The context of Matthew 18 is Jesus teaching about what it means to be great in the kingdom of heaven. One aspect identified early in this chapter is that someone who is great helps God’s children to follow and serve God properly. To lead them into temptation has dire consequences. In Matthew 18:15-18, Jesus provides clear guidance on how to correct another believer who sins against you.
15 “If another believer[d] sins against you,[e] go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back. 16 But if you are unsuccessful, take one or two others with you and go back again, so that everything you say may be confirmed by two or three witnesses. 17 If the person still refuses to listen, take your case to the church. Then if he or she won’t accept the church’s decision, treat that person as a pagan or a corrupt tax collector.
18 “I tell you the truth, whatever you forbid[f] on earth will be forbidden in heaven, and whatever you permit[g] on earth will be permitted in heaven.
First and foremost we must recognize that Jesus is telling us to confront other believers who are sinning. He specifically identifies believers… we need to respond to non-believers in a different way to be effective in engaging them for Christ. We do conduct ourselves in a way that gathers attention to ourselves, but in a way that tries to show others the proper way to conduct themselves as a member of the church, which is to say a follower of Jesus. We are to start privately, then in a small group, and escalate from there.
Verses 17 and 18 indicate that Jesus gives some amount of authority or credibility to represent Him to those who are more mature in their relationship with God such as leaders amongst the believers in the church. Verse 18 is directed at the disciples specifically.
We must next recognize that Jesus is instructing us as a body of believers not to accept the sin of those who refuse to repent. If someone is sinning openly and unrepentantly, they are acting like and should be treated like pagans rather than believers.
Many today say this is too harsh and we need to be more inclusive and seek to avoid hurting people’s feelings about their sin. Their argument is with Jesus Christ himself. The scripture does not say we are to hurt or reject the sinners, but rather treat them as the unrepentant sinner they are… which is essentially similar to a pagan or corrupt person. We can still show love, but should not treat them the same way that we do genuine believers who seek and submit to God.
Why? Remember the context of the earlier verses in chapter 18. God is talking about leading His children into sin and temptation. When we as a church put man’s desire to be inclusive of those openly sinning against God above God’s desire to set apart the body of believers as holy we quite simply confuse people as to what it means to be a follower of Christ. It gives the appearance that the unrepentant sin behavior is endorsed and accepted by the body of Christ. This leads to more and more people accepting and participating in the sin and then expands to include more and more sins. Eventually the body of people in the church looks like a direct reflection of the broader culture instead of reflecting God.
We can see clear evidence of this within the U.S.A. today. Many claim to be Christian, going to church on Sunday, but choose which of God’s instructions they will or will not follow. Often many end up directly contradicting God with their behavior and efforts to influence others. Consider examples such as people who identify as Christian but support killing unborn babies for convenience, people who accept homosexual behavior rather than helping others over come it, many gossip and are mean spirited toward others, others are driven by greed seeking money and possessions as their primary goal in life that drives their behavior, and so on.
It is not that all sinners should be separated from the church… there would be no one left because we are all sinners. The point Jesus is making focuses on unrepentant sinners who openly reject God’s teaching while claiming to be followers of God.
Let each of us seek God’s help to open our eyes to areas where we sin and are at risk of leading others astray when our behaviors and attitude do not match with God’s instruction. Further, pray God gives us each fellow brothers and sisters in Christ in our lives that can help us to identify these areas in ourselves as well. Lastly, pray that God would give you the courage and inspiration to help others by confronting them when they are sinning.
God wants us to help each other to live in righteousness as a holy people set aside to serve and honor our creator.
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