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What is Mardi Gras and Should Christians Celebrate It?

What is Mardi Gras and why do so many Christians celebrate it? I grew up in a Catholic church and never could quite figure out how people could say that Mardi Gras was a “Christian holiday”. People broadly seemed to have accepted the concept that Christ wants us to embrace wild parties, drunkenness, public nudity, gluttony and other sinful behavior as a precursor to a period of repentance which follows.

Some may say that they only celebrate the parades, or they don’t participate or support the more offensive parts of Mardi Gras. However, it is all linked together as different levels of engagement in a clearly pagan festival. Does God like it if we only participate a little in some fun activities focused around a false god? What if we don’t do the “child sacrifice” but only dance before the idol or have a party on the day others sacrifice to the false god?

If it is not obvious enough that celebrating Mardi Gras is not a way to edify, honor, or lift up Christ then try a more academic exercise. Where in scripture did Jesus demonstrate or teach that we should sin greatly before a period of repentance? It’s not there. In fact, the opposite.

The call to repentance is real, but not the call to sin before it.

This does not even begin to touch on the focus that Mardi Gras puts on pagan gods associated with parades and other events.

Matthew 4:17

      17From that time Jesus began to preach and say, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”

Romans 6

      1What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin so that grace may increase? 2May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in it? 3Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus have been baptized into His death? 4Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. 5For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection, 6knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin; 7for he who has died is freed from sin.

      8Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him, 9knowing that Christ, having been raised from the dead, is never to die again; death no longer is master over Him. 10For the death that He died, He died to sin once for all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God. 11Even so consider yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus.

      12Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its lusts, 13and do not go on presenting the members of your body to sin as instruments of unrighteousness; but present yourselves to God as those alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. 14For sin shall not be master over you, for you are not under law but under grace.

      15What then? Shall we sin because we are not under law but under grace? May it never be! 16Do you not know that when you present yourselves to someone as slaves for obedience, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin resulting in death, or of obedience resulting in righteousness? 17But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin, you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were committed, 18and having been freed from sin, you became slaves of righteousness. 19I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh. For just as you presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness, resulting in further lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness, resulting in sanctification.

      20For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness. 21Therefore what benefit were you then deriving from the things of which you are now ashamed? For the outcome of those things is death. 22But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification, and the outcome, eternal life. 23For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

We are called to righteousness and not to sin. How then can those in the church widely accept and embrace sin as a “Christian holiday”? The answer is that we have not followed the Lord’s instructions. He commands us not to learn the ways of the pagans and not to celebrate as they do. But all too often our common cultural holidays have been greatly influenced by pagan celebrations. The church has chosen to accept and blend pagan practices alongside or in place of how the Lord wants us to worship Him.

What Is Mardi Gras?

When Christianity arrived in Rome, religious leaders decided to incorporate these popular local traditions into the new faith, an easier task than abolishing them altogether. As a result, the excess and debauchery of the Mardi Gras season became a prelude to Lent, the 40 days of fasting and penance between Ash Wednesday and Easter Sunday.

Along with Christianity, Mardi Gras spread from Rome to other European countries, including France, Germany, Spain and England.

http://www.history.com/topics/holidays/mardi-gras

Deuteronomy 12:1-5

   1“These are the statutes and the judgments which you shall carefully observe in the land which the LORD, the God of your fathers, has given you to possess as long as you live on the earth. 2“You shall utterly destroy all the places where the nations whom you shall dispossess serve their gods, on the high mountains and on the hills and under every green tree. 3“You shall tear down their altars and smash their sacred pillars and burn their Asherim with fire, and you shall cut down the engraved images of their gods and obliterate their name from that place. 4“You shall not act like this toward the LORD your God. 5“But you shall seek the LORD at the place which the LORD your God will choose from all your tribes, to establish His name there for His dwelling, and there you shall come.

In order to choose to follow the Lord His way, which is the only true way to follow Him, then we must turn away from and reject pagan celebrations which have been blended with or replaced God’s instructions for how we are to worship Him and how we are to live. Let us not make excuses, accepting the lifestyle of the pagans as our own, no matter how long the family traditions have been established. When we start making exceptions, we often end up with things like Mardi Gras… many who claim to be Christian accept it and would defend it… but none can justify it based on scripture or God’s word. It has become part of the culture based on a historical choices and family traditions. Let us seek the Lord and the Lord’s way alone to live submitted to Him. Let us not blend with the ways of the pagans but rather turn back to our Lord wholeheartedly and without hesitation.

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I Am My Beloved’s (Song of Solomon 6)

When insecurity whispers doubt, whose voice do you choose to believe?

Key Verse:
“I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine.” —Song of Solomon 6:3 NASB

Background Context:
Song of Solomon 6 follows a season of distance and longing. After missed connection and deep desire in chapter 5, this chapter opens with reassurance. The beloved is not lost, and love has not withdrawn. Instead, the relationship moves toward restoration, affirmation, and renewed confidence. What was strained is now steadied—not through blame, but through assurance of belonging.

This chapter reflects both the healing of marital intimacy and the faithful, restoring love of God toward His people.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 6

Mutual Delight in Each Other

1“Where has your beloved gone,
O most beautiful among women?
Where has your beloved turned,
That we may seek him with you?”

      2“My beloved has gone down to his garden,
To the beds of balsam,
To pasture his flock in the gardens
And gather lilies.

      3“I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine,
He who pastures his flock among the lilies.”

      4“You are as beautiful as Tirzah, my darling,
As lovely as Jerusalem,
As awesome as an army with banners.

      5“Turn your eyes away from me,
For they have confused me;
Your hair is like a flock of goats
That have descended from Gilead.

      6“Your teeth are like a flock of ewes
Which have come up from their washing,
All of which bear twins,
And not one among them has lost her young.

      7“Your temples are like a slice of a pomegranate
Behind your veil.

      8“There are sixty queens and eighty concubines,
And maidens without number;

      9But my dove, my perfect one, is unique:
She is her mother’s only daughter;
She is the pure child of the one who bore her.
The maidens saw her and called her blessed,
The queens and the concubines also, and they praised her, saying,

      10‘Who is this that grows like the dawn,
As beautiful as the full moon,
As pure as the sun,
As awesome as an army with banners?’

      11“I went down to the orchard of nut trees
To see the blossoms of the valley,
To see whether the vine had budded
Or the pomegranates had bloomed.

      12“Before I was aware, my soul set me
Over the chariots of my noble people.”

      13“Come back, come back, O Shulammite;
Come back, come back, that we may gaze at you!”

“Why should you gaze at the Shulammite,
As at the dance of the two companies?

Reflection on Song of Solomon 6:
The chapter begins with a question from others: “Where has your beloved gone?” The answer is calm and confident. He has not disappeared. He is tending his garden. Love is present, active, and purposeful. The fear of abandonment that marked the previous chapter is replaced by clarity.

The beloved woman then makes a powerful declaration: “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine.” This is covenant language. It is settled, mutual, and secure. She does not say this because everything has been perfect, but because love has proven faithful.

The husband responds with affirmation rather than correction. He speaks beauty, value, and delight over his wife. Where insecurity once lingered, reassurance now flows freely. Love restores confidence instead of punishing vulnerability.

In marriage, this chapter teaches us that intimacy is strengthened not by perfection, but by reassurance. Love that heals does not rehearse past failures—it affirms present belonging. Confidence grows when love is spoken clearly and consistently.

Spiritually, this chapter reflects God’s heart toward His people. Seasons of distance do not negate covenant. God’s love remains secure even when our confidence wavers. He restores by reminding us who we are and to whom we belong. Our identity is not shaped by our failures, but by His faithfulness.

Song of Solomon 6 reminds us that love matures when it moves from anxiety to assurance—from fear of loss to confidence in belonging.

Application:

  • Rest in the security of covenant love rather than fear of rejection.

  • Speak reassurance intentionally in relationships that have felt strained.

  • Allow love to rebuild confidence instead of rehearsing insecurity.

  • Remember your identity is rooted in belonging, not performance.

  • Trust that God’s love restores rather than withdraws.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for love that reassures and restores. When insecurity rises or confidence falters, remind me that I belong to You and You have not withdrawn Your love. Teach me to speak reassurance, receive grace, and rest in the security of covenant love. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Hope That Leads Me Home (Psalm 43)

When your heart feels heavy, where do you ask God to lead you?

Key Verse:
“O send out Your light and Your truth, let them lead me; let them bring me to Your holy hill and to Your dwelling places.” —Psalm 43:3 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 43 continues the emotional and spiritual movement that began in Psalm 42. Though separated as its own psalm, it echoes the same longing, discouragement, and inner dialogue. The psalmist feels oppressed, misunderstood, and distant from the place of worship. Yet instead of remaining in despair, he turns deliberately toward God, asking not merely for relief, but for guidance.

This psalm shifts the focus from questioning God’s presence to actively seeking God’s leading.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 43

Prayer for Deliverance.

     1Vindicate me, O God, and plead my case against an ungodly nation;
O deliver me from the deceitful and unjust man!

      2For You are the God of my strength; why have You rejected me?
Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?

      3O send out Your light and Your truth, let them lead me;
Let them bring me to Your holy hill
And to Your dwelling places.

      4Then I will go to the altar of God,
To God my exceeding joy;
And upon the lyre I shall praise You, O God, my God.

      5Why are you in despair, O my soul?
And why are you disturbed within me?
Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him,
The help of my countenance and my God.

Reflection on Psalm 43:
The psalm opens with a plea for vindication. The psalmist feels surrounded by deceit and injustice and looks to God as his defense. Yet even as he asks for deliverance, the prayer quickly deepens. His greatest desire is not simply to escape hardship, but to be led back into God’s presence.

The request is striking: “Send out Your light and Your truth.” Light and truth are not abstract ideas here — they are guides. The psalmist understands that what he needs most is God’s direction. He longs to be led to God’s holy hill, the place of worship and communion, where joy is restored and praise flows freely.

As the psalm moves forward, confidence begins to rise. The psalmist anticipates returning to the altar, offering praise, and rejoicing in God once again. Circumstances may not have changed yet, but hope has taken root.

The psalm ends with a familiar refrain: “Why are you in despair, O my soul?” This repetition is intentional. Faith does not deny discouragement — it confronts it with truth. The psalmist speaks hope to his own soul, anchoring his heart in God’s faithfulness.

Psalm 43 reminds us that when God feels distant, the path forward is not resignation, but pursuit. God’s light and truth still lead, still guide, and still bring His people home.

Application:

  • Ask God to lead you, not just to rescue you.

  • Seek God’s light and truth when emotions cloud your way forward.

  • Return to worship even when joy feels distant.

  • Speak hope to your soul instead of surrendering to despair.

  • Trust that God’s presence restores joy in His perfect time.

Closing Prayer:
Father, send out Your light and Your truth to guide my steps. When my heart feels weary or discouraged, lead me back into Your presence. Restore my joy, steady my hope, and teach me to trust You as my defender and my God. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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What Is Love? Exploring Biblical Love around Valentine’s Day

Ever wondered about the true essence of love beyond the commercial buzz of Valentine’s Day?

Valentine’s Day often comes packaged with high expectations and commercial hype, promoting everything from chocolates to expensive jewelry as symbols of love. Yet, these societal norms barely scratch the surface of true, Biblical love.

Key Verse: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Background Context: In Greek, the language of the New Testament, several words describe different types of love, reflecting its complex and multifaceted nature. In contrast, English uses the single word “love” across various contexts, necessitating a deeper look at the intent and meaning in scriptural references.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul outlines the profound attributes of love in 1 Corinthians 13, distinguishing it from the shallow and often materialistic expressions seen in popular culture. This passage is a cornerstone for understanding Christian love, contrasting sharply with the superficial gestures commonly promoted during Valentine’s Day.

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1 Corinthians 13

The Excellence of Love

      1If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.

      4Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

      8Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part; 10but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. 11When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. 12For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. 13But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.

Reflection on 1 Corinthians 13:

  • Patience and Kindness: True love mirrors God’s nature—patient and kind. It stands in contrast to the impulsive purchases and grand gestures often glorified by Valentine’s Day commercials.
  • Enduring and Selfless: Biblical love is enduring and selfless, not limited to a single day of acknowledgment but lived out daily in our actions and interactions.
  • Beyond Materialism: While giving gifts can be an expression of love, the commercial push during Valentine’s Day often distorts this expression into a compulsory act driven by societal expectations rather than genuine affection.

Summary Key Points:

  • Love is Multi-dimensional: Unlike the one-dimensional portrayal in Valentine’s Day advertising, Biblical love is rich and varied, encompassing patience, kindness, and selflessness.
  • Daily Expression: True love is not confined to special occasions but is a daily commitment to act out of love for one another, reflecting Christ’s love for us.
  • Critical View of Commercial Holidays: It’s crucial to discern the motivations behind our actions, especially during heavily marketed holidays. Are we acting out of true love or societal pressure?

One last parting thought… we can love YHWH and love others because He has first shown me love. Yeshua died for us to make a way for us to be forgiven our sins.

John 15:12-13

      12“This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. 13“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.

The best way to show love for one another is through how we treat one another every day of the year.

(To learn more about the pagan origins of Valentines Day – World Religion News: Pagan origin of Valentines day)

Application: Consider how you express love in daily life. Are your actions influenced by cultural expectations or grounded in the Biblical definition of love? Discuss with loved ones how you might celebrate your love in ways that are meaningful and rooted in faith, not just on Valentine’s Day but throughout the year.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for showing us the perfect example of love through Your Son, Jesus Christ. Help us to love not just in words or speech but in actions and truth. Teach us to express this love every day, not just on special occasions, and to resist the pressures of commercial influences. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Called Differently, Used Faithfully (Genesis 49:13-21)

Does your understanding of faith leave room for God to work through difference rather than sameness?

Key Verse:
“Dan shall judge his people, as one of the tribes of Israel.” —Genesis 49:16 NASB

Background Context:
After the central promise given to Judah, Jacob turns to several of his sons in shorter, varied blessings. Unlike earlier sections, these words are brief and diverse in tone. They describe different strengths, tendencies, and callings rather than a single dominant theme. Together, they paint a picture of a people shaped by God for many purposes within one covenant family.

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Genesis 49:13-21

  13“Zebulun will dwell at the seashore;
And he shall be a haven for ships,
And his flank shall be toward Sidon.

      14“Issachar is a strong donkey,
Lying down between the sheepfolds.

      15“When he saw that a resting place was good
And that the land was pleasant,
He bowed his shoulder to bear burdens,
And became a slave at forced labor.

      16“Dan shall judge his people,
As one of the tribes of Israel.

      17“Dan shall be a serpent in the way,
A horned snake in the path,
That bites the horse’s heels,
So that his rider falls backward.

      18“For Your salvation I wait, O LORD.

      19“As for Gad, raiders shall raid him,
But he will raid at their heels.

      20“As for Asher, his food shall be rich,
And he will yield royal dainties.

      21“Naphtali is a doe let loose,
He gives beautiful words.

Reflection on Genesis 49:13–21:
Jacob’s words to Zebulun, Issachar, Dan, Gad, Asher, and Naphtali are concise but intentional. Each son is portrayed with distinct characteristics—location, temperament, strength, or role. None are presented as superior to the others; each contributes differently to the future of Israel.

Zebulun is associated with trade and access, positioned near the sea. Issachar is described as strong but burden-bearing, willing to shoulder responsibility. Dan is depicted as a judge—bringing order, though not without complexity. Gad faces opposition yet presses on. Asher enjoys abundance, and Naphtali is marked by freedom and eloquence.

In the middle of these blessings, Jacob pauses with a brief prayer: “For Your salvation I wait, O LORD.” This interruption is revealing. It reminds us that no tribe’s strength—whether power, provision, or position—can replace dependence on God. Diversity of role does not eliminate the need for divine salvation.

This section of Genesis 49 teaches us that God does not shape His people identically. Some are called to lead, some to labor, some to defend, some to provide. What matters is not comparison, but faithfulness. God’s covenant advances through varied gifts working together, not through uniformity.

Application:

  • Embrace the role God has given you without comparison or envy.

  • Recognize that faithfulness looks different across people and callings.

  • Resist measuring spiritual value by visibility or prominence.

  • Trust God’s design for diversity within His people.

  • Anchor your hope in God’s salvation, not personal strength or position.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for creating Your people with purpose and variety. Help me embrace the calling You have given me without comparison or insecurity. Teach me to value faithfulness over prominence and to trust that You are working through every role You assign. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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When a Repentant Heart Leads to God’s Purpose (Genesis 49: 8-12)

What does God do when grace meets repentance—and transforms failure into leadership?

Key Verse:
“The scepter shall not depart from Judah, nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet, until Shiloh comes, and to him shall be the obedience of the peoples.” —Genesis 49:10 NASB

Background Context:
After addressing Reuben, Simeon, and Levi, Jacob turns to Judah. This shift is intentional and striking. Judah is not the firstborn, nor is his past spotless. Yet what follows is the most expansive and hopeful blessing in the chapter. Jacob’s words move beyond individual destiny and into royal and messianic promise.

This passage marks a turning point in Genesis. Leadership, authority, and future hope are now clearly associated with Judah.

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Genesis 49:8-12

  8“Judah, your brothers shall praise you;
Your hand shall be on the neck of your enemies;
Your father’s sons shall bow down to you.

      9“Judah is a lion’s whelp;
From the prey, my son, you have gone up.
He couches, he lies down as a lion,
And as a lion, who dares rouse him up?

      10“The scepter shall not depart from Judah,
Nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet,
Until Shiloh comes,
And to him shall be the obedience of the peoples.

      11“He ties his foal to the vine,
And his donkey’s colt to the choice vine;
He washes his garments in wine,
And his robes in the blood of grapes.

      12“His eyes are dull from wine,
And his teeth white from milk.

Reflection on Genesis 49:8–12:
Jacob begins Judah’s blessing with praise. This alone is significant. Judah’s earlier failures are not ignored by Scripture, but they are no longer defining. Judah had once suggested selling Joseph and later walked through personal brokenness and repentance. Now, Jacob speaks of leadership, strength, and honor flowing from him.

Judah is described as a lion—strong, confident, and victorious. His brothers will praise him, and authority will rest with him. This blessing establishes Judah as the tribe of leadership, not by entitlement, but by transformation. God’s purposes are not bound to perfection, but to hearts willing to change.

The language then moves beyond tribal leadership to something far greater. Jacob speaks of a scepter that will not depart and a ruler who will come—Shiloh. This is a clear prophetic promise pointing forward. Authority, kingship, and obedience of the peoples will ultimately be fulfilled through one who comes from Judah’s line.

The imagery that follows is rich with abundance, peace, and blessing. Judah’s future is marked not by scarcity, but by fullness. These are not merely political promises; they are covenantal ones. God is revealing that redemption and rule will come together through this lineage.

Genesis 49 reminds us that God weaves His greatest promises through unexpected people. Judah’s blessing points forward to a King whose reign is righteous, whose authority is eternal, and whose kingdom brings restoration.

Application:

  • Remember that past failure does not disqualify a repentant heart.

  • Trust God’s ability to redeem and repurpose your story.

  • Recognize that true leadership flows from character shaped by God.

  • Place your hope in God’s promised King, not human power.

  • Live in confidence that God’s plans move forward faithfully across generations.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your redeeming grace and faithful promises. Help me trust that You can transform failure into purpose and use my life according to Your will. Anchor my hope in the coming King and shape my heart to walk in humility, obedience, and faith. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Accountability and Lost Privilege (Genesis 49:1-7)

What happens when great potential is undermined by unchecked character?

Key Verse:
“Uncontrolled as water, you shall not have preeminence, because you went up to your father’s bed; then you defiled it.” —Genesis 49:4 NASB

Background Context:
As Jacob gathers his sons at the end of his life, he makes clear that his words are not sentimental blessings, but prophetic declarations. He calls them together to tell them “what will befall you in the days to come.” These words reflect both the past actions of his sons and the future consequences that flow from them.

Jacob begins with his firstborn, Reuben, followed by Simeon and Levi. Their words are difficult, but intentional. God’s covenant promises continue—but individual character and choices still matter.

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Genesis 49:1-7

Israel’s Prophecy concerning His Sons

      1Then Jacob summoned his sons and said, “Assemble yourselves that I may tell you what will befall you in the days to come.

      2“Gather together and hear, O sons of Jacob;
And listen to Israel your father.

      3“Reuben, you are my firstborn;
My might and the beginning of my strength,
Preeminent in dignity and preeminent in power.

      4“Uncontrolled as water, you shall not have preeminence,
Because you went up to your father’s bed;
Then you defiled it—he went up to my couch.

      5“Simeon and Levi are brothers;
Their swords are implements of violence.

      6“Let my soul not enter into their council;
Let not my glory be united with their assembly;
Because in their anger they slew men,
And in their self-will they lamed oxen.

      7“Cursed be their anger, for it is fierce;
And their wrath, for it is cruel.
I will disperse them in Jacob,
And scatter them in Israel.

Reflection on Genesis 49:1–7:
Reuben is addressed first, as expected of the firstborn. Jacob acknowledges his strength and position, calling him the beginning of his vigor and dignity. Yet that privilege is immediately overturned. Reuben’s lack of self-control cost him preeminence. His strength was real, but it was undisciplined—like water that cannot be contained. Potential without restraint led to loss.

Simeon and Levi are addressed together, bound by shared history and shared sin. Their anger, once unleashed in violence at Shechem, is remembered not as righteous zeal but as destructive wrath. Jacob does not praise their unity or courage; he condemns their cruelty and disassociates himself from their actions.

What is striking is Jacob’s clarity. There is no bitterness, no rage, and no hesitation. These words are spoken with moral precision. Jacob understands that God’s covenant purposes move forward, but not by ignoring sin. Leadership, inheritance, and influence are shaped by character.

This opening section establishes a crucial truth for the rest of Genesis 49: birth order does not guarantee blessing, and strength alone does not secure God’s favor. God is faithful—but He is also just. Choices carry consequences that extend beyond the individual and into future generations.

Application:

  • Recognize that spiritual privilege does not replace personal responsibility.

  • Guard against unchecked desires that can erode God-given potential.

  • Understand that anger and violence, when unrestrained, bring lasting harm.

  • Invite God to shape your character, not just your abilities.

  • Live with awareness that today’s choices echo into tomorrow’s legacy.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your faithfulness and Your truth. Help me take responsibility for my choices and allow You to shape my character with wisdom and self-control. Guard my heart from unchecked desires and guide my life so that the legacy I leave reflects obedience, humility, and faithfulness to You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you. John Golda


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When God Crosses Our Expectations (Genesis 48:12–22)

Are you willing to trust God’s choice—even when it doesn’t align with what seems right or fair?

Key Verse:
“I know, my son, I know; he also will become a people and he also will be great. However, his younger brother shall be greater than he.” —Genesis 48:19 NASB

Background Context:
After adopting Ephraim and Manasseh as his own, Jacob prepares to bless them. Joseph positions his sons carefully—Manasseh, the firstborn, at Jacob’s right hand, and Ephraim at his left—expecting the traditional order of blessing. What follows is deliberate, not accidental. Jacob crosses his hands and blesses the younger son first, defying custom and expectation.

This moment echoes earlier patterns in Genesis and reveals a consistent truth about God’s work: His purposes are not governed by human hierarchy, tradition, or assumption.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 48:12–22

12Then Joseph took them from his knees, and bowed with his face to the ground. 13Joseph took them both, Ephraim with his right hand toward Israel’s left, and Manasseh with his left hand toward Israel’s right, and brought them close to him. 14But Israel stretched out his right hand and laid it on the head of Ephraim, who was the younger, and his left hand on Manasseh’s head, crossing his hands, although Manasseh was the firstborn.

15He blessed Joseph, and said,
“The God before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked,
The God who has been my shepherd all my life to this day,

      16The angel who has redeemed me from all evil,
Bless the lads;
And may my name live on in them,
And the names of my fathers Abraham and Isaac;
And may they grow into a multitude in the midst of the earth.”

      17When Joseph saw that his father laid his right hand on Ephraim’s head, it displeased him; and he grasped his father’s hand to remove it from Ephraim’s head to Manasseh’s head. 18Joseph said to his father, “Not so, my father, for this one is the firstborn. Place your right hand on his head.” 19But his father refused and said, “I know, my son, I know; he also will become a people and he also will be great. However, his younger brother shall be greater than he, and his descendants shall become a multitude of nations.”

20He blessed them that day, saying,
“By you Israel will pronounce blessing, saying,
‘May God make you like Ephraim and Manasseh!’”
Thus he put Ephraim before Manasseh.

21Then Israel said to Joseph, “Behold, I am about to die, but God will be with you, and bring you back to the land of your fathers. 22“I give you one portion more than your brothers, which I took from the hand of the Amorite with my sword and my bow.”

Reflection on Genesis 48:12–22:
Joseph’s reaction is immediate. Seeing the crossed hands, he attempts to correct his father. From Joseph’s perspective, this is a mistake—perhaps the result of old age or failing eyesight. But Jacob’s response is calm, firm, and confident: “I know, my son, I know.” This is not confusion. It is conviction.

Jacob understands something Joseph does not yet fully grasp. God’s blessing has never followed human order. From Isaac over Ishmael, Jacob over Esau, and now Ephraim over Manasseh, God consistently demonstrates that His purposes are shaped by grace, not entitlement.

This moment reveals a faith that trusts God completely. Jacob does not argue his reasoning or defend his choice emotionally. He simply aligns himself with God’s will. He has lived long enough to recognize that God’s hand often moves in unexpected ways—and that resisting it only leads to struggle.

Jacob’s blessing also looks beyond the present. He speaks of future greatness and reminds Joseph that God will bring his descendants back to the land of promise. Even as he blesses in Egypt, his hope remains fixed on God’s covenant, not on comfort or circumstance.

Genesis 48 closes with a reminder that blessing is not something we control—it is something we receive. Faith is not insisting God follow our plans, but trusting Him when He chooses differently.

Application:

  • Release the need to control outcomes and trust God’s wisdom.

  • Recognize that God’s blessings are shaped by grace, not human order.

  • Avoid correcting God when His ways challenge your expectations.

  • Trust that God sees beyond what is immediate and visible.

  • Align your faith with God’s purposes, even when they surprise you.

Closing Prayer:
Father, help me trust Your hand even when I don’t understand Your choices. Teach me to release my expectations and rest in Your wisdom. Strengthen my faith to follow You faithfully, knowing that Your purposes are always good and Your plans are always sure. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Love Rekindled Through Remembrance (Song of Solomon 5:9-16)

When distance creates longing, what you choose to remember matters.

Key Verse:
“My beloved is dazzling and ruddy, outstanding among ten thousand.” —Song of Solomon 5:10 NASB

Background Context:
Following the pain and separation of Song of Solomon 5:1–8, the woman is questioned by the daughters of Jerusalem about her beloved. Rather than responding with frustration, regret, or bitterness, she responds by declaring who he is. What follows is a vivid and poetic description of her husband—his character, strength, beauty, and presence.

This passage marks a turning point. The focus shifts from loss and distance to remembrance and affirmation. It demonstrates how love is rekindled not merely through pursuit, but through intentional reflection on what made the relationship precious in the first place.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 5:9-16

    9“What kind of beloved is your beloved,
O most beautiful among women?
What kind of beloved is your beloved,
That thus you adjure us?”


Admiration by the Bride

10“My beloved is dazzling and ruddy,
Outstanding among ten thousand.

      11“His head is like gold, pure gold;
His locks are like clusters of dates
And black as a raven.

      12“His eyes are like doves
Beside streams of water,
Bathed in milk,
And reposed in their setting.

      13“His cheeks are like a bed of balsam,
Banks of sweet-scented herbs;
His lips are lilies
Dripping with liquid myrrh.

      14“His hands are rods of gold
Set with beryl;
His abdomen is carved ivory
Inlaid with sapphires.

      15“His legs are pillars of alabaster
Set on pedestals of pure gold;
His appearance is like Lebanon
Choice as the cedars.

      16“His mouth is full of sweetness.
And he is wholly desirable.
This is my beloved and this is my friend,
O daughters of Jerusalem.”

Reflection on Song of Solomon 5:9–16:
The daughters of Jerusalem ask a simple but profound question: “What kind of beloved is your beloved?” It forces the woman to pause and remember. In her response, she does not dwell on the pain of the missed moment. She speaks instead of his excellence.

Her description is detailed, reverent, and deeply personal. She does not compare him casually—she exalts him. He is “outstanding among ten thousand.” Each phrase reflects admiration that has not been erased by disappointment. Love, though strained, has not been forgotten.

In marriage, this passage reminds us that intimacy is often restored through remembrance. When hurt or distance creeps in, focusing only on the offense hardens the heart. Choosing instead to remember a spouse’s character, faithfulness, and worth creates space for reconciliation and renewed affection.

Spiritually, this passage reflects the believer’s call to remember who God is—especially in seasons when His presence feels distant. The woman’s declaration mirrors worship. She speaks truth about her beloved even before restoration occurs. In the same way, believers are invited to proclaim God’s goodness, faithfulness, and beauty even when circumstances feel unresolved.

The passage ends with certainty: “This is my beloved and this is my friend.” Love is not merely passion—it is covenant friendship. Remembering that truth restores hope and desire for renewed closeness.

Application:

  • Choose to remember what is admirable and worthy in your spouse.

  • Speak affirming truth rather than rehearsing disappointment.

  • Rekindle love through intentional reflection, not comparison.

  • In spiritual dryness, declare who God is before you feel His nearness.

  • Let worship and gratitude prepare the heart for restoration.

Closing Prayer:
Father, help me remember rightly. When distance or disappointment clouds my heart, remind me of the love You have shown and the relationships You have given. Teach me to speak truth, cultivate gratitude, and allow remembrance to rekindle intimacy—with You and with those You have placed in my life. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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Thirsting for the Living God (Psalm 42)

What do you do when your soul longs for God—but His presence feels distant?

Key Verse:
“Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him for the help of His presence.” —Psalm 42:11 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 42 marks the beginning of Book II of Psalms and is attributed to the sons of Korah. Unlike many earlier psalms rooted in Jerusalem worship, this psalm reflects separation from the sanctuary and from communal worship. The psalmist remembers what it was like to lead processions to the house of God, but now finds himself distant—geographically, emotionally, and spiritually.

This is a psalm of longing, lament, and deliberate hope. It gives voice to believers who love God deeply yet find themselves walking through seasons where His presence feels far away.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 42

BOOK 2

Thirsting for God in Trouble and Exile.

For the choir director. A Maskil of the sons of Korah.

1As the deer pants for the water brooks,
So my soul pants for You, O God.

      2My soul thirsts for God, for the living God;
When shall I come and appear before God?

      3My tears have been my food day and night,
While they say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”

      4These things I remember and I pour out my soul within me.
For I used to go along with the throng and lead them in procession to the house of God,
With the voice of joy and thanksgiving, a multitude keeping festival.

      5Why are you in despair, O my soul?
And why have you become disturbed within me?
Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him
For the help of His presence.

      6O my God, my soul is in despair within me;
Therefore I remember You from the land of the Jordan
And the peaks of Hermon, from Mount Mizar.

      7Deep calls to deep at the sound of Your waterfalls;
All Your breakers and Your waves have rolled over me.

      8The LORD will command His lovingkindness in the daytime;
And His song will be with me in the night,
A prayer to the God of my life.

      9I will say to God my rock, “Why have You forgotten me?
Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?”

      10As a shattering of my bones, my adversaries revile me,
While they say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”

      11Why are you in despair, O my soul?
And why have you become disturbed within me?
Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him,
The help of my countenance and my God.

Reflection on Psalm 42:
The psalm opens with a vivid image: a deer panting for water. This is not casual desire—it is desperate need. The psalmist’s soul thirsts not for relief or answers, but for God Himself. Yet that thirst exists alongside sorrow. Tears have become his food, and mockers question the very foundation of his faith: “Where is your God?”

Rather than suppressing his pain, the psalmist remembers. He recalls times of joyful worship, processions, and praise. Memory becomes both a source of comfort and a reminder of loss. The contrast deepens his grief, yet it also anchors his faith in what he knows to be true about God.

Twice in the psalm, the writer speaks directly to his own soul. This is not passive lament—it is active faith. He does not deny his despair, but he refuses to let it define him. He commands his soul to hope in God, confident that praise will return.

The psalm ends unresolved. The circumstances have not changed. The sorrow has not lifted. Yet hope has been spoken aloud. Psalm 42 teaches us that faith does not always feel triumphant. Sometimes faith looks like preaching truth to your own heart while still waiting for relief.

Application:

  • Be honest with God about spiritual dryness and longing.

  • Remember past encounters with God when present joy feels distant.

  • Refuse to let despair have the final word—speak hope to your soul.

  • Anchor faith in God’s character, not in changing circumstances.

  • Trust that praise will return, even if the night feels long.

Closing Prayer:
Father, You see the seasons when my soul feels weary and distant. Teach me to thirst for You above all else and to speak hope to my own heart when sorrow rises. Help me trust You in the waiting and believe that joy and praise will return in Your perfect time. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda


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