Allow Yourself (And Others) To Grieve For Those You Love

All of us either have experienced the loss of a loved one or will experience one. Death comes to all of us. Not to make to light of it, but the thing about life is that no one gets out of it alive. My point is simply that death is inevitable for all of us. We should thus prepare ourselves and our families. As we face death, we lean heavily on God to help us face our own or that of someone we love.

Joseph was clearly a man who had a strong relationship and faith in God as demonstrated by how he faced and overcame much suffering and difficulty in his life. Israel, too, had a strong relationship with God. Israel recognized and prepared for his death and to help those who survived him prepare in the chapters preceding Genesis 50. We see in Genesis 50, that Joseph allowed himself quite a bit of time to grieve for the loss of his father. This is not a sign of weakness or lack of faith necessarily, but perhaps of love for the one we have lost. Naturally it is also important to get closure on the grieving process and move on with our lives after a time of mourning.

Genesis 50:1-11

The Death of Israel

      1Then Joseph fell on his father’s face, and wept over him and kissed him. 2Joseph commanded his servants the physicians to embalm his father. So the physicians embalmed Israel. 3Now forty days were required for it, for such is the period required for embalming. And the Egyptians wept for him seventy days.

      4When the days of mourning for him were past, Joseph spoke to the household of Pharaoh, saying, “If now I have found favor in your sight, please speak to Pharaoh, saying, 5‘My father made me swear, saying, “Behold, I am about to die; in my grave which I dug for myself in the land of Canaan, there you shall bury me.” Now therefore, please let me go up and bury my father; then I will return.’” 6Pharaoh said, “Go up and bury your father, as he made you swear.”

      7So Joseph went up to bury his father, and with him went up all the servants of Pharaoh, the elders of his household and all the elders of the land of Egypt, 8and all the household of Joseph and his brothers and his father’s household; they left only their little ones and their flocks and their herds in the land of Goshen. 9There also went up with him both chariots and horsemen; and it was a very great company. 10When they came to the threshing floor of Atad, which is beyond the Jordan, they lamented there with a very great and sorrowful lamentation; and he observed seven days mourning for his father. 11Now when the inhabitants of the land, the Canaanites, saw the mourning at the threshing floor of Atad, they said, “This is a grievous mourning for the Egyptians.” Therefore it was named Abel-mizraim, which is beyond the Jordan.

We should give ourselves and others much latitude on how they grieve for those they love. Some, strong in faith, will confidently move forward with their lives, relying on God for guidance and support. They may appear not to be grieving or at least not the way many expect. Others may seek a longer time of mourning for their loss as Joseph did. To some it may seem they lack faith in God to spend so much time mourning. Let us mourn with them and support them however they deal with their loss. Let us not try to evaluate how they mourn but rather just mourn with them. Then look for opportunity to help them gain closure and continue with their lives in a positive direction and remain focused on the Lord.

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Prayer Request: Pray With Our Brothers and Sisters In India

Today I am humbly asking each of you as my brothers and sisters in Christ to join together in prayer for Pastor Ezekiel in India, for his ministry, and for the specific event which is scheduled to take place in early June. Please join me in praying for him according to his request below.

Heavenly Father,

You have commanded us to proclaim the gospel to all the nations. You have instructed us that we are all one body in Jesus Christ. Please help prepare pastor Ezekiel and his support for the upcoming event of public gospel meetings at Gotlagattu villate June 8-11. Five thousand are expected to attend. Please help prepare the people to receive the message and turn their lives over to you. Please help in the following specific areas:

1. climate to accommodate the meetings

2.power (electricity)

3.financial needs

4.transportation

5.public address system, stage, lighting

6 announcement to reach the people and lead them to attend

7.publicity (wall posters, handbills )

8.speakers health

9.Gods presence in the meeting

10.healing for the people who attend

11.many of them to submit to Jesus as savior

12.please pray for me and for my health and for my ministry

We pray this in the name of our gracious Lord, Jesus Christ.

Thank you all who prayed alongside us. May the grace and peace of Jesus Christ be with all of you!

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Study God’s Word Directly At The Source… The Bible

I never cease to be amazed by people who claim the Bible is no longer relevant to our lives today. Quite the opposite, when I study scripture I often feel I can in no way capture and share all that God is revealing in even a short element of scripture. The Bible is truly a wonderful gift from God, so easy that a child can understand it and so deep that an adult can study if for a lifetime without reaching the end of its depths.

I encourage everyone to read and study for themselves. That is what God commands us to do and it is the example He set during His earthly ministry as Jesus Christ.  We must remember to read all of God’s word in context, and be careful not to misrepresent it even to ourselves and we must study the Bible and interpret it in light of itself for consistency.

Let us just explore one small section of scripture that is one of many revealing some truth that have been disregarded by mainstream Christianity. In Acts 13, Paul is on a missionary journey. This occurs after Jesus died, rose again, spent time with His disciples and went up to Heaven.

Acts 13:13-15

    13Now Paul and his companions put out to sea from Paphos and came to Perga in Pamphylia; but John left them and returned to Jerusalem. 14But going on from Perga, they arrived at Pisidian Antioch, and on the Sabbath day they went into the synagogue and sat down. 15After the reading of the Law and the Prophets the synagogue officials sent to them, saying, “Brethren, if you have any word of exhortation for the people, say it.”

The first observation that seems obvious and many Christians get this right… we must obey the command of Jesus to go and make disciples of all the nations. Christ did not say… sit and wait for them to come to you. But rather we must go to them. Many brothers and sisters in Christ do a remarkable, inspired job of bringing the gospel to others via mission trips or even evangelizing at school or work. However, we should each challenge ourselves not to get to comfortable just “checking a box” each week sitting in church for an hour. That is a great way to experience fellowship and praise God and other things, but it is not all we are commanded to do. We must study our Bible and apply it further in our lives. We are to bring the good news of Jesus Christ to others.

The second observation is quite simply that Paul continues to observe the Sabbath and the reading of the Law and the Prophets. Paul, like Jesus, reinforces observing Sabbath in the Jewish tradition as God commanded… on the seventh day. This means Sabbath is observed from Friday at sundown to Saturday at sundown. Jesus has already risen from the dead and had counsel with His disciples. Here we see Paul (the other disciples did likewise as revealed in scripture elsewhere) recognizing and observing the importance of the Old Testament (e.g. the Law and the Prophets) and worship and gathering on Sabbath. There is of course a much deeper study available, and I am happy to share it with others… just ask by replying at Contact Us if you are interested. It should be apparent as well if you just read and study the New Testament and observe the behavior of Jesus and the disciples regarding Sabbath and the importance of the Old Testament.  If you ask most Christians, they will explain why it has been changed to Sunday instead of Saturday… but ask them to show you where the scripture indicates that. You can’t find it because it is not there.

Many Christians do not even realize that man, not God, changed the Sabbath to Sunday and that the entire Bible, including the Old Testament, are still completely applicable today.

The more I study the Bible, the more clearly I am able to see what God said and differentiate it from what man has said. I will do things God’s way rather than the way of the traditions of men. I encourage you to boldly do the same!

It is important to study God’s word for yourself direction from the Bible. Yes, you can study with others, but go to the source. Don’t believe me… try a game next time you have a gathering of many people. Sit in a circle, start with a message that is several sentences long, or a short story. Have each person, without writing it down, whisper to the next what they heard. By the time it comes around the circle of 10 or so people, you will typically find the message has changed quite a bit. So too if you ignore the Bible and only ask people what it says or only read books about the Bible.

For more information on what the law means for us today, read Understanding the Law – What Does It Mean For Us Today?

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You Want Me To Follow All The Instructions?

Think of the last time you bought an item with the words “some assembly required” on the box. Was it a bicycle? a play kitchen for your kids? maybe a large Lincoln Logs set? Think of one that was complicated to put together. They provided an instruction manual, right? Did you use it? I sure do. I may be able to figure out how to put things together, but it sure goes easier and comes together more quickly and with less damage and rework when I follow the manual. What is more, I follow the full instructions. I do not just pick and choose which instructions to follow and which ones not to and then expect everything to come out just right. I follow all of the instructions for best results.

So why is it that so many people try to pick and choose which parts of the Bible they want to accept and use to guide their actions and attitudes? God provided the Bible to us to be able to have great insight into God and how He relates to His people. It provides great insight into how we should live our lives. It is like the instruction manual that helps us put together that complicated Lego set. Things usually don’t work out right if you only follow part of the directions. (You are not supposed to run out of or have extra pieces.)

God’s revelation through the Bible may also be compared to the map that shows us how to get through a mine field (a field with bombs hidden below the surface that blow up if you step on them). Would you choose to “wing it” through a mine field rather than follow the map? Would you pick and choose which parts of the map you believe? Would you base which parts you use based on your opinion or that of others about where the mines might be or stick to the map provided by the one who already knows where all the mines actually are?

The Bible is not a “pick list” where we choose which parts we “believe” and which we do not. We either submit to God fully or we do not. We either trust Him or we do not.

The similar consideration should be given for studying and applying what God reveals to us about marriage in Ephesians 5.

Ephesians 5

Marriage Like Christ and the Church

      22Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.

      25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, 26so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. 28So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30because we are members of His body. 31FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND SHALL BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH. 32This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.

Now… for those of you who are getting upset because you do not like what the scripture says, take a moment to pause and reflect. First, consciously strip away what people have told you about this scripture and have told you about the role of husband and wife and try to come into it as a blank slate, just reading what God reveals rather than what others say He does.

God calls husbands to lead, love, and if necessary die for their wives. So too, they should live for their wives. They are called to rejoice in their wives as if they are truly one in body and spirit. They are to be to their wives as Jesus was to the church. Who would take exception to this?

God calls wives to an equally important role, but a different role. Keep in mind that God designed us and He has that in mind when He guides us on our roles. Wives submit to and respect your husbands. Our culture wants to convince women that submitting to their husband is somehow demeaning. I argue it is not. Both men and women are made in God’s image. Which sports team has two coaches with the same role and responsibility and authority for the team? Which organization has two leaders with the same roles, responsibilities and authority? Which army has such a structure? None. Because it does not work. There must be a chain of command. Even in the U.S. Senate there is a tie breaker set up in case votes fall 50 for and 50 against. So why is it demeaning only when God says it about the roles of husband and wife in marriage but not in every other situation where it is necessary?

Now think of these two roles working together with both doing as they are commanded by God. The husband will dwell with understanding and love for his wife and give her full consideration for her desires and needs. They can engage and discuss. Ultimately, he is to consider her equally as if she is his own body and spirit as they are one. At times, he is called to die to self and give her preference to care for her as Christ died for the church. He is under authority to God and thus stays on the right path to lead the family.

The model God lays out works and works really well! Typically, problems come in not with God’s plan, but with the way people fail to execute it properly.

For those who are married, think about where you and your spouse may fall short of God’s plan for you in His commands for your marriage. Focus first on changing your own behavior and then perhaps engage in further discussion with your spouse. Show your spouse how it works through your actions and how you treat them. When they see the change in you and ask… then you share God’s plan with them from Ephesians.

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Often Our Blessings Are A Reflection Of Our Choices

It is easy to ask God’s blessing to give us everything we want, how we want it, when we want it, and then wonder why we don’t receive it. When we study the blessings of Israel to his sons we see that our blessings are often a reflection of our choices in regards to how we live our lives… in obedience to God or in obedience to self.

Genesis 49:28  28All these are the twelve tribes of Israel, and this is what their father said to them when he blessed them. He blessed them, every one with the blessing appropriate to him.

As Israel prophecied and blessed each of his sons, he revealed a future that was appropriate to each one and how they chose to lead their life and what examples they set for their family. Their blessing was in fact affected by their godliness, or lack of godliness.

Genesis 49

Israel’s Prophecy concerning His Sons

      1Then Jacob summoned his sons and said, “Assemble yourselves that I may tell you what will befall you in the days to come.

      2“Gather together and hear, O sons of Jacob;
And listen to Israel your father.

      3“Reuben, you are my firstborn;
My might and the beginning of my strength,
Preeminent in dignity and preeminent in power.

      4“Uncontrolled as water, you shall not have preeminence,
Because you went up to your father’s bed;
Then you defiled it—he went up to my couch.

      5“Simeon and Levi are brothers;
Their swords are implements of violence.

      6“Let my soul not enter into their council;
Let not my glory be united with their assembly;
Because in their anger they slew men,
And in their self-will they lamed oxen.

      7“Cursed be their anger, for it is fierce;
And their wrath, for it is cruel.
I will disperse them in Jacob,
And scatter them in Israel.

      8“Judah, your brothers shall praise you;
Your hand shall be on the neck of your enemies;
Your father’s sons shall bow down to you.

      9“Judah is a lion’s whelp;
From the prey, my son, you have gone up.
He couches, he lies down as a lion,
And as a lion, who dares rouse him up?

      10“The scepter shall not depart from Judah,
Nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet,
Until Shiloh comes,
And to him shall be the obedience of the peoples.

      11“He ties his foal to the vine,
And his donkey’s colt to the choice vine;
He washes his garments in wine,
And his robes in the blood of grapes.

      12“His eyes are dull from wine,
And his teeth white from milk.

      13“Zebulun will dwell at the seashore;
And he shall be a haven for ships,
And his flank shall be toward Sidon.

      14“Issachar is a strong donkey,
Lying down between the sheepfolds.

      15“When he saw that a resting place was good
And that the land was pleasant,
He bowed his shoulder to bear burdens,
And became a slave at forced labor.

      16“Dan shall judge his people,
As one of the tribes of Israel.

      17“Dan shall be a serpent in the way,
A horned snake in the path,
That bites the horse’s heels,
So that his rider falls backward.

      18“For Your salvation I wait, O LORD.

      19“As for Gad, raiders shall raid him,
But he will raid at their heels.

      20“As for Asher, his food shall be rich,
And he will yield royal dainties.

      21“Naphtali is a doe let loose,
He gives beautiful words.

      22“Joseph is a fruitful bough,
A fruitful bough by a spring;
Its branches run over a wall.

      23“The archers bitterly attacked him,
And shot at him and harassed him;

      24But his bow remained firm,
And his arms were agile,
From the hands of the Mighty One of Jacob
(From there is the Shepherd, the Stone of Israel),

      25From the God of your father who helps you,
And by the Almighty who blesses you
With blessings of heaven above,
Blessings of the deep that lies beneath,
Blessings of the breasts and of the womb.

      26“The blessings of your father
Have surpassed the blessings of my ancestors
Up to the utmost bound of the everlasting hills;
May they be on the head of Joseph,
And on the crown of the head of the one distinguished among his brothers.

      27“Benjamin is a ravenous wolf;
In the morning he devours the prey,
And in the evening he divides the spoil.”

      28All these are the twelve tribes of Israel, and this is what their father said to them when he blessed them. He blessed them, every one with the blessing appropriate to him. 29Then he charged them and said to them, “I am about to be gathered to my people; bury me with my fathers in the cave that is in the field of Ephron the Hittite, 30in the cave that is in the field of Machpelah, which is before Mamre, in the land of Canaan, which Abraham bought along with the field from Ephron the Hittite for a burial site. 31“There they buried Abraham and his wife Sarah, there they buried Isaac and his wife Rebekah, and there I buried Leah— 32the field and the cave that is in it, purchased from the sons of Heth.” 33When Jacob finished charging his sons, he drew his feet into the bed and breathed his last, and was gathered to his people.

As we seek to receive God’s blessing for our lives and the lives of our family, let us remember that God has given us many instructions on how to live such that we love God and love our neighbor. When we make these choices to honor God and obey Him in our lives, rather than just with our words, we will see Him provide to us the blessings appropriate to such a choice to be His faithful servant.

Reflect on the sons of Israel. What behaviors did they exhibit that lead some to good and some to hard blessings? What changes does God speak to your heart that you should make as you reflect on how you are living your life?

Personally, I feel that God continues to press upon me the suffering that many experience by allowing themselves to be ruled by their fierce anger. I have had several recent encounters personally and also keep finding that revealed in scripture, such as with Simeon and Levi in today’s scripture reading. Anger is not always released by the sword, but often by the tongue. I have experienced flurries of anger in the past and now see more clearly how ugly that can truly be and how much it can affect someone’s life. Even if you are “right”, anger is not typically the most helpful response. It can steal your joy and sour your blessings.

Make changes where you need to! Do not be so proud as to insist that you are doing everything right. You only fool yourself and steal from your own blessing and future.

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Prayer Challenge: Set People Free From Their Own Anger And Bitterness

We are continuing our weekly extra post on Fridays. Today I am challenging each of you to join me in a prayer challenge. Please read along to find out more.

For much of my life I have underestimated the importance and power of specific, righteous prayer for individuals and groups of people that need help to be set free from slavery to sin and deception. As I continue to grow in my walk with Jesus, I become more and more aware of how important prayer is and intercessory prayer on behalf of others in particular.

Over the past few weeks I have encountered multiple individuals that have basically been hostile toward me for no justifiable reason, other than their own bitterness and hatred. They are like a volcano looking for an excuse to erupt. The anger and bitterness they hold consumes them and suffocates their joy. It creates separation between them and God and between them and other people who might actually want to be courteous and kind to them.

I would love to say that I have a wonderful and pure response each time someone unleashes their anger at me, but I do not. I have found myself having to deliberately fight my sinful, selfish desires to respond to their hostility in kind… to “win” on the issue. Instead I have swallowed hard, sought guidance and patience in God’s word, and determined to answer in a way that is more in accordance with God’s word, but requires humility instead of pride on my part. Praise God that I was able to do so on the last few rounds. It has not always been that way for me.

As I experienced both of the recent incidents aimed at me, I found myself remembering times in the past when I acted with similar unwarranted hostility and anger toward others. It was sobering to admit that I had come from that place and realize that I must continue to choose Christ daily to avoid sliding back to that place. I must exert willpower to respond God’s way rather than allow myself to backslide to respond to hostility in kind. I am a work in progress… and always will be. Praise God for bringing me this far.

I invite each of you this week to think about someone that you know struggles with anger and bitterness in their life. Please lift them up to the Lord in prayer every day this week as often as you feel you can. Pray not for revenge or to be proven right … pray instead for them to be set free from bondage to anger and bitterness. Pray for God to do a work in them… not for your glory but for God’s glory. Pray for them by name. They may never even know you prayed for them, but God does… and a righteous prayer matters to God. It can be powerful.

Pray in the name of our gracious Lord, Jesus Christ.

May the grace and peace of Jesus Christ be with all of you!

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Why Does God Allow Sin? Why Does It Separate Us From God?

“Why does God allow sin?”  “Why does sin separate us from God?”

These are two common questions that people struggle with as they try to reconcile a loving God with a fallen world, filled with sin and selfishness and evil. We could explore this topic in several ways. One approach would be to conduct a detailed Bible study and try to explain verse by verse. That is actually an excellent exercise for these topics and I have done that before. I encourage each of you to do the same. As a starting foundation, we should explain that sin refers to “missing the mark”, or falling short of doing things God’s way. We sin when we do things our way instead of God’s way.

For today, let us approach it in parable format as Jesus did many times throughout His ministry to help people more plainly understand key principles on terms they are familiar with.

There was a man who wanted a dog. To begin with, he thought about how easy it would be if only he could find one that would obey perfectly and not create any trouble for him. He found a robotic dog. At first the robotic dog seemed interesting but his interest soon fell. It was not satisfying. It did everything just as it was directed. It had perfect obedience but no free will. It did not obey because it loved the master, it simply obeyed because it could do nothing else. The master soon tired of the toy, it could not love him. There was no satisfaction in it, no real relationship.

Next the man purchased two puppies. Both puppies inherently did not understand the rules of the house at first. In fact, left to their own devices they were quite destructive… constantly chewing things that should not be chewed and “pottying” where they should not. Neither obeyed their master. He quickly found that their disobedient behavior necessarily created a need for separation from Him, even though He loved them so he placed them outside in his yard. He knew that left on their own, they would never learn correct behavior…they were unable to teach themselves. He loved them so he worked tirelessly to train them daily. He yearned to find a way to remove the separation between the dogs outside and himself in the house. Over time, one puppy learned to obey. It followed the rules and did what the master asked. The master rejoiced and brought that puppy inside the house where it was constantly with him and their relationship thrived. The puppy had learned to obey and to show love for the master and thus was brought into closer relationship with the master. The second puppy refused to obey. It rebelled against the master, even growling at him or trying to bite him. He still loved the second dog, but the dog’s behavior continued to create a need for separation from the master. The master tried tirelessly and yearned for the second dog to submit and obey so they could be closer, but it refused.

Whose fault is it that the second dog remained separated from the master? Was it the master because he set rules forth to determine what is good and bad? or the dog’s because it continued to refuse the master and instead chose to do what is bad?

The master is God. The robot dog represents why He gave us a free will… so their could be love… so we could choose Him. Which of us would choose to love a computer that does all we ask because it must? Which of us love others even when they choose to disobey or do harm to us at times? The first real dog is the wise person that hears the master’s voice, listens and obeys… doing things the master’s way. The second real dog represents those who remain in rebellion to God…creating by their actions a need for separation from Him. The master yearned for the second dog to “repent” and had made a way for it to be in relationship with him, but the dog refused. How foolish to blame the master for the separation caused by sin.

To think of it another way… let us consider our wonderful dessert, pick your favorite, but for this story we will call it a piece of chocolate cake. We know exactly what we want in this cake, and may even have a strong desire to enjoy it. What now, if I told you that the cake has small amount of poop in it? Do you still want the cake? It is only a small amount of contaminant. Of course we don’t want it! So it is with God when we sin. He wants to be near to us, but even a little sin is ugly and can contaminate the whole such that we can not choose to enjoy it and be close. It makes no more sense for us to insist that God should be close to those who reject Him and His commands than to insist that we would want to eat the contaminated dessert.

I know that these are perhaps simple examples, but we should not put the emphasis on blaming God that we can not be close to Him when we live in sin, rejecting His commands. Instead, we should put the emphasis on ourselves and our behavior and attitudes as the cause of separation from God. Come humbly before Jesus Christ, ask forgiveness, change our behaviors to be more like His commands as best we can. He will help! Submit our lives to be more like Jesus and He will cleanse us of our sins by way of His death on the cross.  We are a new creation in Christ and can be reconciled to the Master and dwell closely with Him in this life and again in Heaven after we die. Praise God that He made a way to make us clean!

2 Corinthians 5:17-19

17Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 18Now all these things are from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation, 19namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and He has committed to us the word of reconciliation.

In what areas is God speaking to you that you need to make changes in your life to obey His commands rather than rebelling against them? What steps can you take even this week to start moving closer to God in obedience to His word?


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Reflections On Life, From One Who Nears The End

Many have rightly observed that as someone approaches the end of their life, they often have increasing insight into what was really most important… about what they did right and what they should have done differently. Sometimes even those who spent their whole lives pursuing some idol, such as money and power, begin to realize how empty that pursuit really was. How much more wisdom can we gain, then, from listening to a righteous man as he reflects on his life and walk with God.

Genesis 48

Israel’s Last Days

      1Now it came about after these things that Joseph was told, “Behold, your father is sick.” So he took his two sons Manasseh and Ephraim with him. 2When it was told to Jacob, “Behold, your son Joseph has come to you,” Israel collected his strength and sat up in the bed. 3Then Jacob said to Joseph, “God Almighty appeared to me at Luz in the land of Canaan and blessed me, 4and He said to me, ‘Behold, I will make you fruitful and numerous, and I will make you a company of peoples, and will give this land to your descendants after you for an everlasting possession.’ 5“Now your two sons, who were born to you in the land of Egypt before I came to you in Egypt, are mine; Ephraim and Manasseh shall be mine, as Reuben and Simeon are. 6“But your offspring that have been born after them shall be yours; they shall be called by the names of their brothers in their inheritance. 7“Now as for me, when I came from Paddan, Rachel died, to my sorrow, in the land of Canaan on the journey, when there was still some distance to go to Ephrath; and I buried her there on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem).”

      8When Israel saw Joseph’s sons, he said, “Who are these?” 9Joseph said to his father, “They are my sons, whom God has given me here.” So he said, “Bring them to me, please, that I may bless them.” 10Now the eyes of Israel were so dim from age that he could not see. Then Joseph brought them close to him, and he kissed them and embraced them. 11Israel said to Joseph, “I never expected to see your face, and behold, God has let me see your children as well.” 12Then Joseph took them from his knees, and bowed with his face to the ground. 13Joseph took them both, Ephraim with his right hand toward Israel’s left, and Manasseh with his left hand toward Israel’s right, and brought them close to him. 14But Israel stretched out his right hand and laid it on the head of Ephraim, who was the younger, and his left hand on Manasseh’s head, crossing his hands, although Manasseh was the firstborn.

15He blessed Joseph, and said,
“The God before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked,
The God who has been my shepherd all my life to this day,

      16The angel who has redeemed me from all evil,
Bless the lads;
And may my name live on in them,
And the names of my fathers Abraham and Isaac;
And may they grow into a multitude in the midst of the earth.”

      17When Joseph saw that his father laid his right hand on Ephraim’s head, it displeased him; and he grasped his father’s hand to remove it from Ephraim’s head to Manasseh’s head. 18Joseph said to his father, “Not so, my father, for this one is the firstborn. Place your right hand on his head.” 19But his father refused and said, “I know, my son, I know; he also will become a people and he also will be great. However, his younger brother shall be greater than he, and his descendants shall become a multitude of nations.”

20He blessed them that day, saying,
“By you Israel will pronounce blessing, saying,
‘May God make you like Ephraim and Manasseh!’”
Thus he put Ephraim before Manasseh.

21Then Israel said to Joseph, “Behold, I am about to die, but God will be with you, and bring you back to the land of your fathers. 22“I give you one portion more than your brothers, which I took from the hand of the Amorite with my sword and my bow.”

Israel found his relationship with God to be of highest importance. He reflected back on the promises God made and spoke of them in complete confidence that they would come to pass even though he did not yet see it with his own eyes. There is no hint of regret or lack of faith that God’s promises were not yet fulfilled as of the end of Israel’s life. Rather there is a confident faith that they are in the process of being fulfilled.

Israel valued family… in particular the family he had once lost and then had restored. He did not complain to God that Joseph had been lost, but rather gives glory to God that he was able to see not only Joseph again but also his children.

It was of high importance to Jacob to pass along his blessing to Joseph and Joseph’s sons. Once again, this demonstrates strong faith in the multi-generational promise of God.

There is no bitterness or fear in Israel. He reflects on the loss of Rachel and the sorrow he experienced in that, but gives every confidence from this record in scripture that he is prepared for death, prepared to continue his journey with God beyond the confines of this earthly life.

Reflect on your life for a few moments. Do not rush it. Does your life reflect the values that Israel reflected on at the end of his life? Are you satisfied you are living for God and obeying His commands? Does your life reflect God’s will or your own? Do you have a relationship with God in which you hear His specific directions for your life? Do you seek Him in prayer, study His word, and give honor, praise and thanks to Him consistently?

Are you satisfied with your family relationships?

Do you hold any bitterness or resentment toward others or God?

What changes do you think God wants you to make?

Whether you find yourself nearing the end of this life or anticipating decades yet to come, take time to evaluate your life. Humble yourself to be willing to admit, to yourself and to God, that you should make some changes and then go about making those changes while you still have time. None of our tomorrows are promised to us, no matter what are age and health may be.

Are you ready for what comes next after you die in this world?

Have you submitted your life to Jesus Christ? If you die today, do you know for sure that you would be with God in heaven? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Have you submitted your life to Jesus Christ? If you die today, do you know for sure that you would be with God in heaven? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Are People Inherently Good? Why Then Do We Need Laws?

Are people inherently good? This is a question that is crucial in understanding the world around us. The Bible provides a clear answer to this question, but let’s first begin with what you already know from observing the world around you.

What images come to your mind when you imagine a city or country without laws, law enforcement and punishment for breaking laws  (e.g. “lawless”)? Do you immediately think about a wonderful paradise? Does something else come to mind… perhaps something where evil goes unchecked or everyone has to defend themselves. Are you packing your bags to move there? I am not.

Do you think it would work to just open up all the jails, disband the court system and the police and just eliminate all the laws that govern the society where you live? Again… what images come to mind. Lawlessness and that is not a good thing.

Let’s take it a bit further… why do you need tickets to ride the bus, airplane, or go to an event? why do you need security cameras at banks and ATMs? Why do so many have home alarm systems? Why do you need a receipt to return something to a store? Why do you need passwords for almost everything you do on the internet? The answer in all cases is “sin”. If there is no security, people will take advantage of one another.

Even babies do not need to be taught how to make angry or loud noises when they want something or how to grab something they want… even if it is in someone else’s hands. Quite the opposite, young children need to be taught to consider others and not be selfish and sinful. Sadly, most adults still have a lot to learn in this area as well… especially those who reject Jesus Christ.

People are inherently sinful. We all know it when we truly think about it. The answer is already inside of us. Why, then, do many get surprised or upset when someone points out that the Bible reveals our sinful nature and tells us that we all must turn to Jesus, ask forgiveness, turn away from our sins and live according to His commands? How can anyone effectively argue that people are inherently good?

Romans 3:23 23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,

Ecclesiastes 7:20 20Indeed, there is not a righteous man on earth who continually does good and who never sins.

It is important for each of us to realize that we are not inherently good. It is a big part of why we need Jesus Christ. How great is our God that He made a way for us to be redeemed and forgiven… reconciled to Him!

John 3:16-21    16“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. 17“For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. 18“He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19“This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20“For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21“But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.”

Our Creator loves us so much He even gives us laws and commands to guide us to right behavior. God knew we would need laws and guidelines to help us. If we understand and accept that laws made by men help maintain order and sometimes protect us, then why do we complain about laws that God reveals to us through scripture which are designed to protect us and guide us?  The laws are there for our own benefit. Through  God’s law we can understand where we fall short and need to correct our attitudes and behaviors. It only works, however, if we read the Bible and study it for application in our lives. If we dismiss God’s commands, we are left adrift at sea with no steady compass to guide our way.

Deuteronomy 11:26-28 26 “Look, today I am giving you the choice between a blessing and a curse! 27 You will be blessed if you obey the commands of the Lord your God that I am giving you today. 28 But you will be cursed if you reject the commands of the Lord your God and turn away from him and worship gods you have not known before.

Psalm 19:7-13 The instructions of the Lord are perfect, reviving the soul. The decrees of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The commandments of the Lord are right, bringing joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are clear, giving insight for living. Reverence for the Lord is pure, lasting forever. The laws of the Lord are true; each one is fair. 10 They are more desirable than gold, even the finest gold. They are sweeter than honey, even honey dripping from the comb. 11 They are a warning to your servant, a great reward for those who obey them.

12 How can I know all the sins lurking in my heart? Cleanse me from these hidden faults. 13 Keep your servant from deliberate sins! Don’t let them control me. Then I will be free of guilt and innocent of great sin.

James 1:25 25 But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

In fact, obeying God’s commands not only helps us in this life, but it is a way to show love to God. This is not difficult to understand. How many of us feel loved and respected if our children obey us? How about when they constantly disobey us?

John 14:15   15“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.

1John 5:2-3  We know we love God’s children if we love God and obey his commandments. Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome.

1 John 2:3-6 And we can be sure that we know him if we obey his commandments. If someone claims, “I know God,” but doesn’t obey God’s commandments, that person is a liar and is not living in the truth. But those who obey God’s word truly show how completely they love him. That is how we know we are living in him. Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did.

God loved us enough to give us a thorough instruction book for life, the Bible. It records the history of His relationship with His people. It shows us how to relate to Him and to one another. It shows us how to successfully navigate a sin filled world while showing love to one another and to God. Let us show God we are thankful for it by reading and studying the Bible. Let us show God we love Him by obeying His commands!

Spend a few minutes in prayer and reflection over your life right now. What areas is God bringing to your mind that you need to make some adjustments? Do you believe the truth of God’s word in the Bible is still true and relevant? Do you need more time in prayer each day? How about more time studying the Bible instead of shopping or watching sports? After all, we are not inherently good… we only learn what is good from God’s word and not from comparing ourselves to what other people think is good.

Identify a few things you want to work on this week and ask God for help.

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Prayer Request: God, Please Open The Eyes Of the Deceived

We are continuing our weekly extra post on Fridays. We have now expanded from “HFJ News”, providing updates and information about our website and other online resources, to also include prayer requests from our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world.

I am grieved that so many allow themselves to be deceived by the world, by Satan, that homosexual behavior is to be accepted and considered normal. Scripture could not be more clear, but even some who read and respect scripture allow themselves to be deceived on this point. It is a despicable sin according to the Bible and clearly destructive toward what God calls us to do. Many are allowing themselves to be separated by God through unrepentant sin. Please pray with me for God to open the eyes of the world and those who choose this behavior so that they would recognize it as sin and repent. Pray further that true Christians would receive all people who pursue the truth of Christ with open arms to share the good news of Christ. Help us as followers of Jesus to show love to others without compromising the truth of God’s word. Our only true enemy is Satan, himself. May God set people free from Satan’s deception in this area and may they find God’s open arms waiting to welcome them to Him once they repent of their wrong behavior and turn toward Him.

Pray in the name of our gracious Lord, Jesus Christ.

May the grace and peace of Jesus Christ be with all of you!

To learn more about what God says about homosexual behavior in the Bible, visit HFJ website devotional category Homosexual Behavior.

To pray with us regarding additional prayer requests or submit a prayer request, please visit our website Prayer Requests section.

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