Category Archives: Family

Children, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

A Heartfelt Reflection on Family Traditions (The Parable of Two Fathers)

In the heart of a town, two fathers stood as neighbors, each with a son, driven by a common desire to honor God. Both attended church faithfully, praying and reading the Bible with their sons. Yet, their paths diverged, shaping the destinies of their families.

The first father, unwavering in his commitment to God, faced mockery for standing firm in his convictions. He refused to lie to his son, and his son noticed.  His son observed this courage, and the father’s honesty resonated deeply. He instilled a belief in one God, teaching that God defines good and bad, and sin carries consequences.

As the son grew older, he sometimes wondered how he could know Jesus was real since he could not “see” him or “touch” him but accepted it because his father was always honest with him. He learned to stand for Jesus even when it was hard, because he learned by watching his father.

In contrast, the second father clung to generational traditions, content in a comfortable existence. He blended truths with fanciful tales, weaving a web of make-believe characters into his son’s life. It felt comfortable, most of his friends and neighbors lived their lives in a similar manner so there was no conflict.

He did not feel that God really cared that much about some areas of how he and his family led their daily lives. He told his son that Jesus was the way to God, but he also liked to tell his son seemingly harmless made-up stories about make believe characters. He enjoyed telling his son about the tooth fairy, Easter bunny, and of course Santa Claus. He continued the stories for many years until finally his son would learn on his own that each story was not true.

The father even went out of his way to provide false evidence that the stories were true… like money under the pillow for a tooth or telling his son that the bunny hid the eggs and brought him a basket, and of course having lots of presents at Christmas… all from Santa.  He even ate cookies and milk on behalf of Santa. After all, it’s just a bit of fun. What harm can it do?

Yet, as his son grew older, the line between reality and fiction blurred, leaving him with doubts about Jesus and the Bible. The son sometimes wondered how he could know Jesus was real since he could not “see” him or “touch” him. He loved his father, but throughout his life his father had lied to him and even gone out of his way to fake evidence in many make-believe characters. He could not help but wonder if Jesus and the Bible were like the rest of the made-up stories and he had many doubts.

Reflections on Tradition and Truth

Let’s pause and consider the stories we tell our children. Are we unknowingly weaving a web of lies, disrupting the authenticity of our faith journey? Beyond the potential mistrust caused by falsehoods, we must scrutinize the deeper impact of our traditions.

Take the story of Santa Claus—a representative example. It shifts the focus of Christmas from giving to receiving, emphasizing deserving gifts based on behavior. The supposed accountability for “bad” actions becomes inconsequential, undermining the idea of consequences for wrong choices. Furthermore, Santa, an all-knowing and eternal figure, can be seen as a subtle replacement for God.

Christmas Traditions and Their Underlying Messages

The story of Santa, widely accepted and celebrated, inadvertently draws attention away from God, causing confusion and doubt. As Christians, it’s crucial to question whether our cherished traditions align with God’s message. It’s not merely about lying to our children but about the values and lessons embedded in these stories.

Trying to tell a child Christmas is about Jesus, but then overwhelming them with presents and made-up stories about Santa is like telling a child to eat a carrot and then putting in front of them a table full of cookies, brownies, cakes, and ice cream. At the very least, the table of desserts is a major distraction. In most cases, the children will remember the desserts long after they forget the carrot.

After spending years lying to children and convincing them that Santa is real, even when they start to recognize it and ask questions, we will then tell them it was all in fun… but trust me about Jesus.

Even Atheists Like Santa

Santa is in fact accepted around the world by many because he is absolutely not pointing to God, but rather distracting attention away from God or replacing God completely. Christians and non-Christians alike accept him. In one example, Santa’s picture was used as a spokesman for a billboard campaign by atheists basically saying we can be good without need of God. “Go ahead and skip church! Just be good for goodness sake.” (link to article here). [How an atheist can define “good” while claiming there is no God is an interesting conversation for another day.]

The Emotional Challenge of Change

Recognizing the need for change is emotional and challenging. Yet, standing for Christ above all else, even within our families, is a commitment Christ himself acknowledged would stir discord. (Matthew 10:32-39)

Choose God’s Ways Over Man-Made Traditions

In the spirit of self-reflection, challenge yourself to objectively evaluate your traditions. Seek God’s truth in His word and apply it in your life. Remember, God desires His people to be holy and righteous, placing Him above all else.

A Call to Prayerful Action

May this reflection be an awakening, prompting prayerful consideration. We encourage you to seek God’s guidance, bravely stepping into a journey where His ways triumph over the traditions of man.

Closing Challenge: Put God First

As we conclude, remember the words of Jesus—choose God over familial bonds, prioritizing Christ above all. For in giving up our lives for Him, we truly find life.

God wants his people to be holy (set apart for God’s use) and righteous (living according to God’s commands rather than the world’s). He wants us to put Him first, above everything else.

Challenge yourself to objectively evaluate your traditions and seek first the kingdom of God. Do not dismiss this quickly but rather prayerfully seek God to show you the truth of His word and how to apply it in your life.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Doubt / Lacking Faith, Faith / Trusting God, Humility, Pride

Childlike Faith: Receiving the Kingdom with Humility and Trust (Luke 18:15-17)

What does it mean to have childlike faith?

In Luke 18:15-17, Jesus shows us the value of a simple, trusting heart that approaches God with humility, just like a child.

Key Verse: “Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” – Luke 18:17 (ESV)

Background Context: In Luke 18:15-17, parents are bringing their children to Jesus so that He might bless them. However, the disciples try to stop them, likely thinking that Jesus had more important matters to attend to. But Jesus responds by welcoming the children and teaching a profound lesson: unless we receive the kingdom of God like a child, we cannot enter it. This passage invites us to examine the nature of our faith and our relationship with God. Jesus highlights the importance of humility, trust, and openness—qualities often seen in children—as essential to entering His kingdom.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Luke 18:15-17

    15And they were bringing even their babies to Him so that He would touch them, but when the disciples saw it, they began rebuking them. 16But Jesus called for them, saying, “Permit the children to come to Me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 17“Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.”

Reflection on Luke 18:15-17:

  • Jesus Welcomes the Children: The disciples’ initial reaction to the children being brought to Jesus was to rebuke the parents (Luke 18:15). They may have thought that Jesus was too busy or too important to be interrupted by children. But Jesus’ response is completely different—He not only welcomes the children but also uses them as an example of how we should approach God. Jesus values every person, regardless of their age or status, and He emphasizes the importance of caring for and blessing even the “least” in society. This challenges us to reconsider how we view others and reminds us that everyone is valuable in God’s eyes.
  • Childlike Humility and Trust: Jesus says that to enter the kingdom of God, we must receive it “like a child” (Luke 18:17). Children are naturally dependent on others for their needs. They trust, they are open, and they are humble. In the same way, God calls us to approach Him with humility and trust, recognizing that we are dependent on His grace and provision. We cannot earn our way into the kingdom of God through our achievements or status. Instead, we are called to come to God with open hearts, ready to receive His love and grace, just as a child would. This is a reminder that faith is not about self-sufficiency but about surrendering to God’s care and trusting in His goodness.
  • A Heart Ready to Receive: Children are receptive—they are willing to receive gifts and trust in the goodness of those who care for them. When Jesus speaks of receiving the kingdom of God like a child, He is emphasizing the importance of having a heart that is open and willing to receive what God offers. Sometimes, as adults, we can become guarded, skeptical, or overly self-reliant, thinking that we must work for or prove ourselves worthy of God’s love. But Jesus teaches us that the kingdom of God is a gift to be received, not earned. We are invited to come to God with a heart that is ready to receive His grace, love, and direction.
  • Entering the Kingdom of God: Jesus’ statement in verse 17 is striking: “whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” This is not just a suggestion—it’s a requirement for entering God’s kingdom. To receive the kingdom of God like a child means to let go of our pride, self-reliance, and illusions of control. It means acknowledging that we are dependent on God for everything—our salvation, our daily needs, and our purpose in life. Jesus calls us to a relationship with Him that is built on trust and dependence, not on our own efforts or merit.
  • The Simplicity of Faith: Children often have a simple, straightforward faith. They are not burdened by complicated questions or doubts; they simply trust. While it is natural for our faith to grow deeper as we mature, Jesus reminds us that at the heart of our relationship with God should be a simple, trusting faith. A faith that says, “I trust You, God, even when I don’t understand.” This kind of faith allows us to experience the fullness of life in the kingdom of God, where we rely on His love, provision, and guidance each day.

Summary Key Points:

  • Jesus Welcomes Everyone: Jesus values and welcomes even the smallest and most vulnerable, reminding us that everyone is precious in God’s eyes.
  • Childlike Humility and Trust: We are called to approach God with the humility and trust of a child, recognizing our dependence on Him and His grace.
  • A Heart Ready to Receive: Like children, we are to have hearts that are open and ready to receive God’s gifts—especially His kingdom, which is a gift of grace.
  • Entering the Kingdom Requires Humility: Jesus teaches that we must receive the kingdom of God like a child—letting go of pride and self-sufficiency and coming to Him in faith and dependence.
  • The Simplicity of Faith: A childlike faith is marked by trust and simplicity, allowing us to rest in God’s care and experience His kingdom in our daily lives.

Application: Take time to reflect on your own relationship with God—are you approaching Him with the humility, trust, and openness of a child? Are there areas where you’ve been relying on your own strength or accomplishments instead of trusting in God’s grace? Consider how you can cultivate a childlike faith, one that is simple and trusting, knowing that God is a good Father who cares for you. Let go of the desire to control or earn your way into God’s favor, and instead come to Him with an open heart, ready to receive His love and guidance.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come to You with humble hearts, recognizing our need for Your grace and mercy. Teach us to approach You with the trust and openness of a child, knowing that we depend on You for everything. Help us to let go of pride and self-sufficiency, and instead receive Your kingdom as a gift. Give us a simple, trusting faith that rests in Your love and care. Thank You for welcoming us into Your family. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Divorce, Marriage, Purposeful / Intentional, Rebuke Wrong Behavior, Repenting from Sin

Upholding God’s Standards: Marriage, Divorce, and the Call to Live Righteously

In a world that increasingly normalizes behaviors contrary to God’s Word, how are we as believers to respond?

Luke 16:18 provides a direct and challenging teaching on marriage and divorce, reminding us of the seriousness with which God views these sacred bonds, and calling us to uphold His standards in our lives.

Key Verse: “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.” – Luke 16:18 (ESV)

Background Context: In Luke 16, Jesus teaches about stewardship, righteousness, and faithfulness to God’s commandments. Tucked within these teachings is a seemingly unrelated verse on divorce and remarriage (Luke 16:18). At first glance, it may appear out of place, but it carries a powerful message that connects with the broader theme of faithfulness and the importance of upholding God’s standards in all areas of life, particularly in marriage.

Luke 16:18

      18“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery.

Reflection on Luke 16:18:

  • The Sanctity of Marriage: Jesus’ statement in Luke 16:18 is clear and direct: divorce and remarriage, outside of God’s intended design, is equated with adultery. This echoes Jesus’ teachings elsewhere in the Gospels, where He affirms that God’s intention for marriage is “until death do us part” (Matthew 19:3-9). Divorce was permitted by the law because of the hardness of human hearts, but it was never God’s ideal. His design for marriage is a lifelong covenant of faithfulness between one man and one woman.
  • Cultural and Moral Decay: In the context of Luke 16, this verse serves as a critique of the Pharisees, who often lowered God’s standards to accommodate cultural norms and human weaknesses. Ellicott’s Commentary points out that the Pharisees’ lax attitude toward divorce was akin to the unjust steward’s act of reducing debts. It reflects a pattern of lowering the standards of God’s commandments to suit personal or societal preferences. Unfortunately, this same trend persists in our modern culture, where behaviors like divorce, abortion, homosexuality, adultery, and fornication are often normalized or excused—even among those who claim to follow Christ.
  • The Call to Uphold God’s Standards: As believers, we are called to uphold God’s standards in a culture that increasingly seeks to lower them. Marriage is just one example where God’s command is clear, yet the world pushes back with its own ideas of convenience, self-gratification, and autonomy. We are reminded that God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and we must stand firm in living according to His truth, even when it’s countercultural.
  • Repentance and Restoration: For those who have gone through divorce, this teaching may be difficult to hear. It’s important to remember that God is a God of grace, mercy, and forgiveness. If you have divorced or remarried outside of God’s design, seek His forgiveness with a repentant heart, knowing that He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). But let us not make light of divorce or sin in general. Divorce is a painful and destructive act that often leaves lasting scars on families and individuals. We are called to take marriage seriously, to honor the covenant we make, and to seek God’s guidance in every step of our relationships.
  • Engaging in the Cultural Battle: Beyond our personal lives, we are called to engage in the cultural battle against the normalization of sin. This means speaking out against the lowering of God’s standards in our communities, churches, and governments. It is not enough to say, “It’s not right for me, but let others live how they choose.” We must lovingly yet boldly uphold the truth of God’s Word and seek to bring His light into the darkness. As followers of Christ, we must actively work to promote His values, both in prayer and in action.

Summary Key Points:

  • God’s Design for Marriage: Marriage is a lifelong covenant, and divorce is not part of God’s plan for His people. We are called to uphold the sanctity of marriage and take it seriously.
  • Cultural Pressure to Lower Standards: Just as the Pharisees lowered God’s standards for marriage, our culture often normalizes behaviors that go against God’s Word. We are called to stand firm in the truth.
  • Repentance and Grace: For those who have experienced divorce, there is forgiveness and grace. Seek God’s restoration, but also recognize the gravity of sin and the importance of honoring God’s standards moving forward.
  • Active Engagement in the Battle for Righteousness: As believers, we are called not to be passive but to actively engage in promoting God’s values in our communities and the world, starting with prayer and continuing with action.

Application: Take time today to reflect on your view of marriage, relationships, and God’s standards in your life. Are there areas where you have allowed cultural norms to influence your thinking more than God’s Word? If you have experienced divorce, seek God’s forgiveness and healing, and commit to honoring Him in your current relationships. Pray for strength to stand firm in the truth, even when it’s difficult, and ask God to guide you in how you can actively engage in upholding His standards in your community and beyond.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before You recognizing the sacredness of marriage and the importance of upholding Your standards in a world that seeks to lower them. Help us to honor You in our relationships, standing firm in the truth of Your Word. We ask for Your forgiveness where we have fallen short and for Your strength to live faithfully according to Your commands. Guide us as we engage in the battle for righteousness, and may we be lights in a dark world, bringing Your truth to those around us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Father / Yahweh, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

Guided by YHWH: The Path of a Good Father

Fatherhood is a sacred calling, reflecting YHWH’s own relationship with His people. As we celebrate Father’s Day, it’s essential to recognize the qualities that define a good father—qualities rooted deeply in biblical teachings. These guidelines help fathers align with Christ’s example, positioning YHWH at the forefront of their lives and setting a standard of spiritual leadership within the family.

Biblical Foundations for Fatherhood:
The scripture provides clear and practical guidance for fathers, emphasizing the balance between discipline and compassion, leadership, and service.

  1. Spiritual Leadership and Discipline:
    • Ephesians 6:4 advises fathers not to provoke their children to anger but to raise them with discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord, fostering a nurturing yet guiding environment.
    • Proverbs 22:6 underscores the long-term impact of instilling the right values in children, ensuring they carry these teachings into adulthood.
  2. Compassion and Understanding:
    • Psalm 103:13 compares a father’s compassion to that of the LORD, highlighting the depth of understanding and care fathers should aspire to embody.
    • Colossians 3:21 warns against exacerbating children, which could discourage them, advocating instead for encouragement and empathy.
  3. Valuing and Cherishing Children:
    • Psalm 127:3-5 beautifully illustrates children as blessings from the LORD, describing them as arrows in the hands of a warrior—valuable and impactful.
  4. Leading by Example:
    • Luke 11:11-12 uses metaphorical language to discuss a father’s responsibility to provide appropriately for his children, ensuring their needs are met with wisdom and kindness.
    • Joshua 24:14-15 serves as a powerful declaration of serving the LORD faithfully, setting a profound example for the household and reinforcing the role of a father as a leader committed to righteousness.

Application:
These scriptures not only define the traditional role of fathers but also encourage modern dads to see their responsibility as a divine mandate. Fathers are called to reflect YHWH’s character, showing grace, strength, and wisdom as they guide their families.

Call to Action:

  1. Reflect and Engage: Spend time this Father’s Day reflecting on the scriptures mentioned. Consider how these teachings can influence your approach to fatherhood.
  2. Seek Growth: Continually seek ways to grow in spiritual leadership. Join or form a fathers’ group in your community or church to support and encourage each other in your parenting journey.
  3. Spread Wisdom: Share insights about biblical fatherhood with other fathers. Encourage one another with stories of success and lessons learned.
  4. Celebrate and Appreciate: Take today to celebrate the fathers in your life—your own father, friends, and community members. Acknowledge their efforts and sacrifices in striving to embody the qualities of a good father.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the model of fatherhood You provide through Your Word and Your own example. Bless the fathers who strive each day to lead and love according to Your principles. Strengthen them, grant them wisdom, and fill them with Your compassion. Help them to be beacons of Your light within their families and communities, reflecting Your love and righteousness. In Your holy name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Humility, Jesus Christ / Yeshua, Obeying God, Study the Word

Growing in Wisdom: Jesus as Our Example (Luke 2:39-52)

Have you ever marveled at the growth and development of a child, witnessing their journey from infancy to maturity? In Luke 2:39-52, we are granted a glimpse into Jesus’ formative years, where He embodies the perfect balance of humility and wisdom, setting an example for us all.

Reconnect: Reflecting on Luke 2:39-52, we revisit Jesus’ upbringing in Nazareth, observing His growth in wisdom and stature. As we delve into this passage, let’s glean insights from His childhood that continue to resonate with us today.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Luke 2:39-52

Return to Nazareth

     39When they had performed everything according to the Law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee, to their own city of Nazareth. 40The Child continued to grow and become strong, increasing in wisdom; and the grace of God was upon Him.

Visit to Jerusalem

     41Now His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of the Passover. 42And when He became twelve, they went up there according to the custom of the Feast; 43and as they were returning, after spending the full number of days, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem. But His parents were unaware of it, 44but supposed Him to be in the caravan, and went a day’s journey; and they began looking for Him among their relatives and acquaintances. 45When they did not find Him, they returned to Jerusalem looking for Him. 46Then, after three days they found Him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions. 47And all who heard Him were amazed at His understanding and His answers. 48When they saw Him, they were astonished; and His mother said to Him, “Son, why have You treated us this way? Behold, Your father and I have been anxiously looking for You.” 49And He said to them, “Why is it that you were looking for Me? Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” 50But they did not understand the statement which He had made to them. 51And He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and He continued in subjection to them; and His mother treasured all these things in her heart.

      52And Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.

Summary Key Points:

  1. Rooted in Obedience to God: Mary and Joseph faithfully adhered to Jewish customs, presenting Jesus at the temple and fulfilling the requirements of the Law. Their obedience reflects a commitment to honoring God’s commands and nurturing Jesus in His identity as the Son of God.
  2. Growing in Wisdom and Favor: Despite His divine nature, Jesus underwent a process of growth and maturation, progressing in wisdom and stature before God and humanity. His example underscores the importance of continuous growth and development in our own lives, both spiritually and intellectually.
  3. Seeking Understanding in God’s House: At the age of twelve, Jesus engages in deep theological discussions with the teachers in the temple, demonstrating His profound understanding of Scripture. His inclination towards spiritual pursuits reminds us of the value of seeking wisdom and knowledge in God’s Word.

Call to Action:

  1. Cultivate Humility and Obedience: Like Jesus, let us cultivate humility and obedience in our relationship with God, surrendering to His will and faithfully following His commands.
  2. Commit to Growth and Learning: Embrace a posture of continuous growth and learning, seeking wisdom and understanding in God’s Word and through spiritual disciplines such as prayer, meditation, and study.
  3. Engage in Spiritual Community: Find opportunities to engage with like-minded believers and mentors who can encourage and challenge you in your faith journey. Participate in discussions, Bible studies, and fellowship gatherings to deepen your understanding of God’s truth.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the example of Jesus, who grew in wisdom and stature before You and humanity. Help us to emulate His humility, obedience, and commitment to learning as we navigate our own journeys of faith. May we continually seek wisdom and understanding in Your Word, drawing closer to You with each passing day. Amen.

Arrogance, Children, Courage / Fear, Discerning / Judging, Disobeying, Rebelling Against, Ignoring God, Faith / Trusting God, Greed, Hypocrisy, Parenting, Purposeful / Intentional, Selfishness, Study the Word, Tongue / Gossip / Slander

Navigating Perilous Times (2 Timothy 3)

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the challenges of the times we live in, uncertain about how to navigate through the complexities of life?

In 2 Timothy 3, the apostle Paul offers timeless wisdom for facing adversity and standing firm in faith amidst perilous circumstances.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of 2 Timothy, Paul writes to his beloved disciple Timothy, imparting crucial instructions for ministry and exhorting him to remain steadfast in the face of opposition. As we delve into chapter 3, we find Paul addressing the prevailing challenges of the last days, offering guidance that remains relevant for believers today.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

2 Timothy 3

“Difficult Times Will Come”

     1But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these. 6For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on by various impulses, 7always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 8Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men of depraved mind, rejected in regard to the faith. 9But they will not make further progress; for their folly will be obvious to all, just as Jannes’s and Jambres’s folly was also.

      10Now you followed my teaching, conduct, purpose, faith, patience, love, perseverance, 11persecutions, and sufferings, such as happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium and at Lystra; what persecutions I endured, and out of them all the Lord rescued me! 12Indeed, all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. 13But evil men and impostors will proceed from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. 14You, however, continue in the things you have learned and become convinced of, knowing from whom you have learned them, 15and that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. 16All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; 17so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

Summary Key Points:

  • Recognizing the Signs of the Times: Paul begins by describing the characteristics of people in the last days, warning that perilous times will come. He highlights traits such as selfishness, pride, and a lack of self-control, indicating the moral decay and spiritual deception that will abound in the end times.
  • Remaining Grounded in God’s Word: Amidst the prevailing darkness, Paul emphasizes the importance of Scripture as a source of truth and guidance. He reminds Timothy that all Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, reproof, correction, and training in righteousness, equipping believers for every good work.
  • Standing Firm in the Faith: Despite the challenges and opposition, Paul encourages Timothy to continue in the things he has learned and firmly believe. He underscores the necessity of holding fast to sound doctrine, remaining faithful to the teachings passed down from the apostles, and rejecting false teachings and deceptive ideologies.
  • Persevering in the Face of Adversity: Paul himself serves as an example of endurance and perseverance in the midst of trials. He recounts his own experiences of persecution and suffering for the sake of the gospel, encouraging Timothy to endure hardship and follow his example of unwavering faithfulness to Christ.

Call to Action:

Let us heed Paul’s words in 2 Timothy 3 by:

  • Studying God’s Word Diligently: Like Timothy, let us immerse ourselves in Scripture, allowing it to shape our beliefs, values, and actions. Let us commit to regular study and meditation on God’s Word, seeking wisdom and guidance for navigating the challenges of our times.
  • Discerning the Times: In a world marked by moral relativism and spiritual deception, let us remain vigilant and discerning, recognizing the signs of the times and standing firm in the truth of God’s Word. Let us be wary of false teachings and deceptive philosophies, holding fast to the unchanging truth of Scripture.
  • Remaining Steadfast in Faith: Despite the pressures and trials we may face, let us remain steadfast in our faith, trusting in the promises of God and relying on His strength to sustain us. Let us persevere in following Christ faithfully, knowing that He is with us always, even to the end of the age.

Closing Prayer:

Heavenly Father, grant us wisdom and discernment to navigate the challenges of the times we live in. Strengthen our faith and fortify our hearts with the truth of Your Word, that we may stand firm amidst the shifting sands of this world. Help us to remain steadfast, unwavering in our commitment to You, and empowered by Your Spirit to live lives that honor and glorify Your name. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Church / Body of Christ, Family, Help / Serve Others

Caring for One Another in God’s Family (1 Timothy 5:1-16)

Have you ever wondered how we, as believers, should treat one another within the family of God?

What does the Bible say about caring for widows and those in need?

Let’s explore 1 Timothy 5:1-16 to find valuable insights on these important matters.

Reconnect: In the preceding chapters of 1 Timothy, Paul has been providing instructions to Timothy regarding the church’s order and the conduct of its members. He emphasizes the importance of sound doctrine, prayer, and godly leadership.

As we delve into 1 Timothy 5, Paul continues to provide guidance on how Timothy and the church should care for different groups within the congregation, particularly widows. This chapter sheds light on the importance of respecting one another and caring for those in need, aligning with the broader theme of maintaining the integrity and unity of the church.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

1 Timothy 5:1-16

     1Do not sharply rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, to the younger men as brothers, 2the older women as mothers, and the younger women as sisters, in all purity.

      3Honor widows who are widows indeed; 4but if any widow has children or grandchildren, they must first learn to practice piety in regard to their own family and to make some return to their parents; for this is acceptable in the sight of God. 5Now she who is a widow indeed and who has been left alone, has fixed her hope on God and continues in entreaties and prayers night and day. 6But she who gives herself to wanton pleasure is dead even while she lives. 7Prescribe these things as well, so that they may be above reproach. 8But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

      9A widow is to be put on the list only if she is not less than sixty years old, having been the wife of one man, 10having a reputation for good works; and if she has brought up children, if she has shown hospitality to strangers, if she has washed the saints’ feet, if she has assisted those in distress, and if she has devoted herself to every good work. 11But refuse to put younger widows on the list, for when they feel sensual desires in disregard of Christ, they want to get married, 12thus incurring condemnation, because they have set aside their previous pledge. 13At the same time they also learn to be idle, as they go around from house to house; and not merely idle, but also gossips and busybodies, talking about things not proper to mention. 14Therefore, I want younger widows to get married, bear children, keep house, and give the enemy no occasion for reproach; 15for some have already turned aside to follow Satan. 16If any woman who is a believer has dependent widows, she must assist them and the church must not be burdened, so that it may assist those who are widows indeed.

Summary Key Points:

  1. Respect and Support: The Apostle Paul instructs Timothy on how to interact with different groups within the church family. He emphasizes the importance of treating older believers as fathers and mothers, younger believers as siblings, and showing respect to all. This underscores the idea of unity and familial love among Christians.
  2. Care for Widows: Paul offers specific guidelines for caring for widows in the church. He distinguishes between widows with family support and those who are truly in need, advocating that family members should bear primary responsibility for providing for widows. The church should step in to assist only when there is no other support available.
  3. Qualifications for Assistance: Paul lays out qualifications for widows who are to be enrolled on the list for financial support from the church. These qualifications include being at least sixty years old, having a reputation for good works, and having no family to provide for them.
  4. Warning Against Idleness: Paul addresses the issue of younger widows who might become idle and gossipy if supported by the church. He encourages them to remarry and be actively involved in serving others rather than depending solely on the church’s assistance.
  5. Responsibility of Families: Paul emphasizes the importance of families caring for their own members. He asserts that failing to provide for one’s family is a denial of the faith and worse than unbelief.

Call to Action: Let us learn from 1 Timothy 5:1-16 and strive to cultivate an atmosphere of respect, care, and support within our church communities. We should actively seek ways to help those in genuine need, particularly widows, while also encouraging responsible and compassionate family support. As we engage in discussions about these principles, let us remember to pray for wisdom and guidance in applying them in our lives.

Let’s pray: Heavenly Father, grant us the wisdom and discernment to care for one another within your family. Help us extend love, respect, and support to those in need, particularly widows and their families. May our actions reflect the love of Christ within our communities. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Children, Church / Body of Christ, Leadership, Marriage, Submitted / Servant

Qualities of Servant-Leaders: A Closer Look at 1 Timothy 3

Have you ever wondered what it takes to be a servant-leader in the community of faith?

In the Apostle Paul’s first letter to Timothy, we discover a valuable guide that outlines the qualities and characteristics of those who aspire to serve as overseers and deacons in the early Christian church. This guidance, found in 1 Timothy 3, offers timeless wisdom for all who seek to lead and serve within the body of believers.

Reconnect: Before we delve into 1 Timothy 3, let’s remember the context. Paul wrote this letter to Timothy, a young leader in the early Christian community, to provide guidance on various matters within the church. In this chapter, Paul focuses on the qualifications and expectations for overseers and deacons.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

1 Timothy 3

Overseers and Deacons

     1It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do. 2An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. 4He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity 5(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?), 6and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil. 7And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.

      8Deacons likewise must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain, 9but holding to the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10These men must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are beyond reproach. 11Women must likewise be dignified, not malicious gossips, but temperate, faithful in all things. 12Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households. 13For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.

      14I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; 15but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support of the truth.

16By common confession, great is the mystery of godliness:
He who was revealed in the flesh,
Was vindicated in the Spirit,
Seen by angels,
Proclaimed among the nations,
Believed on in the world,
Taken up in glory.

Summary Key Points:

  1. The Role of Overseers: Paul begins by addressing the qualifications for overseers, also known as bishops or pastors. These individuals are called to provide spiritual leadership, guidance, and oversight to the congregation. The qualities Paul highlights include being above reproach, faithful in marriage, temperate, self-controlled, hospitable, and able to teach.
  2. The Role of Deacons: Paul also outlines the qualifications for deacons, who serve alongside overseers in various practical and administrative roles within the church. Deacons are to be dignified, sincere, not given to excessive drinking, and committed to holding the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience.
  3. Family Life: In addition to personal character, Paul emphasizes the importance of family life in evaluating potential overseers and deacons. He discusses the qualities of being a good husband and father, highlighting that one’s management of their own household is a reflection of their ability to serve in the household of God.
  4. The Church as God’s Household: Throughout this passage, Paul underscores the significance of the church as God’s household. He reminds Timothy that these guidelines are meant to ensure the church functions with integrity, honor, and orderliness.

As we reflect on the qualities of servant-leaders outlined in 1 Timothy 3, we are called to examine our own lives and leadership roles within the community of faith.

Whether we aspire to formal leadership positions or simply seek to be faithful servants, let us strive to embody the qualities of character, integrity, and humility that Paul highlights.

May we continually seek to grow in our walk with Christ, knowing that our leadership, in whatever capacity, is an opportunity to serve and honor God.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before you with hearts filled with gratitude for the guidance you provide through your Word. We thank you for the wisdom found in 1 Timothy 3, which sets a standard for servant-leaders in your church.

Lord, help us to cultivate the qualities of character and integrity outlined in this passage. Grant us the humility to serve others with love and selflessness. As we seek to lead by example, may your Spirit empower us to live out these qualities in our daily lives.

We also pray for our church leaders, both present and future. May they be equipped with the qualities that honor you and serve your people effectively.

In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Discussion and Comment:

What aspects of the qualities outlined in 1 Timothy 3 resonate with you as important for servant-leaders?

How can these qualities be applied in various roles within the church and in daily life? Share your thoughts, engage in a discussion with friends or family, and feel free to leave your comments below.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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Children, Faith / Trusting God, Jesus (hearing from God), Seeking God

Receive the Kingdom of God As a Child Would

We can easily get busy with our daily activities. Even when we are doing good or important activities, let us take care not to overlook the children.  Take time to appreciate and engage children, as Jesus did.  It is best not to think of children as a distraction, but rather as  gifts from God and as the wonderful creations they really are. The kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Jesus set a great example for us by making time for children even during His short and busy earthly ministry.

Mark 10:13-16

Jesus Blesses Little Children

      13And they were bringing children to Him so that He might touch them; but the disciples rebuked them. 14But when Jesus saw this, He was indignant and said to them, “Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 15“Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.” 16And He took them in His arms and began blessing them, laying His hands on them.

Children are remarkably open to accept the truth about Jesus. They listen with an open, unbiased mind. They are not yet led astray by the world and by those who make up reasons to reject God and then pressure others to reject Him also. Jesus takes the opportunity not only to show love for the children by making time for them, but also to make an important point. When he says that he the kingdom of God belongs to such as these, He is not only referring to children, but to those who receive the kingdom of God like a child.

Let us pay attention to both lessons that Jesus teaches in this scripture. Value and make time for children, even when you are busy. Secondly, challenge yourself to embrace the kingdom of God as a child, without reservation and doubt… wholeheartedly.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, please help me to appreciate and encourage little children. Help me to not look on them as a distraction, but as a treasure. Help me to embrace You and Your kingdom with the faith of a young child, without reservation and doubt. Amen. 

Shalom

Devotion by John in service to Christ

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Guide, Jesus (hearing from God), Marriage

What God Has Joined, Let No Man Separate (Marriage)

Jesus has a way of speaking clearly, but sometimes if we don’t like His instruction, we try to find ways to change it, rather than obey it. Divorce is never God’s intent. Because of the hardness of our hearts, He permits it, but that does not make it good.

Mark 10:1-12

Jesus’ Teaching about Divorce

      1Getting up, He went from there to the region of Judea and beyond the Jordan; crowds gathered around Him again, and, according to His custom, He once more began to teach them.

      2Some Pharisees came up to Jesus, testing Him, and began to question Him whether it was lawful for a man to divorce a wife. 3And He answered and said to them, “What did Moses command you?” 4They said, “Moses permitted a man TO WRITE A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE AND SEND her AWAY.” 5But Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. 6“But from the beginning of creation, God MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE. 7“FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER, 8AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH; so they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9“What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

      10In the house the disciples began questioning Him about this again. 11And He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her; 12and if she herself divorces her husband and marries another man, she is committing adultery.”

Divorce is painful and destructive process… like planting two small plants next to one another in a small plot of ground. After they grow together, the roots intertwine and if you try to separate them you will damage or destroy one or both of the plants in the process.

We should use wisdom and godly council and prayer before selecting a spouse. Avoid choosing based on “warm fuzzy feelings”, as that does not last. After being married, continue investing in your spouse… in knowing, loving, serving them. Each of you seek God together and individually. You will grow closer and closer to each other as you do so. Model your behavior and attitudes toward one another off of Biblical teaching. “Sacrifice” comes before “self” in a successful marriage. Follow the example of how Jesus sacrificed and suffered for the church, symbolically His bride, and how the church is called to follow after His example and instruction… His leadership.

Those who have been through divorce already can be forgiven through the death and resurrection of Christ. He paid the price for our sin. Seek to learn from whatever the situation was and not repeat it.

Read more and find resources to support healthy marriage on our website Marriage page.

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, please bless Your people in marriage. Lead and guide them to make wise choices that are pleasing to You. For those facing difficulty in marriage, please help guide them. Help them to be selfless and sacrificing, putting their spouse ahead of themselves. Help them to seek to draw near to You, and in so doing, grow nearer to each other. For those in situations for which their lives are in danger, please protect and guide them as they face such a harsh situation and seek to make the right decision to find safety. For those who have already been involved in divorce, please forgive them and help them to heal and deal graciously with the resulting complexity of relationships that often comes from divorce, especially if children are involved. Help Your people to stand out from the culture around them in regards to marriage, rather than blend in, so that You would receive glory. Amen.

Shalom

Devotion by John in service to Christ

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