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Love, Marriage, Song of Solomon

Delighting in Love and Character (Song of Solomon 1:1-4)

Have you ever longed deeply for someone—not just for their presence, but for the goodness of their character?

Key Verse:
“Your name is like purified oil; therefore the maidens love you.” —Song of Solomon 1:3 NASB

Background Context:
Song of Solomon (or Song of Songs) is a poetic dialogue celebrating love between a bride and her beloved. While the book rejoices in the beauty of marital affection, it also reflects a deeper spiritual truth—God’s covenant love for His people and the longing His people have for Him.

In 1:1–4, the bride expresses a deep desire for her beloved. Her longing is not shallow or purely physical—she delights in his character. His “name,” which represents his reputation, is compared to “purified oil,” a fragrance that is refined, precious, and pleasing. She admires who he is, not merely how he looks. This sets the tone for the entire book: true love overflows from character, faithfulness, and purity.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 1:1-4

The Young Shulammite Bride and Jerusalem’s Daughters

      1The Song of Songs, which is Solomon’s.

      2“May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine.

      3“Your oils have a pleasing fragrance,
Your name is like purified oil;
Therefore the maidens love you.

      4“Draw me after you and let us run together!
The king has brought me into his chambers.”

“We will rejoice in you and be glad;
We will extol your love more than wine.
Rightly do they love you.”

Reflection on Song of Solomon 1:1–4:
These opening verses invite us to pause and appreciate the beauty of longing when it is rooted in righteousness. The bride longs for the beloved because his character is pure. His “name”—his integrity, reputation, and inner life—is like refined oil, a fragrance that draws others with its goodness.

This reminds us that love founded on character is secure. True affection grows from trustworthiness, faithfulness, and inner virtue.

Spiritually, these verses echo the believer’s longing for the Lord. God’s name—His character—is beautiful, pure, steadfast, and worthy of our desire. When we come to know Him, we begin to long for His nearness, His goodness, and His presence with the same earnest cry: “Draw me after You.”

Just as the bride delights not only in the beloved’s embrace but in his reputation, so we delight not only in God’s blessings but in who He is.

The joy described in these verses is not immature infatuation but a deep recognition of goodness. Love grounded in character brings confidence, peace, and joy.

Application:

  • Value character above outward qualities. Whether in marriage or friendship, admire what reflects the heart of God.

  • Delight in God’s name. Study His character in Scripture—His purity, justice, compassion, mercy—and let His goodness draw your heart closer.

  • Cultivate a godly reputation. Like purified oil, your character should bless and encourage those around you.

  • Let longing lead you toward God. The desire for closeness reflected in these verses mirrors the believer’s call to seek the Lord with joy.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the beauty of love rooted in character and purity. Teach me to value what is good, righteous, and honorable in others. Draw my heart closer to You so that I may delight in Your name and find joy in Your presence. Help me cultivate a life that reflects Your goodness to those around me. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Faith / Trusting God, Grace / Forgiveness, Joy / Happiness / Rejoicing, Love, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Psalms

The Joy of Being Forgiven (Psalm 32)

Have you ever carried guilt so deeply that it weighed on your body, your mind, and your spirit — and then felt the relief that comes when you finally confess it to God?

Key Verse:
“How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered!” —Psalm 32:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 32 is one of David’s “maschil” psalms — a term indicating instruction or wisdom. Written after a season of personal sin and deep repentance, David reflects on the heavy burden that unconfessed sin brings and the incredible joy and relief that come when God forgives. This psalm pairs beautifully with the themes found in Psalm 51 but focuses more on the results of repentance — freedom, restoration, and renewed guidance. David not only celebrates forgiveness, he teaches others how to live in transparency before God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 32

Blessedness of Forgiveness and of Trust in God.

     1How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered!

      2How blessed is the man to whom the LORD does not impute iniquity,
And in whose spirit there is no deceit!

      3When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away
Through my groaning all day long.

      4For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me;
My vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of summer.

Selah.

      5I acknowledged my sin to You,
And my iniquity I did not hide;
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the LORD”;
And You forgave the guilt of my sin.

Selah.

      6Therefore, let everyone who is godly pray to You in a time when You may be found;
Surely in a flood of great waters they will not reach him.

      7You are my hiding place; You preserve me from trouble;
You surround me with songs of deliverance.

Selah.

      8I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go;
I will counsel you with My eye upon you.

      9Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding,
Whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check,
Otherwise they will not come near to you.

      10Many are the sorrows of the wicked,
But he who trusts in the LORD, lovingkindness shall surround him.

      11Be glad in the LORD and rejoice, you righteous ones;
And shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart.

Reflection on Psalm 32:
Psalm 32 opens with a burst of joy — not because life is perfect, but because God forgives. David knows firsthand the crushing weight of hidden sin. He speaks honestly: when he kept silent, his bones wasted away, his strength was drained, and God’s hand felt heavy on him. Sin always affects more than just our mind — it burdens our emotions, our bodies, and our relationships.

But everything changes with one simple, humble action: confession. “I acknowledged my sin to You… and You forgave the guilt of my sin.” David doesn’t describe God delaying, negotiating, or scolding. God forgives. Fully. Immediately. Deeply.

This psalm also teaches us that confession leads not only to forgiveness but to protection and instruction. David describes God as his hiding place, his protector who surrounds him with songs of deliverance. God then speaks: “I will instruct you and teach you… I will counsel you with My eye upon you.” Forgiveness isn’t merely the removal of guilt — it is the reopening of relationship, the restoration of guidance, and the renewal of intimacy with God.

David warns against being stubborn like a mule, resisting God’s leading. Instead, the forgiven believer is invited to live with a tender, responsive heart. The psalm concludes with a beautiful contrast: “Many are the sorrows of the wicked, but he who trusts in the LORD, lovingkindness shall surround him.”

Forgiveness is freedom. Confession is not humiliation — it is liberation. And joy fills the heart of the one who walks in transparency with God.

Application:

  • Bring your sin into the light. God already knows — confession lifts the weight from your soul.

  • Trust God’s forgiveness. Do not cling to guilt He has already removed.

  • Stay teachable. Respond quickly when God convicts or redirects.

  • Live transparently before Him. Freedom grows when we walk honestly, not hiding or pretending.

  • Rejoice in God’s mercy. Let gratitude overflow as you reflect on the blessing of forgiveness.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the blessing of forgiveness. Thank You that You never turn away a repentant heart, but quickly restore and embrace those who confess their sin. Teach me to live with transparency before You — not stubborn or resistant, but responsive, humble, and willing to be guided. Surround me with Your lovingkindness and help me walk daily in the freedom You provide. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Holy / Set Apart, Tribulation, Wickedness / Evil, Wise, Worldliness

Living Wisely Among the Ungodly (Genesis 34:1–17)

Have you ever found yourself—or your family—in a situation where you realized too late that being too close to ungodliness brought danger you never expected?

Key Verse:
“But they were deeply grieved, and they were very angry because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, for such a thing ought not to be done.” —Genesis 34:7 NASB

Background Context:
Jacob has settled his family in Shechem after returning to the land of Canaan. Though Jacob has grown spiritually over many years, the people living around him do not fear God. Living among those who reject God’s ways always carries danger—especially when families are not trained carefully about how to interact with ungodly culture.

In this context, Dinah goes out to “visit the daughters of the land.” Many commentaries suggest she was likely a young teenager. It appears she did not ask permission or take proper protection with her. Among a pagan people with no moral restraint, she becomes vulnerable and is violated by Shechem.

When Jacob hears, he remains silent, unsure how to respond. But her brothers are devastated—filled with grief and righteous anger because “such a thing ought not to be done.”

Genesis 34 is a sobering reminder that settling too close to ungodly influences can place our families in danger—not only physically, but morally and spiritually.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 34:1–17

      1Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to visit the daughters of the land. 2When Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, the prince of the land, saw her, he took her and lay with her by force. 3He was deeply attracted to Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke tenderly to her. 4So Shechem spoke to his father Hamor, saying, “Get me this young girl for a wife.” 5Now Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter; but his sons were with his livestock in the field, so Jacob kept silent until they came in. 6Then Hamor the father of Shechem went out to Jacob to speak with him. 7Now the sons of Jacob came in from the field when they heard it; and the men were grieved, and they were very angry because he had done a disgraceful thing in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter, for such a thing ought not to be done.

      8But Hamor spoke with them, saying, “The soul of my son Shechem longs for your daughter; please give her to him in marriage. 9“Intermarry with us; give your daughters to us and take our daughters for yourselves. 10“Thus you shall live with us, and the land shall be open before you; live and trade in it and acquire property in it.” 11Shechem also said to her father and to her brothers, “If I find favor in your sight, then I will give whatever you say to me. 12“Ask me ever so much bridal payment and gift, and I will give according as you say to me; but give me the girl in marriage.”

      13But Jacob’s sons answered Shechem and his father Hamor with deceit, because he had defiled Dinah their sister. 14They said to them, “We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one who is uncircumcised, for that would be a disgrace to us. 15“Only on this condition will we consent to you: if you will become like us, in that every male of you be circumcised, 16then we will give our daughters to you, and we will take your daughters for ourselves, and we will live with you and become one people. 17“But if you will not listen to us to be circumcised, then we will take our daughter and go.”

Reflection on Genesis 34:1–17:
This passage confronts us with the tragic consequences of living close to those who reject God’s ways. Dinah’s violation is described plainly and without excuse. Scripture does not soften the evil, nor pretend it is small. God sees the wound. God hears the cries of the oppressed. God condemns the sin.

But we also see that Jacob’s choice of where to settle may have contributed to the danger. Shechem was a place with no fear of the Lord, and the people practiced immorality as a normal part of life. Yet Jacob appears to have stayed there without caution, without preparing his children to discern the risks, and without keeping proper boundaries around his family.

Dinah, curious about the women of the land, goes out alone—perhaps naively, perhaps secretly. Her desire to explore pagan culture takes her outside the safety of a God-fearing home and places her into the arms of someone with no moral restraint. The world often celebrates “exploration,” “blending,” and “multicultural curiosity,” but Scripture warns repeatedly that blending with ungodly ways leads to sorrow, compromise, or destruction.

Jacob’s sons understand at least one thing clearly: it would be dangerous and wrong to intermarry with a man—and a people—who do not fear God. They wrongly allow their anger to grow into deception and later into violent vengeance, which we will address in the next devotional. But their instinct that Dinah should not be handed over to an unrepentant man is morally sound.

There is a timeless principle here: living near ungodliness requires intentional safeguards. Raising children among a culture that rejects God demands vigilance, instruction, and active protection. The world will gladly pull our children into its values if we are not intentional. Parents must guide, teach, warn, and create healthy boundaries—not shelter in fantasy, but equip with truth. Had Dinah understood the dangers more clearly, she might never have wandered into harm.

This passage reminds us that evil exists, that ungodly culture is not harmless, and that families must be wise—living in the world, but not becoming entangled with it.

Application:

  • Be intentional about where and how you plant your family. Jacob’s choice to settle in Shechem carried spiritual and moral risks. Consider carefully the influences around your home.
  • Teach children the “why,” not only the “what.” Explain dangers clearly. Do not pretend the world is harmless—prepare them with truth.
  • Grieve injustice deeply. God does. Anger at sin is appropriate when it aligns with God’s righteousness.
  • Do not minimize sin. Shechem’s act was evil, and no cultural blending or marriage proposal could make it acceptable.
  • Beware of casual blending with ungodly culture. Scripture calls God’s people to be holy, set apart, and discerning in their relationships and influences.
  • Seek God’s wisdom in place of passivity. Jacob’s silence did not help Dinah. When trouble comes, seek God and act with integrity and courage.

Closing Prayer:
Father, we come before You with heavy hearts as we read this painful passage. Thank You that You see every wound and every injustice. Help me to be wise in where I settle my family, in what influences I allow, and in how I train my children. Give me courage to stand for what is holy and discernment to avoid blending with ways that oppose You. When evil occurs, teach me to respond with truth, compassion, and wisdom—always seeking Your justice and Your heart. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Provider, Thankfulness, Traditions / Holidays

Give Thanks to the LORD for He Is Good – Table devotional (Thanksgiving)

We should always seek to be thankful to the Lord for all He provides, but Thanksgiving is a great time to remind ourselves to come together as a family and as a community, and as a nation to give thanks together to our Lord,  YHWH. For those who follow Yeshua (Hebrew for Jesus), we always have that most important gift of salvation through grace by faith for which to be thankful… no matter what else may be going on in our lives.

I have found it is very easy to lose focus on the Lord as we get busy with our holiday traditions and celebrations… even Thanksgiving. It seems the Lord dropped a surprise in my shopping bag on trip to the store several years ago.  I want to share it with you. Lifeway Christian store put together a small booklet of scriptures into a “Thanksgiving Table Devotional”. We have it at our table and we read and share as we come together to eat our meals.

Psalm 106:1

1Praise the LORD!
Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good;
For His lovingkindness is everlasting.

1 Thessalonians 5:18

18in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Colossians 3:17

17Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father.

Philippians 4:6

6Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Psalm 9:1-2

1I will give thanks to the LORD with all my heart;
I will tell of all Your wonders.

      2I will be glad and exult in You;
I will sing praise to Your name, O Most High.

As we read these scriptures together we take time to go around the table and ask about examples of things that are specific to us for which we are grateful to our Father who provides. This is not particularly unique, but it sure is easy to overlook. I appreciate the Lord putting these scriptures where I would find them as I was looking for ways to make Thanksgiving more meaningful and focused on Him for my family. Praise the Lord He cares for each of us as His children!

What will you make the focus of this Thanksgiving season? Football, shopping, food, fellowship… or our Creator and Father and the right attitude towards Him? My suggestion is to focus on our Father with a healthy side of family fellowship.

Take some time to pray right now and give Him thanks in your own words. Ask Him to help you have wisdom on how to approach your family traditions such as those around Thanksgiving.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Learning To Pray Effectively, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Thankfulness, Traditions / Holidays

A Heart Full of Thanks and Trust (Psalm 138)

Are you preparing your heart for Thanksgiving — not just the holiday, but the posture of gratitude that draws you nearer to God?

Key Verse:
“I will give You thanks with all my heart; I will sing praises to You before the gods.” —Psalm 138:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 138 is a psalm of David, written as a declaration of wholehearted thanksgiving to the Lord. David reflects on God’s faithfulness in times of trouble, His unfailing love, and His fulfilling of promises made. Even when surrounded by enemies or uncertainty, David chooses to give thanks — not because circumstances are perfect, but because God is faithful.

In the days leading to our modern celebration of Thanksgiving, Psalm 138 invites us to remember that gratitude is not merely an emotion but an act of worship. It is a confession of trust in the God who hears, answers, strengthens, and sustains His people.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 138

Thanksgiving for the LORD’S Favor.

A Psalm of David.

     1I will give You thanks with all my heart;
I will sing praises to You before the gods.

      2I will bow down toward Your holy temple
And give thanks to Your name for Your lovingkindness and Your truth;
For You have magnified Your word according to all Your name.

      3On the day I called, You answered me;
You made me bold with strength in my soul.

      4All the kings of the earth will give thanks to You, O LORD,
When they have heard the words of Your mouth.

      5And they will sing of the ways of the LORD,
For great is the glory of the LORD.

      6For though the LORD is exalted,
Yet He regards the lowly,
But the haughty He knows from afar.

      7Though I walk in the midst of trouble, You will revive me;
You will stretch forth Your hand against the wrath of my enemies,
And Your right hand will save me.

      8The LORD will accomplish what concerns me;
Your lovingkindness, O LORD, is everlasting;
Do not forsake the works of Your hands.

Reflection on Psalm 138:
Psalm 138 beautifully captures the heart of biblical thanksgiving. David gives thanks “with all his heart” because he has experienced the character of God — His lovingkindness, His truth, His presence in hardship, and His faithfulness to complete what He begins.

As we approach Thanksgiving, this psalm reminds us of several truths:

  • Thanksgiving begins with remembering — remembering what God has done, how He has answered prayers, and how He has strengthened us when we were weak.

  • Thanksgiving is rooted in God’s character — not in circumstances, but in His faithful love and unchanging truth.

  • Thanksgiving grows in the valleys — David gives thanks even though he walks “in the midst of trouble,” because he knows the Lord is with him.

  • Thanksgiving looks forward with hope — David declares, “The Lord will accomplish what concerns me.” Gratitude strengthens our trust that God will continue His work in us.

This season often reminds us to count our blessings. But Scripture teaches something deeper: thanksgiving is not only gratitude for what God has given — it is confidence in who God is. And that confidence lifts our hearts, deepens our worship, and renews our faith.

Application:

  • Make time to reflect intentionally. Don’t rush into Thanksgiving distracted — pause and remember the specific ways God has been faithful to you this year.

  • Give thanks for God’s character, not just His gifts. His steadfast love and truth remain even when circumstances shift.

  • Let gratitude strengthen your faith. Thankfulness turns your eyes from what is uncertain to the God who never changes.

  • Thank God in your trials. Like David, trust that God is at work even in difficult seasons — and give thanks for His presence and purpose.

This Thanksgiving, let your gratitude anchor you in God’s faithfulness — not just for what He has done, but for who He is and how He continues to sustain you.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your steadfast love, Your truth, and Your unfailing faithfulness. As Thanksgiving approaches, prepare my heart to remember Your goodness with sincerity and joy. Help me to give You thanks with all my heart — in blessing and in hardship — trusting that You will accomplish what concerns me. Fill my spirit with gratitude that strengthens my faith and draws me closer to You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Fellowship, Teachable, Truth

Walking in the Light (1 John 1:1–10)

Do you ever feel tempted to hide parts of your life from God — as if the shadows are safer than the light?

Key Verse:
“If we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.” —1 John 1:7 NASB

Background Context:
John opens his letter by grounding everything he teaches in firsthand experience. He and the other apostles had seen, heard, and touched Jesus — the “Word of Life.” This makes their message not theory, but testimony. The eternal Son of God came in the flesh, revealed the Father’s love, and brought life to all who believe.

John’s purpose is to invite believers into genuine fellowship — both with God and with one another. But true fellowship cannot exist in darkness. To walk with God means to walk in light — in honesty, purity, and truth. Sin must be confessed, not concealed. God’s light exposes what is hidden, not to condemn us, but to cleanse and restore.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 1:1–10

Introduction, The Incarnate Word

      1What was from the beginning, what we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we have looked at and touched with our hands, concerning the Word of Life— 2and the life was manifested, and we have seen and testify and proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and was manifested to us— 3what we have seen and heard we proclaim to you also, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father, and with His Son Jesus Christ. 4These things we write, so that our joy may be made complete.

God Is Light

      5This is the message we have heard from Him and announce to you, that God is Light, and in Him there is no darkness at all. 6If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth; 7but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. 8If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us.

Reflection on 1 John 1:1–10:
This passage reminds us that Christianity is not about a set of ideas, but about a real relationship. John begins by saying, “What we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we have looked at and touched with our hands…” (v. 1). Faith in Yeshua is built on facts, not feelings — on the reality of the living Christ.

From that foundation, John moves to the heart of his message: God is light, and there is no darkness in Him at all. Light represents truth, purity, and holiness. Darkness represents sin, deception, and denial. We cannot walk in both at once.

To “walk in the light” doesn’t mean being perfect — it means being honest before God. It means living transparently, bringing sin into the open through confession. Verse 9 offers one of the most freeing promises in all of Scripture: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Confession isn’t about informing God of what He already knows — it’s about agreeing with Him about our sin and inviting His light to purify our hearts. Those who claim to have no sin deceive themselves, but those who walk in truth experience forgiveness and fellowship that cannot be found anywhere else.

Walking in the light transforms how we relate to others, too. Fellowship with God naturally leads to fellowship with His people. Just as light connects everything it touches, God’s light unites His children through shared truth and grace.

Application:

  • Be honest with God. Don’t hide sin or pretend to be better than you are. He already knows — and still loves you.

  • Confess regularly. Confession restores intimacy with God and keeps your heart tender to His voice.

  • Walk in truth. Let God’s Word expose and correct anything in your life that doesn’t align with His character.

  • Value fellowship. Walking in the light connects us to others who are also seeking truth and grace.

The more you walk in God’s light, the less fear you’ll have of being exposed — because His light doesn’t just reveal; it redeems.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that You are light and that in You there is no darkness at all. Help me to walk honestly before You, confessing my sins and trusting in the cleansing power of Yeshua’s blood. Teach me to live in truth and to love others in that same light. May Your light shine through me, drawing others into fellowship with You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Marriage, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Unteachable / Foolish, Wise

The Worth of a Godly Woman (Proverbs 31)

What defines true success — outward achievement, or inward devotion to God’s wisdom and purpose?

Key Verse:
“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” —Proverbs 31:30 NASB

Background Context:
Proverbs 31 is traditionally attributed to King Lemuel, a ruler taught by his mother — possibly a poetic title for Solomon and Bathsheba, though that cannot be confirmed. The chapter opens with her wise counsel to her son about avoiding temptation, ruling with justice, and defending the weak.

The second half, verses 10–31, is an acrostic poem — each verse beginning with a successive letter of the Hebrew alphabet. It paints a portrait of a virtuous woman, or “woman of strength” (eshet chayil in Hebrew). This is not an unreachable ideal but a living example of what godly wisdom looks like in daily life — faithful, industrious, generous, and rooted in reverence for God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 31

The Words of Lemuel

1The words of King Lemuel, the oracle which his mother taught him:

2What, O my son?
And what, O son of my womb?
And what, O son of my vows?

3Do not give your strength to women,
Or your ways to that which destroys kings.

4It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
It is not for kings to drink wine,
Or for rulers to desire strong drink,

5For they will drink and forget what is decreed,
And pervert the rights of all the afflicted.

6Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to him whose life is bitter.

7Let him drink and forget his poverty
And remember his trouble no more.

8Open your mouth for the mute,
For the rights of all the unfortunate.

9Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.

Description of a Worthy Woman

10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.

11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.

12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.

13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.

14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.

15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.

16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.

18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.

19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.

20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.

24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.

26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.

28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

29“Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all.”

30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.

31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.

Reflection on Proverbs 31:
Proverbs 31 is often read as a tribute to women — and it certainly is — but at its core, it’s also a celebration of godly character that all believers should emulate. The passage opens with a mother’s words of wisdom, urging her son to lead with self-control and compassion: “Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all the unfortunate.” (v. 8) True strength begins with humility and justice.

The famous section beginning in verse 10 describes a woman of noble character whose value is beyond rubies. She is not praised for perfection, wealth, or status, but for her steadfast faithfulness and fear of the Lord. Her wisdom and diligence bless her household, her compassion reaches the poor, and her words build others up. She balances strength and gentleness, industry and kindness, all flowing from a heart that honors God.

This passage reminds us that godliness is practical. The fear of the Lord shapes not only what we believe, but how we live — how we work, speak, and serve others. The Proverbs 31 woman is an example of faith expressed through action.

Verse 30 summarizes the entire book of Proverbs: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” Outward success fades, but reverence for God endures. Whether man or woman, young or old, the principle remains — wisdom begins with the fear of the Lord (Proverbs 1:7), and ends in a life that honors Him.

Application:

  • Pursue godly character above all else. True worth is found not in appearance or achievement, but in devotion to God.

  • Let wisdom shape your daily life. Like the Proverbs 31 woman, express your faith through diligence, generosity, and integrity.

  • Value others who live with reverence for God. Celebrate and honor those who quietly serve and reflect His heart.

  • Lead and serve with compassion. The wisdom of Proverbs 31 calls every believer — male or female — to stand for righteousness and care for the vulnerable.

The final line of the book is a fitting conclusion to the entire collection of Proverbs: “Give her the product of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.” (v. 31) Wisdom, once embraced, bears fruit that speaks for itself — a life of quiet strength and enduring influence.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the wisdom of Proverbs and for this picture of strength, dignity, and faith in Proverbs 31. Teach me to live with reverence for You in all I do. Help me to walk in diligence, kindness, and compassion, reflecting Your character to those around me. May my life bear fruit that honors You and blesses others, that You alone may be praised. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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Trusting God in the Storm (Psalm 31)

When life feels out of control, where do you place your trust?

Key Verse:
“But as for me, I trust in You, O Lord, I say, ‘You are my God.’ My times are in Your hand.” —Psalm 31:14–15 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 31 was written by David during a time of great distress — likely when he was fleeing from Saul or later facing betrayal by those close to him. Surrounded by danger, rejected by some he once trusted, David cries out for deliverance and strength. Yet, in the midst of fear and anguish, this psalm rises as a bold declaration of faith. David refuses to let despair define him. Instead, he anchors his hope in the steadfast character of God — his refuge, fortress, and redeemer.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 31

      1In You, O LORD, I have taken refuge;
Let me never be ashamed;
In Your righteousness deliver me.

      2Incline Your ear to me, rescue me quickly;
Be to me a rock of strength,
A stronghold to save me.

      3For You are my rock and my fortress;
For Your name’s sake You will lead me and guide me.

      4You will pull me out of the net which they have secretly laid for me,
For You are my strength.

      5Into Your hand I commit my spirit;
You have ransomed me, O LORD, God of truth.

      6I hate those who regard vain idols,
But I trust in the LORD.

      7I will rejoice and be glad in Your lovingkindness,
Because You have seen my affliction;
You have known the troubles of my soul,

      8And You have not given me over into the hand of the enemy;
You have set my feet in a large place.

      9Be gracious to me, O LORD, for I am in distress;
My eye is wasted away from grief, my soul and my body also.

      10For my life is spent with sorrow
And my years with sighing;
My strength has failed because of my iniquity,
And my body has wasted away.

      11Because of all my adversaries, I have become a reproach,
Especially to my neighbors,
And an object of dread to my acquaintances;
Those who see me in the street flee from me.

      12I am forgotten as a dead man, out of mind;
I am like a broken vessel.

      13For I have heard the slander of many,
Terror is on every side;
While they took counsel together against me,
They schemed to take away my life.

      14But as for me, I trust in You, O LORD,
I say, “You are my God.”

      15My times are in Your hand;
Deliver me from the hand of my enemies and from those who persecute me.

      16Make Your face to shine upon Your servant;
Save me in Your lovingkindness.

      17Let me not be put to shame, O LORD, for I call upon You;
Let the wicked be put to shame, let them be silent in Sheol.

      18Let the lying lips be mute,
Which speak arrogantly against the righteous
With pride and contempt.

      19How great is Your goodness,
Which You have stored up for those who fear You,
Which You have wrought for those who take refuge in You,
Before the sons of men!

      20You hide them in the secret place of Your presence from the conspiracies of man;
You keep them secretly in a shelter from the strife of tongues.

      21Blessed be the LORD,
For He has made marvelous His lovingkindness to me in a besieged city.

      22As for me, I said in my alarm,
“I am cut off from before Your eyes”;
Nevertheless You heard the voice of my supplications
When I cried to You.

      23O love the LORD, all you His godly ones!
The LORD preserves the faithful
And fully recompenses the proud doer.

      24Be strong and let your heart take courage,
All you who hope in the LORD.

The older I get, and the more difficulties I face… the more I find joy in reading, studying, and praying the Psalms. David truly strikes an important note in verses 7-8.

      7I will rejoice and be glad in Your lovingkindness,
Because You have seen my affliction;
You have known the troubles of my soul,

      8And You have not given me over into the hand of the enemy;

Reflection on Psalm 31:
Psalm 31 gives voice to the tension every believer feels at some point — the struggle between fear and faith. David begins with urgency: “In You, O Lord, I have taken refuge; let me never be ashamed.” He feels the weight of his enemies’ threats and the loneliness of abandonment, yet through it all, he clings to the one truth that cannot be shaken — God is faithful.

The heart of the psalm rests in verses 14–15: “But as for me, I trust in You, O Lord… My times are in Your hand.” These words are an act of surrender. David acknowledges that every moment of his life — every success, every trial, every breath — rests in the care of his Creator. Even when his circumstances feel chaotic, he finds peace in knowing God holds the clock of his life.

Throughout the psalm, David moves from crying out to worshiping, from anxiety to assurance. He remembers God’s past faithfulness: “You have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; You have set my feet in a large place.” (v. 8) His memory of deliverance fuels his faith in the present trial.

David also speaks prophetically — verse 5, “Into Your hand I commit my spirit,” are the very words Yeshua (Jesus) spoke on the cross (Luke 23:46). Through this, we see the ultimate expression of trust — even in death, the Son entrusted Himself fully to the Father.

Psalm 31 teaches us that trusting God does not mean the absence of struggle; it means clinging to Him through the storm. When others abandon us, when our strength runs dry, His hands still hold us firmly.

Application:

  • Remember who holds your life. Your times — every season, every challenge — are safely in God’s hands.

  • Be honest in prayer. Like David, pour out your fear, sorrow, and frustration to God — He can handle your honesty.

  • Choose trust over panic. Faith doesn’t ignore hardship; it chooses to rest in God’s unchanging character despite it.

  • Follow Yeshua’s example of surrender. Commit your spirit, plans, and future to the Father’s care, knowing His hands never fail.

When you feel shaken, remember this truth: even when life seems uncertain, God’s grip is steady. Your times — and every part of your story — remain in His faithful hands.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that my life is held securely in Your hands. When fear rises and the path ahead seems uncertain, remind me that You are my refuge and fortress. Help me to trust You completely, to surrender my plans and my timing to Your perfect will. Strengthen my heart to walk in faith, knowing that You are always with me. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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A Grateful Heart, A Journey of Thanksgiving (Colossians 1:1-12)

As we approach the season of Thanksgiving, let’s embark on a journey through the uplifting words of Colossians 1:1-12. In this passage, the apostle Paul expresses gratitude and offers a prayer that resonates with the spirit of thanksgiving. Join us as we explore the profound theme of thankfulness that intertwines seamlessly with the upcoming holiday.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. Introduction and Thanksgiving: Paul begins his letter to the Colossians with greetings and expressions of thanksgiving. His gratitude is not just a formality but a heartfelt acknowledgment of the faith and love demonstrated by the Colossian believers.
  2. Prayer for Spiritual Growth: Paul’s prayer in these verses is not only a thanksgiving but also a heartfelt plea for the Colossians’ spiritual growth. He desires that they may be filled with the knowledge of God’s will, walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, and bear fruit in every good work.
  3. Qualities of a Thankful Heart: The passage outlines qualities such as endurance, patience, and joy with thanksgiving, emphasizing the connection between gratitude and a resilient, joyful spirit in the face of challenges.
  4. Thanksgiving and the Holiday Season: As we read Paul’s words, we can draw parallels between his expressions of thanksgiving and the spirit of gratitude we cultivate during the Thanksgiving holiday. The emphasis on faith, love, and hope mirrors the values celebrated during this special time.

Colossians 1:1-12

Thankfulness for Spiritual Attainments

     1Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,

      2To the saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are at Colossae: Grace to you and peace from God our Father.

      3We give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, 4since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and the love which you have for all the saints; 5because of the hope laid up for you in heaven, of which you previously heard in the word of truth, the gospel 6which has come to you, just as in all the world also it is constantly bearing fruit and increasing, even as it has been doing in you also since the day you heard of it and understood the grace of God in truth; 7just as you learned it from Epaphras, our beloved fellow bond-servant, who is a faithful servant of Christ on our behalf, 8and he also informed us of your love in the Spirit.

      9For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously 12giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.

As Thanksgiving approaches, let’s reflect on the spirit of gratitude that permeates Colossians 1:1-12.

How can we incorporate Paul’s expressions of thankfulness into our own lives and celebrations?

Share your thoughts on the qualities of a thankful heart and how they align with the values of the upcoming holiday.

As we give thanks for the blessings around us, let’s also take a moment to uplift one another in prayer, just as Paul did for the Colossians.

Join the conversation in the comments.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John

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Walking Forward in Peace (Genesis 33:12-20)

When peace is restored, do you rush ahead into comfort, or pause to seek what God wants next?

Key Verse:
“Then Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, when he came from Paddan-aram, and camped before the city. He bought the piece of land where he had pitched his tent…and he erected there an altar and called it El-Elohe-Israel.” —Genesis 33:18–20 NASB

Background Context:
After reconciling with Esau, Jacob faces another test — not one of conflict, but of discernment. Esau, overjoyed at their reunion, invites Jacob to travel with him back to Seir. But Jacob gently declines. He explains that his flocks and children move slowly and that they would fall behind if forced to keep Esau’s pace. Instead, Jacob chooses a different route, eventually settling near Shechem in the land of Canaan — the very land God had promised to his ancestors.

Before settling in, Jacob purchases a piece of land and builds an altar, naming it El-Elohe-Israel (“God, the God of Israel”). This marks a significant spiritual milestone: Jacob is no longer the wandering deceiver, but a man living in covenant relationship with the God who has guided, protected, and transformed him.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 33:12-20

     12Then Esau said, “Let us take our journey and go, and I will go before you.” 13But he said to him, “My lord knows that the children are frail and that the flocks and herds which are nursing are a care to me. And if they are driven hard one day, all the flocks will die. 14“Please let my lord pass on before his servant, and I will proceed at my leisure, according to the pace of the cattle that are before me and according to the pace of the children, until I come to my lord at Seir.”

      15Esau said, “Please let me leave with you some of the people who are with me.” But he said, “What need is there? Let me find favor in the sight of my lord.” 16So Esau returned that day on his way to Seir. 17Jacob journeyed to Succoth, and built for himself a house and made booths for his livestock; therefore the place is named Succoth.

Jacob Settles in Shechem

18Now Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, when he came from Paddan-aram, and camped before the city. 19He bought the piece of land where he had pitched his tent from the hand of the sons of Hamor, Shechem’s father, for one hundred pieces of money. 20Then he erected there an altar and called it El-Elohe-Israel.

Reflection on Genesis 33:12–20:
Jacob’s reunion with Esau is a story of peace restored — but this next passage reminds us that reconciliation doesn’t always mean walking the same path afterward. Esau offers companionship and protection, yet Jacob declines with discernment. His decision isn’t rooted in distrust, but in obedience.

Jacob is not led by fear or manipulation — he is led by God’s promises. God had called him back to Canaan, not to Seir. Jacob honors Esau’s kindness without compromising his obedience to God’s direction. His words are humble, but his actions are firm.

This moment also reveals the importance of wisdom after reconciliation. When God grants peace in a broken relationship, we should give thanks — but not assume that every open door is meant to be walked through. Peace does not erase calling.

Jacob’s next act — building an altar — shows how deeply his faith has matured. This altar, El-Elohe-Israel, means “God, the God of Israel.” It’s the first time Jacob uses his new name publicly. He’s declaring before his family and community that the God who met him at Peniel is now his God — not just the God of Abraham or Isaac. It’s a moment of worship, gratitude, and identity.

Jacob, once defined by striving, is now defined by surrender. He has learned to walk forward in peace, guided not by fear or human plans, but by God’s hand.

Application:

  • Seek God’s direction even after peace is restored. Don’t confuse reconciliation with a call to follow someone else’s path.

  • Be gracious but firm in obedience. Jacob honored Esau but chose to follow where God led.

  • Mark moments of God’s faithfulness. Like Jacob’s altar, create reminders of what God has done in your life.

  • Let peace lead to worship. True reconciliation should move us to gratitude before God, not self-satisfaction.

When God restores peace, it’s not the end of the journey — it’s a new beginning. Like Jacob, may we move forward carefully, worshipfully, and in step with the God who faithfully leads us home.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the gift of reconciliation and peace. Teach me to walk forward with wisdom, not rushing ahead but following where You lead. Help me to recognize when to stay, when to move, and how to honor others without compromising obedience to You. Let my life be like Jacob’s altar — a testimony of gratitude, worship, and faithfulness to the God who has guided me through every trial. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.