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The Lord Sustains the Afflicted (Psalm 41)

How do you respond when kindness is repaid with betrayal?

Key Verse:
“Blessed is he who considers the helpless; the LORD will deliver him in a day of trouble.” —Psalm 41:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 41 is a psalm of David that reflects both trust in God and the pain of betrayal. David speaks as one who has shown compassion to others, yet now finds himself weak, surrounded by enemies, and betrayed by someone close to him. This psalm closes Book I of the Psalms and serves as a powerful reminder that God sees, sustains, and vindicates His faithful servants.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 41

The Psalmist in Sickness Complains of Enemies and False Friends.

For the choir director. A Psalm of David.

      1How blessed is he who considers the helpless;
The LORD will deliver him in a day of trouble.

      2The LORD will protect him and keep him alive,
And he shall be called blessed upon the earth;
And do not give him over to the desire of his enemies.

      3The LORD will sustain him upon his sickbed;
In his illness, You restore him to health.

      4As for me, I said, “O LORD, be gracious to me;
Heal my soul, for I have sinned against You.”

      5My enemies speak evil against me,
“When will he die, and his name perish?”

      6And when he comes to see me, he speaks falsehood;
His heart gathers wickedness to itself;
When he goes outside, he tells it.

      7All who hate me whisper together against me;
Against me they devise my hurt, saying,

      8“A wicked thing is poured out upon him,
That when he lies down, he will not rise up again.”

      9Even my close friend in whom I trusted,
Who ate my bread,
Has lifted up his heel against me.

      10But You, O LORD, be gracious to me and raise me up,
That I may repay them.

      11By this I know that You are pleased with me,
Because my enemy does not shout in triumph over me.

      12As for me, You uphold me in my integrity,
And You set me in Your presence forever.

      13Blessed be the LORD, the God of Israel,
From everlasting to everlasting.
Amen and Amen.

Reflection on Psalm 41:
David begins by declaring a blessing on those who care for the weak and needy. Compassion is not ignored by God. Acts of mercy reflect God’s heart, and He promises to sustain those who live this way, especially in times of trouble.

The tone then shifts as David describes his own suffering. He is physically weak and spiritually burdened, aware of sin and dependent on God’s mercy. David does not claim innocence; he seeks healing and forgiveness. Even in distress, his posture remains humble before God.

The deepest pain comes not from enemies at a distance, but from betrayal by a close companion. Someone who once shared bread with him has turned against him. This kind of betrayal cuts deeply, and David does not hide that pain. Yet he brings it honestly before the Lord rather than allowing bitterness to take root.

Despite opposition and treachery, David’s confidence remains anchored in God. He trusts that the Lord delights in him, sustains him, and upholds him in integrity. Vindication does not come through revenge, but through God’s faithful care.

Psalm 41 ultimately reminds us that compassion, humility, and trust in God are never wasted. Even when kindness is repaid with betrayal, God sees and remains faithful. The psalm closes with praise, affirming that God’s purposes stand firm despite human failure.

Application:

  • Show compassion intentionally. God sees and honors care for the vulnerable.

  • Remain humble in weakness. Dependence on God invites His healing and mercy.

  • Bring betrayal to God. Do not allow bitterness to take root.

  • Trust God for vindication. He sustains and upholds the faithful.

  • End with praise. Worship anchors the heart even in hardship.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for seeing the acts of mercy done in faith and for sustaining those who trust in You. Help me walk with compassion, humility, and integrity even when I am hurt or betrayed. Guard my heart from bitterness and teach me to rest in Your faithful care. I praise You, knowing You uphold those who seek You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Faith / Trusting God, Guide, Seeking God

Trusting God in Life’s Transitions (Genesis 46)

What do you do when obedience requires stepping into unfamiliar territory, even when God is leading?

Key Verse:
“I will go down with you to Egypt, and I will also surely bring you up again.” —Genesis 46:4 NASB

Background Context:
Genesis 46 records Jacob’s journey from Canaan to Egypt, prompted by the revelation that Joseph is alive. This move marks a significant transition for Jacob and his family. Leaving the land of promise raises understandable fear and uncertainty, especially given God’s covenant with Abraham regarding the land.

Before continuing the journey, Jacob stops at Beersheba to worship and seek God’s guidance. God responds personally, reaffirming His promise and assuring Jacob of His presence.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 46

Jacob Moves to Egypt

      1So Israel set out with all that he had, and came to Beersheba, and offered sacrifices to the God of his father Isaac. 2God spoke to Israel in visions of the night and said, “Jacob, Jacob.” And he said, “Here I am.” 3He said, “I am God, the God of your father; do not be afraid to go down to Egypt, for I will make you a great nation there. 4“I will go down with you to Egypt, and I will also surely bring you up again; and Joseph will close your eyes.”

      5Then Jacob arose from Beersheba; and the sons of Israel carried their father Jacob and their little ones and their wives in the wagons which Pharaoh had sent to carry him. 6They took their livestock and their property, which they had acquired in the land of Canaan, and came to Egypt, Jacob and all his descendants with him: 7his sons and his grandsons with him, his daughters and his granddaughters, and all his descendants he brought with him to Egypt.

Those Who Came to Egypt

      8Now these are the names of the sons of Israel, Jacob and his sons, who went to Egypt: Reuben, Jacob’s firstborn. 9The sons of Reuben: Hanoch and Pallu and Hezron and Carmi. 10The sons of Simeon: Jemuel and Jamin and Ohad and Jachin and Zohar and Shaul the son of a Canaanite woman. 11The sons of Levi: Gershon, Kohath, and Merari. 12The sons of Judah: Er and Onan and Shelah and Perez and Zerah (but Er and Onan died in the land of Canaan). And the sons of Perez were Hezron and Hamul. 13The sons of Issachar: Tola and Puvvah and Iob and Shimron. 14The sons of Zebulun: Sered and Elon and Jahleel. 15These are the sons of Leah, whom she bore to Jacob in Paddan-aram, with his daughter Dinah; all his sons and his daughters numbered thirty-three. 16The sons of Gad: Ziphion and Haggi, Shuni and Ezbon, Eri and Arodi and Areli. 17The sons of Asher: Imnah and Ishvah and Ishvi and Beriah and their sister Serah. And the sons of Beriah: Heber and Malchiel. 18These are the sons of Zilpah, whom Laban gave to his daughter Leah; and she bore to Jacob these sixteen persons. 19The sons of Jacob’s wife Rachel: Joseph and Benjamin. 20Now to Joseph in the land of Egypt were born Manasseh and Ephraim, whom Asenath, the daughter of Potiphera, priest of On, bore to him. 21The sons of Benjamin: Bela and Becher and Ashbel, Gera and Naaman, Ehi and Rosh, Muppim and Huppim and Ard. 22These are the sons of Rachel, who were born to Jacob; there were fourteen persons in all. 23The sons of Dan: Hushim. 24The sons of Naphtali: Jahzeel and Guni and Jezer and Shillem. 25These are the sons of Bilhah, whom Laban gave to his daughter Rachel, and she bore these to Jacob; there were seven persons in all. 26All the persons belonging to Jacob, who came to Egypt, his direct descendants, not including the wives of Jacob’s sons, were sixty-six persons in all, 27and the sons of Joseph, who were born to him in Egypt were two; all the persons of the house of Jacob, who came to Egypt, were seventy.

      28Now he sent Judah before him to Joseph, to point out the way before him to Goshen; and they came into the land of Goshen. 29Joseph prepared his chariot and went up to Goshen to meet his father Israel; as soon as he appeared before him, he fell on his neck and wept on his neck a long time. 30Then Israel said to Joseph, “Now let me die, since I have seen your face, that you are still alive.” 31Joseph said to his brothers and to his father’s household, “I will go up and tell Pharaoh, and will say to him, ‘My brothers and my father’s household, who were in the land of Canaan, have come to me; 32and the men are shepherds, for they have been keepers of livestock; and they have brought their flocks and their herds and all that they have.’ 33“When Pharaoh calls you and says, ‘What is your occupation?’ 34you shall say, ‘Your servants have been keepers of livestock from our youth even until now, both we and our fathers,’ that you may live in the land of Goshen; for every shepherd is loathsome to the Egyptians.”

Reflection on Genesis 46:
God meets Jacob in a moment of transition and speaks words of comfort and assurance. Jacob is not rebuked for his fear; instead, God acknowledges it and addresses it directly. The instruction is clear: “Do not be afraid.”

God’s promise is not merely directional — it is relational. He does not simply tell Jacob where to go; He promises to go with him. This reassurance reveals God’s character: He walks with His people through transitions rather than sending them ahead alone.

The genealogy included in this chapter underscores God’s faithfulness across generations. Each name represents continuity of God’s covenant. Though Jacob is entering Egypt, God makes it clear that Egypt is not the end of the promise. What looks like a departure from God’s plan is actually a step within it.

This chapter reminds us that obedience does not always look like staying put. Sometimes faith requires movement — even when the destination feels uncertain. God’s presence, not geography, defines security.

Genesis 46 teaches that God’s promises are not limited by location. Whether in Canaan or Egypt, God remains faithful to His covenant. He reassures Jacob not only of the journey ahead, but also of the future fulfillment of His promise.

Application:

  • Seek God before major transitions. Worship invites clarity and reassurance.

  • Trust God’s presence. Obedience is sustained by His nearness, not certainty.

  • Do not fear movement. God sometimes leads forward, not backward.

  • Remember God’s promises. He remains faithful across generations.

  • Walk by faith. Trust God even when the path feels unfamiliar.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for walking with us through seasons of change and uncertainty. Help us trust Your presence more than our comfort, and Your promises more than our fears. Teach us to seek You before we move and to obey with confidence when You lead. May we walk faithfully wherever You call us, knowing You go with us. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

All Powerful / King of All, Faith / Trusting God, Learning To Pray Effectively, Patient, Praise / Worship / Glorify God, Protector / Deliverer, Psalms, Seeking God

Trusting God Through the Waiting (Psalm 40)

What do you do when you’ve been waiting on God for a long time — and nothing seems to be changing?

Key Verse:
“I waited patiently for the LORD; and He inclined to me and heard my cry.” —Psalm 40:1 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 40 is a psalm of David that reflects both deliverance and ongoing dependence on God. David looks back on a season of deep distress and remembers how God lifted him out of the pit. At the same time, he acknowledges that challenges still remain. This psalm moves between testimony, worship, obedience, and humble petition.

David is not celebrating a perfect life — he is celebrating a faithful God.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 40

God Sustains His Servant.

For the choir director. A Psalm of David.

     1I waited patiently for the LORD;
And He inclined to me and heard my cry.

      2He brought me up out of the pit of destruction, out of the miry clay,
And He set my feet upon a rock making my footsteps firm.

      3He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God;
Many will see and fear
And will trust in the LORD.

      4How blessed is the man who has made the LORD his trust,
And has not turned to the proud, nor to those who lapse into falsehood.

      5Many, O LORD my God, are the wonders which You have done,
And Your thoughts toward us;
There is none to compare with You.
If I would declare and speak of them,
They would be too numerous to count.

      6Sacrifice and meal offering You have not desired;
My ears You have opened;
Burnt offering and sin offering You have not required.

      7Then I said, “Behold, I come;
In the scroll of the book it is written of me.

      8I delight to do Your will, O my God;
Your Law is within my heart.”

      9I have proclaimed glad tidings of righteousness in the great congregation;
Behold, I will not restrain my lips,
O LORD, You know.

      10I have not hidden Your righteousness within my heart;
I have spoken of Your faithfulness and Your salvation;
I have not concealed Your lovingkindness and Your truth from the great congregation.

      11You, O LORD, will not withhold Your compassion from me;
Your lovingkindness and Your truth will continually preserve me.

      12For evils beyond number have surrounded me;
My iniquities have overtaken me, so that I am not able to see;
They are more numerous than the hairs of my head,
And my heart has failed me.

      13Be pleased, O LORD, to deliver me;
Make haste, O LORD, to help me.

      14Let those be ashamed and humiliated together
Who seek my life to destroy it;
Let those be turned back and dishonored
Who delight in my hurt.

      15Let those be appalled because of their shame
Who say to me, “Aha, aha!”

      16Let all who seek You rejoice and be glad in You;
Let those who love Your salvation say continually,
“The LORD be magnified!”

      17Since I am afflicted and needy,
Let the Lord be mindful of me.
You are my help and my deliverer;
Do not delay, O my God.

Reflection on Psalm 40:
David begins by remembering the waiting. He does not rush past it or minimize it. Waiting patiently does not mean waiting passively — it means trusting God while enduring uncertainty. When deliverance finally comes, David recognizes it as God’s work alone.

God lifts David out of the pit, sets his feet on solid ground, and places a new song in his mouth. Deliverance leads naturally to praise. God’s rescue is not meant to be hidden; it becomes a testimony that strengthens the faith of others.

David then makes a powerful declaration: God does not delight in mere religious ritual. Obedience flowing from a willing heart matters more than outward sacrifice. This echoes throughout Scripture — God desires submission, not performance. True worship is lived, not just spoken.

Yet David does not pretend that life is suddenly easy. He honestly admits his continued need for God’s help. Past deliverance fuels present trust. Because God has been faithful before, David confidently depends on Him again.

Psalm 40 teaches us that faith looks both backward and forward — remembering what God has done and trusting Him for what remains. Waiting seasons shape us, obedience honors God, and testimony turns suffering into praise.

Application:

  • Wait patiently on the Lord. Trust grows in seasons of endurance.

  • Remember past deliverance. God’s faithfulness fuels present hope.

  • Live obediently. God desires willing hearts more than ritual actions.

  • Share your testimony. God’s work in you strengthens others.

  • Remain dependent on God. Past rescue does not eliminate present need.

  • Praise God openly. Gratitude honors the One who delivers.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for hearing my cry and being faithful in times of waiting. Help me trust You when answers feel delayed and praise You when deliverance comes. Teach me obedience that flows from a willing heart and gratitude that honors You openly. I place my hope in You, knowing You are faithful yesterday, today, and forever. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Hope, Kindness / Gentleness, Purposeful / Intentional, Repenting from Sin, Seeking God, Traditions / Holidays

We Are All One in Messiah (Reflecting on MLK Jr)

As we as a nation reflect on the life and contribution of Martin Luther King Jr, let us also put our focus on God’s word in the Bible and let it guide our path.

Many people have been misled to believe that we are significantly different based on the color of our skin. Our culture over emphasizes this and creates a point of division among us. When we look at God’s word, we see that there is one race of humans, not many based on color, and that we are all equal and all made in the image of God. There is not one that is better than the rest or should receive preferential treatment over the others.

Man is made in the image of God. We are made man and woman. There is no mention of skin color as a key differentiator. Differences in skin color are just part of the wonderful variety of God’s creative nature… like hair color or height or eye color.

Genesis 1:26-27

      26Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.

Paul makes the point in Galatians that we are all one in Christ Jesus. If we belong to Christ, then we are Abraham’s descendants. We have been grafted into Israel (Romans 11:11-36). We can see in this context that the real division within man is not the color of our skin or our gender or social status, but rather whether or not we have accepted Christ as our Lord.

Galatians 3:28-29

28There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s descendants, heirs according to promise.

Martin Luther King Jr is well known and perhaps one of his best known speeches was in Washington DC in August 1963.

As a nation, we have made much progress since that time and I am sure God is pleased at that progress. Many will focus today on a never-ending list of grievances without even pausing to recognize the significant progress made. To the extent there is further to go, we should take care on how we address it. We should not emphasize division and conflict between the citizens of our great nation, but rather focus on how we come together peacefully. We should not make enemies of certain people groups in the name of helping others. That is not what God or leaders like Martin Luther King Jr would want. We are all made in God’s image. Let us focus on drawing closer to Him and we will draw closer to each other as well, no matter what color skin we have.

To help us reflect on the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr, I am going to highlight a few snippets of the speech here. The full content of the speech can be found at the following link, Martin Luther King I Have a Dream Speech – American Rhetoric.

He speaks highly of Abraham Lincoln, our Constitution and the Declaration of Independence. He was not trying to undermine our nation’s history or destroy it, but rather look to it as a righteous guide.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

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When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir.

He called for white and black to be considered equal, not to condemn those who are white in order to try to help those who are black.

This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the “unalienable Rights” of “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

He did not want people to degrade to violence but rather to focus on peaceful protesting.

But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

He was positive on the potential for America based on its founding. He was positive on the American dream.  He did not see America through the eyes of despair as a place that needed to be burned down and remade. He led a hopeful message and not one of despair. He focused on the vision of what we want to achieve together and avoided a path of violence and anger and destruction. Once again he emphasized what God’s word tells us, what is reflected in the founding documents of our nation, that all men are created equal.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.

And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

He helped people visualize a world as it should be, where people are not judged based on skin color. He did not say treat black people better than white people to get even or make up for the past. He pointed towards the principle’s of God and our nation’s founding documents.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

He brought the focus to our Creator.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; “and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.”2

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.

With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day — this will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with new meaning:

I invite you to pray with me:

Father, please help our nation come together as one nation, under You. Open our eyes to the wonderful diversity you have made in how you have made man. Let us not create division based on physical differences. Let us not consider ourselves multiple races of man. Let us recognize that we are all one, all made in the image of God. None are to be considered better or worse than the rest based on the color of our skin… neither black, white, brown, or any other color. Help us come together by seeking You and help us to see one another as You do. Amen.

Shalom.

Devotion by John  Golda

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Discipline / Correction, Hope, Psalms, Purposeful / Intentional, Seeking God

Living Wisely in Light of Eternity (Psalm 39)

How often do we rush through life without stopping to consider how brief it really is?

Key Verse:
“Lord, make me to know my end and what is the extent of my days; let me know how transient I am.” —Psalm 39:4 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 39 is another psalm of David written during a time of inner struggle. David is wrestling with frustration, suffering, and the temptation to speak rashly. Rather than allowing his words to become sinful, he chooses silence — at least outwardly — while his heart wrestles deeply before God.

This psalm reflects a moment of spiritual maturity, where David brings his confusion, pain, and questions directly to the Lord rather than venting them in destructive ways.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalms 39

The Vanity of Life.

For the choir director, for Jeduthun. A Psalm of David.

1I said, “I will guard my ways
That I may not sin with my tongue;
I will guard my mouth as with a muzzle
While the wicked are in my presence.”

      2I was mute and silent,
I refrained even from good,
And my sorrow grew worse.

      3My heart was hot within me,
While I was musing the fire burned;
Then I spoke with my tongue:

      4“LORD, make me to know my end
And what is the extent of my days;
Let me know how transient I am.

      5“Behold, You have made my days as handbreadths,
And my lifetime as nothing in Your sight;
Surely every man at his best is a mere breath.

Selah.

      6“Surely every man walks about as a phantom;
Surely they make an uproar for nothing;
He amasses riches and does not know who will gather them.

      7“And now, Lord, for what do I wait?
My hope is in You.

      8“Deliver me from all my transgressions;
Make me not the reproach of the foolish.

      9“I have become mute, I do not open my mouth,
Because it is You who have done it.

      10“Remove Your plague from me;
Because of the opposition of Your hand I am perishing.

      11“With reproofs You chasten a man for iniquity;
You consume as a moth what is precious to him;
Surely every man is a mere breath.

Selah.

      12“Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear to my cry;
Do not be silent at my tears;
For I am a stranger with You,
A sojourner like all my fathers.

      13“Turn Your gaze away from me, that I may smile again
Before I depart and am no more.”

Reflection on Psalm 39:
David begins by committing to guard his words. He recognizes the danger of speaking carelessly, especially in the presence of the wicked. Yet silence does not mean peace. As David holds his tongue, his inner turmoil grows until he finally pours his heart out to God.

David’s prayer shifts the focus from his circumstances to the brevity of life itself. He asks God to help him understand how fleeting his days are. Wealth, ambition, and striving suddenly appear hollow when measured against eternity. David recognizes that much of human effort amounts to chasing shadows.

This realization is not meant to produce despair, but humility. When we remember how short life is, we are freed from obsession with temporary gain and redirected toward what truly matters. David acknowledges that hope must rest in God alone, not in possessions, reputation, or control.

David also accepts God’s discipline. He does not accuse God unfairly, nor does he deny responsibility. Instead, he asks for relief while submitting to God’s authority. His plea is honest yet reverent — a model for how believers can bring pain before God without losing trust.

Psalm 39 teaches us that wisdom begins with perspective. Life is brief, words are powerful, and hope belongs only in the Lord. Silence before others and honesty before God often lead to clarity and renewed trust.

Application:

  • Guard your words. Wisdom often begins with restraint.

  • Bring inner turmoil to God. Silence toward others should lead to prayer, not bitterness.

  • Remember life’s brevity. Temporary things lose power when viewed through eternity.

  • Place hope in God alone. Wealth and striving cannot secure lasting peace.

  • Accept God’s discipline humbly. Correction is meant to restore, not destroy.

  • Live intentionally. Knowing your days are numbered gives purpose to each one.

Closing Prayer:
Father, teach me to number my days and to live wisely in the time You have given me. Guard my tongue from careless words and my heart from misplaced hope. Help me trust You in seasons of discipline and uncertainty, knowing that my life is in Your hands. May my hope rest in You alone, now and forever. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Marriage, Patient, Seeking God, Song of Solomon

When Love Feels Distant (Song of Solomon 3:1-5)

Have you ever experienced a season where love felt uncertain or distant — where your heart longed for reassurance and closeness?

Key Verse:
“I found him whom my soul loves; I held on to him and would not let him go.” —Song of Solomon 3:4 NASB

Background Context:
Song of Solomon 3:1–5 shifts into a more vulnerable emotional space. The bride describes a night filled with longing and restlessness as she searches for her beloved. Unlike earlier passages filled with delight and affirmation, this section captures anxiety, absence, and the desire for reassurance.

This passage ends with a familiar refrain, reminding us once again that love must not be awakened or forced outside of its proper time. The tension between longing and restraint remains central to the message.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Song of Solomon 3:1-5

The Bride’s Troubled Dream

1“On my bed night after night I sought him
Whom my soul loves;
I sought him but did not find him.

      2‘I must arise now and go about the city;
In the streets and in the squares
I must seek him whom my soul loves.’
I sought him but did not find him.

      3“The watchmen who make the rounds in the city found me,
And I said, ‘Have you seen him whom my soul loves?’

      4“Scarcely had I left them
When I found him whom my soul loves;
I held on to him and would not let him go
Until I had brought him to my mother’s house,
And into the room of her who conceived me.”

      5“I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem,
By the gazelles or by the hinds of the field,
That you will not arouse or awaken my love
Until she pleases.”

Reflection on Song of Solomon 3:1–5:
The bride’s search begins in the quiet of night — a time often associated with vulnerability and fear. She longs for the presence of the one she loves but cannot find him. Her distress is real and emotional, not dramatic or exaggerated. Love here is not effortless; it is deeply felt and sometimes uncertain.

Rather than remaining passive, the bride rises and searches. She moves through the city, asking the watchmen if they have seen her beloved. This shows intentional pursuit. Love does not always wait — sometimes it seeks. Yet even in her searching, there is restraint. She is not driven by panic, but by devotion.

When she finds him, her response is telling. She holds him and does not let go. The insecurity of absence gives way to reassurance through presence. Love is strengthened not by possession, but by restored closeness and trust.

Spiritually, this passage reflects seasons when God may feel distant. There are times when believers sincerely seek Him and feel delayed or unanswered. Scripture does not shame this longing. Instead, it affirms the pursuit of God during moments of uncertainty.

Yet the passage ends with wisdom. The repeated warning not to awaken love before its proper time reminds us that desire, though good, must remain under discipline. Longing does not justify forcing outcomes. Whether in marriage, relationships, or our walk with God, love matures best when it respects God’s timing.

This passage teaches us that emotional longing is not weakness. It becomes strength when it leads us to seek, to trust, and to wait wisely.

Application:

  • Do not fear seasons of longing. They often deepen love rather than diminish it.

  • Seek intentionally. When closeness feels distant, pursue with humility and patience.

  • Hold fast to what is restored. Reassurance strengthens commitment.

  • Avoid forcing outcomes. Love grows best within God’s timing.

  • Trust God in the silence. Absence does not mean abandonment.

  • Balance desire with wisdom. Longing must remain guided by restraint.

Closing Prayer:
Father, when I experience seasons of longing or uncertainty, help me seek You rather than retreat in fear. Teach me patience, trust, and restraint as I wait for Your timing. Strengthen my heart to hold fast to what You restore and to honor love as You designed it. Let my longing lead me closer to You, not ahead of You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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A True Clean Start: Embracing God’s Grace (Reflection on a New Year)

As another year dawns, it’s a time when many of us contemplate the idea of a fresh start. The turning of the calendar seems to hold the promise of leaving behind past mistakes and embracing new opportunities. It’s a season of New Year’s resolutions, where we pledge to rid ourselves of bad habits or adopt better ones. However, as January fades into February, the enthusiasm for these “clean starts” often wanes, and we find ourselves back where we began.

But what if there’s a way to attain a genuine clean start—one infused with divine power and lasting transformation? The good news is that such an opportunity exists, and it’s not confined to the month of January. Through Christ, we can experience true forgiveness, redemption, and renewal. Our past sins need not define us, for God’s grace offers a pathway to a fresh beginning at any moment.

1. The Prodigal Son: A Story of Forgiveness (Luke 15:11-32)

“And He said, ‘A man had two sons…'” (Luke 15:11)

In the parable of the prodigal son, Jesus illustrates God’s unwavering love and forgiveness. The younger son squandered his inheritance in a distant land but came to his senses and returned home, expecting nothing more than to be a hired servant. However, his father’s response was a powerful demonstration of God’s grace. The father ran to embrace his wayward son, showering him with love, forgiveness, and a clean start.

2. God Awaits Our Return

God, our heavenly Father, awaits our return just as the father in the parable did. He watches the horizon for our humble repentance, ready to run and embrace us. There’s no sin too great for His forgiveness, no rebellion beyond His reach. It’s within our power to choose whether we return to Him or remain separated.

3. The Helper: God’s Power in Our Transformation (John 16:5-15)

“But I tell you the truth, it is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you…” (John 16:7)

When we turn to Christ for forgiveness and renewal, we receive more than forgiveness alone. God graciously sends the Holy Spirit as our Helper. The Spirit empowers us to overcome sin, make lasting changes, and embark on our fresh start. We are not alone in this journey; we have the divine power and guidance of God Himself.

4. A Call to Repentance and Obedience

While God’s forgiveness is boundless, it requires sincere repentance and a commitment to follow His ways. Repentance means turning away from our sinful past and submitting to God. The Bible is clear that we must obey God’s commandments and live according to His Word to walk in His grace.

5. God’s Promises of Forgiveness

God’s promises of forgiveness are abundant throughout the Scriptures:

  • “Come now, and let us reason together,” says the LORD, “Though your sins are as scarlet, they will be as white as snow…” (Isaiah 1:18-20)
  • “Therefore repent and return, so that your sins may be wiped away, in order that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord…” (Acts 3:19-21)
  • “In Him, we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace…” (Ephesians 1:3-14)

6. The Invitation to a Fresh Start

So, as the calendar turns from one year to the next, remember that a clean start isn’t limited to January. Through Christ, we can experience forgiveness, renewal, and transformation at any moment. God’s grace is always available, ready to wash away our sins and empower us to live according to His will.

Embrace Your Fresh Start

As you embark on this new year, remember that God’s grace offers you a fresh start—a clean slate free from the burdens of past mistakes. You need not rely on the changing of the calendar or societal norms for a new beginning. Instead, turn to God, repent of your sins, and submit to His guidance. Allow His Spirit to empower you in your journey of transformation. In God’s grace, every moment is an opportunity for a true clean start.

May the grace and peace of our Lord be with you,

John Golda

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Chosen by Grace, Not Merit (Genesis 38:1-11)

Have you ever looked at the brokenness of a family — or your own past — and wondered how God could possibly bring anything good from it?

Key Verse:
“But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was evil in the sight of the LORD, so the LORD took his life.” —Genesis 38:7 NASB

Background Context:
Genesis 38 interrupts the Joseph narrative with a sobering account of Judah and his family. Judah separates from his brothers, settles among the Canaanites, and marries a Canaanite woman. His sons grow up in an environment far removed from God’s covenant standards, and their lives reflect it.

This chapter records selfishness, sexual immorality, disregard for responsibility, and rejection of God’s ways. God responds decisively, judging wickedness and allowing the consequences of sin to unfold. Yet this dark chapter also sets the stage for one of the greatest revelations of grace in all of Scripture — that God would later choose the tribe of Judah as the lineage through which Yeshua would enter the world.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Genesis 38:1-11

Judah and Tamar

      1And it came about at that time, that Judah departed from his brothers and visited a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah. 2Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua; and he took her and went in to her. 3So she conceived and bore a son and he named him Er. 4Then she conceived again and bore a son and named him Onan. 5She bore still another son and named him Shelah; and it was at Chezib that she bore him.

      6Now Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was evil in the sight of the LORD, so the LORD took his life. 8Then Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife, and perform your duty as a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.” 9Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so when he went in to his brother’s wife, he wasted his seed on the ground in order not to give offspring to his brother. 10But what he did was displeasing in the sight of the LORD; so He took his life also. 11Then Judah said to his daughter-in-law Tamar, “Remain a widow in your father’s house until my son Shelah grows up”; for he thought, “I am afraid that he too may die like his brothers.” So Tamar went and lived in her father’s house.

Reflection on Genesis 38:1–11:
Genesis 38 records terrible behavior and deeply broken choices by Judah and his family. They are living far from God, guided by the flesh and driven by self-interest rather than obedience to God’s ways. This is not a family seeking the Lord — it is a family drifting further from Him.

Judah’s separation from his brothers is more than geographical; it is spiritual. His marriage into the Canaanite culture and the moral collapse of his household reflect a rejection of God’s covenant standards. Scripture gives no details about Er’s wickedness — only that it was serious enough to bring God’s judgment. Onan, too, acts selfishly, using Tamar while refusing his responsibility, and God judges him as well.

The result is devastation: death, grief, and a vulnerable woman left without protection. This is the fruit of living by the flesh — broken relationships, suffering, and loss. God is not pleased, and the consequences are real.

And yet, standing back from the text, we are confronted with an astonishing truth. This is the tribe God chose. From this deeply flawed, sinful lineage would eventually come King David — and ultimately, Jesus Christ Himself.

What an overwhelming reminder of God’s grace.

God does not choose by merit. If He did, none of us would stand. God chooses by grace — giving what we do not deserve — and by mercy — withholding the punishment we rightly deserve when we repent and turn back to Him.

Though we do not see repentance in this first part of Genesis 38, we know the larger story. God redeems what is broken. He works through imperfect people, messy families, and painful histories to accomplish His purposes.

This passage assures us that a sinful past does not disqualify us from God’s grace. Brokenness is not the end of the story. God’s invitation still stands: turn away from living for the flesh, turn toward Him, and walk in His ways.

Application:

  • Take sin seriously. Living according to the flesh brings real consequences.

  • Do not drift from God’s ways. Small compromises can lead to great brokenness.

  • Reject merit-based thinking. God’s grace, not your performance, is your hope.

  • Be encouraged by God’s mercy. Your past does not disqualify you from God’s purposes.

  • Turn toward God today. Repentance opens the door to forgiveness and renewal.

  • Trust God with your family’s story. He can redeem even deeply broken histories.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your grace and mercy that reach even into the darkest places of human failure. Help me take sin seriously without losing hope in Your forgiveness. Show me where I need to turn away from the flesh and return to Your ways. Heal the broken places in my life and my family, and remind me that You do not choose by merit, but by grace. I place my trust in You and thank You for redemption through Yeshua. In His name, Amen.

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Steadfast Love Beyond Measure (Psalm 36)

Have you ever been struck by the contrast between how broken people can be — and how faithful God remains?

Key Verse:
“Your lovingkindness, O LORD, extends to the heavens, Your faithfulness reaches to the skies.” —Psalm 36:5 NASB

Background Context:
Psalm 36, attributed to David, opens with a sober reflection on the nature of human wickedness and then pivots dramatically to a soaring declaration of God’s steadfast love and faithfulness. David observes how sin deceives the human heart, dulling conscience and removing fear of God. Yet instead of dwelling there, he lifts his eyes to the character of the Lord — a God whose mercy, righteousness, and protection far exceed human corruption.

This psalm contrasts the emptiness of life apart from God with the abundance and refuge found in His presence.

(Continued and expanded after scripture.)

Psalm 36

      1Transgression speaks to the ungodly within his heart;
There is no fear of God before his eyes.

      2For it flatters him in his own eyes
Concerning the discovery of his iniquity and the hatred of it.

      3The words of his mouth are wickedness and deceit;
He has ceased to be wise and to do good.

      4He plans wickedness upon his bed;
He sets himself on a path that is not good;
He does not despise evil.

      5Your lovingkindness, O LORD, extends to the heavens,
Your faithfulness reaches to the skies.

      6Your righteousness is like the mountains of God;
Your judgments are like a great deep.
O LORD, You preserve man and beast.

      7How precious is Your lovingkindness, O God!
And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Your wings.

      8They drink their fill of the abundance of Your house;
And You give them to drink of the river of Your delights.

      9For with You is the fountain of life;
In Your light we see light.

      10O continue Your lovingkindness to those who know You,
And Your righteousness to the upright in heart.

      11Let not the foot of pride come upon me,
And let not the hand of the wicked drive me away.

      12There the doers of iniquity have fallen;
They have been thrust down and cannot rise.

Reflection on Psalm 36:
David begins by describing sin as deceptive and self-flattering. The wicked person no longer recognizes or hates his own sin. There is no fear of God before his eyes, and as a result, his words and actions drift further from wisdom and goodness. This is a sobering reminder of what happens when truth is replaced by self-justification.

But David does not linger on darkness. He intentionally shifts his focus upward — from the failure of man to the faithfulness of God. God’s lovingkindness reaches to the heavens, His faithfulness to the skies, His righteousness stands like mighty mountains, and His judgments are as deep as the sea. Where human sin is shallow and fleeting, God’s character is vast and unchanging.

David then turns to personal trust. God is not distant or abstract; He is a refuge. Those who know Him are sheltered under the shadow of His wings, satisfied by the abundance of His house, and refreshed by the river of His delights. God is the source of life and light — without Him, all else fades.

The psalm closes with a prayer for continued mercy and protection. David asks God to preserve His lovingkindness for those who know Him and to guard him from the pride and violence of the wicked. His confidence rests not in his own strength, but in the sure downfall of those who oppose God.

Psalm 36 teaches us to see clearly: to recognize the reality of sin without becoming consumed by it, and to anchor our hearts in the overwhelming faithfulness of God.

Application:

  • Recognize sin honestly. Do not allow self-deception to dull your sensitivity to wrongdoing.

  • Lift your eyes to God’s character. His love and faithfulness far exceed human failure.

  • Take refuge in the Lord. Find safety under the shadow of His wings.

  • Draw from God’s abundance. True satisfaction comes from His presence, not the world.

  • Walk in God’s light. Let His truth expose darkness and guide your path.

  • Trust God’s justice. He will ultimately deal with pride and wickedness.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for Your steadfast love and unshakable faithfulness. When I am tempted to be discouraged by the sin I see — in the world or in myself — lift my eyes to Your greatness. Shelter me under Your wings, satisfy my soul with Your presence, and guide me by Your light. Keep my heart humble, faithful, and anchored in You. In Yeshua’s name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

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The Widower Who Remarried: a Parable for the Holidays

In the tender narrative of a devoted widower, a poignant tale unfolds—a love story marked by cherished habits and traditions. This man, who once joyfully celebrated his first wife’s preferences with flowers, candy, and thoughtful gestures, found himself caught in the grip of those very traditions when she passed away.

Just to be clear, this is not a biblical parable, but one based on biblical teaching and one that is true many times over.

Grief-stricken but resilient, he remarried after a time of grieving, unaware of the impending storm that would brew within the walls of his new life. His second wife, with distinct tastes and desires, yearned for a love uniquely tailored to her. Despite gentle pleas for understanding, the man clung tenaciously to the echoes of his past, repeating gestures and traditions designed for his first love.

The stark contrast between his professions of love and the unchanged traditions left his second wife wounded and questioning. The pain intensified as the man, well-intentioned but misguided, failed to recognize the stark difference between honoring her and just holding on to the traditions of the love he once knew.

It may seem obvious to many of us that the man should have focused on his current wife to show her love in ways that were special to her, instead of just continuing with old habits or traditions that were based on someone else. The real question is, however, if we do the same thing to God without realizing it.

This thought-provoking parable serves as a mirror reflecting the way we often treat our relationship with God, especially when it comes to celebrating holidays. Steeped in long-held traditions, some stemming from ancient pagan practices, we, too, risk offering God a bouquet of weeds while insisting they are roses.

The parallel to our spiritual journey is striking. Are we, like the widower, unwilling to shed the comfort of familiar traditions and embrace God’s desires as communicated in the scriptures? Despite the discomfort and familial challenges, the heart of the matter lies in whether we choose man-made traditions over God’s prescribed path.

Diving deeper, the revelation unfolds that many commonly cherished celebrations—Christmas trees, wreaths, mistletoe, and even the December 25 date—are rooted in pagan worship practices. The Church, unable to quell these practices, eventually embraced them, akin to giving a weed the name of a rose.

The call is clear—to love God deeply is to align our lives with His desires, not clinging to traditions offensive to Him. The scriptures lay out the path, highlighting God’s Moedim (appointed times) or holy days for celebration, contrasting with the man-made festivals we’ve come to accept.

Acknowledging this truth is a challenging emotional journey. Admitting the need for change amidst familial resistance is a test of our devotion to Christ above all. As Jesus forewarned, following Him may stir discord even within our households, yet true discipleship requires prioritizing Christ over all familial bonds.

May this narrative stir a courageous introspection, prompting a prayerful pursuit of God’s kingdom above the familiar and cultural traditions. As the challenge resounds, may our hearts find the courage to trust in God’s ways over those of men, embracing the transformative journey toward a life more pleasing to Him.

If you truly love God, and submit your life to God… take the time to learn more about what He wants and not just stick to traditions of men that are offensive to Him. You can easily study online even using Christian encyclopedia’s like Zondervan or other encyclopedias. The origins are not secret, only that it has been accepted to celebrate God in ways that were developed by pagans for their gods. 119Ministries.com has put together an effective documentary in video form you can watch (The Christmas Question). They have previous teachings available for free you may consider as well (Sunburned – Part 1 and Sunburned – Part 2).

The LORD has also given us instructions on what holy days to celebrate to point to Him and our relationship with Him. They are called the Moedim and are outlined in Leviticus 23 and other places throughout the Bible.

You can find scripture where Jesus participated in the Moedim. You will never find record of Jesus celebrating Christmas and Easter (or almost anything we celebrate commonly today) in the Biblical record.

Passover and Easter are very different. See what they focus on. With God’s celebrations, the focus is always on Him and not gifts or food or simply ourselves. To learn more, scroll through and read from our Traditions/ Holidays category of teachings.

I recognize that this is an emotional subject for many and admitting that we should change is very hard. Even if we accept it and change our behavior, there will be much difficulty among family. This is to be expected when we stand for Christ above all others. Jesus said so himself in Matthew 10:23-39.

32 “Everyone who acknowledges me publicly here on earth, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. 33 But everyone who denies me here on earth, I will also deny before my Father in heaven.

34 “Don’t imagine that I came to bring peace to the earth! I came not to bring peace, but a sword.

35 ‘I have come to set a man against his father,
    a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
36     Your enemies will be right in your own household!’[l]

37 “If you love your father or mother more than you love me, you are not worthy of being mine; or if you love your son or daughter more than me, you are not worthy of being mine. 38 If you refuse to take up your cross and follow me, you are not worthy of being mine. 39 If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it.

We each must decide whether or not we submit to God fully or hold tightly to the traditions of man. By the way… study of the new testament clearly shows that clutching to the traditions of man was the way of the Pharisees and Sadducees, not the way of Jesus.

God wants his people to be holy (set apart for God’s use) and righteous (living according to God’s commands rather than the world’s). He wants us to put Him first, above everything else.

Challenge yourself to objectively evaluate your traditions and seek first the kingdom of God. Do not dismiss this quickly but rather prayerfully seek God to show you the truth of His word and how to apply it in your life. Ask yourself about any tradition you claim to observe to honor God, if you were not influenced by family or cultural traditions would you naturally come up with this tradition by studying the Bible? If not, that can be a good indicator.

Pray that God would give you courage and boldness to pursue him with how you live. My family and I have been on this journey, we remain on this journey still today. It is difficult at times, but well worth pursuing to grow closer to Him and be more pleasing to Him. Trust in His ways over those of men.

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