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Remembering Better Days: Job’s Reflection on Past Blessings (Job 29)

Have you ever found yourself reminiscing about better days, longing for the joys and blessings of the past?

In Job 29, we encounter Job’s poignant reflection on the prosperity and favor he once enjoyed.

Join us as we journey through this chapter and explore Job’s heartfelt recollection of better times and the lessons it offers us today.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of Job, we witnessed Job’s anguished lamentations and his contentious exchanges with his friends, who accuse him of wrongdoing. However, in Job 29, we encounter a shift in tone as Job reflects on the blessings and honor he once experienced.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Job 29

Job’s Past Was Glorious

      1And Job again took up his discourse and said,

      2“Oh that I were as in months gone by,
As in the days when God watched over me;

      3When His lamp shone over my head,
And by His light I walked through darkness;

      4As I was in the prime of my days,
When the friendship of God was over my tent;

      5When the Almighty was yet with me,
And my children were around me;

      6When my steps were bathed in butter,
And the rock poured out for me streams of oil!

      7“When I went out to the gate of the city,
When I took my seat in the square,

      8The young men saw me and hid themselves,
And the old men arose and stood.

      9“The princes stopped talking
And put their hands on their mouths;

      10The voice of the nobles was hushed,
And their tongue stuck to their palate.

      11“For when the ear heard, it called me blessed,
And when the eye saw, it gave witness of me,

      12Because I delivered the poor who cried for help,
And the orphan who had no helper.

      13“The blessing of the one ready to perish came upon me,
And I made the widow’s heart sing for joy.

      14“I put on righteousness, and it clothed me;
My justice was like a robe and a turban.

      15“I was eyes to the blind
And feet to the lame.

      16“I was a father to the needy,
And I investigated the case which I did not know.

      17“I broke the jaws of the wicked
And snatched the prey from his teeth.

      18“Then I thought, ‘I shall die in my nest,
And I shall multiply my days as the sand.

      19‘My root is spread out to the waters,
And dew lies all night on my branch.

      20‘My glory is ever new with me,
And my bow is renewed in my hand.’

      21“To me they listened and waited,
And kept silent for my counsel.

      22“After my words they did not speak again,
And my speech dropped on them.

      23“They waited for me as for the rain,
And opened their mouth as for the spring rain.

      24“I smiled on them when they did not believe,
And the light of my face they did not cast down.

      25“I chose a way for them and sat as chief,
And dwelt as a king among the troops,
As one who comforted the mourners.

Summary Key Points:

  1. The Glorious Past (Job 29:1-10): Job begins by reminiscing about the days when God’s favor shone brightly upon him. He recalls the respect and admiration he received from his community, describing how he was esteemed as a leader and a source of counsel and comfort for the needy. Job fondly remembers the prosperity and security he enjoyed, feeling as though God’s lamp shone upon his head and guided his steps through the darkness.
  2. A Life of Compassion and Justice (Job 29:11-17): Job continues his reflection by recounting the acts of compassion and justice he performed during his days of prosperity. He describes how he championed the cause of the oppressed and defended the rights of the vulnerable, earning him the praise and gratitude of those he helped. Job attributes his ability to administer justice to God’s guidance and blessing upon his life.
  3. Honored and Respected (Job 29:18-25): In the final section of the chapter, Job reflects on the honor and respect he received from his peers and elders. He describes how his wisdom and counsel were sought after by leaders and dignitaries, and how he was regarded as a father to the needy and an advocate for the marginalized. Despite his current afflictions, Job longs for the restoration of his former glory and the return of God’s favor upon his life.

Call to Action:

As we ponder Job’s reflection on past blessings in Job 29, let’s consider how we can apply its lessons to our own lives:

  1. Gratitude for God’s Blessings: Take time to reflect on the blessings and favor God has bestowed upon you in the past. Cultivate a heart of gratitude for His provision, protection, and guidance throughout your life’s journey.
  2. Compassion and Justice: Follow Job’s example of compassion and justice by advocating for the oppressed and defending the rights of the vulnerable in your community. Seek opportunities to extend a helping hand to those in need and to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.
  3. Seeking Restoration: Like Job, trust in God’s faithfulness and goodness, even in the midst of trials and adversity. Pray for restoration and renewal in areas of your life where you have experienced loss or suffering, trusting that God is able to turn your mourning into dancing and your sorrow into joy.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank you for the lessons we learn from Job’s reflection on past blessings in Job 29. Help us to cultivate hearts of gratitude for your provision and guidance in our lives. Empower us to be agents of compassion and justice in our communities, advocating for the oppressed and defending the rights of the vulnerable. Grant us faith to trust in your faithfulness and goodness, even in the midst of trials and adversity. May we always find our hope and restoration in you. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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When Friends Offer Troubling Advice (Job 22)

Have you ever experienced the frustration of receiving well-intentioned advice that seems far from the mark?

In life’s most challenging moments, we often turn to friends for support and guidance, but sometimes their counsel can miss the mark entirely. Job faced similar experiences, especially in the dialogue found in Job 22.

Let’s explore the lessons we can learn from Job’s encounters with his friends.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of the Book of Job, we witness Job’s ongoing suffering and his friends’ attempts to explain it as a result of his sins, reflecting the idea that suffering is always a consequence of personal sin. In contrast, Job stands emphatically behind his innocence, challenging this simplistic view of suffering as divine punishment for personal wrongdoing.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Job 22

Eliphaz Accuses and Exhorts Job

      1Then Eliphaz the Temanite responded,

      2“Can a vigorous man be of use to God,
Or a wise man be useful to himself?

      3“Is there any pleasure to the Almighty if you are righteous,
Or profit if you make your ways perfect?

      4“Is it because of your reverence that He reproves you,
That He enters into judgment against you?

      5“Is not your wickedness great,
And your iniquities without end?

      6“For you have taken pledges of your brothers without cause,
And stripped men naked.

      7“To the weary you have given no water to drink,
And from the hungry you have withheld bread.

      8“But the earth belongs to the mighty man,
And the honorable man dwells in it.

      9“You have sent widows away empty,
And the strength of the orphans has been crushed.

      10“Therefore snares surround you,
And sudden dread terrifies you,

      11Or darkness, so that you cannot see,
And an abundance of water covers you.

      12“Is not God in the height of heaven?
Look also at the distant stars, how high they are!

      13“You say, ‘What does God know?
Can He judge through the thick darkness?

      14‘Clouds are a hiding place for Him, so that He cannot see;
And He walks on the vault of heaven.’

      15“Will you keep to the ancient path
Which wicked men have trod,

      16Who were snatched away before their time,
Whose foundations were washed away by a river?

      17“They said to God, ‘Depart from us!’
And ‘What can the Almighty do to them?’

      18“Yet He filled their houses with good things;
But the counsel of the wicked is far from me.

      19“The righteous see and are glad,
And the innocent mock them,

      20Saying, ‘Truly our adversaries are cut off,
And their abundance the fire has consumed.’

      21“Yield now and be at peace with Him;
Thereby good will come to you.

      22“Please receive instruction from His mouth
And establish His words in your heart.

      23“If you return to the Almighty, you will be restored;
If you remove unrighteousness far from your tent,

      24And place your gold in the dust,
And the gold of Ophir among the stones of the brooks,

      25Then the Almighty will be your gold
And choice silver to you.

      26“For then you will delight in the Almighty
And lift up your face to God.

      27“You will pray to Him, and He will hear you;
And you will pay your vows.

      28“You will also decree a thing, and it will be established for you;
And light will shine on your ways.

      29“When you are cast down, you will speak with confidence,
And the humble person He will save.

      30“He will deliver one who is not innocent,
And he will be delivered through the cleanness of your hands.”

Summary Key Points:

  1. Eliphaz’s Accusations: In Job 22, Eliphaz, one of Job’s friends, offers a harsh rebuke to Job, accusing him of various sins. He suggests that Job’s suffering is a direct result of his wickedness, asserting that God punishes the wicked and rewards the righteous. Eliphaz’s accusations reflect a common belief that suffering is always a consequence of personal sin.
  2. Lessons in Empathy: Job’s experience with his friends reminds us of the importance of empathy and sensitivity when offering counsel to those in distress. While Eliphaz and others may have had good intentions, their failure to understand the depth of Job’s suffering and their rush to judgment illustrate the need for compassion in difficult times. They were trying to solve the problem instead of simply comforting and encouraging their friend.
  3. Seeking God’s Perspective: Job’s story prompts us to seek God’s perspective in times of suffering. Instead of jumping to conclusions or offering quick answers, we should approach the suffering of others with humility and prayer, recognizing that we may not fully comprehend God’s purposes.

Call to Action: As we reflect on Job 22, let us strive to be empathetic listeners and companions to those facing trials. Rather than making hasty judgments or providing easy explanations, let us pray for discernment and seek God’s perspective. When comforting friends in times of suffering, may we offer not only words of encouragement but also the gift of understanding and empathy.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the lessons found in the Book of Job. Help us to be compassionate and understanding friends to those in times of suffering. Grant us the wisdom to seek Your perspective and guidance when comforting others, and may our words and actions reflect Your love and grace. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Discussion Prompt: Share a personal experience where you received counsel from a well-meaning friend that missed the mark. How did it make you feel, and what did you learn from that experience? How can we apply the lessons from Job’s story to our interactions with those facing trials?

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Unity in God’s Image: Reflecting on Martin Luther King Jr.

As we pause to reflect on the life and contributions of Martin Luther King Jr. as a nation, let us also turn our attention to the guiding light of God’s word in the Bible. In today’s world, where the color of our skin often takes center stage, it’s crucial to revisit the fundamental truths of unity and equality that God’s word imparts.

1. One Human Race in God’s Image

In the face of a society that sometimes overemphasizes our differences based on skin color, the Bible presents a different perspective. It reminds us that there is only one race of humans—no distinctions based on color. We are all equal and share the divine image of God. Skin color is just one facet of the rich tapestry of God’s creation, like hair color, height, or eye color.

“Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness… God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” (Genesis 1:26-27)

2. All One in Christ Jesus

The apostle Paul underscores our unity in Christ Jesus. In God’s eyes, there is no division based on ethnicity, social status, or gender. Instead, our faith in Christ unites us, making us heirs to God’s promises.

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s descendants, heirs according to promise.” (Galatians 3:28-29)

3. The Legacy of Martin Luther King Jr.

Martin Luther King Jr.’s legacy is a testament to the pursuit of equality and unity. In his iconic 1963 speech in Washington, D.C., he invoked the principles of America’s founding documents and the teachings of Christ to champion a vision of unity, not division.

4. Progress and Peaceful Resolution

As a nation, we have made significant progress in the decades since Martin Luther King Jr.’s speech. However, today’s challenges require careful consideration. Rather than emphasizing division and conflict, we should focus on peaceful solutions that unite our great nation. Our aim should not be to create enemies but to draw closer to God, which, in turn, will bring us closer to each other, regardless of our skin color.

5. Embracing the American Dream

Martin Luther King Jr. was a firm believer in the American dream. He did not see America as a place to be torn down and rebuilt but as a nation with the potential for greatness. He inspired hope and encouraged us to envision a future where individuals are not judged by the color of their skin but by their character.

6. A Vision of Unity and Brotherhood

In his “I Have a Dream” speech, King envisioned a world where valleys are exalted, mountains made low, rough places made plain, and crooked places straight. He foresaw a day when all of God’s children would unite in brotherhood.

A Prayer for Unity

As we remember Martin Luther King Jr. and his message of unity, let us pray for our nation. May we come together as one nation under God, embracing the beautiful diversity He has created among us. Let us reject divisions based on physical differences, recognizing that we are all one, made in God’s image. In our quest for unity, may we seek God’s perspective and view one another as He does—equal, beloved, and deserving of love and respect, regardless of the color of our skin. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Navigating Judgments and Assumptions in Times of Need (Job 15)

Have you ever found yourself grappling with judgments and assumptions while seeking comfort in difficult times? Perhaps you have found yourself making judgments and assumptions while seeking to comfort others?

Delve into Job 15 with me as we navigate through the complexities of offering solace and the unintended impact of misguided words during trials.

Enter into this journey from both the perspective of the one seeking comfort and the friend trying to help.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture.)

Job 15

Eliphaz Says Job Presumes Much

      1Then Eliphaz the Temanite responded,

      2“Should a wise man answer with windy knowledge
And fill himself with the east wind?

      3“Should he argue with useless talk,
Or with words which are not profitable?

      4“Indeed, you do away with reverence
And hinder meditation before God.

      5“For your guilt teaches your mouth,
And you choose the language of the crafty.

      6“Your own mouth condemns you, and not I;
And your own lips testify against you.

      7“Were you the first man to be born,
Or were you brought forth before the hills?

      8“Do you hear the secret counsel of God,
And limit wisdom to yourself?

      9“What do you know that we do not know?
What do you understand that we do not?

      10“Both the gray-haired and the aged are among us,
Older than your father.

      11“Are the consolations of God too small for you,
Even the word spoken gently with you?

      12“Why does your heart carry you away?
And why do your eyes flash,

      13That you should turn your spirit against God
And allow such words to go out of your mouth?

      14“What is man, that he should be pure,
Or he who is born of a woman, that he should be righteous?

      15“Behold, He puts no trust in His holy ones,
And the heavens are not pure in His sight;

      16How much less one who is detestable and corrupt,
Man, who drinks iniquity like water!

What Eliphaz Has Seen of Life

17“I will tell you, listen to me;
And what I have seen I will also declare;

      18What wise men have told,
And have not concealed from their fathers,

      19To whom alone the land was given,
And no alien passed among them.

      20“The wicked man writhes in pain all his days,
And numbered are the years stored up for the ruthless.

      21“Sounds of terror are in his ears;
While at peace the destroyer comes upon him.

      22“He does not believe that he will return from darkness,
And he is destined for the sword.

      23“He wanders about for food, saying, ‘Where is it?’
He knows that a day of darkness is at hand.

      24“Distress and anguish terrify him,
They overpower him like a king ready for the attack,

      25Because he has stretched out his hand against God
And conducts himself arrogantly against the Almighty.

      26“He rushes headlong at Him
With his massive shield.

      27“For he has covered his face with his fat
And made his thighs heavy with flesh.

      28“He has lived in desolate cities,
In houses no one would inhabit,
Which are destined to become ruins.

      29“He will not become rich, nor will his wealth endure;
And his grain will not bend down to the ground.

      30“He will not escape from darkness;
The flame will wither his shoots,
And by the breath of His mouth he will go away.

      31“Let him not trust in emptiness, deceiving himself;
For emptiness will be his reward.

      32“It will be accomplished before his time,
And his palm branch will not be green.

      33“He will drop off his unripe grape like the vine,
And will cast off his flower like the olive tree.

      34“For the company of the godless is barren,
And fire consumes the tents of the corrupt.

      35“They conceive mischief and bring forth iniquity,
And their mind prepares deception.”

Summary of Key Points (including some context from other related chapters):

  1. Eliphaz’s Intensifying Judgments: In Job 15, Eliphaz amplifies his judgments, convinced that Job’s suffering must be a consequence of hidden sin. Explore the escalating tension as Job contends with these assumptions, shedding light on the challenges of offering support.
  2. The Struggle of Defending Righteousness: Job passionately defends his righteousness, exposing the internal turmoil faced by those unjustly accused. Uncover the poignant struggle of maintaining integrity in the face of unwarranted judgments.
  3. The Impactful Nature of Words: Despite Eliphaz’s good intentions, his words fail to provide the solace Job seeks. Witness the profound impact that well-intentioned yet misguided judgments can have, emphasizing the need for empathetic communication.
  4. Job’s Desperation and Unyielding Resolve: Job, burdened by relentless accusations, expresses both desperation and unwavering resolve. Journey with him as he clings to his innocence and seeks a fair hearing before God in the midst of overwhelming judgments.

Reflect on moments when you’ve felt judged or misunderstood during challenging times.

Engage in meaningful conversations with friends or family, fostering an atmosphere of empathy and understanding.

Share your experiences and encourage others to offer support without making assumptions.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Embracing Justice and Equality in Our Relationships (Colossians 4:1)

In a world where power dynamics are prevalent, whether it’s in our workplaces, homes, or communities, the message of Colossians 4:1 rings loud and clear. This powerful verse reminds us that no matter our position or authority, we are all called to treat one another with justice and fairness. Let’s pause and reflect on the wisdom of this scripture and understand how it can transform our relationships and the world around us.

Colossians 4:1

Fellow Workers

1Masters, render unto your servants that which is just and equal; knowing that ye also have a Master in heaven.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. The Call to Just Treatment: Colossians 4:1 urges those in positions of power to render to their subordinates what is just and equal. It serves as a reminder that earthly positions should never be an excuse for treating others unjustly.
  2. The Universal Master: The verse highlights the belief that we all have a Master in heaven, emphasizing our shared humanity and the importance of living in harmony and righteousness.
  3. Rejoicing in Justice: As we reflect on the just treatment we hope for from our Heavenly Master, it becomes evident that we, too, should extend the same hope and fairness to others.

Colossians 4:1 challenges us to be mindful of our actions and interactions with others, especially in situations where we hold positions of power or authority. Let’s commit to treating all individuals justly, regardless of their status or role.

Remember that we all have a Master in heaven who expects us to live by the values of justice and equality. Rejoice in the opportunity to make a positive impact on the lives of those around you by showing fairness and respect.

Share your thoughts on how you plan to embrace the wisdom of Colossians 4:1 in your daily life and relationships.

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Timeless Lessons from Psalm 39 for a Meaningful Life

Psalm 39 focuses on a few important themes we an apply to our lives today.

Life passes quickly. How we choose to spend it is important. Truly as we reflect, our natural tendency to strive for material wealth and accomplishment does not bring a harvest that is as lasting and important as we hope for.

We must cultivate mindfulness and a sense of urgency in how we live our lives. Focus on what truly matters, such as our relationships with others, acts of kindness, and positively impacting the world. Instead of getting consumed by temporary gains, we can strive to live a life of purpose and meaning, aware that our time here is limited.

Additionally, we should guard our speech. Especially, in the age of social media and digital interactions, the words we use can spread quickly and have a significant impact. Being mindful of our speech and using it to build others up rather than tear them down is a valuable lesson from Psalm 39 that can contribute to a more compassionate and understanding society.

The Vanity of Life.

For the choir director, for Jeduthun. A Psalm of David.

1I said, “I will guard my ways
That I may not sin with my tongue;
I will guard my mouth as with a muzzle
While the wicked are in my presence.”

      2I was mute and silent,
I refrained even from good,
And my sorrow grew worse.

      3My heart was hot within me,
While I was musing the fire burned;
Then I spoke with my tongue:

      4“LORD, make me to know my end
And what is the extent of my days;
Let me know how transient I am.

      5“Behold, You have made my days as handbreadths,
And my lifetime as nothing in Your sight;
Surely every man at his best is a mere breath.

Selah.

      6“Surely every man walks about as a phantom;
Surely they make an uproar for nothing;
He amasses riches and does not know who will gather them.

      7“And now, Lord, for what do I wait?
My hope is in You.

      8“Deliver me from all my transgressions;
Make me not the reproach of the foolish.

      9“I have become mute, I do not open my mouth,
Because it is You who have done it.

      10“Remove Your plague from me;
Because of the opposition of Your hand I am perishing.

      11“With reproofs You chasten a man for iniquity;
You consume as a moth what is precious to him;
Surely every man is a mere breath.

Selah.

      12“Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear to my cry;
Do not be silent at my tears;
For I am a stranger with You,
A sojourner like all my fathers.

      13“Turn Your gaze away from me, that I may smile again
Before I depart and am no more.”

Remember the brevity of life and to live with intention, mindfulness, and kindness towards others. By doing so, we can make the most of our time and leave a positive legacy behind.

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ


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Letters of Commendation

Those who follow Christ realize the significant way in which He used Paul to help launch the early church and establish writings which ultimately became a key part of the holy scriptures in the Bible. However, we can see from his writings that Paul was not without his critics… even within the early church. Perhaps this can give us pause to recognize that we too, will not be without critics if we stand openly for Christ… even within the church.

Letters of commendation served a purpose of communicating to a receiving church about a fellow brother or sister in Christ coming from another city so that they would be received. It would appear some took exception with the fact that Paul did not bring letters, but rather in 1 Corinthians actually stated the case for himself in such areas as not accepting pay, etc. in his work there. Thus he appears to have been criticized for commending himself.

Not one to be deterred or intimidated, Paul addresses it head on… and he is right. A letter may serve a purpose for someone you don’t know, but a letter is pointless for someone who has already spent much time with you and your church. The “letter of commendation” is much more truthfully and effectively written on in the lives and hearts of those being ministered to, as was the case of the Corinthian church. What purpose would a letter be for Paul in comparison to the time spent helping develop the faith of many in Corinth? Even in this response, Paul quickly redirects the glory and credit to God.

2 Corinthians 3:1-6

      1Are we beginning to commend ourselves again? Or do we need, as some, letters of commendation to you or from you? 2You are our letter, written in our hearts, known and read by all men; 3being manifested that you are a letter of Christ, cared for by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.

      4Such confidence we have through Christ toward God. 5Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, 6who also made us adequate as servants of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.

Let us consider and observe what affect we have on others around us to the end of glorifying Christ. That is a truer reflection or our impact for Christ than a fancy letter or diploma from a church or seminary. Our actions and impact on those around us means more, much more, than a piece of paper we may carry with us. So too let us take caution just “writing our own letter” essentially just telling ourselves we are “good Christians”, but rather look carefully at our impact (or lack of impact) of helping and loving those around us.

 

Clothe Yourselves with Mercy, Kindness, Humility, Gentleness, and Patience.

As Christians we are called to be a light to the world. To show others the path to Jesus Christ. All too often non Christians cannot tell the difference between Christians and the world by looking at how we live. Paul provides a meaningful call to action on how we should be living.

Colossians 3:1-17.

3 Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand. 2 Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. 3 For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 And when Christ, who is your[a] life, is revealed to the whole world, you will share in all his glory.

5 So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. 6 Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming.[b] 7 You used to do these things when your life was still part of this world. 8 But now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language. 9 Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. 10 Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him. 11 In this new life, it doesn’t matter if you are a Jew or a Gentile,[c] circumcised or uncircumcised, barbaric, uncivilized,[d] slave, or free. Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us.

12 Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. 14 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.

16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17 And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.

It is difficult to add anything to such a well written passage. This is a scripture to dwell on and not to skim. I hope and pray you reflect on it and challenge yourself to answer the call that Paul (and Jesus) have extended to us in this scripture.

Encourage Fellow Believers

Respect and honor the conscience of other believers. Let us support and encourage them with our actions. Do not simply dismiss their concerns as “that may not be good for you, but it is ok for me”. Honor one another, respect, and encourage one another in unity as the body of Christ.

Even as we avoid idolatry directly, we should also be aware of how even indirect association with it may cause believers to stumble, and thus we should remain sensitive to how certain activities may affect others. Not everything that is lawful is edifying or good. Paul highlights an example of meat offered to idols. (This conversation thread presupposes that the meat in question is considered food by God. The context is purely in regards to meat offered to idols and not a broader commentary on God’s dietary instructions. ) Paul points out that although we may eat meat offered to idols, we should choose not to if someone raises the concern to us that it may be offensive to God because of its association with idols.

While these specific examples may seem strange to us, we should apply the message to situations we may encounter today. I can think of a specific example that may be more familiar. I had a friend that was concerned about a movie perhaps being offensive to God. He thought we should not watch it. Even  if I am convinced that I am allowed to watch it, why would I insist on watching it with this friend? If they are convicted about the content of the movie being inappropriate in some regard to our faith and honoring God… I should choose to support him and avoid the movie even if I think it is ok. I do so for my friend’s sake.

1 Corinthians 10:14-33

    14Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry. 15I speak as to wise men; you judge what I say. 16Is not the cup of blessing which we bless a sharing in the blood of Christ? Is not the bread which we break a sharing in the body of Christ? 17Since there is one bread, we who are many are one body; for we all partake of the one bread. 18Look at the nation Israel; are not those who eat the sacrifices sharers in the altar? 19What do I mean then? That a thing sacrificed to idols is anything, or that an idol is anything? 20No, but I say that the things which the Gentiles sacrifice, they sacrifice to demons and not to God; and I do not want you to become sharers in demons. 21You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons; you cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons. 22Or do we provoke the Lord to jealousy? We are not stronger than He, are we?

      23All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify. 24Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor. 25Eat anything that is sold in the meat market without asking questions for conscience’ sake; 26FOR THE EARTH IS THE LORD’S, AND ALL IT CONTAINS. 27If one of the unbelievers invites you and you want to go, eat anything that is set before you without asking questions for conscience’ sake. 28But if anyone says to you, “This is meat sacrificed to idols,” do not eat it, for the sake of the one who informed you, and for conscience’ sake; 29I mean not your own conscience, but the other man’s; for why is my freedom judged by another’s conscience? 30If I partake with thankfulness, why am I slandered concerning that for which I give thanks?

      31Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 32Give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God; 33just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit but the profit of the many, so that they may be saved.

One last parting thought… do not misunderstand Paul when he says he pleases all men in all things. He is not violating God’s law to avoid offending someone. He is not disregarding God’s instructions. Pay close attention to the context throughout this scripture. When Paul indicates he pleases all men he is referring to choosing self sacrifice, avoiding things that he may know are acceptable, for the sake of encouraging and supporting other believers as they try to honor God and avoid offensive things. This is a great approach for many reasons. Perhaps a simple one for closing is to  point out that this encourages people to try to please God even if they don’t fully understand what God calls for. It avoids discouraging less mature believers by constantly telling them they don’t understand and thus leading them to be vulnerable to just giving up and accepting all things, even those that may be offensive to God.

Spend a few minutes in prayer and ask God to show you how this lesson applies in your life. Give thanks for the Holy Spirit who dwells within us as our guide and conscience.

Shalom. May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. Devotion by John in service to Christ


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