to pause and consider what it was that makes Him angry. Thus we can learn something from it and apply it in our lives to live in obedience to Him.

In Mark 3, Jesus goes into a synagogue on Sabbath and finds a man with a withered hand.  Here, in the place intended to help connect man with God,  the religious leaders are more interested to “catch” Jesus doing something they think is wrong than they are to see one of their people healed. This is the definition of being hard-hearted and selfish instead of gracious and kind and focused on others.

Mark 3:1-6

Jesus Heals on the Sabbath

      1He entered again into a synagogue; and a man was there whose hand was withered. 2They were watching Him to see if He would heal him on the Sabbath, so that they might accuse Him. 3He said to the man with the withered hand, “Get up and come forward!” 4And He said to them, “Is it lawful to do good or to do harm on the Sabbath, to save a life or to kill?” But they kept silent. 5After looking around at them with anger, grieved at their hardness of heart, He said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored. 6The Pharisees went out and immediately began conspiring with the Herodians against Him, as to how they might destroy Him.

Jesus was clearly grieved and angry for the hardness of their hearts. I am a proponent of recognizing and observing Sabbath consistent with what God has commanded in scripture. However, the Pharisees demonstrate that they have missed the point. They would rather leave someone in need of healing and play “gotcha” around rules with Jesus to plot to destroy Him than see one of their people healed and recognize the power of God right in front of them!

They already knew Jesus had the power to heal… they were watching for it… and yet all they could think about was if they could trap Jesus in their perception of Him breaking a rule! They were selfishly protecting their own power and authority and completely overlooking God’s miraculous power.

Yes, we are to obey God’s instructions in scripture. However, in our efforts to honor and obey God, whether for to Sabbath or other commands, let us not miss the greater point in helping others and demonstrating God’s love and compassion to them. Yes, we are to hold teachers accountable for properly teaching truth of scripture, but we need not focus so hard on trying to catch them doing something wrong that we miss the glory of God right among us!

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Living in Grace: Bearing Burdens and Restoring Souls

Paul concludes his letter to the Galatians in chapter 6. The context of the letter is primarily a rebuke to the Galatians who are letting themselves be influenced by others to lean towards legalism as a means of salvation. Legalism refers to the wrong teaching that perfectly obeying the law is the way to salvation rather than submission to Christ and accepting His sacrifice on our behalf.

There is some good advice in the closing chapter.

  • Look to restore those who trespass or sin with gentleness. We need not reject them, unless they refuse to repent.
  • Help one another in bearing each others burdens. Let not the believers be divided to deal with sin alone.
  • Let us not boast in others for their relationship with Christ. Let us focus on our own, while helping others with theirs.
  • Support those who share the truth of the gospel.
  • What we sow, whether righteousness or wickedness, so shall we reap. Seek to sow from the Spirit.
  • Let us treat all with respect and care, but especially fellow believers.
  • Keep a right view of the law… obeying the law is the fruit of our salvation (the result of it) and not the root of our salvation (the way we get it). Remember also, that “law” translates simply the concept of “instruction” and not specifically law as we think of it today.
  • Let us seek to walk in spirit with Christ, praying for Him to be with us and our fellow believers.

Galatians 6

Bear One Another’s Burdens

     1Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted. 2Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ. 3For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4But each one must examine his own work, and then he will have reason for boasting in regard to himself alone, and not in regard to another. 5For each one will bear his own load.

      6The one who is taught the word is to share all good things with the one who teaches him. 7Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap. 8For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. 9Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. 10So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.

      11See with what large letters I am writing to you with my own hand. 12Those who desire to make a good showing in the flesh try to compel you to be circumcised, simply so that they will not be persecuted for the cross of Christ. 13For those who are circumcised do not even keep the Law themselves, but they desire to have you circumcised so that they may boast in your flesh. 14But may it never be that I would boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world. 15For neither is circumcision anything, nor uncircumcision, but a new creation. 16And those who will walk by this rule, peace and mercy be upon them, and upon the Israel of God.

      17From now on let no one cause trouble for me, for I bear on my body the brand-marks of Jesus.

      18The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit, brethren. Amen.

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.