All posts by John (HFJ Director)

Consequences of Sin, Faith / Trusting God, Repenting from Sin, Tribulation

Faithfulness Through Every Season (Genesis 35:16–29)

Have you ever walked through a season where joy and sorrow collided — where blessing and heartbreak came almost in the same breath?

Key Verse:
“It came about as her soul was departing (for she died), that she named him Ben-oni; but his father called him Benjamin.” —Genesis 35:18 NASB

Background Context:
After Jacob’s renewal at Bethel, the narrative shifts into a series of deeply emotional events. As the family journeys south, Rachel goes into hard labor. The birth of Jacob’s final son becomes a moment of profound grief, as Rachel dies giving birth. She names the child Ben-oni (“son of my sorrow”), but Jacob renames him Benjamin (“son of my right hand”), signaling hope and blessing even in pain.

Immediately after this, we see the sin of Reuben, who sleeps with Bilhah, Rachel’s handmaid — a grave dishonor to Jacob. The chapter then records the deaths of Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse, and finally Isaac.

These verses remind us that life with God includes both joy and sorrow, blessing and loss, growth and stumbling — yet through it all, God remains faithful to His covenant and His people.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 35:16–29

     16Then they journeyed from Bethel; and when there was still some distance to go to Ephrath, Rachel began to give birth and she suffered severe labor. 17When she was in severe labor the midwife said to her, “Do not fear, for now you have another son.” 18It came about as her soul was departing (for she died), that she named him Ben-oni; but his father called him Benjamin. 19So Rachel died and was buried on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem). 20Jacob set up a pillar over her grave; that is the pillar of Rachel’s grave to this day. 21Then Israel journeyed on and pitched his tent beyond the tower of Eder.

      22It came about while Israel was dwelling in that land, that Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine, and Israel heard of it.

The Sons of Israel

Now there were twelve sons of Jacob— 23the sons of Leah: Reuben, Jacob’s firstborn, then Simeon and Levi and Judah and Issachar and Zebulun; 24the sons of Rachel: Joseph and Benjamin; 25and the sons of Bilhah, Rachel’s maid: Dan and Naphtali; 26and the sons of Zilpah, Leah’s maid: Gad and Asher. These are the sons of Jacob who were born to him in Paddan-aram.

      27Jacob came to his father Isaac at Mamre of Kiriath-arba (that is, Hebron), where Abraham and Isaac had sojourned.

      28Now the days of Isaac were one hundred and eighty years. 29Isaac breathed his last and died and was gathered to his people, an old man of ripe age; and his sons Esau and Jacob buried him.

Reflection on Genesis 35:16–29:
This passage feels like real life: joy, grief, sin, and transition woven together in a single narrative. After the spiritual renewal at Bethel, you might expect smooth sailing, but Scripture does not pretend that obedience eliminates suffering. Instead, we see how God sustains His people through seasons of both pain and blessing.

Rachel’s labor is described as extremely difficult. Her final act is naming her son “Ben-oni,” a name that reflects her sorrow and death. Jacob, however, renames him “Benjamin,” choosing to speak blessing, strength, and future over his son rather than tying him forever to a memory of loss.

This moment teaches us that even in grief, God can bring forth new purpose. Jacob refuses to let sorrow define the child’s identity. He looks forward, trusting the promises God reaffirmed at Bethel.

Then comes the sobering account of Reuben’s sin. Sleeping with Bilhah was not merely immorality — it was a rebellious attempt to claim authority within the family. Jacob says nothing here, but later in Genesis 49, this sin costs Reuben his firstborn inheritance. It is a reminder that ungodly choices have consequences, even when they do not unfold immediately.

Next, Deborah, the beloved nurse of Rebekah, dies and is mourned. Lastly, Isaac dies at 180 years old, and Esau and Jacob come together again to bury him — a final picture of reconciliation between the brothers.

Through birth, death, sin, grief, and family transition, one truth holds steady: God’s covenant continues. The expanding family, the promised son Benjamin, and the honoring of Isaac’s burial all signal that God’s hand has not left Jacob, even in painful seasons.

Life with God is not free from sorrow — but it is filled with His sustaining presence and faithful promises. Joy and grief can coexist, but God’s covenant faithfulness steadies His people through every season.

Application:

  • Recognize that faith does not remove sorrow. God walks with you through grief rather than shielding you from it.

  • Speak blessing even in painful seasons. Like Jacob renaming Benjamin, choose hope over despair.

  • Take sin seriously. Reuben’s choice shows that sinful actions have future consequences.

  • Honor transitions. Birth, death, and change are part of God’s shaping process.

  • Lean on God’s promises. His covenant faithfulness does not waver, even when life feels chaotic.

  • Let grief and faith coexist. You do not have to choose one — God meets you in both.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for being faithful through every season of life — in joy and in sorrow, in celebration and in grief. Teach me to cling to Your promises when life feels heavy and uncertain. Help me to speak blessing rather than despair, to walk in integrity, and to trust You in moments of transition and loss. Sustain me by Your presence, and remind me that Your covenant love never fails. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Faith / Trusting God, Obeying God, Seeking God, Submitted / Servant

Renewing Your Commitment to God’s Call (Genesis 35:1–15)

Have you ever realized you’ve drifted spiritually and sensed God calling you to return to a place of renewal and recommitment?

Key Verse:
“Then God said to Jacob, ‘Arise, go up to Bethel and live there, and make an altar there to God, who appeared to you when you fled from your brother Esau.’” —Genesis 35:1 NASB

Background Context:
After the painful and chaotic events of Genesis 34, God speaks directly to Jacob with renewed clarity: return to Bethel. Bethel was the place where Jacob first encountered God in a dream, where he saw the ladder reaching to heaven, and where God made covenant promises to him.

But Jacob had delayed fulfilling his vow. He settled in Shechem among ungodly people, where spiritual compromise and family disaster unfolded. Now God calls him to return — not just geographically, but spiritually.

Before going, Jacob commands his household to put away foreign gods, purify themselves, and change their garments. This is the first time Scripture records Jacob taking strong spiritual leadership over his family.

At Bethel, God again appears to Jacob, reaffirms his new name “Israel,” restates the covenant blessings, and confirms His presence with him.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 35:1–15

Jacob Moves to Bethel

      1Then God said to Jacob, “Arise, go up to Bethel and live there, and make an altar there to God, who appeared to you when you fled from your brother Esau.” 2So Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, “Put away the foreign gods which are among you, and purify yourselves and change your garments; 3and let us arise and go up to Bethel, and I will make an altar there to God, who answered me in the day of my distress and has been with me wherever I have gone.” 4So they gave to Jacob all the foreign gods which they had and the rings which were in their ears, and Jacob hid them under the oak which was near Shechem.

      5As they journeyed, there was a great terror upon the cities which were around them, and they did not pursue the sons of Jacob. 6So Jacob came to Luz (that is, Bethel), which is in the land of Canaan, he and all the people who were with him. 7He built an altar there, and called the place El-bethel, because there God had revealed Himself to him when he fled from his brother. 8Now Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse, died, and she was buried below Bethel under the oak; it was named Allon-bacuth.

Jacob Is Named Israel

9Then God appeared to Jacob again when he came from Paddan-aram, and He blessed him.

10God said to him,
“Your name is Jacob;
You shall no longer be called Jacob,
But Israel shall be your name.”
Thus He called him Israel.

11God also said to him,
“I am God Almighty;
Be fruitful and multiply;
A nation and a company of nations shall come from you,
And kings shall come forth from you.

      12“The land which I gave to Abraham and Isaac,
I will give it to you,
And I will give the land to your descendants after you.”

13Then God went up from him in the place where He had spoken with him. 14Jacob set up a pillar in the place where He had spoken with him, a pillar of stone, and he poured out a drink offering on it; he also poured oil on it. 15So Jacob named the place where God had spoken with him, Bethel.

Reflection on Genesis 35:1–15:
God’s call to Jacob is simple and profound: “Arise, go up to Bethel… and make an altar.” After years of wandering, compromise, and family turmoil, God calls Jacob back to the place of encounter and the place of his original vow.

In Jacob’s response, we see one of the most significant moments of his spiritual growth. He does not hesitate. He does not argue. He does not delay. Instead, he leads.

Jacob commands his household to put away foreign gods. His family, influenced by the culture around them, had accumulated idols from Shechem and from Rachel’s past. Jacob now draws a clear boundary: if we are going to meet with God, we must cast away what competes for our hearts.

He also tells them to purify themselves and change their garments — outward signs of inward repentance. Jacob finally takes responsibility as the spiritual leader of his family, something notably absent in the previous chapter.

As they journey, God places a supernatural fear on the surrounding cities so that no one pursues them. When we walk back toward God in obedience, He goes before us in protection.

At Bethel, Jacob builds an altar and calls the place El-Bethel, “God of the House of God.” His focus is no longer just on the holy place but on the God who met him there. God affirms Jacob’s identity, repeats His covenant promises, and reminds him that He is the God who brings forth nations, kings, and blessing.

Bethel becomes a place of renewal, recommitment, and restored identity. For Jacob, returning to Bethel means stepping back into God’s purpose and presence after a painful detour.

And for us, Bethel represents the call to return to the Lord when we have drifted — to put away idols, renew obedience, and worship the God who calls us back with grace.

Application:

  • Return when God calls you. If the Spirit is prompting you to come back to a place of obedience or intimacy, respond without delay.

  • Remove competing loyalties. Put away anything in your life that rivals your devotion to God.

  • Lead your household spiritually. Like Jacob, take responsibility to guide your home toward purity, worship, and truth.

  • Remember your calling. God reaffirms Jacob’s identity — He does the same with those who return to Him.

  • Build an altar of remembrance. Mark moments when God renews your heart through prayer, worship, or recommitment.

  • Trust God’s protection as you obey. He shields those who walk in His will.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for calling me back when I have drifted. Help me to rise and return to the places where You first met me, to renew my devotion to You. Remove anything in my life that competes for my heart. Teach me to lead my home with clarity and faith, and to walk confidently in the identity You have given me. Draw me near again, and keep me close to Your presence. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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Holy / Set Apart, Study the Word, Submitted / Servant, Traditions / Holidays

Are Christmas Trees in the Bible?

In the enchanting glow of Christmas traditions that colored my childhood, this season held a special place in my heart. Yet, as adulthood unfolded, the Lord gently nudged me to unravel the origins of these cherished traditions, turning what was once my favorite time of the year into a journey of profound introspection.

One tradition that captivates families during this season is the joyous act of bringing a Christmas tree into the home—a tradition I enthusiastically partook in for decades. While undeniably fun, the pursuit of “fun” is not the moral compass by which we determine right from wrong. Sin may cloak itself in enjoyment, but its fleeting happiness pales in comparison to the profound joy found in a genuine relationship with our Heavenly Father.

As believers, we anchor our understanding of good and bad in God’s standards, illuminated through the pages of the Bible. Regardless of one’s perspective on its divine inspiration, the Bible remains the most accurate record of God’s relationship with His people and His guidelines for righteous living.

My quest for truth led me to scrutinize whether Christmas trees found a place in the Bible, and to my surprise, a passage in Jeremiah 10:1-4 seemed to allude to them. It cautioned against adopting the practices of non-believers, condemning the cutting of trees for decoration—a striking parallel to our modern Christmas traditions.

Some will argue this is focused only on idols, but it seems to apply also to Christmas trees.

Jeremiah 10:1-4 (KJV)

1Hear ye the word which the LORD speaketh unto you, O house of Israel:

2Thus saith the LORD, Learn not the way of the heathen, and be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them.

3For the customs of the people are vain: for one cutteth a tree out of the forest, the work of the hands of the workman, with the axe.

4They deck it with silver and with gold; they fasten it with nails and with hammers, that it move not.

Delving deeper into the roots of Christmas, I discovered that many of its customs have pagan origins. While this revelation might be startling, it underscores the importance of Yahweh’s call for believers to be set apart and holy, avoiding the adoption of worldly practices under the guise of Christianity.

For those intrigued to explore further, additional articles and videos are available, providing a comprehensive understanding of Christmas traditions. I urge you to prayerfully consider these revelations, seeking the courage and discernment to distance ourselves from heathen practices in alignment with God’s teachings.

To learn more:

In conclusion, I invite you to join me in prayer:

Father, grant us the strength to prioritize Your instructions above all else. Instill in us the courage and discernment to detach from traditions rooted in heathen or pagan origins, which stand contrary to Your teachings. May an awakening sweep through Your people worldwide, turning them away from worldly ways and toward Your divine path. Amen.

Shalom

John

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False Prophets / Teachers, Holy Spirit / Ruach HaKodesh, Obeying God, Study the Word

Guarding Your Heart Against Deception (1 John 2:18-29)

How do you stay steady in a world full of spiritual confusion, false teaching, and voices competing for your loyalty?

Key Verse:
“As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning.” —1 John 2:24 NASB

Background Context:
John warns the church that “many antichrists” have arisen — people who deny Christ’s identity and seek to deceive believers. He reminds them that the presence of false teachers is a sign of the “last hour,” a period all believers live in as we await Yeshua’s return.

John distinguishes true believers by two things:

  • They remain in the truth

  • They possess an anointing from the Holy One — the Holy Spirit, who teaches and guards them

This passage calls believers to discernment, steadfastness, and confidence in their relationship with God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 2:18-29

      18Children, it is the last hour; and just as you heard that antichrist is coming, even now many antichrists have appeared; from this we know that it is the last hour. 19They went out from us, but they were not really of us; for if they had been of us, they would have remained with us; but they went out, so that it would be shown that they all are not of us. 20But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and you all know. 21I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you do know it, and because no lie is of the truth. 22Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, the one who denies the Father and the Son. 23Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father; the one who confesses the Son has the Father also. 24As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father.

The Promise Is Eternal Life

      25This is the promise which He Himself made to us: eternal life.

      26These things I have written to you concerning those who are trying to deceive you. 27As for you, the anointing which you received from Him abides in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you abide in Him.

      28Now, little children, abide in Him, so that when He appears, we may have confidence and not shrink away from Him in shame at His coming. 29If you know that He is righteous, you know that everyone also who practices righteousness is born of Him.

Reflection on 1 John 2:18–29:
John speaks directly and lovingly: “Children, it is the last hour.” This is not fear-mongering but clarity. We live in an age marked by deception, spiritual counterfeits, and attempts to distort the identity of Yeshua.

He identifies “antichrists” not merely as future apocalyptic figures but as anyone who denies Christ and works against the truth. Some of these individuals once claimed to be part of the Christian community but departed, revealing that their hearts were never truly transformed.

Yet John does not leave believers anxious or uncertain. Instead, he points them to two powerful realities:

1. Believers have an anointing from the Holy One.
This anointing is the presence of the Holy Spirit, who teaches, illuminates truth, and helps us discern error. The Spirit does not add new doctrines but affirms the truth already revealed in the Gospel.

2. The stability of the Christian life comes from abiding.
John repeats this word over and over — abide in what you heard from the beginning. Remain rooted in the true teaching about Yeshua. Don’t chase new or novel ideas that distort the gospel. Stay anchored in Scripture, in Christ, and in fellowship with God’s people.

John reminds believers that abiding in the truth leads to confidence, not confusion. When Christ appears, those who remain in Him will not shrink away in shame but stand with joy and assurance.

He also makes a clear distinction: those who deny the Son do not have the Father. True relationship with God is inseparable from right belief about Yeshua.

The passage concludes with both encouragement and a call to action: abide in Him, practice righteousness, and live as children of the One who is pure.

Application:

  • Abide in Scripture. Stay anchored in the gospel you first believed; do not be swayed by novelty or distortion.

  • Rely on the Holy Spirit. Seek His guidance in discernment; He protects your heart from deception.

  • Stay rooted in sound teaching. Measure every message against the Word of God.

  • Do not be alarmed by false teachers. Their presence does not mean God has lost control — Scripture says this would happen.

  • Remain confident in Christ’s return. Abiding produces boldness and joy, not fear or shame.

  • Practice righteousness. Let your obedience reflect that you belong to the One who is righteous and true.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for giving me the Holy Spirit to guide, teach, and protect me from deception. Help me to abide in Your truth, to remain anchored in Your Word, and to recognize false teaching when it appears. Strengthen my heart to practice righteousness and to live with confidence as I await the return of Yeshua. Keep me faithful, discerning, and steadfast. In His name, Amen.

Love, Worldliness

Loving God, Not the World (1 John 2:15-17)

What truly has your heart today — the things of this world, or the One who gave Himself for you?

Key Verse:
“The world is passing away and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.” —1 John 2:17 NASB

Background Context:
After reassuring believers of their forgiveness and their identity in Christ, John turns to a crucial warning: do not love the world. The “world” here does not mean creation or people, whom God loves, but the world system — the patterns of thinking, desiring, and living that oppose God and entice the flesh.

John identifies three expressions of worldly desire:

  • the lust of the flesh

  • the lust of the eyes

  • the pride of life

These desires fueled humanity’s fall from Eden onward and continue to war against our hearts. John contrasts this temporary world with the eternal reality of doing God’s will.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 2:15-17

Do Not Love the World

      15Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

Reflection on 1 John 2:15–17:
John’s words are simple, direct, and searching: “Do not love the world nor the things in the world.” Every believer is faced with a choice of affection — either the world will claim our hearts, or God will. The two cannot coexist peacefully.

The “world” that John warns against is a system of values built on rebellion, self-gratification, and pride. It is a world that measures success by what we have, how we appear, and how much we can elevate ourselves above others. It pulls our hearts away from obedience and distracts us from devotion.

John describes this world through three powerful categories:

1. The lust of the flesh:
Desires that draw us into sinful pleasure, self-indulgence, and cravings that dominate rather than serve God.

2. The lust of the eyes:
The pull of what looks appealing — materialism, coveting, comparison, and the endless pursuit of “more.”

3. The pride of life:
Arrogance, self-sufficiency, status, and boasting in what we accomplish apart from God.

These temptations are not new; they mirror the serpent’s appeal to Eve in Genesis 3 and Satan’s temptations of Yeshua in the wilderness.

John then gives a sobering truth: the world is passing away. Everything that seems desirable, successful, or impressive today will be gone tomorrow — empty, temporary, fragile.

In contrast, “the one who does the will of God lives forever.” Obedience to God aligns us with what is eternal, unshakable, and rooted in His kingdom rather than the shifting values of culture.

This passage calls us to examine our affections — what we pursue, what we admire, what we give our time and desires to. True love for God is revealed in a heart freed from the world’s grip and anchored in eternal things.

Application:

  • Examine your desires. Ask where the world’s values have influenced your thinking, goals, or affections.

  • Fight the pull of the flesh. Pursue holiness through the Spirit, not through willpower alone.

  • Guard your eyes. Be watchful about what you admire, envy, or long for.

  • Reject pride. Humble yourself before God, recognizing your dependence on Him.

  • Choose what is eternal. Invest your heart in God’s will — His Word, His kingdom, His righteousness.

  • Remember the world is temporary. Let this truth shape your decisions, priorities, and hopes.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for calling me out of the world and into Your light. Help me to recognize the subtle ways the world appeals to my heart, and give me strength through Your Spirit to resist its pull. Fix my affection on You alone. Teach me to pursue Your will, to value what is eternal, and to walk in humility and obedience. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Loving / Kind, Marriage, Song of Solomon

Beauty Through the Eyes of Love (Song of Solomon 1:5-17)

Have you ever felt unworthy, overlooked, or insecure — only to be lifted up by the kind and affirming words of someone who truly loves you?

Key Verse:
“Do not stare at me because I am dark, for the sun has burned me… My mother’s sons were angry with me; they made me caretaker of the vineyards, but I have not taken care of my own vineyard.” —Song of Solomon 1:6 NASB

Background Context:
In Song of Solomon 1:5–17, the bride opens her heart with surprising vulnerability. She confesses insecurity about her appearance — her skin darkened by the harsh sun from outdoor labor, a sign not of beauty in her culture but of social disadvantage. She shares her pain openly: she was mistreated, made to work hard, and feels unattractive and unvalued.

The beloved responds not with dismissal or correction but with tender affirmation and praise. Their dialogue becomes a beautiful picture of mutual honor, emotional intimacy, and the healing power of loving words.

This interaction also reflects how God speaks to His people — meeting our insecurities with compassion, lifting our heads, and reminding us of the worth He places on us.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 1:5-17

 5“I am black but lovely,
O daughters of Jerusalem,
Like the tents of Kedar,
Like the curtains of Solomon.

      6“Do not stare at me because I am swarthy,
For the sun has burned me.
My mother’s sons were angry with me;
They made me caretaker of the vineyards,
But I have not taken care of my own vineyard.

      7“Tell me, O you whom my soul loves,
Where do you pasture your flock,
Where do you make it lie down at noon?
For why should I be like one who veils herself
Beside the flocks of your companions?”

Solomon, the Lover, Speaks

8“If you yourself do not know,
Most beautiful among women,
Go forth on the trail of the flock
And pasture your young goats
By the tents of the shepherds.

      9“To me, my darling, you are like
My mare among the chariots of Pharaoh.

      10“Your cheeks are lovely with ornaments,
Your neck with strings of beads.”

      11“We will make for you ornaments of gold
With beads of silver.”

      12“While the king was at his table,
My perfume gave forth its fragrance.

      13“My beloved is to me a pouch of myrrh
Which lies all night between my breasts.

      14“My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms
In the vineyards of Engedi.”

      15“How beautiful you are, my darling,
How beautiful you are!
Your eyes are like doves.”

      16“How handsome you are, my beloved,
And so pleasant!
Indeed, our couch is luxuriant!

      17“The beams of our houses are cedars,
Our rafters, cypresses.

Reflection on Song of Solomon 1:5–17:
The bride begins with a heartfelt confession: “I am dark but lovely.” She is wrestling with identity — she knows she has worth, yet she feels the sting of cultural judgment and personal insecurity. Her darkened skin is not the result of leisure but of hardship, conflict, and being forced by her brothers into labor that wore her down. She feels unseen, unprotected, and undesired.

Many believers can relate. We often come before God feeling unworthy — marked by our past, shaped by pain, or convinced that our flaws define us. Yet even in her weakness, the bride speaks truth: “I am dark but lovely.” She recognizes that her worth is not erased by her circumstances.

The beloved immediately responds with compassion and affirmation. He calls her “my darling,” speaks gently, and compares her beauty to the most exquisite mare among Pharaoh’s chariots — strong, elegant, and unmatched. His words lift her spirit, restore her confidence, and affirm her identity.

Then the bride responds with admiration of her own, showing that healthy love is mutual. The exchange becomes a tender dance of honor, where each person sees the other through eyes of affection and speaks life rather than criticism.

Spiritually, this mirrors how God treats us. When we come to Him burdened by shame, insecurity, or past wounds, He does not condemn or shame us. He speaks truth to our hearts, calling us beloved, chosen, and lovely in His sight. His affirmation is not flattery — it is rooted in His love and the identity He gives His people.

Marriage, likewise, is strengthened when spouses speak life, affirmation, and dignity over one another. Love listens to insecurities, lifts burdens, and restores confidence through tenderness and truth.

Application:

  • Bring your insecurities to God. He already knows them, and He meets them with compassion and truth.

  • Speak life to those you love. Affirmation strengthens relationships; criticism wounds them.

  • See yourself through God’s eyes. Your worth comes from Him, not from the scars of your past or the opinions of others.

  • Honor your spouse. Like the beloved, express admiration, encouragement, and tenderness.

  • Practice mutual care. Healthy relationships involve giving and receiving emotional support.

  • Let God heal your identity. Lay down past hurts, and allow His truth to restore your sense of worth.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that You see me fully — every fear, every wound, every insecurity — and yet You call me beloved. Teach me to find my worth in what You say about me, not in the opinions of others or the scars of my past. Help me to speak life and encouragement to those You’ve placed in my life, especially within my family. Heal my heart, strengthen my identity in You, and let my relationships reflect Your compassion and truth. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Blessed, Loving / Kind, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Psalms, Strong in Our Weakness, Thankfulness, Worthy of Fear / Reverence

Rejoicing in the God Who Reigns (Psalm 33)

When you look at the world around you — its uncertainties, its leaders, its chaos — do you ever feel overwhelmed, or do you rest knowing that God still sits on the throne?

Key Verse:
“For the word of the LORD is upright, and all His work is done in faithfulness.” —Psalm 33:4 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 33 is a call to joyful, confident praise rooted in the character and sovereignty of God. Unlike many psalms, it is not attributed to a specific author, yet its themes fit beautifully with David’s style of worship. The psalm begins by calling the righteous to praise God with instruments, singing, and gladness. It then moves into a sweeping description of God’s creative power, His wisdom in ruling the nations, and His watchful eye over those who fear Him.

This psalm reminds God’s people that their security does not come from earthly strength — not armies, kings, or human plans — but from the Lord who sees, knows, and delivers.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 33

Praise to the Creator and Preserver.

1Sing for joy in the LORD, O you righteous ones;
Praise is becoming to the upright.

      2Give thanks to the LORD with the lyre;
Sing praises to Him with a harp of ten strings.

      3Sing to Him a new song;
Play skillfully with a shout of joy.

      4For the word of the LORD is upright,
And all His work is done in faithfulness.

      5He loves righteousness and justice;
The earth is full of the lovingkindness of the LORD.

      6By the word of the LORD the heavens were made,
And by the breath of His mouth all their host.

      7He gathers the waters of the sea together as a heap;
He lays up the deeps in storehouses.

      8Let all the earth fear the LORD;
Let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of Him.

      9For He spoke, and it was done;
He commanded, and it stood fast.

      10The LORD nullifies the counsel of the nations;
He frustrates the plans of the peoples.

      11The counsel of the LORD stands forever,
The plans of His heart from generation to generation.

      12Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD,
The people whom He has chosen for His own inheritance.

      13The LORD looks from heaven;
He sees all the sons of men;

      14From His dwelling place He looks out
On all the inhabitants of the earth,

      15He who fashions the hearts of them all,
He who understands all their works.

      16The king is not saved by a mighty army;
A warrior is not delivered by great strength.

      17A horse is a false hope for victory;
Nor does it deliver anyone by its great strength.

      18Behold, the eye of the LORD is on those who fear Him,
On those who hope for His lovingkindness,

      19To deliver their soul from death
And to keep them alive in famine.

      20Our soul waits for the LORD;
He is our help and our shield.

      21For our heart rejoices in Him,
Because we trust in His holy name.

      22Let Your lovingkindness, O LORD, be upon us,
According as we have hoped in You.

Reflection on Psalm 33:
Psalm 33 opens with joy. Praise is not optional — it is “befitting” for the righteous. Worship is the proper response when we understand the character of God.

The psalmist celebrates three great truths:

1. God’s Word is powerful and reliable.
By His word the heavens were made. By His command, the seas gather, and creation stands firm. Everything God says is upright, trustworthy, and true. His promises never fail because they are backed by His power.

2. God reigns over the nations.
The plans of nations rise and fall, but the counsel of the Lord stands forever. Earthly leaders boast of strength and strategy, yet God frustrates the plans of the wicked and establishes His own purposes unhindered. No army, no king, and no earthly power can secure salvation apart from God.

3. God watches over those who fear Him.
He sees every heart. He knows every thought. He protects those who trust Him, delivering them from death and sustaining them in famine. His eye is not distant — it is attentive, loving, and faithful.

These truths bring profound comfort in uncertain times. We live in a world full of shifting nations, powerful leaders, and noisy confusion. But Psalm 33 reminds us that our hope is not anchored in earthly stability. It rests in the unchanging character and sovereign rule of God.

Our response? To wait for the Lord, to rejoice in Him, and to trust His holy name — because His lovingkindness surrounds those who hope in Him.

Application:

  • Praise God with joy. Worship is not just emotion; it is a right and fitting response to His character.

  • Trust His Word over human wisdom. God’s promises are more solid than the plans of nations or the predictions of experts.

  • Rest in His sovereignty. Nothing in world events can overturn God’s purposes.

  • Reject false saviors. Human strength, money, government, or personal ability cannot replace the Lord as your security.

  • Live under His watchful care. God sees you, knows you, and surrounds those who fear Him with steadfast love.

  • Wait on the Lord with confidence. Hope is not passive — it is a steady, joyful expectation rooted in who God is.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that Your Word is trustworthy and Your works are faithful. Teach me to praise You with joy and confidence, even when the world feels unstable. Help me to rest in Your sovereignty and rely on Your lovingkindness. Keep my heart hopeful, my trust firm, and my eyes fixed on You alone. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Discerning / Judging, Submitted / Servant, Teachable, Traditions / Holidays

Unwrapping the truth: Does Celebrating Christmas Please God?

Ever wondered about the true history and implications of Christmas in the eyes of Yahweh?

It’s time to explore. Join us in unraveling the Christmas Question—a thought-provoking documentary by 119 Ministries.

Most spend at least a month focused on Christmas every year… invest 1-1/2 hours in this documentary and gain insights that might reshape your perspective on the holiday that is cherished so widely. The real gift lies in understanding, and this documentary is your key.

Don’t just celebrate Christmas because you always have; understand if it’s truly pleasing to God.

The Christmas Question | 119 Ministries (link)

The Christmas Question documentary unravels the history of the Christmas holiday and explores the implications for believers today.  Our desire is to present historical information about the Christmas holiday and its traditions through interviewing a collection of historians, scholars, academics and theologians. The purpose behind this documentary is not intended to be something that causes division nor condemnation.

Instead, we seek to help believers determine if celebrating Christmas is a sin and how Scripture indicates the Father feels about the various Christmas rites and origins. We ask an important question. If there is a chance that any part of Christmas would offend the Father, then should we still do it?

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Guide, Holy Spirit / Ruach HaKodesh, Seeking God, Study the Word, Traditions / Holidays

Test Everything Faithfully: A Call to Discernment

Ever caught in the flow of fervent teachings or ingrained traditions, but not sure whether or not they are truly based on God’s word? Maybe you even feel spirit led… but is it truly the Spirit or something else?

Dive into Apostle Paul’s timeless guidance on embracing the Spirit while critically evaluating every teaching against Scripture’s unchanging standards.

Let’s explore these insights more deeply:

  • Embrace and Evaluate: In 1 Thessalonians 5:19-22, Paul warns us not to stifle the Spirit or scorn prophecies but to test everything and cling to what is good. This balance is essential for maintaining the integrity of our faith journey.
  • The Power of Discernment: The challenge of discerning truth from deception is both a gift and a critical responsibility. Discernment ensures that our beliefs are rooted in truth rather than tradition.
  • Tradition vs. Truth: Paul’s exhortation to test everything shines a light on the necessity of scrutinizing widely accepted norms, such as the observance of Sabbath on Sunday. The cultural shift towards Sunday Sabbath lacks a clear biblical foundation. A careful examination of the disciples’ practices, pre and post Yeshua’s resurrection, reveals their adherence to the seventh-day Sabbath.
  • Unmasking Cultural Holidays: Explore the pagan roots intertwined with “Christian holidays” like Christmas and Easter. The historical roots often intertwine with pagan practices, challenging believers to scrutinize traditions inherited from generations past. The absence of biblical endorsement for these celebrations invites us to reevaluate their place in our faith.
  • Testing Cultural Assumptions: Investigate common yet inaccurate cultural representations of biblical events, such as the number of wise men visiting Jesus or the nativity scene’s setting. These explorations reveal how deeply cultural assumptions can distort biblical truths.

If I were to ask most people “How many wise men visited Jesus?”, most would say “three”. Fact is that we don’t know. The Bible does not say. It only says they brought gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh and we assume and teach three. It could be two or it could be five. One person can bring a gift of two items or two people can both bring the same item.

Similarly, nativity scenes almost always show the wise men at the stable where Yeshua was born. If you read the text, you will see this is not at all accurate. The star appeared when Yeshua was born. That is what triggered the wise men to plan and begin their journey. By the time they arrived, Yeshua was in a house, not a stable. We will also read later that Herod, understanding that Yeshua was born well ahead of the arrival of the Magi, ordered children up to two years old to be killed, not only newborns. (Matthew 2:1-12)

Conclusion: As we navigate the complex tapestry of faith and tradition, let Paul’s wisdom guide us. Embrace discernment to anchor our beliefs in the unchanging Word of God.

Call to Action: Commit to studying Scripture independently, challenging commonly accepted practices by comparing them with biblical teachings. Encourage others to embark on this journey of discernment and truth.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, grant us discerning hearts and minds. Guide us to hold fast to what is good and abstain from every form of evil. Illuminate the path of truth amid the complexities of cultural assumptions. May we, as Your children, stand firm on the foundation of Your Word. In Yeshua’s name, we pray, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Forgive Others / Seek Forgiveness, Guide, Jesus Christ / Yeshua, Love, Obeying God, Repenting from Sin

Love Is Proven in Our Walk (1 John 2:1–14)

When you think about your relationship with God, do you ever wonder, “How can I be sure I truly know Him?”

Key Verse:
“The one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.” —1 John 2:6 NASB

Background Context:
John continues his message of assurance, clarity, and spiritual discernment to believers. In 1 John 2:1–14, he comforts the church by reminding them that Jesus Himself is our Advocate before the Father and the atoning sacrifice for our sins. But John also emphasizes that genuine relationship with God produces obedience and love.

He explains that the old commandment — to love — is new in Christ because it is now perfectly revealed in His life, death, and resurrection. John then speaks warmly to different groups within the church (“little children,” “fathers,” and “young men”), reassuring them of their forgiveness, strength, and spiritual triumph through God’s Word.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

1 John 2:1–14

Christ Is Our Advocate

      1My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; 2and He Himself is the propitiation for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world.

      3By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments. 4The one who says, “I have come to know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him; 5but whoever keeps His word, in him the love of God has truly been perfected. By this we know that we are in Him: 6the one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.

      7Beloved, I am not writing a new commandment to you, but an old commandment which you have had from the beginning; the old commandment is the word which you have heard. 8On the other hand, I am writing a new commandment to you, which is true in Him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true Light is already shining. 9The one who says he is in the Light and yet hates his brother is in the darkness until now. 10The one who loves his brother abides in the Light and there is no cause for stumbling in him. 11But the one who hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

      12I am writing to you, little children, because your sins have been forgiven you for His name’s sake. 13I am writing to you, fathers, because you know Him who has been from the beginning. I am writing to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one. I have written to you, children, because you know the Father. 14I have written to you, fathers, because you know Him who has been from the beginning. I have written to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.

Reflection on 1 John 2:1–14:
John begins with tenderness: “My little children, I am writing these things so that you may not sin.” He does not excuse sin — but neither does he leave the believer without hope. When we fall, “we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”

This is not a sentimental comfort; it is a profound theological truth. Jesus Himself intercedes for us. He stands in our defense on the basis of His righteousness, not ours. His sacrifice is the propitiation — the complete, wrath-satisfying atonement — not only for our sins but for the whole world.

But John does not stop at comfort. He moves to examination. How do we know we truly know God? John gives a simple, searching answer: “By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments.”

Obedience is not the means of salvation but the evidence of genuine relationship. The one who claims to know God while ignoring His commands “is a liar.” The one who walks as Jesus walked shows that God’s love is being perfected in him.

Then John turns to love — the commandment that is both old and new. It is old because it has been God’s will from the beginning; new because Christ displayed it perfectly and empowers us to live it through His Spirit. Love is the distinguishing mark of those who walk in the light. Hatred or contempt toward others reveals darkness, no matter what a person professes.

Finally, John speaks encouragement to all believers. Children are forgiven. Fathers know the Eternal One. Young men have overcome the evil one and are strong because the Word of God abides in them. John’s words remind us that every stage of spiritual growth carries blessing, responsibility, and purpose.

Application:

  • Look to Christ when you sin. He is your Advocate — righteous, faithful, and always interceding for you.

  • Measure your walk honestly. True relationship with God produces obedience to His Word.

  • Walk as Jesus walked. Let His example shape your responses, priorities, and relationships.

  • Love with sincerity. Love is the visible evidence of walking in the light.

  • Let God’s Word abide in you. Strength against temptation flows from Scripture dwelling deeply in your heart.

  • Embrace your stage of spiritual growth. Whether young in faith or seasoned, God has purpose and encouragement for you.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for giving us an Advocate in Yeshua, who intercedes for us with perfect righteousness. Help me to walk in obedience, not as a burden but as evidence of knowing You. Fill my heart with genuine love for others, and let Your Word abide in me with strength and clarity. Teach me to walk as Yeshua walked, relying on Your Spirit every day. In His holy name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.