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A Heartfelt Reflection on Family Traditions (The Parable of Two Fathers)

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In the heart of a town, two fathers stood as neighbors, each with a son, driven by a common desire to honor God. Both attended church faithfully, praying and reading the Bible with their sons. Yet, their paths diverged, shaping the destinies of their families.

The first father, unwavering in his commitment to God, faced mockery for standing firm in his convictions. He refused to lie to his son, and his son noticed.  His son observed this courage, and the father’s honesty resonated deeply. He instilled a belief in one God, teaching that God defines good and bad, and sin carries consequences.

As the son grew older, he sometimes wondered how he could know Jesus was real since he could not “see” him or “touch” him but accepted it because his father was always honest with him. He learned to stand for Jesus even when it was hard, because he learned by watching his father.

In contrast, the second father clung to generational traditions, content in a comfortable existence. He blended truths with fanciful tales, weaving a web of make-believe characters into his son’s life. It felt comfortable, most of his friends and neighbors lived their lives in a similar manner so there was no conflict.

He did not feel that God really cared that much about some areas of how he and his family led their daily lives. He told his son that Jesus was the way to God, but he also liked to tell his son seemingly harmless made-up stories about make believe characters. He enjoyed telling his son about the tooth fairy, Easter bunny, and of course Santa Claus. He continued the stories for many years until finally his son would learn on his own that each story was not true.

The father even went out of his way to provide false evidence that the stories were true… like money under the pillow for a tooth or telling his son that the bunny hid the eggs and brought him a basket, and of course having lots of presents at Christmas… all from Santa.  He even ate cookies and milk on behalf of Santa. After all, it’s just a bit of fun. What harm can it do?

Yet, as his son grew older, the line between reality and fiction blurred, leaving him with doubts about Jesus and the Bible. The son sometimes wondered how he could know Jesus was real since he could not “see” him or “touch” him. He loved his father, but throughout his life his father had lied to him and even gone out of his way to fake evidence in many make-believe characters. He could not help but wonder if Jesus and the Bible were like the rest of the made-up stories and he had many doubts.

Reflections on Tradition and Truth

Let’s pause and consider the stories we tell our children. Are we unknowingly weaving a web of lies, disrupting the authenticity of our faith journey? Beyond the potential mistrust caused by falsehoods, we must scrutinize the deeper impact of our traditions.

Take the story of Santa Claus—a representative example. It shifts the focus of Christmas from giving to receiving, emphasizing deserving gifts based on behavior. The supposed accountability for “bad” actions becomes inconsequential, undermining the idea of consequences for wrong choices. Furthermore, Santa, an all-knowing and eternal figure, can be seen as a subtle replacement for God.

Christmas Traditions and Their Underlying Messages

The story of Santa, widely accepted and celebrated, inadvertently draws attention away from God, causing confusion and doubt. As Christians, it’s crucial to question whether our cherished traditions align with God’s message. It’s not merely about lying to our children but about the values and lessons embedded in these stories.

Trying to tell a child Christmas is about Jesus, but then overwhelming them with presents and made-up stories about Santa is like telling a child to eat a carrot and then putting in front of them a table full of cookies, brownies, cakes, and ice cream. At the very least, the table of desserts is a major distraction. In most cases, the children will remember the desserts long after they forget the carrot.

After spending years lying to children and convincing them that Santa is real, even when they start to recognize it and ask questions, we will then tell them it was all in fun… but trust me about Jesus.

Even Atheists Like Santa

Santa is in fact accepted around the world by many because he is absolutely not pointing to God, but rather distracting attention away from God or replacing God completely. Christians and non-Christians alike accept him. In one example, Santa’s picture was used as a spokesman for a billboard campaign by atheists basically saying we can be good without need of God. “Go ahead and skip church! Just be good for goodness sake.” (link to article here). [How an atheist can define “good” while claiming there is no God is an interesting conversation for another day.]

The Emotional Challenge of Change

Recognizing the need for change is emotional and challenging. Yet, standing for Christ above all else, even within our families, is a commitment Christ himself acknowledged would stir discord. (Matthew 10:32-39)

Choose God’s Ways Over Man-Made Traditions

In the spirit of self-reflection, challenge yourself to objectively evaluate your traditions. Seek God’s truth in His word and apply it in your life. Remember, God desires His people to be holy and righteous, placing Him above all else.

A Call to Prayerful Action

May this reflection be an awakening, prompting prayerful consideration. We encourage you to seek God’s guidance, bravely stepping into a journey where His ways triumph over the traditions of man.

Closing Challenge: Put God First

As we conclude, remember the words of Jesus—choose God over familial bonds, prioritizing Christ above all. For in giving up our lives for Him, we truly find life.

God wants his people to be holy (set apart for God’s use) and righteous (living according to God’s commands rather than the world’s). He wants us to put Him first, above everything else.

Challenge yourself to objectively evaluate your traditions and seek first the kingdom of God. Do not dismiss this quickly but rather prayerfully seek God to show you the truth of His word and how to apply it in your life.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Doubt / Lacking Faith, Faith / Trusting God, Humility, Pride

Childlike Faith: Receiving the Kingdom with Humility and Trust (Luke 18:15-17)

What does it mean to have childlike faith?

In Luke 18:15-17, Jesus shows us the value of a simple, trusting heart that approaches God with humility, just like a child.

Key Verse: “Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” – Luke 18:17 (ESV)

Background Context: In Luke 18:15-17, parents are bringing their children to Jesus so that He might bless them. However, the disciples try to stop them, likely thinking that Jesus had more important matters to attend to. But Jesus responds by welcoming the children and teaching a profound lesson: unless we receive the kingdom of God like a child, we cannot enter it. This passage invites us to examine the nature of our faith and our relationship with God. Jesus highlights the importance of humility, trust, and openness—qualities often seen in children—as essential to entering His kingdom.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Luke 18:15-17

    15And they were bringing even their babies to Him so that He would touch them, but when the disciples saw it, they began rebuking them. 16But Jesus called for them, saying, “Permit the children to come to Me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 17“Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.”

Reflection on Luke 18:15-17:

  • Jesus Welcomes the Children: The disciples’ initial reaction to the children being brought to Jesus was to rebuke the parents (Luke 18:15). They may have thought that Jesus was too busy or too important to be interrupted by children. But Jesus’ response is completely different—He not only welcomes the children but also uses them as an example of how we should approach God. Jesus values every person, regardless of their age or status, and He emphasizes the importance of caring for and blessing even the “least” in society. This challenges us to reconsider how we view others and reminds us that everyone is valuable in God’s eyes.
  • Childlike Humility and Trust: Jesus says that to enter the kingdom of God, we must receive it “like a child” (Luke 18:17). Children are naturally dependent on others for their needs. They trust, they are open, and they are humble. In the same way, God calls us to approach Him with humility and trust, recognizing that we are dependent on His grace and provision. We cannot earn our way into the kingdom of God through our achievements or status. Instead, we are called to come to God with open hearts, ready to receive His love and grace, just as a child would. This is a reminder that faith is not about self-sufficiency but about surrendering to God’s care and trusting in His goodness.
  • A Heart Ready to Receive: Children are receptive—they are willing to receive gifts and trust in the goodness of those who care for them. When Jesus speaks of receiving the kingdom of God like a child, He is emphasizing the importance of having a heart that is open and willing to receive what God offers. Sometimes, as adults, we can become guarded, skeptical, or overly self-reliant, thinking that we must work for or prove ourselves worthy of God’s love. But Jesus teaches us that the kingdom of God is a gift to be received, not earned. We are invited to come to God with a heart that is ready to receive His grace, love, and direction.
  • Entering the Kingdom of God: Jesus’ statement in verse 17 is striking: “whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” This is not just a suggestion—it’s a requirement for entering God’s kingdom. To receive the kingdom of God like a child means to let go of our pride, self-reliance, and illusions of control. It means acknowledging that we are dependent on God for everything—our salvation, our daily needs, and our purpose in life. Jesus calls us to a relationship with Him that is built on trust and dependence, not on our own efforts or merit.
  • The Simplicity of Faith: Children often have a simple, straightforward faith. They are not burdened by complicated questions or doubts; they simply trust. While it is natural for our faith to grow deeper as we mature, Jesus reminds us that at the heart of our relationship with God should be a simple, trusting faith. A faith that says, “I trust You, God, even when I don’t understand.” This kind of faith allows us to experience the fullness of life in the kingdom of God, where we rely on His love, provision, and guidance each day.

Summary Key Points:

  • Jesus Welcomes Everyone: Jesus values and welcomes even the smallest and most vulnerable, reminding us that everyone is precious in God’s eyes.
  • Childlike Humility and Trust: We are called to approach God with the humility and trust of a child, recognizing our dependence on Him and His grace.
  • A Heart Ready to Receive: Like children, we are to have hearts that are open and ready to receive God’s gifts—especially His kingdom, which is a gift of grace.
  • Entering the Kingdom Requires Humility: Jesus teaches that we must receive the kingdom of God like a child—letting go of pride and self-sufficiency and coming to Him in faith and dependence.
  • The Simplicity of Faith: A childlike faith is marked by trust and simplicity, allowing us to rest in God’s care and experience His kingdom in our daily lives.

Application: Take time to reflect on your own relationship with God—are you approaching Him with the humility, trust, and openness of a child? Are there areas where you’ve been relying on your own strength or accomplishments instead of trusting in God’s grace? Consider how you can cultivate a childlike faith, one that is simple and trusting, knowing that God is a good Father who cares for you. Let go of the desire to control or earn your way into God’s favor, and instead come to Him with an open heart, ready to receive His love and guidance.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come to You with humble hearts, recognizing our need for Your grace and mercy. Teach us to approach You with the trust and openness of a child, knowing that we depend on You for everything. Help us to let go of pride and self-sufficiency, and instead receive Your kingdom as a gift. Give us a simple, trusting faith that rests in Your love and care. Thank You for welcoming us into Your family. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Compassion, Diligent / Hard Worker, Faith / Trusting God, Fear / Reverence for God, Kindness / Gentleness, Marriage, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Wise

The Beauty of Noble Character: A Life of Wisdom and Service (Proverbs 31)

What does it mean to live a life of noble character?

Proverbs 31 gives us a portrait of a person who embodies wisdom, strength, and service—a model for all of us as we seek to honor God in our daily lives.

Key Verse: “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)

Background Context: Proverbs 31 is well-known for its description of the “virtuous woman” or “woman of noble character,” but its wisdom applies to both men and women who seek to live lives that reflect God’s wisdom and character. This final chapter of Proverbs serves as a culmination of the themes throughout the book—calling us to embrace wisdom, live with integrity, and seek God in all that we do. It begins with advice from King Lemuel’s mother about the qualities of a righteous leader and then shifts to the portrayal of the woman of noble character, who is industrious, wise, compassionate, and deeply rooted in the fear of the Lord.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Proverbs 31

The Words of Lemuel

1The words of King Lemuel, the oracle which his mother taught him:

2What, O my son?
And what, O son of my womb?
And what, O son of my vows?

3Do not give your strength to women,
Or your ways to that which destroys kings.

4It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
It is not for kings to drink wine,
Or for rulers to desire strong drink,

5For they will drink and forget what is decreed,
And pervert the rights of all the afflicted.

6Give strong drink to him who is perishing,
And wine to him whose life is bitter.

7Let him drink and forget his poverty
And remember his trouble no more.

8Open your mouth for the mute,
For the rights of all the unfortunate.

9Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.

Description of a Worthy Woman

10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.

11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.

12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.

13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.

14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.

15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.

16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.

18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.

19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.

20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.

24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.

26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.

28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

29“Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all.”

30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.

31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.

Reflection on Proverbs 31:

  • A Life of Noble Character: The woman described in Proverbs 31 is praised for her noble character, which is demonstrated through her actions, integrity, and wisdom (Proverbs 31:10). The idea of “noble character” encompasses not just moral uprightness but also diligence, kindness, and strength. It reminds us that true worth is not found in external achievements or appearances but in living a life that reflects God’s values. For men and women alike, noble character means embodying the qualities of wisdom, integrity, and service to others.
  • Diligence and Hard Work: The woman in Proverbs 31 is described as diligent in all she does, whether managing her household, providing for her family, or engaging in business (Proverbs 31:13-19). She rises early, works with her hands, and ensures that her family and household are well cared for. This teaches us the value of hard work and dedication in our everyday tasks. Whether in our homes, workplaces, or communities, we are called to work faithfully and responsibly, knowing that our efforts honor God.
  • Compassion and Generosity: In addition to her industriousness, the woman of noble character is also compassionate and generous. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy (Proverbs 31:20). This reflects the heart of God, who cares for the vulnerable and calls us to do the same. True wisdom is not just about personal success; it’s about using what we have to bless others and meet the needs of those around us.
  • Strength and Dignity: Proverbs 31:25 says, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” This strength is not just physical but spiritual and emotional. It comes from trusting in God and knowing that He is in control. The ability to “laugh at the days to come” shows a confidence in God’s provision and protection. For us, this means cultivating an inner strength that comes from faith, allowing us to face the future without fear or anxiety.
  • Wisdom and Kindness: The woman in Proverbs 31 speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue (Proverbs 31:26). Her words are marked by kindness, showing that true wisdom is not harsh or judgmental but compassionate and thoughtful. This challenges us to consider how we speak and interact with others. Are our words filled with wisdom and kindness, or do they tear others down?
  • The Fear of the Lord: The most important quality of the woman described in Proverbs 31 is her fear of the Lord (Proverbs 31:30). This reverence for God is the foundation of her character and the source of her wisdom. Charm and beauty may fade, but a life rooted in the fear of the Lord endures. For all of us, the fear of the Lord—respect, awe, and obedience to God—is the key to living a life that honors Him and blesses others.

Summary Key Points:

  • Noble Character: True worth and beauty come from living a life of integrity, wisdom, and service to others. Noble character reflects God’s heart and values.
  • Diligence and Hard Work: Like the woman in Proverbs 31, we are called to work diligently in whatever tasks God has placed before us, doing everything for His glory.
  • Compassion and Generosity: True wisdom is not selfish but extends compassion and generosity to those in need. We honor God by caring for the vulnerable.
  • Strength and Confidence in God: We can face the future with strength and dignity, trusting in God’s provision and protection, allowing us to live without fear.
  • Wisdom and Kindness in Speech: Our words should reflect the wisdom and kindness of God, building others up and offering faithful instruction.
  • The Fear of the Lord: A life that honors God is rooted in the fear of the Lord. This reverence for God is the foundation of true wisdom and noble character.

Application: Consider how you can cultivate noble character in your own life. Are you approaching your work, your relationships, and your daily responsibilities with diligence and integrity? Reflect on how you can show compassion and generosity to those in need around you. Think about the words you speak—are they filled with wisdom and kindness? Finally, ask yourself if your life is rooted in the fear of the Lord. Are you living with a reverence for God that shapes your actions, decisions, and relationships? Take time to pray and ask God to strengthen your character so that it reflects His heart.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the example of noble character in Proverbs 31. Help us to live with integrity, wisdom, and compassion, serving others faithfully and trusting in Your provision. Teach us to work diligently in all we do and to extend generosity to those in need. Fill our hearts with reverence for You, and may our words be marked by wisdom and kindness. We seek to honor You in every area of our lives, knowing that true beauty and worth come from living in obedience to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Divorce, Marriage, Purposeful / Intentional, Rebuke Wrong Behavior, Repenting from Sin

Upholding God’s Standards: Marriage, Divorce, and the Call to Live Righteously

In a world that increasingly normalizes behaviors contrary to God’s Word, how are we as believers to respond?

Luke 16:18 provides a direct and challenging teaching on marriage and divorce, reminding us of the seriousness with which God views these sacred bonds, and calling us to uphold His standards in our lives.

Key Verse: “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.” – Luke 16:18 (ESV)

Background Context: In Luke 16, Jesus teaches about stewardship, righteousness, and faithfulness to God’s commandments. Tucked within these teachings is a seemingly unrelated verse on divorce and remarriage (Luke 16:18). At first glance, it may appear out of place, but it carries a powerful message that connects with the broader theme of faithfulness and the importance of upholding God’s standards in all areas of life, particularly in marriage.

Luke 16:18

      18“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery.

Reflection on Luke 16:18:

  • The Sanctity of Marriage: Jesus’ statement in Luke 16:18 is clear and direct: divorce and remarriage, outside of God’s intended design, is equated with adultery. This echoes Jesus’ teachings elsewhere in the Gospels, where He affirms that God’s intention for marriage is “until death do us part” (Matthew 19:3-9). Divorce was permitted by the law because of the hardness of human hearts, but it was never God’s ideal. His design for marriage is a lifelong covenant of faithfulness between one man and one woman.
  • Cultural and Moral Decay: In the context of Luke 16, this verse serves as a critique of the Pharisees, who often lowered God’s standards to accommodate cultural norms and human weaknesses. Ellicott’s Commentary points out that the Pharisees’ lax attitude toward divorce was akin to the unjust steward’s act of reducing debts. It reflects a pattern of lowering the standards of God’s commandments to suit personal or societal preferences. Unfortunately, this same trend persists in our modern culture, where behaviors like divorce, abortion, homosexuality, adultery, and fornication are often normalized or excused—even among those who claim to follow Christ.
  • The Call to Uphold God’s Standards: As believers, we are called to uphold God’s standards in a culture that increasingly seeks to lower them. Marriage is just one example where God’s command is clear, yet the world pushes back with its own ideas of convenience, self-gratification, and autonomy. We are reminded that God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and we must stand firm in living according to His truth, even when it’s countercultural.
  • Repentance and Restoration: For those who have gone through divorce, this teaching may be difficult to hear. It’s important to remember that God is a God of grace, mercy, and forgiveness. If you have divorced or remarried outside of God’s design, seek His forgiveness with a repentant heart, knowing that He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). But let us not make light of divorce or sin in general. Divorce is a painful and destructive act that often leaves lasting scars on families and individuals. We are called to take marriage seriously, to honor the covenant we make, and to seek God’s guidance in every step of our relationships.
  • Engaging in the Cultural Battle: Beyond our personal lives, we are called to engage in the cultural battle against the normalization of sin. This means speaking out against the lowering of God’s standards in our communities, churches, and governments. It is not enough to say, “It’s not right for me, but let others live how they choose.” We must lovingly yet boldly uphold the truth of God’s Word and seek to bring His light into the darkness. As followers of Christ, we must actively work to promote His values, both in prayer and in action.

Summary Key Points:

  • God’s Design for Marriage: Marriage is a lifelong covenant, and divorce is not part of God’s plan for His people. We are called to uphold the sanctity of marriage and take it seriously.
  • Cultural Pressure to Lower Standards: Just as the Pharisees lowered God’s standards for marriage, our culture often normalizes behaviors that go against God’s Word. We are called to stand firm in the truth.
  • Repentance and Grace: For those who have experienced divorce, there is forgiveness and grace. Seek God’s restoration, but also recognize the gravity of sin and the importance of honoring God’s standards moving forward.
  • Active Engagement in the Battle for Righteousness: As believers, we are called not to be passive but to actively engage in promoting God’s values in our communities and the world, starting with prayer and continuing with action.

Application: Take time today to reflect on your view of marriage, relationships, and God’s standards in your life. Are there areas where you have allowed cultural norms to influence your thinking more than God’s Word? If you have experienced divorce, seek God’s forgiveness and healing, and commit to honoring Him in your current relationships. Pray for strength to stand firm in the truth, even when it’s difficult, and ask God to guide you in how you can actively engage in upholding His standards in your community and beyond.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come before You recognizing the sacredness of marriage and the importance of upholding Your standards in a world that seeks to lower them. Help us to honor You in our relationships, standing firm in the truth of Your Word. We ask for Your forgiveness where we have fallen short and for Your strength to live faithfully according to Your commands. Guide us as we engage in the battle for righteousness, and may we be lights in a dark world, bringing Your truth to those around us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Discipline / Correction, Parenting, Proverbs (Wisdom & Folly), Wise

Wisdom and Discipline: Guarding Our Hearts (Proverbs 23)

How do we navigate the temptations and distractions of life while keeping our hearts aligned with God?

Proverbs 23 provides practical wisdom and guidance for living a disciplined and godly life.

Key Verse: “Apply your heart to instruction, and your ears to words of knowledge.” – Proverbs 23:12 (NKJV)

Background Context: Proverbs 23 is a collection of wise sayings attributed to Solomon, offering practical advice on various aspects of life, including discipline, self-control, and the pursuit of wisdom. This chapter emphasizes the importance of guarding our hearts and minds against the enticements of the world and remaining steadfast in our commitment to godly principles.

(Summarized and continued after scripture)

Proverbs 23

On Life and Conduct

1When you sit down to dine with a ruler,
Consider carefully what is before you,

2And put a knife to your throat
If you are a man of great appetite.

3Do not desire his delicacies,
For it is deceptive food.

4Do not weary yourself to gain wealth,
Cease from your consideration of it.

5When you set your eyes on it, it is gone.
For wealth certainly makes itself wings
Like an eagle that flies toward the heavens.

6Do not eat the bread of a selfish man,
Or desire his delicacies;

7For as he thinks within himself, so he is.
He says to you, “Eat and drink!”
But his heart is not with you.

8You will vomit up the morsel you have eaten,
And waste your compliments.

9Do not speak in the hearing of a fool,
For he will despise the wisdom of your words.

10Do not move the ancient boundary
Or go into the fields of the fatherless,

11For their Redeemer is strong;
He will plead their case against you.

12Apply your heart to discipline
And your ears to words of knowledge.

13Do not hold back discipline from the child,
Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.

14You shall strike him with the rod
And rescue his soul from Sheol.

15My son, if your heart is wise,
My own heart also will be glad;

16And my inmost being will rejoice
When your lips speak what is right.

17Do not let your heart envy sinners,
But live in the fear of the LORD always.

18Surely there is a future,
And your hope will not be cut off.

19Listen, my son, and be wise,
And direct your heart in the way.

20Do not be with heavy drinkers of wine,
Or with gluttonous eaters of meat;

21For the heavy drinker and the glutton will come to poverty,
And drowsiness will clothe one with rags.

22Listen to your father who begot you,
And do not despise your mother when she is old.

23Buy truth, and do not sell it,
Get wisdom and instruction and understanding.

24The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice,
And he who sires a wise son will be glad in him.

25Let your father and your mother be glad,
And let her rejoice who gave birth to you.

26Give me your heart, my son,
And let your eyes delight in my ways.

27For a harlot is a deep pit
And an adulterous woman is a narrow well.

28Surely she lurks as a robber,
And increases the faithless among men.

29Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
Who has contentions? Who has complaining?
Who has wounds without cause?
Who has redness of eyes?

30Those who linger long over wine,
Those who go to taste mixed wine.

31Do not look on the wine when it is red,
When it sparkles in the cup,
When it goes down smoothly;

32At the last it bites like a serpent
And stings like a viper.

33Your eyes will see strange things
And your mind will utter perverse things.

34And you will be like one who lies down in the middle of the sea,
Or like one who lies down on the top of a mast.

35“They struck me, but I did not become ill;
They beat me, but I did not know it.
When shall I awake?
I will seek another drink.”

Reflection on Proverbs 23:

  • Pursuing Wisdom: The chapter begins by advising not to crave the delicacies of rulers, as they can be deceptive (Proverbs 23:1-3). This teaches us to seek wisdom and discernment rather than being swayed by outward appearances and fleeting pleasures.
  • Guarding Against Greed: Verses 4-5 warn against wearing ourselves out to get rich, reminding us that wealth is fleeting and can disappear like a vapor (Proverbs 23:4-5). This highlights the importance of prioritizing spiritual riches over material wealth.
  • Discipline and Correction: The importance of discipline is underscored, particularly in the context of parenting. We are reminded that correction and discipline are acts of love that guide us on the right path (Proverbs 23:13-14).
  • Avoiding Excess: The chapter advises against gluttony and drunkenness, which lead to poverty and drowsiness (Proverbs 23:20-21). This serves as a caution to practice self-control and moderation in all things.
  • Honoring Parents: Verses 22-25 encourage us to listen to our parents and hold on to wisdom, emphasizing the joy and pride that wise and righteous living brings to our families (Proverbs 23:22-25).
  • Guarding Our Hearts: The latter part of the chapter focuses on guarding our hearts against the deceitfulness of the world. We are called to be vigilant and not be led astray by sinners or enticed by their ways (Proverbs 23:26-28).

Summary Key Points:

  • Seek Wisdom and Discernment: Prioritize godly wisdom over fleeting pleasures and deceptive appearances.
  • Practice Self-Control: Avoid the pitfalls of greed, gluttony, and drunkenness by practicing moderation and self-discipline.
  • Value Discipline: Embrace correction and discipline as essential for growth and guidance.
  • Honor Family: Respect and listen to the wisdom of parents, bringing joy and honor to your family.
  • Guard Your Heart: Stay vigilant against the enticements and deceitfulness of the world.

Application: Let us apply our hearts to instruction and our ears to words of knowledge, seeking godly wisdom in all aspects of our lives. May we practice self-control and moderation, avoiding the pitfalls of excess and greed. Let us embrace discipline as a means of growth and honor our parents by living wisely and righteously. Above all, may we guard our hearts against the temptations and distractions of the world, remaining steadfast in our commitment to God.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the wisdom and guidance found in Your Word. Help us to apply our hearts to instruction and seek Your wisdom in all areas of our lives. Grant us the strength to practice self-control and moderation, avoiding the pitfalls of excess and greed. Teach us to embrace discipline as a means of growth and to honor our parents by living righteously. Guard our hearts against the deceitfulness of the world and keep us steadfast in our commitment to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Humility, Intgegrity / Honesty, Parenting, Worthy of Fear / Reverence

Wisdom for Life: Building a Legacy of Integrity (Proverbs 22)

How do we build a legacy that endures beyond our lifetime?

Proverbs 22 offers timeless wisdom on living a life of integrity, shaping our character, and influencing the next generation.

Key Verse: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” – Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV)

Background Context: Proverbs 22 is part of the collection of wise sayings attributed to King Solomon. This chapter covers a range of practical advice for living a life marked by wisdom, righteousness, and integrity. It emphasizes the importance of a good name, the value of humility and the fear of the Lord, and the impact of proper upbringing on a child’s future.

Proverbs 22

On Life and Conduct

1A good name is to be more desired than great wealth,
Favor is better than silver and gold.

2The rich and the poor have a common bond,
The LORD is the maker of them all.

3The prudent sees the evil and hides himself,
But the naive go on, and are punished for it.

4The reward of humility and the fear of the LORD
Are riches, honor and life.

5Thorns and snares are in the way of the perverse;
He who guards himself will be far from them.

6Train up a child in the way he should go,
Even when he is old he will not depart from it.

7The rich rules over the poor,
And the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.

8He who sows iniquity will reap vanity,
And the rod of his fury will perish.

9He who is generous will be blessed,
For he gives some of his food to the poor.

10Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out,
Even strife and dishonor will cease.

11He who loves purity of heart
And whose speech is gracious, the king is his friend.

12The eyes of the LORD preserve knowledge,
But He overthrows the words of the treacherous man.

13The sluggard says, “There is a lion outside;
I will be killed in the streets!”

14The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit;
He who is cursed of the LORD will fall into it.

15Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child;
The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.

16He who oppresses the poor to make more for himself
Or who gives to the rich, will only come to poverty.

17Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise,
And apply your mind to my knowledge;

18For it will be pleasant if you keep them within you,
That they may be ready on your lips.

19So that your trust may be in the LORD,
I have taught you today, even you.

20Have I not written to you excellent things
Of counsels and knowledge,

21To make you know the certainty of the words of truth
That you may correctly answer him who sent you?

22Do not rob the poor because he is poor,
Or crush the afflicted at the gate;

23For the LORD will plead their case
And take the life of those who rob them.

24Do not associate with a man given to anger;
Or go with a hot-tempered man,

25Or you will learn his ways
And find a snare for yourself.

26Do not be among those who give pledges,
Among those who become guarantors for debts.

27If you have nothing with which to pay,
Why should he take your bed from under you?

28Do not move the ancient boundary
Which your fathers have set.

29Do you see a man skilled in his work?
He will stand before kings;
He will not stand before obscure men.

Reflection on Proverbs 22:

  • A Good Name: The chapter begins with the principle that a good name is more desirable than great riches (Proverbs 22:1). Our reputation and character are valuable assets that reflect our integrity and impact our relationships and opportunities.
  • Training Children: Proverbs 22:6 underscores the responsibility of parents to guide their children in the right path. By instilling godly principles and values, parents lay a foundation for their children’s future, ensuring they remain steadfast in their faith and moral integrity.
  • Humility and Fear of the Lord: Verse 4 highlights the reward of humility and the fear of the Lord, which bring riches, honor, and life (Proverbs 22:4). True wisdom begins with reverence for God and a humble heart, acknowledging our dependence on Him.
  • Justice and Generosity: The chapter also speaks to the importance of justice and generosity. Those who are kind to the poor will be blessed (Proverbs 22:9), and those who sow injustice will reap calamity (Proverbs 22:8). These verses remind us of the social responsibilities that come with living a life of integrity.
  • Avoiding Entanglements: Solomon warns against forming close associations with those given to anger or those who engage in dishonest practices (Proverbs 22:24-25). The influence of such individuals can lead us astray and damage our integrity.

Summary Key Points:

  • The Value of Integrity: A good name and reputation are of greater worth than material wealth.
  • Parental Responsibility: Training children in godly ways sets them on a path of righteousness and stability.
  • Humility and Reverence: True wisdom and blessings come from humility and reverence for the Lord.
  • Social Responsibility: Justice, generosity, and integrity in our dealings are essential.
  • Wise Associations: Avoiding harmful influences helps maintain our integrity.

Application: Let us strive to live lives of integrity, valuing our reputation and the legacy we leave behind. For parents, the call to diligently train and guide their children is paramount. May we practice humility and reverence for God, demonstrating justice and generosity in our actions. By choosing our associations wisely, we protect our character and uphold the values that honor God.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we seek Your wisdom to live lives of integrity and righteousness. Help us to value a good name above riches and to train our children in Your ways. Grant us humility and a reverent heart that honors You in all things. Guide us to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with You. Protect us from harmful influences and strengthen our commitment to live according to Your Word. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Father / Yahweh, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

Guided by YHWH: The Path of a Good Father

Fatherhood is a sacred calling, reflecting YHWH’s own relationship with His people. As we celebrate Father’s Day, it’s essential to recognize the qualities that define a good father—qualities rooted deeply in biblical teachings. These guidelines help fathers align with Christ’s example, positioning YHWH at the forefront of their lives and setting a standard of spiritual leadership within the family.

Biblical Foundations for Fatherhood:
The scripture provides clear and practical guidance for fathers, emphasizing the balance between discipline and compassion, leadership, and service.

  1. Spiritual Leadership and Discipline:
    • Ephesians 6:4 advises fathers not to provoke their children to anger but to raise them with discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord, fostering a nurturing yet guiding environment.
    • Proverbs 22:6 underscores the long-term impact of instilling the right values in children, ensuring they carry these teachings into adulthood.
  2. Compassion and Understanding:
    • Psalm 103:13 compares a father’s compassion to that of the LORD, highlighting the depth of understanding and care fathers should aspire to embody.
    • Colossians 3:21 warns against exacerbating children, which could discourage them, advocating instead for encouragement and empathy.
  3. Valuing and Cherishing Children:
    • Psalm 127:3-5 beautifully illustrates children as blessings from the LORD, describing them as arrows in the hands of a warrior—valuable and impactful.
  4. Leading by Example:
    • Luke 11:11-12 uses metaphorical language to discuss a father’s responsibility to provide appropriately for his children, ensuring their needs are met with wisdom and kindness.
    • Joshua 24:14-15 serves as a powerful declaration of serving the LORD faithfully, setting a profound example for the household and reinforcing the role of a father as a leader committed to righteousness.

Application:
These scriptures not only define the traditional role of fathers but also encourage modern dads to see their responsibility as a divine mandate. Fathers are called to reflect YHWH’s character, showing grace, strength, and wisdom as they guide their families.

Call to Action:

  1. Reflect and Engage: Spend time this Father’s Day reflecting on the scriptures mentioned. Consider how these teachings can influence your approach to fatherhood.
  2. Seek Growth: Continually seek ways to grow in spiritual leadership. Join or form a fathers’ group in your community or church to support and encourage each other in your parenting journey.
  3. Spread Wisdom: Share insights about biblical fatherhood with other fathers. Encourage one another with stories of success and lessons learned.
  4. Celebrate and Appreciate: Take today to celebrate the fathers in your life—your own father, friends, and community members. Acknowledge their efforts and sacrifices in striving to embody the qualities of a good father.

Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the model of fatherhood You provide through Your Word and Your own example. Bless the fathers who strive each day to lead and love according to Your principles. Strengthen them, grant them wisdom, and fill them with Your compassion. Help them to be beacons of Your light within their families and communities, reflecting Your love and righteousness. In Your holy name, we pray. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.

Children, Parenting, Traditions / Holidays

Celebrating Mothers: Beyond Just One Day a Year

Once a year, the world pauses to say “Thank you, Mom,” often accompanied by gifts and flowers. But what if we chose to live every day with that same spirit of gratitude and respect for mothers? Let’s explore what the Bible teaches us about the enduring role of mothers and how we can honor them not just annually, but every day.

Mother’s Day is a special occasion indeed, but the Bible suggests that honoring our mothers is an ongoing commitment, deeply rooted in love and respect. The scriptures provide us with profound insights into the significance of mothers in our lives, guiding us to appreciate and support them in ways that go far beyond conventional celebrations.

Biblical Guidance on Honoring Mothers: Deuteronomy 5:16 reminds us of the command to honor our parents so that we may prosper and live long in the land given by the Lord. This isn’t just about obedience; it’s about recognizing the foundational role mothers play in our lives.

The Proverbs 31 Woman – A Model of Strength and Devotion: Proverbs 31:13-31 paints a picture of an ideal mother—a hardworking, compassionate, and wise woman who cares deeply for her family and community. From managing a household to extending a hand to the needy, her life is a testament to the power of a godly woman.

Teaching and Guidance: Mothers also play a crucial role in imparting wisdom and moral guidance as seen in Proverbs 6:20-22. They lay down the foundational values that guide their children throughout life.

Joy and Rejoicing: Children are called to live righteously, bringing joy to their mothers, as highlighted in Proverbs 23:22-25. True joy for a mother comes not from material gifts but from seeing her children lead lives of integrity and kindness.

A Mother’s Love: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 isn’t just about romantic love; it’s a blueprint for the kind of love that should flow in families, especially from and towards mothers. Patience, kindness, and perseverance in love are marks of true affection and respect.

Summary: Mother’s Day should be more than a once-a-year occasion; it should be a daily celebration of gratitude and biblical love. Good mothers exemplify virtues that deserve to be recognized and reciprocated every day.

Call to Action:

  1. Reflect Daily: Each day, take a moment to appreciate the sacrifices and love your mother has shown you. Consider writing her a note or simply telling her what she means to you.
  2. Learn and Share: Dive deeper into the scriptures mentioned above and share your insights with your family or during a Mother’s Day gathering.
  3. Act Continuously: Show love and respect through consistent actions. Help around the house, spend quality time together, and be present—it’s these everyday acts that truly honor and uplift mothers.
  4. Celebrate Community: Encourage those in your community to honor their mothers by setting an example and organizing community activities that recognize and support mothers of all ages.

Closing Prayer: Lord, we thank You for the blessing of mothers who nurture, teach, and guide us. We pray for strength for every mother who tirelessly gives of herself in love and service. Help us to appreciate, respect, and honor them not just today but every day of our lives. Inspire us to support and uplift the mothers in our community, showing them the love and respect they so richly deserve. In Your holy name, Amen.

Children, Humility, Jesus Christ / Yeshua, Obeying God, Study the Word

Growing in Wisdom: Jesus as Our Example (Luke 2:39-52)

Have you ever marveled at the growth and development of a child, witnessing their journey from infancy to maturity? In Luke 2:39-52, we are granted a glimpse into Jesus’ formative years, where He embodies the perfect balance of humility and wisdom, setting an example for us all.

Reconnect: Reflecting on Luke 2:39-52, we revisit Jesus’ upbringing in Nazareth, observing His growth in wisdom and stature. As we delve into this passage, let’s glean insights from His childhood that continue to resonate with us today.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Luke 2:39-52

Return to Nazareth

     39When they had performed everything according to the Law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee, to their own city of Nazareth. 40The Child continued to grow and become strong, increasing in wisdom; and the grace of God was upon Him.

Visit to Jerusalem

     41Now His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of the Passover. 42And when He became twelve, they went up there according to the custom of the Feast; 43and as they were returning, after spending the full number of days, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem. But His parents were unaware of it, 44but supposed Him to be in the caravan, and went a day’s journey; and they began looking for Him among their relatives and acquaintances. 45When they did not find Him, they returned to Jerusalem looking for Him. 46Then, after three days they found Him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions. 47And all who heard Him were amazed at His understanding and His answers. 48When they saw Him, they were astonished; and His mother said to Him, “Son, why have You treated us this way? Behold, Your father and I have been anxiously looking for You.” 49And He said to them, “Why is it that you were looking for Me? Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” 50But they did not understand the statement which He had made to them. 51And He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and He continued in subjection to them; and His mother treasured all these things in her heart.

      52And Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.

Summary Key Points:

  1. Rooted in Obedience to God: Mary and Joseph faithfully adhered to Jewish customs, presenting Jesus at the temple and fulfilling the requirements of the Law. Their obedience reflects a commitment to honoring God’s commands and nurturing Jesus in His identity as the Son of God.
  2. Growing in Wisdom and Favor: Despite His divine nature, Jesus underwent a process of growth and maturation, progressing in wisdom and stature before God and humanity. His example underscores the importance of continuous growth and development in our own lives, both spiritually and intellectually.
  3. Seeking Understanding in God’s House: At the age of twelve, Jesus engages in deep theological discussions with the teachers in the temple, demonstrating His profound understanding of Scripture. His inclination towards spiritual pursuits reminds us of the value of seeking wisdom and knowledge in God’s Word.

Call to Action:

  1. Cultivate Humility and Obedience: Like Jesus, let us cultivate humility and obedience in our relationship with God, surrendering to His will and faithfully following His commands.
  2. Commit to Growth and Learning: Embrace a posture of continuous growth and learning, seeking wisdom and understanding in God’s Word and through spiritual disciplines such as prayer, meditation, and study.
  3. Engage in Spiritual Community: Find opportunities to engage with like-minded believers and mentors who can encourage and challenge you in your faith journey. Participate in discussions, Bible studies, and fellowship gatherings to deepen your understanding of God’s truth.

Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the example of Jesus, who grew in wisdom and stature before You and humanity. Help us to emulate His humility, obedience, and commitment to learning as we navigate our own journeys of faith. May we continually seek wisdom and understanding in Your Word, drawing closer to You with each passing day. Amen.

Adultery / Sex Outside Marriage, Diligent / Hard Worker, Marriage, Money / Finances / Wealth

Wisdom’s Warning: Stewardship, Diligence, and a Guarded Heart (Proverbs 6)

Have you ever felt the weight of regret after making a hasty decision, wishing you had paused to consider the consequences beforehand?

In Proverbs 6, we encounter a series of admonitions that serve as a stern reminder of the perils of folly and the importance of heeding wisdom’s counsel.

Reconnect: As we delve into Proverbs 6, we’re confronted with the sobering realities of life’s choices and their far-reaching implications. The sage wisdom offered in this chapter serves as a guiding light, illuminating the path of righteousness and warning against the pitfalls of ignorance and folly.

(Summarized and continued after the scripture)

Proverbs 6

     Parental Counsel

     1My son, if you have become surety for your neighbor,
Have given a pledge for a stranger,

2If you have been snared with the words of your mouth,
Have been caught with the words of your mouth,

3Do this then, my son, and deliver yourself;
Since you have come into the hand of your neighbor,
Go, humble yourself, and importune your neighbor.

4Give no sleep to your eyes,
Nor slumber to your eyelids;

5Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hunter’s hand
And like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

6Go to the ant, O sluggard,
Observe her ways and be wise,

7Which, having no chief,
Officer or ruler,

8Prepares her food in the summer
And gathers her provision in the harvest.

9How long will you lie down, O sluggard?
When will you arise from your sleep?

10“A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to rest”—

11Your poverty will come in like a vagabond
And your need like an armed man.

12A worthless person, a wicked man,
Is the one who walks with a perverse mouth,

13Who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet,
Who points with his fingers;

14Who with perversity in his heart continually devises evil,
Who spreads strife.

15Therefore his calamity will come suddenly;
Instantly he will be broken and there will be no healing.

16There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:

17Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,

18A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,

19A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.

20My son, observe the commandment of your father
And do not forsake the teaching of your mother;

21Bind them continually on your heart;
Tie them around your neck.

22When you walk about, they will guide you;
When you sleep, they will watch over you;
And when you awake, they will talk to you.

23For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;
And reproofs for discipline are the way of life

24To keep you from the evil woman,
From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.

25Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.

26For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread,
And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.

27Can a man take fire in his bosom
And his clothes not be burned?

28Or can a man walk on hot coals
And his feet not be scorched?

29So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.

30Men do not despise a thief if he steals
To satisfy himself when he is hungry;

31But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;
He must give all the substance of his house.

32The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.

33Wounds and disgrace he will find,
And his reproach will not be blotted out.

34For jealousy enrages a man,
And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

35He will not accept any ransom,
Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.

Summary Key Points:

  • The Danger of Surety for Others: The chapter begins with a caution against becoming ensnared by the debts of others, urging vigilance and discernment in financial matters. It emphasizes the importance of prudence and restraint, lest one find themselves bound by obligations beyond their means.
  • The Warning Against Laziness: The sage admonishes against the allure of idleness and slothfulness, highlighting the destructive consequences of neglecting one’s responsibilities. Laziness is likened to a relentless predator, prowling in search of prey and leading to poverty and ruin.
  • The Consequences of Adultery: The chapter issues a stern warning against the temptation of adultery, portraying it as a path of destruction that leads to grave consequences. The imagery used vividly illustrates the devastation wrought by infidelity, urging readers to guard their hearts and honor their commitments.

Call to Action:

As we reflect on the wisdom found in Proverbs 6, let us respond with:

  • Prudent Stewardship: Let us exercise wisdom and discernment in our financial dealings, avoiding the snare of surety and practicing prudence in our commitments.
  • Diligent Work Ethic: May we embrace a spirit of diligence and industry, recognizing the value of hard work and the perils of slothfulness. Let us fulfill our responsibilities with excellence, knowing that diligence leads to prosperity.
  • Guarded Hearts: In matters of relationships and fidelity, let us remain vigilant and guard our hearts against the temptations of adultery. May we cherish and honor our commitments, fostering trust and fidelity in our relationships.

Closing Prayer:

Heavenly Father, grant us the wisdom to navigate life’s choices with prudence and discernment. Help us to heed the warnings of folly and to embrace the path of righteousness laid out before us. Strengthen us to resist temptation and to walk in integrity, honoring You in all that we do. Amen.

May the grace and peace of our Lord, Yeshua, be with you.

John Golda

Do you know for sure if you will go to heaven or hell when you die? Are you experiencing in your life the peace and joy of a personal relationship with our Creator and Father? Learn more about salvation through The Message of the Cross.