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When Love Speaks Life (Song of Solomon 4:1-7)

What changes when love chooses to speak affirmation instead of criticism?

Key Verse:
“You are altogether beautiful, my darling, and there is no blemish in you.” —Song of Solomon 4:7 NASB

Background Context:
Song of Solomon 4:1–7 is a moment of intentional affirmation. The groom speaks to his bride with care, attention, and delight. His words are not rushed or shallow; they are thoughtful and specific. Each description reflects honor rather than objectification, admiration rather than possession.

This passage occurs within the safety of covenant love. There is no fear, manipulation, or exploitation — only affirmation spoken in trust and devotion.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song Of Solomon 4:1-7

Solomon’s Love Expressed 

     1“How beautiful you are, my darling,
How beautiful you are!
Your eyes are like doves behind your veil;
Your hair is like a flock of goats
That have descended from Mount Gilead.

      2“Your teeth are like a flock of newly shorn ewes
Which have come up from their washing,
All of which bear twins,
And not one among them has lost her young.

      3“Your lips are like a scarlet thread,
And your mouth is lovely.
Your temples are like a slice of a pomegranate
Behind your veil.

      4“Your neck is like the tower of David,
Built with rows of stones
On which are hung a thousand shields,
All the round shields of the mighty men.

      5“Your two breasts are like two fawns,
Twins of a gazelle
Which feed among the lilies.

      6“Until the cool of the day
When the shadows flee away,
I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh
And to the hill of frankincense.

      7“You are altogether beautiful, my darling,
And there is no blemish in you.

Reflection on Song of Solomon 4:1–7:
The groom’s words reveal a powerful truth: love shapes how we see and how we speak. He looks upon his bride and chooses to describe her beauty with gentleness and delight. His focus is not on flaws, but on wholeness. He sees her as she truly is — precious, valued, and cherished.

This kind of affirmation is not flattery. It is grounded in commitment. Love that is secure does not tear down or withhold praise. It speaks life. It reassures rather than wounds.

The repeated emphasis on beauty speaks to the healing power of affirmation. Many people carry insecurity, shaped by neglect, criticism, or comparison. Here, love actively restores confidence. Words spoken in love have the ability to mend what fear and doubt have damaged.

Spiritually, this passage reflects how God speaks to His people. God does not define us by our weaknesses or past failures. He sees us through covenant love — redeemed, valued, and called His own. While God does call us to repentance and growth, He does not shame or demean. His love restores identity before it transforms behavior.

This passage also challenges how we speak to those entrusted to us. Love is not silent about goodness. Affirmation strengthens bonds and builds trust. Where love is present, words should reflect care, patience, and honor.

Song of Solomon 4 reminds us that love does not merely feel — it speaks. And what it speaks has the power to heal.

Application:

  • Speak life-giving words. Affirmation strengthens love and trust.

  • See through love, not criticism. Secure love focuses on wholeness, not flaws.

  • Honor those entrusted to you. Words shape identity and confidence.

  • Receive God’s affirmation. He sees you through covenant love.

  • Let love be intentional. Thoughtful words communicate value and care.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the way You see and love Your people. Teach me to speak words that bring life, encouragement, and healing. Guard my heart from careless speech and help me reflect Your love in how I view and treat others. May my words build up rather than tear down, and may love guide what I say. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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The Glory of Restraint (Proverbs 25)

True wisdom shows itself in how we speak, act, and wait on God’s timing. Have you ever regretted words you spoke too quickly?

Key Verse:
“Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken at the proper time.” —Proverbs 25:11 NASB

Background Context:
Proverbs 25 begins a new section of Solomon’s sayings, copied by the men of King Hezekiah. These proverbs emphasize self-control, humility, and the power of words. They use vivid images — like refined silver, stormy winds, or cool water — to show how wisdom should shape ordinary life. The focus here is practical: how to handle conflict, speak carefully, avoid pride, and honor God through daily choices.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 25

Similitudes, Instructions

1These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah, transcribed.

2It is the glory of God to conceal a matter,
But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.

3As the heavens for height and the earth for depth,
So the heart of kings is unsearchable.

4Take away the dross from the silver,
And there comes out a vessel for the smith;

5Take away the wicked before the king,
And his throne will be established in righteousness.

6Do not claim honor in the presence of the king,
And do not stand in the place of great men;

7For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,”
Than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince,
Whom your eyes have seen.

8Do not go out hastily to argue your case;
Otherwise, what will you do in the end,
When your neighbor humiliates you?

9Argue your case with your neighbor,
And do not reveal the secret of another,

10Or he who hears it will reproach you,
And the evil report about you will not pass away.

11Like apples of gold in settings of silver
Is a word spoken in right circumstances.

12Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold
Is a wise reprover to a listening ear.

13Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest
Is a faithful messenger to those who send him,
For he refreshes the soul of his masters.

14Like clouds and wind without rain
Is a man who boasts of his gifts falsely.

15By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded,
And a soft tongue breaks the bone.

16Have you found honey? Eat only what you need,
That you not have it in excess and vomit it.

17Let your foot rarely be in your neighbor’s house,
Or he will become weary of you and hate you.

18Like a club and a sword and a sharp arrow
Is a man who bears false witness against his neighbor.

19Like a bad tooth and an unsteady foot
Is confidence in a faithless man in time of trouble.

20Like one who takes off a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar on soda,
Is he who sings songs to a troubled heart.

21If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;

22For you will heap burning coals on his head,
And the LORD will reward you.

23The north wind brings forth rain,
And a backbiting tongue, an angry countenance.

24It is better to live in a corner of the roof
Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

25Like cold water to a weary soul,
So is good news from a distant land.

26Like a trampled spring and a polluted well
Is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.

27It is not good to eat much honey,
Nor is it glory to search out one’s own glory.

28Like a city that is broken into and without walls
Is a man who has no control over his spirit.

Reflection on Proverbs 25:11:
Wisdom doesn’t just lie in what we say but when and how we say it. Solomon compares a timely word to “apples of gold in settings of silver” — an image of beauty, value, and craftsmanship. Just as fine art requires patience and precision, so does speaking wisely.

This chapter also urges restraint. Verse 28 warns that a person without self-control is like a city with broken walls — vulnerable and exposed. Wisdom calls us to humility before kings, gentleness in correction, and faithfulness in relationships. Together, these verses remind us that the small choices of our daily conduct reveal whether we walk in God’s wisdom or in folly.

Application:
Think of a situation where your words or actions carry weight — at work, at home, or in a friendship. Are you rushing to speak, or are you waiting for the right time to speak truth with love? Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your tongue and strengthen your self-control so your life reflects wisdom rather than impulse.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for the wisdom of Your Word that guides even the ordinary parts of my life. Help me to speak words that build up, not tear down, and to wait for the right time to speak truth in love. Teach me humility, patience, and self-control so that my life may reflect Your wisdom to others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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The Power of Words and Wisdom (Proverbs 18)

Words can either build bridges or burn them down. Which will yours do today?

Key Verse:
“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” —Proverbs 18:21 NIV

Background Context:
Proverbs 18 offers a collection of wisdom on how we speak, how we seek understanding, and how we relate to others. This chapter highlights the difference between the words of the wise and the foolish, the importance of listening before speaking, and the value of humility. It reminds us that what we say carries weight—not only shaping the way others see us but also influencing the course of our own lives.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Proverbs 18

Contrast the Upright and the Wicked

1He who separates himself seeks his own desire,
He quarrels against all sound wisdom.

      2A fool does not delight in understanding,
But only in revealing his own mind.

      3When a wicked man comes, contempt also comes,
And with dishonor comes scorn.

      4The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters;
The fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook.

      5To show partiality to the wicked is not good,
Nor to thrust aside the righteous in judgment.

      6A fool’s lips bring strife,
And his mouth calls for blows.

      7A fool’s mouth is his ruin,
And his lips are the snare of his soul.

      8The words of a whisperer are like dainty morsels,
And they go down into the innermost parts of the body.

      9He also who is slack in his work
Is brother to him who destroys.

      10The name of the LORD is a strong tower;
The righteous runs into it and is safe.

      11A rich man’s wealth is his strong city,
And like a high wall in his own imagination.

      12Before destruction the heart of man is haughty,
But humility goes before honor.

      13He who gives an answer before he hears,
It is folly and shame to him.

      14The spirit of a man can endure his sickness,
But as for a broken spirit who can bear it?

      15The mind of the prudent acquires knowledge,
And the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.

      16A man’s gift makes room for him
And brings him before great men.

      17The first to plead his case seems right,
Until another comes and examines him.

      18The cast lot puts an end to strife
And decides between the mighty ones.

      19A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city,
And contentions are like the bars of a citadel.

      20With the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied;
He will be satisfied with the product of his lips.

      21Death and life are in the power of the tongue,
And those who love it will eat its fruit.

      22He who finds a wife finds a good thing
And obtains favor from the LORD.

      23The poor man utters supplications,
But the rich man answers roughly.

      24A man of too many friends comes to ruin,
But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Reflection on Proverbs 18:
Proverbs 18 addresses the impact of both our words and our choices. A fool speaks before listening, but the wise consider their words carefully (v.13). Harsh words can wound deeply, but gracious words bring healing (v.8). Verse 21 brings this into sharp focus—our words have the power to bring life or death. Whether it’s in the way we encourage someone, share the gospel, or speak truth in love, our tongues can be tools of God’s grace or instruments of destruction.

This chapter also emphasizes the importance of seeking knowledge (v.15) and the protection found in the name of the Lord (v.10). While riches may seem like a strong defense, they are temporary. Only God’s steadfast love and wisdom provide lasting security.

Application:
Let your words be guided by the wisdom of God, choosing to speak in ways that encourage, heal, and point others toward Christ. Before speaking, pause and consider if your words will honor the Lord and serve others well. Seek understanding before offering your opinion, and remember that the strongest refuge is not in what you can build for yourself, but in the name of the Lord.

Closing Prayer:
Lord, help me to use my words to bring life and not harm. Teach me to listen well before I speak and to seek Your wisdom in every conversation. Guard my heart from pride and my lips from careless words. May my speech be a reflection of Your truth and love. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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The Power of the Tongue (James 3:1-12)

Do your words build up or tear down?

James 3:1-12 warns us of the immense power our words hold. The tongue, though small, has the ability to bring life or destruction. As followers of Yeshua, we are called to use our words wisely, speaking in a way that honors God and reflects His love.

Key Verse:
“But no one among mankind can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.” – James 3:8 (NASB)

Background Context:
James addresses the responsibility that comes with speaking, especially for those in leadership. He emphasizes that words are powerful and can influence others for good or harm. James uses vivid imagery to describe the tongue—a bit that controls a horse, a small rudder that steers a ship, and a tiny spark that can set a whole forest on fire. His warning is clear: the way we speak reflects our heart, and we must guard our words carefully.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

James 3:1-12

The Tongue Is a Fire

      1Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment. 2For we all stumble in many ways. If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body as well. 3Now if we put the bits into the horses’ mouths so that they will obey us, we direct their entire body as well. 4Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires. 5So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things.
See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! 6And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell. 7For every species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human race. 8But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison. 9With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; 10from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. 11Does a fountain send out from the same opening both fresh and bitter water? 12Can a fig tree, my brethren, produce olives, or a vine produce figs? Nor can salt water produce fresh.

Reflection on James 3:1-12:

  • The Tongue Is Powerful:
    James compares the tongue to a small bit that controls a powerful horse and a rudder that steers a massive ship (James 3:3-4). Though tiny, the tongue has great influence. Are you using your words to guide others toward truth and encouragement, or are they leading to harm?
  • Words Can Destroy Like Fire:
    “A great forest is set aflame by such a small fire!” (James 3:5). Gossip, slander, and unkind words spread quickly, causing lasting damage. Are you careful with the words you speak, or do you allow reckless speech to hurt others?
  • No One Can Fully Tame the Tongue:
    James acknowledges that controlling our words is incredibly difficult (James 3:7-8). While we may never achieve perfect speech, we must continually surrender our words to God and seek His help in speaking wisely. Do you pray for God to help you guard your tongue?
  • Blessing and Cursing from the Same Mouth:
    James points out the hypocrisy of praising God while speaking negatively about others (James 3:9-10). If we are truly followers of Yeshua, our speech should be consistent with His character. Do your words reflect the love and grace of God?
  • A Good Tree Bears Good Fruit:
    Just as a fresh spring cannot produce saltwater, our speech should align with a heart that has been transformed by God (James 3:11-12). What do your words reveal about your heart?

Summary Key Points:

  • Words have great influence: The tongue has the power to guide, encourage, or destroy.
  • Uncontrolled speech is dangerous: Reckless words can spread like wildfire.
  • We need God’s help to control our words: No one can tame the tongue alone.
  • Our words should reflect our faith: Blessing and cursing should not come from the same mouth.
  • A transformed heart produces godly speech: What we say reflects what is in our hearts.

Application:
Be intentional with your words. Before speaking, ask yourself if your words are bringing life or causing harm. Pray for the Holy Spirit to guide your speech so that your words reflect the love and wisdom of God.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, help me to control my tongue and use my words for good. Let my speech reflect Your love, wisdom, and truth. Keep me from speaking words that harm, and fill my heart with kindness, so that what overflows from my mouth glorifies You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Navigating Perilous Times (2 Timothy 3)

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the challenges of the times we live in, uncertain about how to navigate through the complexities of life?

In 2 Timothy 3, the apostle Paul offers timeless wisdom for facing adversity and standing firm in faith amidst perilous circumstances.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of 2 Timothy, Paul writes to his beloved disciple Timothy, imparting crucial instructions for ministry and exhorting him to remain steadfast in the face of opposition. As we delve into chapter 3, we find Paul addressing the prevailing challenges of the last days, offering guidance that remains relevant for believers today.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

2 Timothy 3

“Difficult Times Will Come”

     1But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these. 6For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on by various impulses, 7always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 8Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men of depraved mind, rejected in regard to the faith. 9But they will not make further progress; for their folly will be obvious to all, just as Jannes’s and Jambres’s folly was also.

      10Now you followed my teaching, conduct, purpose, faith, patience, love, perseverance, 11persecutions, and sufferings, such as happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium and at Lystra; what persecutions I endured, and out of them all the Lord rescued me! 12Indeed, all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. 13But evil men and impostors will proceed from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. 14You, however, continue in the things you have learned and become convinced of, knowing from whom you have learned them, 15and that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. 16All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; 17so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

Summary Key Points:

  • Recognizing the Signs of the Times: Paul begins by describing the characteristics of people in the last days, warning that perilous times will come. He highlights traits such as selfishness, pride, and a lack of self-control, indicating the moral decay and spiritual deception that will abound in the end times.
  • Remaining Grounded in God’s Word: Amidst the prevailing darkness, Paul emphasizes the importance of Scripture as a source of truth and guidance. He reminds Timothy that all Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, reproof, correction, and training in righteousness, equipping believers for every good work.
  • Standing Firm in the Faith: Despite the challenges and opposition, Paul encourages Timothy to continue in the things he has learned and firmly believe. He underscores the necessity of holding fast to sound doctrine, remaining faithful to the teachings passed down from the apostles, and rejecting false teachings and deceptive ideologies.
  • Persevering in the Face of Adversity: Paul himself serves as an example of endurance and perseverance in the midst of trials. He recounts his own experiences of persecution and suffering for the sake of the gospel, encouraging Timothy to endure hardship and follow his example of unwavering faithfulness to Christ.

Call to Action:

Let us heed Paul’s words in 2 Timothy 3 by:

  • Studying God’s Word Diligently: Like Timothy, let us immerse ourselves in Scripture, allowing it to shape our beliefs, values, and actions. Let us commit to regular study and meditation on God’s Word, seeking wisdom and guidance for navigating the challenges of our times.
  • Discerning the Times: In a world marked by moral relativism and spiritual deception, let us remain vigilant and discerning, recognizing the signs of the times and standing firm in the truth of God’s Word. Let us be wary of false teachings and deceptive philosophies, holding fast to the unchanging truth of Scripture.
  • Remaining Steadfast in Faith: Despite the pressures and trials we may face, let us remain steadfast in our faith, trusting in the promises of God and relying on His strength to sustain us. Let us persevere in following Christ faithfully, knowing that He is with us always, even to the end of the age.

Closing Prayer:

Heavenly Father, grant us wisdom and discernment to navigate the challenges of the times we live in. Strengthen our faith and fortify our hearts with the truth of Your Word, that we may stand firm amidst the shifting sands of this world. Help us to remain steadfast, unwavering in our commitment to You, and empowered by Your Spirit to live lives that honor and glorify Your name. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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A Little Foolishness Can Lead to Great Difficulty (Ecclesiastes 10)

Embark on a contemplative exploration through Ecclesiastes 10, where the wisdom of Solomon unveils profound insights on navigating life with discernment.

Join us in unraveling the transformative themes of wisdom, folly, and the impact of our choices on the journey of life.

(Continued and summarized after the scripture.)

Ecclesiastes 10

A Little Foolishness

     1Dead flies make a perfumer’s oil stink, so a little foolishness is weightier than wisdom and honor. 2A wise man’s heart directs him toward the right, but the foolish man’s heart directs him toward the left. 3Even when the fool walks along the road, his sense is lacking and he demonstrates to everyone that he is a fool. 4If the ruler’s temper rises against you, do not abandon your position, because composure allays great offenses.

      5There is an evil I have seen under the sun, like an error which goes forth from the ruler— 6folly is set in many exalted places while rich men sit in humble places. 7I have seen slaves riding on horses and princes walking like slaves on the land.

      8He who digs a pit may fall into it, and a serpent may bite him who breaks through a wall. 9He who quarries stones may be hurt by them, and he who splits logs may be endangered by them. 10If the axe is dull and he does not sharpen its edge, then he must exert more strength. Wisdom has the advantage of giving success. 11If the serpent bites before being charmed, there is no profit for the charmer. 12Words from the mouth of a wise man are gracious, while the lips of a fool consume him; 13the beginning of his talking is folly and the end of it is wicked madness. 14Yet the fool multiplies words. No man knows what will happen, and who can tell him what will come after him? 15The toil of a fool so wearies him that he does not even know how to go to a city. 16Woe to you, O land, whose king is a lad and whose princes feast in the morning. 17Blessed are you, O land, whose king is of nobility and whose princes eat at the appropriate time—for strength and not for drunkenness. 18Through indolence the rafters sag, and through slackness the house leaks. 19Men prepare a meal for enjoyment, and wine makes life merry, and money is the answer to everything. 20Furthermore, in your bedchamber do not curse a king, and in your sleeping rooms do not curse a rich man, for a bird of the heavens will carry the sound and the winged creature will make the matter known.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. The Weight of Wisdom: Ecclesiastes 10 opens with Solomon’s reflections on the impact of wisdom and folly. The transformative power of wisdom is highlighted, showcasing how a little folly can outweigh the value of wisdom if left unchecked.
  2. The Consequences of Folly: Solomon paints a vivid picture of the consequences of folly, illustrating how seemingly small errors can lead to significant disruptions in life. The transformative journey involves recognizing the weight of our choices and the potential ripple effects they may have.
  3. The Importance of Discernment: A key theme is the importance of discernment in navigating life’s complexities. The transformative power of discernment emerges as a guiding force, helping individuals make wise choices and avoid the pitfalls of folly.
  4. The Impact of Words: Ecclesiastes 10 explores the transformative nature of words. Solomon emphasizes the significance of wise and timely words, highlighting how communication plays a crucial role in shaping our interactions and relationships.

Let’s reflect on the weight of wisdom, the consequences of folly, and the role of discernment in our lives. Have you ever faced the impact of unwise choices or experienced the transformative power of discernment in your decision-making?

Take a moment for personal reflection and prayer, considering how the wisdom of Solomon can guide your journey.

Share your insights with others you know, sparking a conversation on the transformative impact of our choices and the importance of discernment in navigating life’s twists and turns.

Join the conversation by commenting, and let’s explore together the profound lessons woven into the fabric of Ecclesiastes 10.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

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Unbelief and Its Consequences

Many who mean well, genuinely struggle to understand how Yahweh can pass judgment on some who have never heard of Him. Sadly, rather than studying the Bible to gain better understanding, they just begin to redefine God in their image and rationalize that people will not go to hell after all. This leads to all manner of misconceptions about God and even more people lose their way.

We know that Yeshua is the way to the Father.

John 14:6

6Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.

If we believe those who do not hear about Yeshua will automatically go to heaven because of ignorance…we can find ourselves rationalizing that we should not go and tell others about Him. If we share the gospel and they reject Him then they will go to hell, but if we just don’t tell them… then they will go to heaven?

Following false doctrine leads to disastrous consequences. Yeshua commanded us to proclaim the gospel to all the nations, knowing that many would reject the message and reject Him.

Matthew 28:18-20

18And Jesus came up and spoke to them, saying, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. 19“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

Matthew 7:13

13“Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. 14“For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.

Does that mean Yeshua wants people to go to hell? Of course not! He came to save us, but people must submit to and follow Him in more than just empty words. We must show our love and obedience to Him by truly being His disciple. To be a disciple, we must learn. To learn correctly, we must study and pray.

Paul reveals the harsh truth of the matter. There are no excuses for those who choose to reject Yahweh. Evidence of our Creator is available all around us in His creation. God is not pleased with those who reject Him, whether or not a missionary has formally come to teach them about Him. Further, there are direct consequences for those who reject God. Without acknowledging God’s instructions for right and wrong, they have no guide to lead them to righteousness. Thus, it is natural to end up living in wickedness and sin.

Romans 1:18-32

Unbelief and Its Consequences

      18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, 19because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them. 20For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse. 21For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.

      24Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. 25For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

      26For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

      28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 29being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, 30slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; 32and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.

Please review carefully the specific, but not all-inclusive, list of sins that Yahweh finds worthy of wrath. Many of these are well accepted today in our culture. Starting in verse 26, God speaks about homosexuality and God labels it degrading, unnatural, and indecent. Verse 29 continues with a further list of sin that develops around those who reject God: “unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful”.

Do not overlook verse 32… which highlights the sin of not just doing these acts, but also of simply approving of, accepting, or encouraging these behaviors.

If we look around our society today, we see all of these things which have been called out in scripture. We did not see them as blatantly and publicly accepted a hundred years ago when we as a country had a stronger focus on God, Biblical teaching, and God’s instruction for how we should live. In other words, we can tie the degradation of our society back to people rejecting God and Him turning them over to a depraved mind as scripture documents.

Yahweh will not force people to obey and follow Him. He will let them suffer in their own choice, by their own free will. He gives them over to degrading passions that they have chosen. He gives them over to their depraved mind which they have chosen. As such, they will suffer in this world and then face the ultimate judgment when they face Jehovah when they die. Those who have not accepted Jesus as savior and submitted their lives to follow Him will go to hell.

John 3:16-21

      16“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. 17“For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. 18“He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19“This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20“For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21“But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.”

The world and the people in it are inherently depraved and wicked, not inherently good. Some overcome this through becoming disciples of Christ. Some accept godly values even without accepting God, typically if it is normalized in a culture that generally does accept God. Sadly, many reject God and what He values. Prayerfully review the scripture and ask God to reveal to you what sins you may be practicing or approving of in others… of which you need to repent wholeheartedly to come back in right relationship with Him. Then humbly admitting your fault and recognizing the lies regarding what the world tries to paint as “right” and “proper” or “acceptable” behavior, turn from them and follow after Yeshua as a true disciple.

I encourage you to take a few minutes in prayer on this subject. pray for yourself first. Then consider praying for others and for our society as a whole. Take care not to move so quickly into prayer for others that you forget to pray about what God may need to show you in your own life.

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The Tongue Can Bring Death or Life

The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences. Proverbs 18:21

Proverbs has a way of concisely summing up great wisdom into ways that we can remember and apply more easily. We do well to periodically reflect on how we are using our tongue (or other communication) to bring life or death.

James commented quite a bit on this subject as well.

Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. James 1:19

 If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless. James 1:26

Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. James 3:9
 

I encourage you to read all of James 3 as James expounds a great deal more on the power of the tongue in a very relevant way.  I could not say it any better than he does.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, please help me to control my tongue. I want to bring life rather than death with my words. Help me to edify You through my life and my speech. Amen. 

Shalom

Devotion by John in service to Christ

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Truly Being a Light for Christ May Seem Challenging

Earlier in Matthew 5, Yeshua was teaching about the beatitudes and then about disciples being salt and light and pursuing righteousness. Now he continues to expound on that by speaking about personal relationships. The context is still continuing in the line of how to be salt and light and righteous… we are to act very differently than the world around us. If we truly consider the high standard and take it to heart, it can be intimidating. However, rather than throw up your hands and say “I can’t do that”, simply recognize that this is the goal we should be moving towards and ask the Spirit to help you get there.

Matthew 5:21-48

Personal Relationships

      21“You have heard that the ancients were told, ‘YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT MURDER’ and ‘Whoever commits murder shall be liable to the court.’ 22“But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, ‘You good-for-nothing,’ shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. 23“Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering. 25“Make friends quickly with your opponent at law while you are with him on the way, so that your opponent may not hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. 26“Truly I say to you, you will not come out of there until you have paid up the last cent.      27“You have heard that it was said, ‘YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY’; 28but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29“If your right eye makes you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30“If your right hand makes you stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to go into hell.

31“It was said, ‘WHOEVER SENDS HIS WIFE AWAY, LET HIM GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE’; 32but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

33“Again, you have heard that the ancients were told, ‘YOU SHALL NOT MAKE FALSE VOWS, BUT SHALL FULFILL YOUR VOWS TO THE LORD.’ 34“But I say to you, make no oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, 35or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet, or by Jerusalem, for it is THE CITY OF THE GREAT KING. 36“Nor shall you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. 37“But let your statement be, ‘Yes, yes’ or ‘No, no’; anything beyond these is of evil.

38“You have heard that it was said, ‘AN EYE FOR AN EYE, AND A TOOTH FOR A TOOTH.’ 39“But I say to you, do not resist an evil person; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. 40“If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, let him have your coat also. 41“Whoever forces you to go one mile, go with him two. 42“Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you.

43“You have heard that it was said, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR and hate your enemy.’ 44“But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46“For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47“If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48“Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

I do not assume we are to take literally the part about removing our body parts if they cause us to offend, but the language certainly drives home the point. If there are things in our lives, even things dear and close to us, that cause us to stumble before our Father, we should remove them.

Really reflect on the behaviors and the high standard laid out here that is required and desired to separate us and help us stand out as the light to others. We are not to blend in and it is not simply by quoting scripture, but by the very manner in which we live that we are to distinguish ourselves as a light. We truly need help from the Spirit to live it out and we need to remain humble and seek forgiveness along the way as we stumble.

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Draw Near To YHWH And Our Fellow Man

James identifies a really targeted list of behaviors and attitudes that help us draw nearer to YHWH and our fellow man. We should carefully read through them and prayerfully reflect, asking YHWH to open our eyes to how they apply in our lives.

James 4

Things to Avoid

      1What is the source of quarrels and conflicts among you? Is not the source your pleasures that wage war in your members? 2You lust and do not have; so you commit murder. You are envious and cannot obtain; so you fight and quarrel. You do not have because you do not ask. 3You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures. 4You adulteresses, do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God. 5Or do you think that the Scripture speaks to no purpose: “He jealously desires the Spirit which He has made to dwell in us”? 6But He gives a greater grace. Therefore it says, “GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE.” 7Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. 8Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9Be miserable and mourn and weep; let your laughter be turned into mourning and your joy to gloom. 10Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you.

      11Do not speak against one another, brethren. He who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law; but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge of it. 12There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?

      13Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, and spend a year there and engage in business and make a profit.” 14Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. 15Instead, you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that.” 16But as it is, you boast in your arrogance; all such boasting is evil. 17Therefore, to one who knows the right thing to do and does not do it, to him it is sin.

There is a lot in this list. We should not skip any of it, but I will pull out a few items that may often be misunderstood. Where he speaks about not being a friend to the world, the context is an adulteress. Where he speaks about turning joy into mourning, he is talking about us as sinners no longer finding joy but rather mourning in our sinful behavior and attitudes so we may become humble before YHWH and repent. Where he speaks of “judging”, let us first recognize that he is recognizing the law as the righteous standard of conduct we should follow, even after Yeshua was raised from the dead. He further is emphasizing that we should focus more on obeying the law ourselves and less on judging how others are doing about it. That said, we know from elsewhere in scripture we are to discern or judge right from wrong so we may reject what is bad and embrace what is good. Thus I think his emphasis here is on those who rather than follow the law themselves, just gossip and speak against others who follow it imperfectly.

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