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The Beauty of Noble Character: A Life of Wisdom and Service (Proverbs 31)

What does it mean to live a life of noble character?

Proverbs 31 gives us a portrait of a person who embodies wisdom, strength, and service—a model for all of us as we seek to honor God in our daily lives.

Key Verse: “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)

Background Context: Proverbs 31 is well-known for its description of the “virtuous woman” or “woman of noble character,” but its wisdom applies to both men and women who seek to live lives that reflect God’s wisdom and character. This final chapter of Proverbs serves as a culmination of the themes throughout the book—calling us to embrace wisdom, live with integrity, and seek God in all that we do. It begins with advice from King Lemuel’s mother about the qualities of a righteous leader and then shifts to the portrayal of the woman of noble character, who is industrious, wise, compassionate, and deeply rooted in the fear of the Lord.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Proverbs 31

The Words of Lemuel

1The words of King Lemuel, the oracle which his mother taught him:

2What, O my son?
And what, O son of my womb?
And what, O son of my vows?

3Do not give your strength to women,
Or your ways to that which destroys kings.

4It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
It is not for kings to drink wine,
Or for rulers to desire strong drink,

5For they will drink and forget what is decreed,
And pervert the rights of all the afflicted.

6Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to him whose life is bitter.

7Let him drink and forget his poverty
And remember his trouble no more.

8Open your mouth for the mute,
For the rights of all the unfortunate.

9Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.

Description of a Worthy Woman

10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.

11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.

12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.

13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.

14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.

15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.

16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.

18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.

19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.

20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.

24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.

26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.

28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

29“Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all.”

30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.

31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.

Reflection on Proverbs 31:

  • A Life of Noble Character: The woman described in Proverbs 31 is praised for her noble character, which is demonstrated through her actions, integrity, and wisdom (Proverbs 31:10). The idea of “noble character” encompasses not just moral uprightness but also diligence, kindness, and strength. It reminds us that true worth is not found in external achievements or appearances but in living a life that reflects God’s values. For men and women alike, noble character means embodying the qualities of wisdom, integrity, and service to others.
  • Diligence and Hard Work: The woman in Proverbs 31 is described as diligent in all she does, whether managing her household, providing for her family, or engaging in business (Proverbs 31:13-19). She rises early, works with her hands, and ensures that her family and household are well cared for. This teaches us the value of hard work and dedication in our everyday tasks. Whether in our homes, workplaces, or communities, we are called to work faithfully and responsibly, knowing that our efforts honor God.
  • Compassion and Generosity: In addition to her industriousness, the woman of noble character is also compassionate and generous. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy (Proverbs 31:20). This reflects the heart of God, who cares for the vulnerable and calls us to do the same. True wisdom is not just about personal success; it’s about using what we have to bless others and meet the needs of those around us.
  • Strength and Dignity: Proverbs 31:25 says, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” This strength is not just physical but spiritual and emotional. It comes from trusting in God and knowing that He is in control. The ability to “laugh at the days to come” shows a confidence in God’s provision and protection. For us, this means cultivating an inner strength that comes from faith, allowing us to face the future without fear or anxiety.
  • Wisdom and Kindness: The woman in Proverbs 31 speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue (Proverbs 31:26). Her words are marked by kindness, showing that true wisdom is not harsh or judgmental but compassionate and thoughtful. This challenges us to consider how we speak and interact with others. Are our words filled with wisdom and kindness, or do they tear others down?
  • The Fear of the Lord: The most important quality of the woman described in Proverbs 31 is her fear of the Lord (Proverbs 31:30). This reverence for God is the foundation of her character and the source of her wisdom. Charm and beauty may fade, but a life rooted in the fear of the Lord endures. For all of us, the fear of the Lord—respect, awe, and obedience to God—is the key to living a life that honors Him and blesses others.

Summary Key Points:

  • Noble Character: True worth and beauty come from living a life of integrity, wisdom, and service to others. Noble character reflects God’s heart and values.
  • Diligence and Hard Work: Like the woman in Proverbs 31, we are called to work diligently in whatever tasks God has placed before us, doing everything for His glory.
  • Compassion and Generosity: True wisdom is not selfish but extends compassion and generosity to those in need. We honor God by caring for the vulnerable.
  • Strength and Confidence in God: We can face the future with strength and dignity, trusting in God’s provision and protection, allowing us to live without fear.
  • Wisdom and Kindness in Speech: Our words should reflect the wisdom and kindness of God, building others up and offering faithful instruction.
  • The Fear of the Lord: A life that honors God is rooted in the fear of the Lord. This reverence for God is the foundation of true wisdom and noble character.

Application: Consider how you can cultivate noble character in your own life. Are you approaching your work, your relationships, and your daily responsibilities with diligence and integrity? Reflect on how you can show compassion and generosity to those in need around you. Think about the words you speak—are they filled with wisdom and kindness? Finally, ask yourself if your life is rooted in the fear of the Lord. Are you living with a reverence for God that shapes your actions, decisions, and relationships? Take time to pray and ask God to strengthen your character so that it reflects His heart.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the example of noble character in Proverbs 31. Help us to live with integrity, wisdom, and compassion, serving others faithfully and trusting in Your provision. Teach us to work diligently in all we do and to extend generosity to those in need. Fill our hearts with reverence for You, and may our words be marked by wisdom and kindness. We seek to honor You in every area of our lives, knowing that true beauty and worth come from living in obedience to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Wisdom in Relationships: The Value of Patience and Humility (Proverbs 25)

How do we navigate our relationships with wisdom and grace?

Proverbs 25 offers practical advice on handling conflicts, practicing humility, and speaking with grace.

Key Verse: “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” – Proverbs 25:11 (NKJV)

Background Context: Proverbs 25 is a collection of Solomon’s proverbs, compiled by the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah. This chapter provides insights into various aspects of wise living, particularly focusing on relationships, communication, and humility. The proverbs emphasize the importance of patience, thoughtful speech, and humility in maintaining harmonious relationships.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Proverbs 25

Similitudes, Instructions

1These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah, transcribed.

2It is the glory of God to conceal a matter,
But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.

3As the heavens for height and the earth for depth,
So the heart of kings is unsearchable.

4Take away the dross from the silver,
And there comes out a vessel for the smith;

5Take away the wicked before the king,
And his throne will be established in righteousness.

6Do not claim honor in the presence of the king,
And do not stand in the place of great men;

7For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,”
Than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince,
Whom your eyes have seen.

8Do not go out hastily to argue your case;
Otherwise, what will you do in the end,
When your neighbor humiliates you?

9Argue your case with your neighbor,
And do not reveal the secret of another,

10Or he who hears it will reproach you,
And the evil report about you will not pass away.

11Like apples of gold in settings of silver
Is a word spoken in right circumstances.

12Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold
Is a wise reprover to a listening ear.

13Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest
Is a faithful messenger to those who send him,
For he refreshes the soul of his masters.

14Like clouds and wind without rain
Is a man who boasts of his gifts falsely.

15By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded,
And a soft tongue breaks the bone.

16Have you found honey? Eat only what you need,
That you not have it in excess and vomit it.

17Let your foot rarely be in your neighbor’s house,
Or he will become weary of you and hate you.

18Like a club and a sword and a sharp arrow
Is a man who bears false witness against his neighbor.

19Like a bad tooth and an unsteady foot
Is confidence in a faithless man in time of trouble.

20Like one who takes off a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar on soda,
Is he who sings songs to a troubled heart.

21If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;

22For you will heap burning coals on his head,
And the LORD will reward you.

23The north wind brings forth rain,
And a backbiting tongue, an angry countenance.

24It is better to live in a corner of the roof
Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

25Like cold water to a weary soul,
So is good news from a distant land.

26Like a trampled spring and a polluted well
Is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.

27It is not good to eat much honey,
Nor is it glory to search out one’s own glory.

28Like a city that is broken into and without walls
Is a man who has no control over his spirit.

Reflection on Proverbs 25:

  • Wise Speech: The chapter highlights the beauty and value of well-timed, thoughtful words, comparing them to apples of gold in settings of silver (Proverbs 25:11). This imagery underscores the impact of gracious and wise speech in our interactions.
  • Handling Conflicts: Proverbs 25:8-10 advises against hastily going to court and urges private resolution of disputes to avoid public shame. This teaches the importance of patience and seeking peaceful resolutions in conflicts.
  • Self-Control and Patience: The chapter extols the virtues of self-control and patience, likening a person who controls their spirit to a fortified city (Proverbs 25:28). This emphasizes the strength and stability that come from mastering one’s emotions.
  • Humility: Proverbs 25:6-7 advises against self-promotion and encourages humility, suggesting that it is better to be invited up than to be put down in the presence of a prince. This teaches the value of humility and waiting for due recognition.
  • Kindness and Forgiveness: Proverbs 25:21-22 instructs us to show kindness to our enemies, promising that this will heap burning coals on their heads and that the Lord will reward us. This highlights the transformative power of kindness and forgiveness.

Summary Key Points:

  • Value of Thoughtful Words: Wise and gracious speech can have a profound and positive impact on relationships.
  • Patience in Conflict: Seeking peaceful and private resolutions in conflicts helps maintain harmony and avoid public disgrace.
  • Strength in Self-Control: Practicing self-control and patience brings stability and strength to our lives.
  • Power of Humility: Embracing humility and waiting for due recognition aligns with God’s wisdom.
  • Transformative Kindness: Showing kindness and forgiveness, even to enemies, reflects God’s character and brings His rewards.

Application: Let us strive to use our words thoughtfully and graciously, recognizing their power to build up or tear down. May we handle conflicts with patience and seek peaceful resolutions, practicing self-control and humility in our interactions. Let us also embrace kindness and forgiveness, even towards those who oppose us, reflecting God’s love and grace.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the wisdom found in Your Word. Help us to speak with grace and wisdom, bringing encouragement and peace to our relationships. Teach us to handle conflicts with patience and seek peaceful resolutions. Grant us the strength to practice self-control and humility, and the courage to show kindness and forgiveness to all, reflecting Your love. May our lives honor You in all we do. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Loving Our Neighbor: Lessons from the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37)

“What shall I do to inherit eternal life? This question figures prominently in the lives of many throughout the world and throughout time. You may hear many different answers, but only one is correct. Let’s explore how Yeshua answered this question.”

In Luke 10:25-37, Yeshua engages in a dialogue with a legal expert who seeks to test Him. The expert asks about inheriting eternal life, prompting Yeshua to respond with a question: “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?” This leads to a profound exchange about loving God and neighbor.

Reconnect: The story of the Good Samaritan challenges us to rethink our understanding of love for our neighbors. It goes beyond mere acts of kindness to encompass a deeper, sacrificial love that reflects our love for God.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Luke 10:25-37

      25And a lawyer stood up and put Him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” 26And He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How does it read to you?” 27And he answered, “YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND; AND YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.” 28And He said to him, “You have answered correctly; DO THIS AND YOU WILL LIVE.” 29But wishing to justify himself, he said to Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”

The Good Samaritan

     30Jesus replied and said, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among robbers, and they stripped him and beat him, and went away leaving him half dead. 31“And by chance a priest was going down on that road, and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. 32“Likewise a Levite also, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33“But a Samaritan, who was on a journey, came upon him; and when he saw him, he felt compassion, 34and came to him and bandaged up his wounds, pouring oil and wine on them; and he put him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35“On the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper and said, ‘Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, when I return I will repay you.’ 36“Which of these three do you think proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell into the robbers’ hands?37And he said, “The one who showed mercy toward him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do the same.”

Key Summary Points:

  • Understanding Neighborly Love: Yeshua illustrates neighborly love through the parable of the Good Samaritan, where a despised Samaritan exemplifies true compassion and care for a wounded man, surpassing even the religious leaders of the time.
  • Love for God and Neighbor: The parable underscores the inseparable connection between loving God with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind, and loving our neighbor as ourselves. This dual commandment encapsulates the essence of righteous living.
  • Acting with Compassion: The Samaritan’s actions teach us that compassion requires not only empathy but also practical assistance. He bandages wounds, provides shelter, and promises continued care, demonstrating active love that transcends societal divisions.

Call to Action:

  • Bold Action in Love: Embrace a lifestyle of sacrificial love that extends beyond convenience or obligation. Seek opportunities daily to demonstrate genuine care and compassion to those around you.
  • Deepen Your Relationship with God: Commit to loving God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. Invest in prayer, study of Scripture, and quiet reflection to nurture intimacy with Him.
  • Reflect Christ’s Love: Let your actions be motivated by love for God and others. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in embodying Christ’s compassion in your interactions and decisions.

Closing: As followers of Yeshua, let us heed His teachings on loving God and neighbor. May we be known for our unwavering commitment to embodying His love in a world that desperately needs it.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the profound example of love we find in the story of the Good Samaritan. Help us, Lord, to love You with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love our neighbors as ourselves. Grant us the courage and compassion to act boldly in love, reflecting Your character to those around us. Guide us in deepening our relationship with You so that our lives may be a testament to Your grace and mercy. In Yeshua’s name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Grieving in Silence (Lamentations 2)

Have you ever found yourself speechless in the face of overwhelming tragedy, unable to find the words to express your grief?

In Lamentations 2, we enter into the profound silence that follows the devastation of Jerusalem, as the city’s inhabitants grapple with the unimaginable horrors that have befallen them. Join us as we journey through this poignant chapter, wrestling with the weight of sorrow and seeking solace amidst the silence.

Reconnect: As we delve into Lamentations 2, we are confronted with the stark reality of Jerusalem’s destruction and the profound silence that envelops the city in its aftermath. The once-vibrant metropolis now lies in ruins, its streets deserted and its people left to grapple with the agony of loss and despair. In this chapter, we encounter themes of mourning, lamentation, and the haunting echoes of a once-thriving city now reduced to silence.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Lamentations 2

God’s Anger over Israel

1How the Lord has covered the daughter of Zion
With a cloud in His anger!
He has cast from heaven to earth
The glory of Israel,
And has not remembered His footstool
In the day of His anger.

      2The Lord has swallowed up; He has not spared
All the habitations of Jacob.
In His wrath He has thrown down
The strongholds of the daughter of Judah;
He has brought them down to the ground;
He has profaned the kingdom and its princes.

      3In fierce anger He has cut off
All the strength of Israel;
He has drawn back His right hand
From before the enemy.
And He has burned in Jacob like a flaming fire
Consuming round about.

      4He has bent His bow like an enemy;
He has set His right hand like an adversary
And slain all that were pleasant to the eye;
In the tent of the daughter of Zion
He has poured out His wrath like fire.

      5The Lord has become like an enemy.
He has swallowed up Israel;
He has swallowed up all its palaces,
He has destroyed its strongholds
And multiplied in the daughter of Judah
Mourning and moaning.

      6And He has violently treated His tabernacle like a garden booth;
He has destroyed His appointed meeting place.
The LORD has caused to be forgotten
The appointed feast and sabbath in Zion,
And He has despised king and priest
In the indignation of His anger.

      7The Lord has rejected His altar,
He has abandoned His sanctuary;
He has delivered into the hand of the enemy
The walls of her palaces.
They have made a noise in the house of the LORD
As in the day of an appointed feast.

      8The LORD determined to destroy
The wall of the daughter of Zion.
He has stretched out a line,
He has not restrained His hand from destroying,
And He has caused rampart and wall to lament;
They have languished together.

      9Her gates have sunk into the ground,
He has destroyed and broken her bars.
Her king and her princes are among the nations;
The law is no more.
Also, her prophets find
No vision from the LORD.

      10The elders of the daughter of Zion
Sit on the ground, they are silent.
They have thrown dust on their heads;
They have girded themselves with sackcloth.
The virgins of Jerusalem
Have bowed their heads to the ground.

      11My eyes fail because of tears,
My spirit is greatly troubled;
My heart is poured out on the earth
Because of the destruction of the daughter of my people,
When little ones and infants faint
In the streets of the city.

      12They say to their mothers,
“Where is grain and wine?”
As they faint like a wounded man
In the streets of the city,
As their life is poured out
On their mothers’ bosom.

      13How shall I admonish you?
To what shall I compare you,
O daughter of Jerusalem?
To what shall I liken you as I comfort you,
O virgin daughter of Zion?
For your ruin is as vast as the sea;
Who can heal you?

      14Your prophets have seen for you
False and foolish visions;
And they have not exposed your iniquity
So as to restore you from captivity,
But they have seen for you false and misleading oracles.

      15All who pass along the way
Clap their hands in derision at you;
They hiss and shake their heads
At the daughter of Jerusalem,
“Is this the city of which they said,
‘The perfection of beauty,
A joy to all the earth’?”

      16All your enemies
Have opened their mouths wide against you;
They hiss and gnash their teeth.
They say, “We have swallowed her up!
Surely this is the day for which we waited;
We have reached it, we have seen it.

      17The LORD has done what He purposed;
He has accomplished His word
Which He commanded from days of old.
He has thrown down without sparing,
And He has caused the enemy to rejoice over you;
He has exalted the might of your adversaries.

      18Their heart cried out to the Lord,
“O wall of the daughter of Zion,
Let your tears run down like a river day and night;
Give yourself no relief,
Let your eyes have no rest.

      19“Arise, cry aloud in the night
At the beginning of the night watches;
Pour out your heart like water
Before the presence of the Lord;
Lift up your hands to Him
For the life of your little ones
Who are faint because of hunger
At the head of every street.”

      20See, O LORD, and look!
With whom have You dealt thus?
Should women eat their offspring,
The little ones who were born healthy?
Should priest and prophet be slain
In the sanctuary of the Lord?

      21On the ground in the streets
Lie young and old;
My virgins and my young men
Have fallen by the sword.
You have slain them in the day of Your anger,
You have slaughtered, not sparing.

      22You called as in the day of an appointed feast
My terrors on every side;
And there was no one who escaped or survived
In the day of the LORD’S anger.
Those whom I bore and reared,
My enemy annihilated them.

Summary Key Points:

  1. A City Laid Waste: Lamentations 2 paints a harrowing picture of Jerusalem’s devastation, describing the city as a desolate wasteland laid waste by the hand of God. The once-glorious capital now lies in ruins, its walls breached, its temple defiled, and its people left to wander the streets in search of solace.
  2. Divine Judgment and Desolation: The destruction of Jerusalem is seen as a manifestation of divine judgment, a consequence of the city’s rebellion and sin. God’s wrath is depicted as fierce and relentless, sparing no one in its path as it lays waste to the once-proud city and its inhabitants.
  3. The Silence of Grief: Amidst the ruins of Jerusalem, we encounter the profound silence of grief, as the city’s inhabitants are left speechless in the face of unimaginable tragedy. The streets that once echoed with the sounds of life and laughter now lie silent, haunted by the memories of what once was.

Call to Action:

  1. Sit in Silence and Lament: Take time to sit in silence and lament the brokenness and suffering in our world, acknowledging the pain and sorrow that exists both individually and collectively. Allow yourself to grieve honestly and openly, knowing that God hears the cries of the brokenhearted and offers comfort in times of distress.
  2. Seek God’s Presence in the Silence: In the midst of the silence, seek God’s presence and companionship, knowing that He is near to the brokenhearted and the downtrodden. Find solace in His promises of comfort and restoration, trusting that He is able to bring beauty from ashes and joy from mourning.
  3. Bear Witness to the Suffering of Others: As you lament the brokenness in our world, commit to bearing witness to the suffering of others and extending compassion and support wherever it is needed. Stand in solidarity with those who are marginalized and oppressed, advocating for justice and mercy in the midst of despair.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, mourning the brokenness and suffering in our world. As we sit in silence and lament, we pray for Your presence to surround us, bringing comfort and hope in the midst of despair. Help us to bear witness to the suffering of others, extending Your love and compassion to all who are in need. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Remembering Better Days: Job’s Reflection on Past Blessings (Job 29)

Have you ever found yourself reminiscing about better days, longing for the joys and blessings of the past?

In Job 29, we encounter Job’s poignant reflection on the prosperity and favor he once enjoyed.

Join us as we journey through this chapter and explore Job’s heartfelt recollection of better times and the lessons it offers us today.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of Job, we witnessed Job’s anguished lamentations and his contentious exchanges with his friends, who accuse him of wrongdoing. However, in Job 29, we encounter a shift in tone as Job reflects on the blessings and honor he once experienced.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Job 29

Job’s Past Was Glorious

      1And Job again took up his discourse and said,

      2“Oh that I were as in months gone by,
As in the days when God watched over me;

      3When His lamp shone over my head,
And by His light I walked through darkness;

      4As I was in the prime of my days,
When the friendship of God was over my tent;

      5When the Almighty was yet with me,
And my children were around me;

      6When my steps were bathed in butter,
And the rock poured out for me streams of oil!

      7“When I went out to the gate of the city,
When I took my seat in the square,

      8The young men saw me and hid themselves,
And the old men arose and stood.

      9“The princes stopped talking
And put their hands on their mouths;

      10The voice of the nobles was hushed,
And their tongue stuck to their palate.

      11“For when the ear heard, it called me blessed,
And when the eye saw, it gave witness of me,

      12Because I delivered the poor who cried for help,
And the orphan who had no helper.

      13“The blessing of the one ready to perish came upon me,
And I made the widow’s heart sing for joy.

      14“I put on righteousness, and it clothed me;
My justice was like a robe and a turban.

      15“I was eyes to the blind
And feet to the lame.

      16“I was a father to the needy,
And I investigated the case which I did not know.

      17“I broke the jaws of the wicked
And snatched the prey from his teeth.

      18“Then I thought, ‘I shall die in my nest,
And I shall multiply my days as the sand.

      19‘My root is spread out to the waters,
And dew lies all night on my branch.

      20‘My glory is ever new with me,
And my bow is renewed in my hand.’

      21“To me they listened and waited,
And kept silent for my counsel.

      22“After my words they did not speak again,
And my speech dropped on them.

      23“They waited for me as for the rain,
And opened their mouth as for the spring rain.

      24“I smiled on them when they did not believe,
And the light of my face they did not cast down.

      25“I chose a way for them and sat as chief,
And dwelt as a king among the troops,
As one who comforted the mourners.

Summary Key Points:

  1. The Glorious Past (Job 29:1-10): Job begins by reminiscing about the days when God’s favor shone brightly upon him. He recalls the respect and admiration he received from his community, describing how he was esteemed as a leader and a source of counsel and comfort for the needy. Job fondly remembers the prosperity and security he enjoyed, feeling as though God’s lamp shone upon his head and guided his steps through the darkness.
  2. A Life of Compassion and Justice (Job 29:11-17): Job continues his reflection by recounting the acts of compassion and justice he performed during his days of prosperity. He describes how he championed the cause of the oppressed and defended the rights of the vulnerable, earning him the praise and gratitude of those he helped. Job attributes his ability to administer justice to God’s guidance and blessing upon his life.
  3. Honored and Respected (Job 29:18-25): In the final section of the chapter, Job reflects on the honor and respect he received from his peers and elders. He describes how his wisdom and counsel were sought after by leaders and dignitaries, and how he was regarded as a father to the needy and an advocate for the marginalized. Despite his current afflictions, Job longs for the restoration of his former glory and the return of God’s favor upon his life.

Call to Action:

As we ponder Job’s reflection on past blessings in Job 29, let’s consider how we can apply its lessons to our own lives:

  1. Gratitude for God’s Blessings: Take time to reflect on the blessings and favor God has bestowed upon you in the past. Cultivate a heart of gratitude for His provision, protection, and guidance throughout your life’s journey.
  2. Compassion and Justice: Follow Job’s example of compassion and justice by advocating for the oppressed and defending the rights of the vulnerable in your community. Seek opportunities to extend a helping hand to those in need and to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.
  3. Seeking Restoration: Like Job, trust in God’s faithfulness and goodness, even in the midst of trials and adversity. Pray for restoration and renewal in areas of your life where you have experienced loss or suffering, trusting that God is able to turn your mourning into dancing and your sorrow into joy.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank you for the lessons we learn from Job’s reflection on past blessings in Job 29. Help us to cultivate hearts of gratitude for your provision and guidance in our lives. Empower us to be agents of compassion and justice in our communities, advocating for the oppressed and defending the rights of the vulnerable. Grant us faith to trust in your faithfulness and goodness, even in the midst of trials and adversity. May we always find our hope and restoration in you. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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When Friends Offer Troubling Advice (Job 22)

Have you ever experienced the frustration of receiving well-intentioned advice that seems far from the mark?

In life’s most challenging moments, we often turn to friends for support and guidance, but sometimes their counsel can miss the mark entirely. Job faced similar experiences, especially in the dialogue found in Job 22.

Let’s explore the lessons we can learn from Job’s encounters with his friends.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of the Book of Job, we witness Job’s ongoing suffering and his friends’ attempts to explain it as a result of his sins, reflecting the idea that suffering is always a consequence of personal sin. In contrast, Job stands emphatically behind his innocence, challenging this simplistic view of suffering as divine punishment for personal wrongdoing.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Job 22

Eliphaz Accuses and Exhorts Job

      1Then Eliphaz the Temanite responded,

      2“Can a vigorous man be of use to God,
Or a wise man be useful to himself?

      3“Is there any pleasure to the Almighty if you are righteous,
Or profit if you make your ways perfect?

      4“Is it because of your reverence that He reproves you,
That He enters into judgment against you?

      5“Is not your wickedness great,
And your iniquities without end?

      6“For you have taken pledges of your brothers without cause,
And stripped men naked.

      7“To the weary you have given no water to drink,
And from the hungry you have withheld bread.

      8“But the earth belongs to the mighty man,
And the honorable man dwells in it.

      9“You have sent widows away empty,
And the strength of the orphans has been crushed.

      10“Therefore snares surround you,
And sudden dread terrifies you,

      11Or darkness, so that you cannot see,
And an abundance of water covers you.

      12“Is not God in the height of heaven?
Look also at the distant stars, how high they are!

      13“You say, ‘What does God know?
Can He judge through the thick darkness?

      14‘Clouds are a hiding place for Him, so that He cannot see;
And He walks on the vault of heaven.’

      15“Will you keep to the ancient path
Which wicked men have trod,

      16Who were snatched away before their time,
Whose foundations were washed away by a river?

      17“They said to God, ‘Depart from us!’
And ‘What can the Almighty do to them?’

      18“Yet He filled their houses with good things;
But the counsel of the wicked is far from me.

      19“The righteous see and are glad,
And the innocent mock them,

      20Saying, ‘Truly our adversaries are cut off,
And their abundance the fire has consumed.’

      21“Yield now and be at peace with Him;
Thereby good will come to you.

      22“Please receive instruction from His mouth
And establish His words in your heart.

      23“If you return to the Almighty, you will be restored;
If you remove unrighteousness far from your tent,

      24And place your gold in the dust,
And the gold of Ophir among the stones of the brooks,

      25Then the Almighty will be your gold
And choice silver to you.

      26“For then you will delight in the Almighty
And lift up your face to God.

      27“You will pray to Him, and He will hear you;
And you will pay your vows.

      28“You will also decree a thing, and it will be established for you;
And light will shine on your ways.

      29“When you are cast down, you will speak with confidence,
And the humble person He will save.

      30“He will deliver one who is not innocent,
And he will be delivered through the cleanness of your hands.”

Summary Key Points:

  1. Eliphaz’s Accusations: In Job 22, Eliphaz, one of Job’s friends, offers a harsh rebuke to Job, accusing him of various sins. He suggests that Job’s suffering is a direct result of his wickedness, asserting that God punishes the wicked and rewards the righteous. Eliphaz’s accusations reflect a common belief that suffering is always a consequence of personal sin.
  2. Lessons in Empathy: Job’s experience with his friends reminds us of the importance of empathy and sensitivity when offering counsel to those in distress. While Eliphaz and others may have had good intentions, their failure to understand the depth of Job’s suffering and their rush to judgment illustrate the need for compassion in difficult times. They were trying to solve the problem instead of simply comforting and encouraging their friend.
  3. Seeking God’s Perspective: Job’s story prompts us to seek God’s perspective in times of suffering. Instead of jumping to conclusions or offering quick answers, we should approach the suffering of others with humility and prayer, recognizing that we may not fully comprehend God’s purposes.

Call to Action: As we reflect on Job 22, let us strive to be empathetic listeners and companions to those facing trials. Rather than making hasty judgments or providing easy explanations, let us pray for discernment and seek God’s perspective. When comforting friends in times of suffering, may we offer not only words of encouragement but also the gift of understanding and empathy.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the lessons found in the Book of Job. Help us to be compassionate and understanding friends to those in times of suffering. Grant us the wisdom to seek Your perspective and guidance when comforting others, and may our words and actions reflect Your love and grace. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Discussion Prompt: Share a personal experience where you received counsel from a well-meaning friend that missed the mark. How did it make you feel, and what did you learn from that experience? How can we apply the lessons from Job’s story to our interactions with those facing trials?

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Unity in God’s Image: Reflecting on Martin Luther King Jr.

As we pause to reflect on the life and contributions of Martin Luther King Jr. as a nation, let us also turn our attention to the guiding light of God’s word in the Bible. In today’s world, where the color of our skin often takes center stage, it’s crucial to revisit the fundamental truths of unity and equality that God’s word imparts.

1. One Human Race in God’s Image

In the face of a society that sometimes overemphasizes our differences based on skin color, the Bible presents a different perspective. It reminds us that there is only one race of humans—no distinctions based on color. We are all equal and share the divine image of God. Skin color is just one facet of the rich tapestry of God’s creation, like hair color, height, or eye color.

“Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness… God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” (Genesis 1:26-27)

2. All One in Christ Jesus

The apostle Paul underscores our unity in Christ Jesus. In God’s eyes, there is no division based on ethnicity, social status, or gender. Instead, our faith in Christ unites us, making us heirs to God’s promises.

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s descendants, heirs according to promise.” (Galatians 3:28-29)

3. The Legacy of Martin Luther King Jr.

Martin Luther King Jr.’s legacy is a testament to the pursuit of equality and unity. In his iconic 1963 speech in Washington, D.C., he invoked the principles of America’s founding documents and the teachings of Christ to champion a vision of unity, not division.

4. Progress and Peaceful Resolution

As a nation, we have made significant progress in the decades since Martin Luther King Jr.’s speech. However, today’s challenges require careful consideration. Rather than emphasizing division and conflict, we should focus on peaceful solutions that unite our great nation. Our aim should not be to create enemies but to draw closer to God, which, in turn, will bring us closer to each other, regardless of our skin color.

5. Embracing the American Dream

Martin Luther King Jr. was a firm believer in the American dream. He did not see America as a place to be torn down and rebuilt but as a nation with the potential for greatness. He inspired hope and encouraged us to envision a future where individuals are not judged by the color of their skin but by their character.

6. A Vision of Unity and Brotherhood

In his “I Have a Dream” speech, King envisioned a world where valleys are exalted, mountains made low, rough places made plain, and crooked places straight. He foresaw a day when all of God’s children would unite in brotherhood.

A Prayer for Unity

As we remember Martin Luther King Jr. and his message of unity, let us pray for our nation. May we come together as one nation under God, embracing the beautiful diversity He has created among us. Let us reject divisions based on physical differences, recognizing that we are all one, made in God’s image. In our quest for unity, may we seek God’s perspective and view one another as He does—equal, beloved, and deserving of love and respect, regardless of the color of our skin. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Navigating Judgments and Assumptions in Times of Need (Job 15)

Have you ever found yourself grappling with judgments and assumptions while seeking comfort in difficult times? Perhaps you have found yourself making judgments and assumptions while seeking to comfort others?

Delve into Job 15 with me as we navigate through the complexities of offering solace and the unintended impact of misguided words during trials.

Enter into this journey from both the perspective of the one seeking comfort and the friend trying to help.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture.)

Job 15

Eliphaz Says Job Presumes Much

      1Then Eliphaz the Temanite responded,

      2“Should a wise man answer with windy knowledge
And fill himself with the east wind?

      3“Should he argue with useless talk,
Or with words which are not profitable?

      4“Indeed, you do away with reverence
And hinder meditation before God.

      5“For your guilt teaches your mouth,
And you choose the language of the crafty.

      6“Your own mouth condemns you, and not I;
And your own lips testify against you.

      7“Were you the first man to be born,
Or were you brought forth before the hills?

      8“Do you hear the secret counsel of God,
And limit wisdom to yourself?

      9“What do you know that we do not know?
What do you understand that we do not?

      10“Both the gray-haired and the aged are among us,
Older than your father.

      11“Are the consolations of God too small for you,
Even the word spoken gently with you?

      12“Why does your heart carry you away?
And why do your eyes flash,

      13That you should turn your spirit against God
And allow such words to go out of your mouth?

      14“What is man, that he should be pure,
Or he who is born of a woman, that he should be righteous?

      15“Behold, He puts no trust in His holy ones,
And the heavens are not pure in His sight;

      16How much less one who is detestable and corrupt,
Man, who drinks iniquity like water!

What Eliphaz Has Seen of Life

17“I will tell you, listen to me;
And what I have seen I will also declare;

      18What wise men have told,
And have not concealed from their fathers,

      19To whom alone the land was given,
And no alien passed among them.

      20“The wicked man writhes in pain all his days,
And numbered are the years stored up for the ruthless.

      21“Sounds of terror are in his ears;
While at peace the destroyer comes upon him.

      22“He does not believe that he will return from darkness,
And he is destined for the sword.

      23“He wanders about for food, saying, ‘Where is it?’
He knows that a day of darkness is at hand.

      24“Distress and anguish terrify him,
They overpower him like a king ready for the attack,

      25Because he has stretched out his hand against God
And conducts himself arrogantly against the Almighty.

      26“He rushes headlong at Him
With his massive shield.

      27“For he has covered his face with his fat
And made his thighs heavy with flesh.

      28“He has lived in desolate cities,
In houses no one would inhabit,
Which are destined to become ruins.

      29“He will not become rich, nor will his wealth endure;
And his grain will not bend down to the ground.

      30“He will not escape from darkness;
The flame will wither his shoots,
And by the breath of His mouth he will go away.

      31“Let him not trust in emptiness, deceiving himself;
For emptiness will be his reward.

      32“It will be accomplished before his time,
And his palm branch will not be green.

      33“He will drop off his unripe grape like the vine,
And will cast off his flower like the olive tree.

      34“For the company of the godless is barren,
And fire consumes the tents of the corrupt.

      35“They conceive mischief and bring forth iniquity,
And their mind prepares deception.”

Summary of Key Points (including some context from other related chapters):

  1. Eliphaz’s Intensifying Judgments: In Job 15, Eliphaz amplifies his judgments, convinced that Job’s suffering must be a consequence of hidden sin. Explore the escalating tension as Job contends with these assumptions, shedding light on the challenges of offering support.
  2. The Struggle of Defending Righteousness: Job passionately defends his righteousness, exposing the internal turmoil faced by those unjustly accused. Uncover the poignant struggle of maintaining integrity in the face of unwarranted judgments.
  3. The Impactful Nature of Words: Despite Eliphaz’s good intentions, his words fail to provide the solace Job seeks. Witness the profound impact that well-intentioned yet misguided judgments can have, emphasizing the need for empathetic communication.
  4. Job’s Desperation and Unyielding Resolve: Job, burdened by relentless accusations, expresses both desperation and unwavering resolve. Journey with him as he clings to his innocence and seeks a fair hearing before God in the midst of overwhelming judgments.

Reflect on moments when you’ve felt judged or misunderstood during challenging times.

Engage in meaningful conversations with friends or family, fostering an atmosphere of empathy and understanding.

Share your experiences and encourage others to offer support without making assumptions.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.